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If you’re attracted to Venus in Taurus, don’t expect quick results. It will take her a while to decide if she’s into you. Once/if she chooses to reciprocate, she will be refreshingly unambiguous. But everything will proceed at her pace, which is to say, slow. However, like excellent wine or a gourmet meal, good things take time to develop.
The Wait
It’s not surprising that you like Venus in Taurus. She rules this sign, so she’s comfortable and sure of herself. Venus in Taurus has a quiet, come-to-me sensuality that everyone feels. But she’s also quite selective. This is one of the most self-assured planet/sign combos: she doesn’t need anyone except herself. She knows exactly who she wants, and she has a set value system. If you don’t match her wants and values, forget it.
Venus in Taurus is fine with you approaching him. Almost nothing ruffles his zen-like calm. He’ll enjoy quieter activities, probably involving nature, definitely involving food. He loves to eat (he loves anything that’s pleasurable) so you can’t miss with a good meal. Nothing fancy, though. He dislikes pretentious, overdone anything. Your drama, fussing and overthinking will turn him off. Your certainty about what you want, and your quiet comfort with your body — no matter how much you weigh — will draw him in. If he wants to go out with you, he may not say “yes” right away. If you try to push him for a date, you’ve lost him. Everything must be on his schedule. If he’s into you, he will get back to you with a confirmation. If he’s not interested, he won’t leave you hanging, because he dislikes games. But either way, you may have to wait for your answer.
If she touches you on the first date, that’s a very good clue that she’s into you. Taurus is an Earth sign, which means anything tactile appeals to her. But don’t make the mistake of thinking this means sex on the first date. Again, things will go at her pace, and she’s in no rush. She’s not shy or afraid. She doesn’t need you to take charge. She knows exactly what works for her, and intimacy is a gradual process that’s she’s very, very comfortable with. The slow buildup is what turns her on. She’s still evaluating you at this stage, deciding if you and she are compatible. She’s not into working to make the relationship work, and she doesn’t care about your future potential. She sees you as you are, right now, and that’s who she wants (or doesn’t want). If she agrees to a second date, you’re almost in. It will take her a few dates to decide. But once she reaches the point where she’s ready to have sex with you, you’re hers.
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This article comes right in time! I’ve been seduced by a Venus in Taurus man for a week and a half now. We’ve seen each other a couple of times. I did not know anything about this placement until I made some research because my curiosity was aroused. This man has a girlfriend, but he decided to cheat on her with me who did not ask anything. I am very astounded by this behavior: cheating with somebody else. Other than that, you’re right: it’s HIS pace, he wants to see me and gives me some news even though I do not ask for it, he is kind and generous to me (we go to the restaurant and eat some good food), he likes to touch me and make love to me. It’s good to be “loved” by somebody like that. I’m a tad jealous of his GF, but at the same time, I know he is cheating on her with me and that this behavior is quite astonishing for such a placement that values faithfulness, stability, etc. Thank you again!
Yep Venus in Taurua here AND in 7th house, plus quincunx Moon in Libra 12th…will patiently stand by my Man, actually probably stubbornly for the long term, to support once that commitment is made he is worth the effort and waiting for ans always git hisback, until he betrayed me and even then tried to get past it but nope disloyalty and mistrust had the upper hand then. No vengence consideted, not worth the effort, heavy door shut and battened down, if i am not valued enough, then i am not valuable to him, no pont being where i am insignificant as if you dont exist nor considered a worthwhile investment, notcomfortable with that, im done lol!
Interesting that you touch on survival…perhaps opposing signs share the same fundamental concern? Venus in Scorpio seems to have some of these traits (loyalty, possessiveness, cutting people out for good, etc.)
“If she agrees to a second date, you’re almost in. It will take her a few dates to decide. But once she reaches the point where she’s ready to have sex with you, YOU’RE HERS.”
you didn’t write “she’s yours”,
I ever read that “the funny thing about a strong woman is she doesn’t need you, she wants you, and if you start slacking she’ll be content withou you”.. it fits af