External purpose matches internal needs in this relationship. Sun in Virgo’s focus on perfection will meet (perfectly) with Moon in Virgo’s need to fix things. These two will understand each other’s obsession with details, but they will also enable each other’s obsessive worries.
Sun in Virgo wants things to keep getting better. A little tweak here, a minor adjustment there … he’s in a state of perpetual refinement. While his partner may appreciate his dedication to getting everything just right, it would be helpful if she had a more relaxed perspective than her highly-strung lover. Sun in Virgo can forget about the big picture (and that includes making future plans) because he gets caught up in what’s wrong with the details. An understanding partner (with a broader viewpoint) would be ideal to pull him out of his anxiety-induced paralysis.
Moon in Virgo needs things to be just a bit “wrong.” Her partner may accuse her of wanting to be unhappy, but she actually feels secure when she has something to improve. A healthy expression of Moon in Virgo’s energy will manifest as practical help for her partner, with whom she builds a relationship that continually evolves. The Shadow side of this Moon will emerge as relentless nagging (of her lover) or punishment (of herself). This usually manifests when she feels that her domestic routine has been compromised.
There’s no doubt that these two will “get” each other. Sun in Virgo will be validated by Moon in Virgo’s unconditional support. Moon in Virgo will feel she’s finally met someone who understands her fetish for lists and categories. But if these partners don’t have other planets in more laid-back or detached signs, this relationship can quickly degenerate into a knot of worry and mutual recrimination. Virgo will pick at Virgo, as only this sign knows how to do (with precision bordering on cruelty). But with some contrasting energy to balance out the Virgo focus, these two will be each other’s strongest supporters.