Signs A Venus in Taurus Likes You
Don’t expect quick results if you’re drawn to Venus in Taurus. They’ll need time to decide if they’re interested in you. Once/if they reciprocate, signs a Venus in Taurus likes you will be unmistakably clear. However, expect everything to unfold at their pace, typically unhurried.
Like a fine wine or a gourmet meal, quality experiences take time to cultivate.
The Wait
It’s not surprising that you like Venus in Taurus. They rule this sign, so they’re comfortable and sure of themselves. Venus in Taurus has a quiet, come-to-me sensuality that everyone feels. But they’re also quite selective.
This is one of the most self-assured planet/sign combos: they don’t need anyone except themselves. They know exactly who they want, and they have a set value system. If you don’t match their wants and values, forget it.
First moves
Venus in Taurus is fine with you approaching them. Almost nothing ruffles their zen-like calm. They’ll enjoy quieter activities, probably involving nature, definitely involving food. They love to eat (they love anything that’s pleasurable) so you can’t miss with a good meal. Nothing fancy, though. They dislike pretentious, overdone anything.
Your drama, fussing and overthinking will turn them off. Your certainty about what you want, and your quiet comfort with your body — no matter how much you weigh — will draw them in. If they want to go out with you, they may not say “yes” right away. If you try to push them for a date, you’ve lost them. Everything must be on their schedule.
If they’re into you, they will get back to you with a confirmation. If they’re not interested, they won’t leave you hanging, because they dislike games. But either way, you may have to wait for your answer.
Intimacy
If they touch you on the first date, that’s a very good clue that they’re into you. Taurus is an Earth sign, which means anything tactile appeals to them. But don’t make the mistake of thinking this means sex on the first date. Again, things will go at their pace, and they’re in no rush. They’re not shy or afraid. They don’t need you to take charge.
They know exactly what works for them, and intimacy is a gradual process that they’re very, very comfortable with. The slow buildup is what turns them on. They’re still evaluating you at this stage, deciding if you two are compatible. They’re not into working to make the relationship work, and they don’t care about your future potential. They see you as you are, right now, and that’s who they want (or don’t want).
If they agree to a second date, you’re almost in. It will take them a few dates to decide. But once they reach the point where they’re ready to have sex with you, you’re theirs.
You Belong to Me
You’ll notice the phrasing of the previous sentence. Venus in Taurus is possessive. They must have things that they can see and touch, as proof that they’re secure. As unromantic as this sounds, in some ways, they consider you to be one of their possessions.
Once they decide they like you back, there’s no going back. You’ll feel the shift — they’ll assume that you two will spend tons of time together. There will be a subtle but unmistakable vibe that they consider you “theirs.” They’ll do whatever they can to make you comfortable and happy, and they’ll touch you constantly.
This isn’t neediness or insecurity. You’ve crossed their boundary and have been allowed into their life. They have projected their values onto you, and you are valuable to them.
Keeping Venus in Taurus Happy
How do you keep Venus in Taurus happy? It’s not complicated, because they’re not complicated. Don’t change a thing. Really, the “you” that they fell for is the you that they want. Forever. They value calm, quiet and comfort, so once they find someone who makes them happy, they’ll stick with that person. The end.
Well, not quite. Venus in Taurus’ suspicion of change can feel suffocating if you decide you want to progress in any area. If you get bored, they’ll take that as a threat. If you want to mix things up, they’ll take that as a threat. They can be the most stable partner you’ve ever had — they will put up with almost anything.
But if you want to improve, and they feel it will change things for them, look out. They want you to be happy, but only if it doesn’t impact their comfort. So change of any kind must be introduced very gradually.
And you must make it clear that your new career/exercise regime/spiritual calling will not threaten your relationship with them. Once you make that clear, they’ll support you, as they always have, and always will.
Finally, while Venus in Taurus will put up with a lot, their deal breaker is infidelity. If you cheat on them, forget it. The warm, loving, endlessly supportive partner will be gone, replaced by a stranger who has locked the door to keep you out. You’re not getting back in, no matter what.
You’ve threatened their values, and (on a deeper level) their survival, by giving yourself to someone else. They can’t stomach it.
