How To Tell If Venus in Virgo Likes You Back

Got a thing for someone with Venus in Virgo? Need a clue that he’s got a thing for you too? It’s going to take some very subtle sleuthing to figure out. It’s not that Venus in Virgo is trying to be crafty, but 1) he likely feels insecure about his ability to land you, and 2) he’s comfortable being solo. Hence the Virgin symbol. When applied to Virgo, virgin doesn’t mean sexually uninitiated; it means autonomous–whole on his own. Take both of these Virgo traits to mean that he’s not taking any undue risks about revealing a crush until you’ve all but declared your love for him. Still, there are a few clues that you’ve shown up on Venus in Virgo’s radar:

An Offer of Service

She offers you a helping hand. Maybe you’ve got a stalled research project, and she mentions that she’s got a book sitting on her shelf right now that could come in handy. Sounds dry? Think again: her offer of help means that you’ll need to arrange a follow-up meeting so she can hand over the book to you…which is just what she was intending when she so skillfully offered you her help in the first place. It’s the “when can I see you again without making it super obvious that I really want to see you again” approach. And you’d better treat her book as though it’s part of the Smithsonian collection. She treasures her tomes, so it’s huge that she’s risking its potential damage in your grubby little paws. She won’t do that for just anyone.

Connecting Online

Because Venus in Virgo is a renowned wordsmith, don’t be concerned if he prefers to reach out to you by email or text, instead of over the phone. It’s legit. And the passing back and forth of notes can lead to some smoldering online threads. Yes, the Virgin…smoldering. He reads, he writes–and he needs to know you’re literate, too. You don’t have to be Emily Bronte (who had Venus in Virgo, incidentally). But you do need to have something going on between the ears before he chooses to let you between the sheets. That’s because Venus in Virgo has a well-honed appreciation for gray matter. Know that your brain is actually a turn-on for him, provided you don’t come at him with a potty mouth that would make even the creators of “South Park” blush. Think word hygiene and follow his cues when in doubt.

If he engages you with witty word play–a pun or a wry remark that reveals his astute observations–he’s showing off for you. Venus in Virgo is one clever cookie, and you could learn a lot from this lover, whether it’s historical context, political turmoil, or even a scrumptious recipe. Remember that wordplay is foreplay, and you’ll be better prepared to respond accordingly.

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About Michelle Suzanne

Michelle Suzanne is a certified coach practitioner. She incorporates her gift for interpreting planetary messages to consult with clients, to teach, write, and to create and deliver workshops to individuals and groups. She brings twenty years of unique professional experience to people who need guidance to rise to their fullest potential. Everyone has a unique journey with a compelling story beneath it. Michelle's role is to help you re-discover yours, or to help you create a new one that resonates with who you are today.

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