A first date can be exciting or excruciating. It can leave you madly hoping that this new attraction goes further (much further) or that you never see the other person again. The signs view this crucial first step in different ways, and their varying approaches are a good indicator of how they approach romance in general. Read on for a glimpse of first dates for each of the twelve signs.
Aries is after something that gets his blood pumping. Whether he takes you dancing, climbing, or into the bedroom, most of the activities will probably be impulsive. And there must be an element of challenge. Meaning, he’s turned on by the chase, if you don’t make it too obvious that you’re going to have sex with him. Or, the climb he choose pushes both of you to your limits. Bonus points if he impresses you by rescuing a stranded climber.
There will be a second date if: he’s still hungry for you, but not starving. He craves risk, but is impatient for results.
She’s still deciding if you’re suitable for her, but there’s nothing she loves more than quietly indulgent times with someone she’s attracted to. There will probably be excellent food and a relaxed, sensual vibe. But don’t get excited — it’s way too early for sex. What she really wants is to know if you’ll be compatible with her for the long haul. The evening will not be elaborate, but she’ll have it planned it out. And you’ll both be sticking to that plan.
There will be a second date if: you check the one or two boxes on her list. It’s a basic list, but it’s non-negotiable.
He’ll get to know you via a rapidly shifting conversation that covers every subject imaginable. Are you as interesting as you first seemed to be? He’ll ask questions and won’t focus on the answers. But if the mental connection is there, he’ll be riveted. First date sex? He may not even know if it’s going to happen. If it does, don’t assume you’ve sealed the deal. He’s a collector of new experiences, and you may just be one more experience. Or, maybe you’re the puzzle he hasn’t figured out yet.
There will be a second date if: he still wants to talk to you.
Be prepared to share your feelings. It will be a show of faith if you match her confessions with some of your own. She wants to know if she can feel safe when she tells you (shyly) how much she likes you and how you remind her of so-and-so from her childhood. While anxiously attempting to establish a bond, she’s closely monitoring you for any signs of distaste or mockery as she moves in for that hug (literal and metaphorical). First date sex depends on how emotionally intimate the two of you have become.
There will be a second date if: she’s let you in and it feels right.