Sex & Relationships

Synastry—an essential component of relationship astrology—reveals where the potentials and pitfalls exist between two people. It’s often through our most intimate bonds that we truly come to know who we are, and gradually grow into our best selves. As we really let it sink in that all external form is a reflection of one’s internal world, we can harness the mirror magic … [Read more...] about Of Magic and Muddling: The Moon and Neptune in Synastry

When discussing relationship astrology, one could argue that the inter-connections between two people’s Moons is the one that dominates the landscape. After all, one’s natal lunar placement describes one’s perceived needs for comfort and security, as well as one’s emotional responses. Any synastry aspect involving the Moon tells a story of how easily (or not) two people can … [Read more...] about I Love You, Now Go Away: Moon and Uranus in Synastry

When two or more people’s energies combine, it makes for a group tapestry interwoven with the persons’ combined elements, zodiac signs, planets and geometry. This is what synastry—or relationship astrology—is based on. In any given chart, it’s helpful to have a variety of aspects, for each serves one’s evolution in very specific ways. The most commonly analyzed aspects in … [Read more...] about How to Make Squares in Synastry Work

Synastry is the astrological analysis of two (or more) people’s energy signatures (natal charts), in order to assess their ease or difficulty in relating to each other. Regardless of the nature of the relationship, when two people relate to each other they mix their joint energies into a shared cauldron and make some type of stew out of it. Whether or not the stew is edible … [Read more...] about Moon Opposite Pluto in Synastry

Relationships with a significant age gap between partners have definite astrological signatures. Transits can trigger this kind of romance, but each partner will also have certain indicators in their charts. These signatures will describe the dynamics of responsibility, control, security and vulnerability The Older Partner There may be a case of arrested development (refusal to … [Read more...] about The Astrology of a May/December Romance

  Sagittarius is ruled by the planet of expansion and optimism; what's not to love? When Sag key words include "exploration," "inspiration," and "abundance," you know you're in for a good time. This sign combines a zealous approach to life with an easygoing attitude. If you don't fall for a Sagittarius, at the very least, you'll want to be his friend. 1. No Limits Sag … [Read more...] about Four Reasons Why You Would Fall Hard For a Sagittarius

  If you're into someone with Venus in Cancer, know that you'll be dealing with a mother and child. She can be incredibly tender, loving and empathetic, intuiting your most basic needs. But before you can access her empathy, you must convince her inner child that you're safe. The Shell If you're not sure how to approach Venus in Cancer, picture her curled up inside a … [Read more...] about How to Tell if Venus in Cancer Likes You Back

  There are certain natal aspects associated with divorce, but that's not the only way they can play out. The planets involved appear to be complete opposites: one deals with the disruption of rules, and the other is all about rules. What the aspects have in common is a certain response to the pressure of commitment and tradition. If you have any of the following … [Read more...] about Natal Indicators of Divorce

For those inclined to get married, there's a subgroup that wants to start things off with a bang -- the massive wedding that trumpets WE ARE GETTING MARRIED. A big wedding can be a celebration of love and/or a celebration of wealth. But the common theme is public display. Certain natal aspects (of a gay or straight man or woman) encourage this. Read on to see if you (or your … [Read more...] about Natal Aspects That Suggest a Big Wedding

  Marriage is not exclusive to a few signs. All signs have the potential to make a traditional commitment, but some are less inclined than others. For a few signs, the idea of promising themselves to one person for the rest of their lives is not appealing. In general, they shrink from the perfect storm of tradition, fidelity, limits and compromise. Of course, the rest … [Read more...] about The Four Signs Most Resistant to Marriage

A first date can be exciting or excruciating. It can leave you madly hoping that this new attraction goes further (much further) or that you never see the other person again. The signs view this crucial first step in different ways, and their varying approaches are a good indicator of how they approach romance in general. Read on for a glimpse of first dates for each of the … [Read more...] about How Each Zodiac Sign Approaches a First Date

  Sometime it seems as if Venus in Gemini likes everyone back. She's friendly, chatty and curious. It's not difficult to catch her eye, but the challenge lies in keeping her attention. Here's a hint: she values a mental connection over everything else. Social Butterfly Venus in Gemini is the original social butterfly. She gathers a bit of information here, makes a new … [Read more...] about How to Tell If Venus in Gemini Likes You Back

Your natal Moon and Ceres are two facets of how you experienced your mother. If natal Pluto aspects both in your chart, you have a specific scenario that describes nurturing, threat and loss, in mythic proportions. This will impact your adult relationships; your feelings about your partner will be layered with pain, fear and and powerful love. Establishing the Myth Your Moon … [Read more...] about The Smothering Mother: Natal Moon, Pluto and Ceres

  Last week we looked at how Jupiter's upcoming transit of Libra (ingress on September 9th) might impact relationships for the Cardinal signs. This week, we focus on the Air signs: Gemini and Aquarius. Jupiter in Libra will trine these signs; his happy expansion of relationship potential will be delivered easily. This means Jupiter will encourage the Air signs, rather … [Read more...] about Jupiter’s Transit of Libra and the Air Signs

Jupiter leaves Virgo for Libra on September 9th, 2016. The planet that brings more of everything, in the sign of the balance, suggests that (initially) relationships may become unbalanced. We can expect situations to swing between extremes. On the positive side, there will be a broader perspective on all things Libra: romance, social connections, and objective awareness. The … [Read more...] about Jupiter’s Transit of Libra and the Cardinal Signs

  In a previous post, I discussed natal planets that described your experience of your parents. In this post, I'm getting more specific and looking at natal indicators for a parent who was literally or metaphorically not there. What's missing from your life is shown just as clearly as what you have. The Sun and Saturn describe father, and the Moon describes your mother. … [Read more...] about Natal Indicators for Absent Parents

We're all unique snowflakes, but Aquarius is a bit more unique than the rest of us. This is the sign of the individual, so loving an Aquarian means something in you is drawn to the alternative. If you fall for this sign, you've fallen for someone who dances to their own tune and honors your special song as well. 1. The Rebel The Aquarian cliché is the perverse, disruptive … [Read more...] about 4 Reasons Why You Would Fall Hard for an Aquarius

  If you're attracted to Venus in Taurus, don't expect quick results. It will take her a while to decide if she's into you. Once/if she chooses to reciprocate, she will be refreshingly unambiguous. But everything will proceed at her pace, which is to say, slow. However, like excellent wine or a gourmet meal, good things take time to develop. The Wait It's not … [Read more...] about How to Tell if Venus in Taurus Likes You Back

  All signs are capable of committing, and not committing. But for some signs, romantic commitment comes more easily. Some are desperate to latch on to a partner because of insecurity. Others are simply clear and confident about what they want. In this article, "commitment" is defined as the decision to have a monogamous relationship (although polyamory is another type … [Read more...] about The Signs Most Likely to Commit

  Your relationship with your parents is your partnership template. When examining relationship patterns, parents are often the first subject that comes up. How you experience Mom and Dad is indicated in the natal chart. Your Sun (and Saturn) describe your father, and the condition of your Moon describes your mother. Note the phrase "How you experience..." While the … [Read more...] about Finding Your Parents In Your Birth Chart

  Did you know that can see your natal qualities in people you're attracted to?  All energy in the chart is expressed. If you don't own that energy, someone else will express it for you. This is not a bad thing, and is unavoidable in some cases. But problems arise when you encounter distorted versions of your natal chart. You'll know this is the case if you consistently … [Read more...] about When You Meet Your Chart in Other People

The Pisces man or woman is a pure romantic, so it's easy to see why you would be swept away. This Neptune-ruled sign puts a spell on you without even trying. If you've ever loved a Pisces, you already know what I'm talking about. If you've never fallen for a Pisces, check out the reasons why you might lose yourself in this magical sign. 1. Rose-Colored Glasses Want to be a … [Read more...] about Four Reasons Why You Would Fall Hard For a Pisces

  We've talked about ghosting (a romantic interest vanishes instead of communicating their desire to end things). Continuing the horror-themed dating experiences, there is another trend known as "zombieing." An ex that you broke up with, or who ghosted you, comes back from the dead via random texts or interactions on social media. He or she creeps back with no apologies … [Read more...] about The Five Signs Most Likely to Zombie You

  So you've got your eye on a Venus in Aries person. This planet/sign combo doesn't hold back when indicating attraction. Venus in a Mars-ruled sign means passion and directness are in order, so you won't have to guess if he or she is into you. But winning Venus in Aries' affection is a bit more complicated. The Challenge Are you ready to fight for what you want? You … [Read more...] about How to Tell if Venus in Aries Likes You Back