How To Tell If Venus in Scorpio Likes You Back

If you’re obsessing over someone with Venus in Scorpio, you’ve got good reason. This magnetic creature of the zodiac has an irresistible intensity that can drive a person to great distraction. But figuring out whether or not Venus in Scorpio is obsessing over you too is a real mystery. This one keeps it all very close to the chest–even the stuff you’d think is no big deal to share openly. Here’s how to peer into Venus in Scorpio’s heart and find out if you’re even making a dent:

Hope You Like Chicken

But first: Are you good at waiting? Think you can out-wait Venus in Scorpio? Do you like a good game of chicken? These not-so-rhetorical questions are actually clues that your Venus in Scorpio crush isn’t going to help you out too much by making the first move. Now sure, there’s the general assertion that “if he doesn’t move in on you then he’s just not that into you.” Yes, but…then there’s Venus in Scorpio. I don’t want to hold out false hope here, but the Scorpio lover is so contained about affairs of the heart that you might need to give it a little–make that a lot of–time before giving up on him or her.

It’s All On You

And it’s not just time or patience you’ll need; whether you’re a demure romantic or a confident gutsy go-girl, you need to make the first play. Make it bold. Venus in Scorpio doesn’t have a vast amount of self-esteem to believe that your subtle moves are a play for him. Underneath the surface calm of your Venus in Scorpio crush is a heart that beats with a formidable amount of insecurity or fear. No wonder, for love goddess Venus is a bit out of her element in the deep and psychologically turbulent waters of Scorpio’s realm. So help a guy out and get the ball rolling before the two of you forget what you’re pining for in the first place.

What kind of moves will land on Venus in Scorpio? Try an invitation to dinner. Don’t confuse her by making it a group affair. She’s going to privately torture herself over whether it’s a date or a dinner party. Make it a one-on-one thing. Here’s the deal: if she bites, so to speak, she’s into you. Or you text her something flirtatious and funny, and she feels comfortable enough to risk texting back in the same vein. The point being: it’s on you to initiate contact.

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About Michelle Suzanne

Michelle Suzanne is a certified coach practitioner. She incorporates her gift for interpreting planetary messages to consult with clients, to teach, write, and to create and deliver workshops to individuals and groups. She brings twenty years of unique professional experience to people who need guidance to rise to their fullest potential. Everyone has a unique journey with a compelling story beneath it. Michelle's role is to help you re-discover yours, or to help you create a new one that resonates with who you are today.


  1. Michelle Suzanne, what if ‘they’ are Male with this placement. This article speaks to the Female Venus Scorpion not Male lets Follow up on this ?

  2. Mela, the article applies to both genders. Each paragraph of the article uses a different gendered pronoun.

  3. Annette Johannessen says:

    What if both have venus in scorpio? One being a libra and one being a scorpio. I am not a typical libra, having moon rising venus and mars in watersigns and sun conjunct pluto..
    I love him so much and when i see him i act like i dont. And he acts like a crazy person around me, think he has cancer moon and with my cancer rising that would probably make sense?

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