A natal aspect between an outer planet and personal, relationship planet will inject your love life with extreme situations. As I explained in this article, the energies of the collective are hooked into the most intimate parts of your life. But what happens when someone else’s same outer planet aspects your relationship/outer planet combo? For example, their Pluto to your Venus/Pluto. Hundreds of thousands of people are born with an outer planet in the same sign, within the same 1-2 degree range. This is especially true for the slowest moving planets (Uranus, Neptune and Pluto). Will every Pluto person (born during a certain span of years) connect with you on an intimate level?
If you have natal Pluto conjunct Venus (let’s pick 25 degrees Virgo as an example) the energy of obsession is emphasized in your relationships. Maybe you zero in mercilessly on your partner’s flaws (Virgo) with the intention of helping them, of course. Or maybe you fixate on certain relationship details. Or, you might attract lovers who push you to the limits of what you can handle, as a way to confront your own weaknesses. The bigger theme is Pluto’s survival at all costs, united with Virgo’s M.O. of improvement through crises. You worry and obsess in order to identify what needs fixing. If you ferret out the essential “flaw” in yourself, your relationship or your partner before it becomes a problem, you think you have gained control over the situation.
Anyone born from (roughly) August 1968 to September 1970 has natal Pluto around 25 degrees Virgo, conjunct your Venus/Pluto. Are all these people your potential lovers, ready to be locked in a make-it-better-or-die-trying embrace? Not quite. As always, you must look at the complete synastry between you and the other person.
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