Mars in Gemini can flit from one attraction to the next, which makes it difficult to know if he’s into you for now, or forever. However, fidelity is about more than a person’s Mars sign. You must consider the entire chart. Therefore, Mars in Gemini is no more likely to be unfaithful than any other Mars sign. But he is going to be curious and open to exploration. And, he gets bored easily. It’s actually not that difficult to catch Mars in Gemini’s attention; all you have to do is talk to him.
It Starts in the Mind
Gemini is the sign of intellect, communication and information. Mars in Gemini experiences attraction as the urge to learn about new experiences. Sex starts in the mind for this planet/sign combo, so she’ll be drawn to almost anyone who has something new to share with her. Her approach is flirtatious, witty and challenging. Unlike some of the other Mars signs, she doesn’t care who makes the first move. It’s all good, as long as something new and interesting results. If Mars in Gemini starts asking you questions that are slightly risqué, you’ve piqued her interest. If she sticks around and wants to have a lengthy discussion, or (even better) argue, you’ve definitely got her attention. She’ll be turned on by your communication skills and will try to impress you with her wit (which is likely to be sharp) and clever anecdotes. There will be a slight edge to her conversation that will keep you guessing. Many of her comments could be interpreted as both sexual and innocent; you’ll wonder if she’s flirting, or if you’re reading too much into her remarks. Mars in Gemini is not turned on by what’s straightforward, so if you can join her in her verbal dance, you’ve got a shot at maintaining her interest. But if you’re not a big talker, she’ll move on. She wants someone who can keep her guessing, but strong, silent types need not apply. Mars in Gemini doesn’t have the patience to confront a wall of silence and tease out a response.
Mars in Gemini is not grounded in his body, so sex will have a voyeuristic component. He has difficulty getting out of his head and being in the moment. While this makes him a lover who is interested in trying almost anything once, it can be frustrating for his partner (and himself) because it compromises true intimacy. As a result, he may need a little something extra to increase the physical intensity, so he can be in the moment. What that “extra” consists of will vary, but sex with Mars in Gemini is not a direct path from A to B. Variety is essential.
Keeping the Focus
Now that you’ve got Mars in Gemini by your side and in your bed, how do you to maintain his interest? Keep talking and learning. He’s constantly pursuing new ideas so he can challenge what he already knows. Routine is a major turn off. If you can continually engage him with opinions of your own that keep him on his toes, you’ll have his mind and his heart. One caveat: he will be attracted to other people while he’s in a relationship with you. If we’re being totally honest, this is true of any sign, but Mars in Gemini is hardwired to scan his surroundings for new input. If he’s looking at or talking to someone else, it doesn’t automatically mean he’s being unfaithful to you. He can be all talk and no action with others he’s drawn to, especially once you’ve claimed his interest. But everyone has a different line when it comes to flirting, so if you’ve hooked up with him, you’ll want to make your line very, very clear. Then, see if he respects it.