What’s the definition of a “bad girl” or “bad boy”? The woman who boldly goes after who she wants. The man who lives life according to his rules. She’s a bit edgy, and there’s a whiff of the forbidden about him. The bad girl/bad boy does what everyone else wishes they had the courage to do. Even the most conservative signs have examples of this behavior, appropriate for the sign. This is where it’s useful to step away from rigid definitions of some signs as “good” or “bad.” It really depends on how the energy is used. Read on to see if you’re the badass of your sign. Note that all signs can fit into any of the four categories below. The signs used are just examples.
Flirting With The Shadow
You flirt with the Shadow side, but don’t let it consume you. Your behavior suggests some of the less evolved qualities of your sign, but you never push it too far. This is a skillful blend of light, seasoned with dark.
Aries: you walk the line between confidently assertive and selfishly pushy. You come on strong, leaving the object of your affection no time to decide if he’s attracted to you (but he probably is).
Scorpio: you wield concentrated magnetism to draw your lover in, and there will be some emotional engineering. You stop just short of full-on manipulation, but use your insight to get closer to her than anyone ever has.
Capricorn: you know exactly who you want, and you target him. Your cool confidence and determination make it clear to your lover that you’re the boss, and at times you’re controlling. But love is always your priority.
You know who you are, and make no apologies. You own all of your sign, even the qualities that get a bad rap.
Taurus: you cheerfully enjoy steak at a table of vegetarians, and consume butter in a world of food shaming. If you’re a few pounds overweight, you just don’t care. That stubborn, sensual enjoyment translates to sex, your fixation on your lover, and your insistence on doing things your way — at all times.
Virgo: you’ve turned fault-finding into a fine art. You lace compliments with critiques, while focusing intently on your love interest. She’s almost perfect, but if she sticks with you, she could become outstanding.
Libra: you lay on the charm, sugar and skill that makes your date feel like he’s the only one in the room. But you’re also flirting with the waiter. You cheerfully own up to being a flirt, and it’s ok because you do it appropriately.