Recently, on Twitter, I got an interesting direct message from a guy who asked, “Why do some women look at me sideways when they find out I’m a Libra?” There are a few answers to that question. First, nearly everybody gets the side-eye for their sign. For instance, I get it for being a Scorpio. (I’m reportedly a sex freak, though, like many Scorps, I can go for months or years without sex at all.) I know plenty of Geminis who don’t get a second chance for the expectation that they’re two-faced. But this is Sun-sign astrology, a bloodsport in some circles, especially when it comes to love. The truth is that there is a little bit of truth about a sign that gets stretched way out of proportion. Fortunately, we can sift through the hype and pick out the shards of truth about a sign. So as I talk about Libra men, what I say won’t be applicable for all Libra men at all times; but if any of my insights apply to some Libra men enough of the time, then it’s time well-spent.
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[show_to accesslevel=’All-Access’]So why the side-eye for Libra men? Libra men frequently are dashing, charming, only wanting to please, and often very witty. Of course, some of these traits might lead some to assume that he’s either a playboy like Libra Snoop Dog or that he’s in the closet with all that culture and refinement. However, I think the unease about Libra men boils down to the fact that they’re so hard to pin down, like Piscean men, but in a completely different way. They’re airy yet very rational, so they can seem scattered and at other times indecisive. Unfortunately, in our sexist culture, many don’t find indecisiveness in a man cute or sexy, even though they may tolerate this trait in a woman.
Yet there are very few men as well-rounded as Libras. Some say that more generals are born under this sign than any other. Libra men love strategy, pursuing options, beautifully laid-out plans and strengthening relationships. Of course, problems start when Libras gets too caught up in their idealizations of beauty and relationships. The challenge is for them to find beauty and balance in more intimate moments, not all the time. They may rely too much on consideration of others as they look to solve some problem or social equation in their lives. Libra has to learn that real beauty is in figuring out, privately or with a partner, the proper balance between the courage of his own convictions and consideration for others. This holds true whether your Libra man is ordering clam chowder or an engagement ring. And honestly, a gal with a Libra man may not want to work that hard, so that’s why many Libra guys get the “side-eye” treatment.
But Libra men have a hard time finding that balance. Like the other two air signs (Gemini and Aquarius), they love talking about, discovering, entertaining or creating choices, options and perspectives on almost anything. Too bad they tend to get overwhelmed by these options or their constant need for choice. So a nice romantic night out at a restaurant can turn into a blowout, if it goes like this:
You: What do you want to eat? What do you feel like having?
Libra Man: I want clam chowder, but I also feel like having shrimp bisque. But then I see they also have a yummy avocado salad. And…
…so it goes for the next five minutes while your stomach churns. You want to be “nice” but as he gets more agitated, so do you. The solution is to connect the Libra guy to his real scales, which balances the gut with the intellect. The operative word is to connect, though, because that’s really what the Libra needs in that moment. Libras want to feel connected to someone or something, yet as a cardinal sign, they must assert themselves. Confused? That’s okay. Allow room for both by appearing to narrow options.
You: Go for the bisque. You like shrimp.
Libra man: Yeah, but I like the clam chowder too. I think I’ll go for that.
By using a little Aries, their opposite sign, you provide a foil, a relationship dynamic to explore options, rather than leave him to do so individually. Again, it’s not because Libra’s incapable of acting independently as much as he’d rather act interdependently, especially if he’s with someone else. This requires flexibility on your part, too. You can’t get too attached to the decisions he makes for himself. For instance, our Libra man above might change his mind again as soon as the waiter comes. That’s okay. He made a decision once, so he can do it again.
Of course, it’s perfectly fair to be less understanding if your Libra guy waffles on decisions that jointly affect you. (We’re talking about Libra here, so he’ll even think you’re being fair!) But you have to accept that a Libra guy is less likely to be a direct/take charge/macho kind of guy. He may be too smooth, too quick, too polished … and too indecisive too often. Regardless, for wit, sophistication, smarts, good looks, fun, and socializing, you’ll find few guys who can match Libra men. You won’t be as sorry about his choices as much as the time it may take for him to make them. [/show_to]
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Samuel F. Reynolds, a practicing astrologer in Brooklyn, New York, has written astrology articles for online and print publications, including aol.com and tarot.com. Also, he’s a co-founder of the Astrology Career Institute, providing students worldwide with resources and marketing tools to become practicing astrologers. To learn more about Samuel, check out his blog.
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@AquaAngel
I have been doing everything you said but HE is the one that started the emotional crap. He doesn’t want the FWB, just friends. And please note that I have no trouble getting a man to the bedroom so it’s not me. It’s more complicated than I stated. We have both been in the online dating game a long time and part of the game if you really like someone is to create a separate id and connect with them online to see if you can find out if they’re seeing someone else. He’s done this. Twice now in the last 2 weeks. I’ve played this game before with my former Aqua and I am very good at it. I know it’s him for several reasons. I won’t go into details because of length but I have shut him down fast both times saying I’m not interested. The last time he went straight to chat to contact me and I haven’t given my info out to anyone in almost a month. I don’t even have an online profile anymore and random invitations to chat are not common. This is one of the reasons I was thinking of disappearing. I don’t have the time or energy anymore for these games. It’s just too much drama!
I think that’s great about you and your guy though! I hope everything works out for you. 🙂
Hi Kit! how the heck are you? I hope that things are going well for you!
Just stopping by to show som love. I am still floating on my little pleasant cloud with my little Libra man. We had a little quibble, nothing major, but you know in Aquarian land, that is like major?!? LOL
But he kissed it all away and that little/major thingy is now all forgotten. He is so patient with me..ahhhhh the biss…lol.
OOOoops! I meant “bliss”.
Lol, thanks AquaAngel. Things are fine. Avoiding my Libra and he’s still distracting after 4 days of no talking! It’s driving me crazy honestly. Hope it’s doing the same to him! lol…I’m very happy things are going well with you! Sounds like you’re in heaven. You’re a lucky girl. 🙂
I have been dating my Libra man for over a year now……. And, we know that we are looking forward to a long future together.
But – contrary to some belief – it is not all roses and rainbows and unicorns and dreams do come true. Even for my trined sign – Libra (I am an Aquarius).
We have had our ups and downs. A lot. It has definitely never been a boring relationship. Which, perhaps, is key for us BOTH.
But…. He has stuck through it – through thick and thin. As have I.
I think – just my opinion – as a very smart Aqua girl – the key to Libra is to snag a MATURE one. And, one that has always respected his mother. lol
You must remember…. These guys are ruled by Venus.
They want love.
True love.
One like no other.
Venus commands it.
They want their “true partner”. Forever and ever.
And, the “immature” Libras will go through countless women…. Often without even realizing the effect they may have on others…. To obtain it.
Also, if they had a bad relationship with say…… Their Mom. The woman that taught them love (and we all-us moms-know that that is OUR job). Then that will “twist” their ideas of love and what it should be.
But – that’s what it comes down to for these men. L-O-V-E. They are ruled by it. And, that’s not a bad thing. At all.
Find a “good”, mature Libra man. He will love you – stick with you – loyally heal your heart – for eternity. They are the classic Prince Charming. In the flesh. They long for it….. Secretly – or if mature Libras – out in the open….
You will never be loved better. He will always kiss you from your eternal sleep.
And, isn’t that what it’s all about?
He is not perfect. Neither am I. We fight. I am waaaaay more stubborn than he is. And, I can be difficult. I know this. I am also a “mature” water bearer. But…. I’d rather fight with him – than live a life without him. And, I believe he feels the same.
Libra men can be difficult. And, childish. And, even sometimes ridiculous. But…… They LOVE. Stronger – and with more purity – than any other sign in the zodiac. They are perhaps the only sign that knows what love is anymore…..Poverty, divorce rates, suicide and sadness……I used to think “love” was nothing more than a word. Nothing more than disappointment. Nothing more than a word “used”.
So…… I will let him order whatever the heck he wants to at the restaurant. He can starve if he wants. I will get what I want – and not stay hungry. And, if he’s still deciding when it’s time to go home – I will leave.
But, this man…… This “Prince Charming” – will follow me. Eventually. After he’s tired himself out. And, we can get back to what’s important. His love – and mine. And – he will love me like no other. Regardless of my Aquarian temperment. Maybe because of it. He will kiss me awake.
They are worth it.
Because without them – love would be nothing more than a game – a word. Something used.
Pray for me….. I’m about to ask what he wants to do for dinner tonight. 🙂
JumpInTheWatersFine
It sounds like it could be good…be careful, you have to be in control or he will want to rule the roost forver, keep him happy with you loving and your cooking (oh do they love good food) but you are “teacher” you have to instruct him about your needs, for real, he will like it, if he knows what you want and knows that he sattisfied you in some way, he will love it. A good Libra man is always hoping for someone to level with him, someone who gives him feedback and also explains what they like. A bad Libra man is selfish and manipulative. If he asks you what you like, good, he won’t ask if he doesn’t care. Libra women and men are different, I’m with an Aqua man that treats me like a goddess, he is amazing. Libra men need to hear how much they please you, Libra women need hugs of reasurance from a lover but a Libra man needs to have a little ego stroking from time to time, just not too much or his head won;t fit in the door, (secret…chocolate, lots of chocoloate will mellow him when he’s had a bad day) ” a bad day dear…..here i made coacoa “…..look out that night, he will be all over you like a second skin…….
@JumpInTheWatersFine
Awwwwww….I totally feel what you are saying, my little Libra man ( I call him little..God knows he’s no little, really great physic you know what I mean ?) This is just him, I can’t belive the similarity in these men, it is mind boggling.
But like you said, I would rather have a little fight here and there rather than not having him in my life at all. The good outweighs the off days, I wish there wouldn’t be any off days really, but it’s life i guess.
Kit, how are you? Any progress with your Libra man? I think tonight I am gonna go Rogue on my Libra man, I can just feel it, seriously. I also feel before the night ends we’ll be whispering sweet little nothings to each other and making up with Bambi eyes…lol…
@Aqua Angel
Why are you going rogue on your guy? Was he bad? lol
I don’t know…Haven’t spoken to him since he contacted me last week, but I did send an email yesterday and told him I couldn’t be friends because I liked him too much for that but if he wanted something more, I’d be open to seeing where things go. Also said that when he meets the right woman that she’ll be everything he ever wanted even though he may not have been looking. I said several things that would speak to his heart and am glad I did after reading the post earlier by JumpIntheWatersFine. I know him well enough that he’d feel what I wrote and the decision on whether to let me go or not is now all on him. We barely know each other in terms of time but he knows me as well as I know myself. As if he’s known me for years. It’s all happened so fast. Neither of us expected this kind of connection when we met and I don’t think either of us know how to deal with it. He’s going the friend route. I’m going MIA! As much as I like him, I can’t just be his friend. I already know it won’t be enough. I have vanished for good now and only time will tell if he’ll be able to resist me. 🙂
@kit: good that you told him your feelings. Libra men need to hear truth when it comes to love. They do crave love and are always looking for that woman that can be everyting to them….Prepare for a wait now while he balances his scales, trying to figure it all out…I gave my Libra a wide berth and it took him almst 2 months to reconnect with me…if they are sure you are sincere in your feelings for them, it is not something they take lightly. THEY CRAVE LOVE! Good luck!
@Elizabeth
Thank you! 🙂 I can tell he doesn’t make decisions easily. He’s been quite the womanizer for the past few years looking for an escape from the past and present. He did NOT expect someone like me to come and turn his world upside down. I think I’ve been a little bit of a shock to his system lol. I’m prepared for a very long wait if necessary. He’ll be worth it.
Hey Kit!!!
Oh he wasn’t really bad, but you know, I’m an Aqua and we can’t let them get away with anything!!!
Anyhoo..as promised I went all Rogue on his hinney, but as usual, they are soo sweet and charing, I blew steam and he caught it. LOL
And at the end when all was said and done, he gave me the softest most seductive kiss and I forgot all about what caused me to defect in the first place!
Oh Kit, I’m telling you, I will marry this man someday. I feel it with every fibre in my being. He keeps me grounded. It doesn’t matter how much fume and steam i emit..He is cool, calm and collected and brings me back to earth.
I am his little Volcano, trust me, but he is like none other! He told me one time, if we wrote a book, it would be a bstseller. 🙂
You are right in giving your Libra space, they very well know what’s good for them. I did that to mine too, I took drastic measures and cut off ALL comunications, ( even though God knows I died inside every single day!!!), it lasted a few weeks, and then he came looking for me with torch light, hook, line, trap net you name it!!
I hid for a bit some more and then I let him find me. He got it since 🙂
@AquaAngel
Yeah I know what you mean on the steam emission! Lately the only person I feel like going rogue on is the ex-husband! LOL! I’m learning to not let him get to me though. 🙂
Glad you’re doing well. Sounds like you’ve got him wrapped around your finger. 🙂 I’d like to think that mine will only take a few weeks but I feel it will be longer than that. He’s running from his feelings and has since the day he met me. All I can do is wait. I will stay away though. I don’t want anyone who doesn’t want me. 🙂
@Kit
I absolutely get what you re saying Kit, this is my attitude too. I beleive if it is yours and your heart is genuine, it will come to you. Yes there will be little ups and downs, but there is so much love that the downs are fixable, trust me I know.
During my Libra indecisiveness, I went cold and said exactly what you said to yourself and I prayed to God about it, ( please dear Lord I have never been dillusional, please do not let me be at this stage of my life..LOL ).
I know it sounds silly, but I can’t help it, I pray about everything, I start, ” it’s me again Lord, your favorite little Aqua”, I think he knows me by name now..:)
Anyhoo, my advise is, if you really want it, you beleive in it and it feels right, pray about it, for guidance, for strength, for understanding, ( God knows we always need strength to handle the Libra men ).
I beleive that everything happens for a reason and nothing happens before it’s time, there are no coincidences in life and sometimes we have to be patient in life.
If both your hearts are in the right place, it will happen. ust give him his time to come to his own and understand what it is he needs. Trust me, no one passes on what’s best and makes them happy in life. it’s irreplaceable!
@AquaButterfly
I totally agree with everything you said. It’s so odd that you mention coincidences since he & I have had nothing but since the day we met. Everything single thing we like is the same. Our past experiences are the same. Sexual preferences are the same. I mean everything! It’s like I met the male version of me! It’s uncanny. I’ve been concerned that he doesn’t completely trust me not to hurt him & that will keep him away. When we were together once at his home, I could feel him put up a mental wall with me a couple of times. One of those times was when we had sex. He wouldn’t even look me in the eye which he insisted on the first time. I could feel the distance he put between us that wasn’t there the first time. The other time was when I sat in his lap lol. When I sat close beside him though, it wasn’t there. It’s almost like he’s afraid of me. He told me he’s actually a shy person so maybe my outgoing Aqua personality throws him off balance. He said I could have any man I want but I’m not sure if he was seeking validation that I wanted him or warning me off. But he sure knows now that I want him, doesn’t he? LOL!
Oh wow. I didn’t read the replies in time…. Selfish, unthinking, flightly Aqua that I am….
LOL
But – no worries.
We love each other you see.
Though….. he is a child….. As am I. And he can be cold and unfeeling and I HATE THAT HE THINKS OF HIMSELF AND NOT THE WHOLE.
I hate it.
But…… one cannot forget what true love is…. And – a MATURE Libra male knows this…. Its about learning.
I am constantly telling him that there are other things out there than what he sees……It’s not all about him.
And – he is constantly telling me that it’s okay that sometimes I wish I didn’t care about anything other than me…..
Share. Don’t be afraid. Libras want this. They crave it. They are seeking it…. Immature or not.
You have nothing to lose – as long as you get that you are in control.
But – they are worth it.
I told him NOT to come tonite. I am happy alone. I will see him tomorrow-and our love will not change.
See?
JumpInTheWatersFine
I agree, sharing is good, but with a Libra man you have to understand, once you do it for them, I mean take care of things on your own, being the giver, being the sharer they get USED to it so much that they get LAZY. If you always put him first he will put himself first, he will learn from you his place. I don’t think they realize it but I got sick of my ex right from the beginning, he always put himself first and why????Because thats how I treated him, I put him first so thats where he placed himself rightfully. Get it? I showed him that he was better then me so he treated me less then himself. I created the monster! omg what a difference with my Aqua man, the nicer I am to my Aqua the more he does for me, and vice versa, we need eachother like oxygen. With my Libra ex, he was king, I was his pretty little play thing and I made him look good in front of his familly and friends, “your the prefect wife, your the perfect hostess…I can’t stop touching you….your food is to die for etc etc…” It was all about him, our son got in the way of my pleasing the king. He left. He couldn’t stand sharing his good little slave with his son, thats no fun is it? Why should he stick around……Then came the hate, he left and I didn ‘t beg him to come back, so off to court we went fighting over a child that he didn’t even want anyways, for 4 years, I won but it was hard I could’ve lost my baby, (he was only going to kill the kid, no big deal) courts don’t believe you. My beautiful friend from childhood was now a monster, he wanted to hurt our child to punish me for not being his eternal little play thing. a few years went by, 10 after our divorce and I meet the man of my dreams, what does king Libra ex do, he writes a nasty letter to me, “congats”..then onto all the things that I suposedly did to him ??? how he was in love , how I broke his heart….he was such a good loving father to our child, (lie after lie after lie) He can’t stand it that I’m engaged, its been 11 years and he acts like its a big surprise that I’ve moved on….sheesh. Be careful with a Libra man, if he is genuine, good, if he still needs to do some changing, the heck with him. My Aqua Man is my best friend, my ex Libra thought he owned me. My Aqua wants to keep me so he’s wonderful, my Libra ex wanted to keep me so he tried to hurt me…..big difference. When I do things for my Aqua, it feels good, when I did things for my Libra ex, it was out of fear. Be careful. Don’t create a monster by being too good to him, make him do for you or he won’t.
Ohhhh….I am so torn! I told my Libra man that i was leaving him! ” I really didn’t mean it, I was just mad at him”, and being the spontaneous Aqua that I am, I cut most communication venues with him right away. I left a couple avenue still available, but I feel like shit ( so to speak ). I miss him sooooooooo much, I can’t focus on anything for too long, my heart hurts.
How is it, why is it, that this one thing, one human can have such an impact on one’s life. OMG I am so torn and sad. I pray, please dear God, if I am dillusional, please make it stop, the pain is too real, just make it go away and I come back to my senses :-(.
My intuition tells me, I am ahead in terms of accepting who and what we are to each other. It is surreal, so surreal, that he is scared and nervous, whereas being the futuristic Aqua that I am, I have had my early moments of agony and confusion, but I have seen it for what it is, we were meant to be together no matter what, besides the odds, and I have made peace with it and accepted it.
But somehow he is still freakin out, too real to understand it just just now, given our age, I think I sorta understand, ( can’t afford to make a fool of ourselves at this stage in our life, especially from a guys perspectivve, but it is what it is, nothing can change it ).
We haven’t spoken for a bit, but somehow, I feel in my heart we will find our ay back to each others arms…somehow, I feel deep down inside I am his life, and he mine. But in the meantime, I suffer and I feel he suffers too, but I think he is a little bit proud to make the first move for the 100 th. time.
But I wait, I feel his sadness and his emptiness, I know my love will come to me, for where I am is where he belongs, where he belongs. I know it, he knows it, the universe knows it, and so I count the days, the hours, the minutes, the second…
Oh love, what a beautiful thing that makes us sad and happy to the equal of each other…Still I have no regrets…
Kit, how the heck are you, any good news on your end 🙂 ??
Hi Aqua Angel, sorry to hear about your troubles. That sucks! If he truly loves you though, he’ll return whether it’s 100 or 1000 times. How old are you guys? You mentioned age so I was just curious. I have no news to report other than these have been some of the hardest weeks ever! I’ve been avoiding him as I said but I miss him more than I thought I would. I went online last week just to see if I could do it and almost had an anxiety attack knowing he was just a few clicks away lol! Won’t do that again! I have decided to send him a xmas card though. It’ll come out of the blue and sock him right between the eyes because I know he won’t expect it. Then I will vanish again. 🙂 Stay strong and hopefully your guy and my guy will both come back soon.
Hi Kit!!!
We are in our mid 30’s, but I look more like mid 20’s lol, and him, my Libra lover, oh la la…I barv everytime I think of him…ahhh ( nice that others can’t see our thoughts when we smile out of the blue sometimes ).
Why the heck do these Libra’s have to be so sweet, loving and difficult at the same time. As soon as I told him that I was leaving him Kit, I runned away, I didn’t miss a beat!! Poof!!! 🙂 . I did not even procastinate!!
Oh me and my little Aqua temper, it can be treacherous sometimes, but we are a package.
I strongly beleive that love doesn’t just die overnight, and if it does then it was a hoax!
He will find me, I know he will. And if I am wrong and dillusional, then God help my poor soul, heart and mind. May I recover from this madness quick!! LOL
But honestly, I am a very intuitive person, with sorta a sixth sense, and it tells me, he will come looking for me, I will shine my little light of love and light his path towards me, for he is my love, my laughter and joy. ( Ok ok, maybe after watching him do one or two turns in the dark with a torchlight, bumping into chairs and armoires ).
When he finds me, he will wrap his heart around me, and comfort me, and love me and make me feel safe and happy again, because I am his little cupcake ;-).
Ladies, Libra men certainly try our patience. After several phone calls which involved lots of future plans, all spilling out of my Libra’s mouth, he has gone missing again….and I am letting him go. He knows how I feel about him. He tells me he loves me and indicates he wants a future, but….poof. Gone again. He can take all the time he needs because I am dating other men now…unfortunately, the one I really like is another Libra!!! LOL!!! This Aqua can’t get away from them! When my Southern Libra decides to reappear, I am acting like nothing is wrong…his scales are waaay outta balance…I think he’s waiting for me to erupt on him, but I always just tell him I love him and my love isn’t going anywhere. Big trust issues on his end. No games here, I don’t have the energy for them, my Taurus ascendant plods along like a reliable, but very stable & sensual, lady bull LOL. What else can I do?
Elizabeth, I also have a very good libra friend. Like yer he tries my patience and temperance, but it is like u say bcuz of his own issues, maybe trust, but i feel his own lack of esteam. This man is a sweetheart and will do anythign for me. He has tried to get me to leave him, he says he is not good enuf for me, but I am just very gentle with him and tell him I love him always and whatever desicions he makes i will deal with. As of yet he cannot leave he is head over heels for me. But, yes i have to always be here and guide him and build him up. Oh the little games he plays telling me how lonely and down he gets, but he does it to hear me tell him how wonderful of a man he is. Your libra is prolly just taking it to another level, unless of course there are other women involved then i would reconsider a realtionship with him, but he might just be the sweetest and most romantic man u will in yer life ever meet. Best Wishes
Karen,
He is the sweetest and most romantic man I have ever known…and he really has gone out on a limb with me as far as telling me his feelings. He told me he is completely unused to a woman being honest with him and that plays into it…not sure where I am coming from. I have never felt this way about anyone before and it’s a foreign concept for me to be so agreeable with his disappearing acts….yes they are frustrating but I understand him and why he does what he does…there isn’t another woman, other than his ex wife, who apparently watches his every move in their small southern town. That is the major stumbling block as he won’t move from his kids till they are out of school. meantime though, I can’t sit here and twiddle my thumbs, waiting for him….it could be years. When the time is right, we’ll know it.
LibraLady……
I’m so sorry.
You have been through the wringer.
And, I know what you are saying….. Really.
The good news – I didn’t reveal everything. It’s in my nature not too. 🙂
I have been alone (before my Libra man) for 5 years. Learning what I want, who I am, and what I’m willing to give.
I recommend it for everyone. Take it from a Uranus ruled, brilliant Aqua girl.. Be ALONE. Learn. Learn who you are and how to be happy. Then post about your relationship difficulties and how dumb men are. Regardless of sign.
There will always be a part of me that he cannot touch. Perhaps it is that way with ALL Aquas. I think – perhaps it is.
There will always be a part of me that is as wild as the wind…… As free as that breeze that kisses your skin…. And leaves for another day…..
He can’t have that. No one can.
It took me 5 years of celibacy (easier for us cebrally ruled Aquas than you think) – to realize that I can be happy…. Perfectly alone. Alone – does not always equal loneliness.
That said….. One of the things we established early on in the relationship – is that not only can I be “quirky” (lol) – but I don’t mind that. I rather enjoy it. But….I am waaaaay more stubborn than he is….. And…. That I do not need him to be happy for me to be the same.
I don’t. And – now you see the reason for our struggles…..
I love him. I am more content with him than without him. And – it shocks me sometimes still (even after a year) – but…. He loves me.
I need my space. We spent 4 days apart recently – my choice. And, it shocked me that he realized it. Like….. He almost MISSED me! And – all I could think about was the mystery novel I picked up at the library….. Hmmmm…….
No. I will never “let” him get the upper hand. It’s not in my nature. Besides being a rather difficult, quirky, fixed sign Aqua girl….. I am also a true blood Scot lass. lol But….. We “meld”….. And, I cannot deny that in large part that is due to him. You see, it shocked me, because I didn’t even realize that 4 days of “alone” – could mean alot to a Libra man. It seems like just seconds on the clock to me. With my mystery novel.
No worries. I know what you mean. But, it is this way with ANY man….. Or, relationship. One – cannot lose oneself. I know this, I spent 5 years learning it.
I love him. I have changed for him. But, I have boundaries. I have limits. He cannot touch me beyond those limits. I may have not spelled it out for him (Libra men need gentleness – Aquarian bluntness can be brutal)…. But- he knows. I CHOSE him. He did not even know it. It was a choice.
He can be childish, cranky, cold and sometimes just plain mean.
But…. I have never felt more loyally loved. Despite my need for independence. I will never give that up.. I can’t. It’s impossible now.
But….. I know he’s there. Even when I would rather prefer he disappear for a few days so I can figure out if the butler did it.
So – what keeps him around? Even though I’m an independent Aqua girl?
When he is with me….. Sparks fly. Even after a year. Maybe ‘cuz I’m so bossy and independent. lol He needs that… He needs “direction”. And, he knows I give it willingly and lovingly. He needs it – I respond.
We are completely in love. I don’t need to “put him first”. He knows that will never happen.
Agatha Christie is first. lol And my bubble bath. And that movie I wanna see….. And, my son…..
And such is the power – the greatness – of Libra men…. That – is what he really wants. A lover – a director – someone that is happy. Alone. But – together. Thank you Jesus. Ruled by Love – he can be free.
I don’t mind showing him how much I love him……How much I appreciate him… He DOES need that – He gives me my independence – willingly – without even a flicker of a blink – because we love each other. And, when we are together it is an amazing thing – and we are completely loyal to each other. And, as an Air sign – he knows I need it….. To be one with the wind…. With the breeze….. He knows who I am and loves me in spite of it. Not that I have to try to hard – he is a Libra after all. And for that gift…. The gift of my independence — while knowing that he is completely, totally – loyally – head over heels in love with me too – I have to give him “props”.
I’m sorry your Libra put you through so much Ms. LibraLady…. Look at it this way….. You had more to learn. To be happy – to be trully free….
To find someone – Aqua or not – that would love you the way you deserve to be.
You are GREAT MONUMENT. So there.
LIBRA MAN+AQUARIAN WOMAN…..
@JumpInTheWatersFine:
Oh yes,,,celibate Aqua for over 7 years before I reconnected with my Libra…and I told him early on that although he was the catalyst that made me really want love in my life again, I know I can find it with *someone* if not him…although I want him.
STUBBORN is my middle name….
He will reappear one day and I will welcome him heart, body & soul…one day he will realize I won’t go all crazy on him for going MIA like his ex wife, whom he never wanted to marry anyway. I like my solitude, he may not understand that about me yet (the long distance thing),
My sister is a Libra and although there are differences between the males & females, she would always let me take the lead if I wanted to, and it seems natural that I could with him too. Libras are such agreeable people! One thing I usually won’t do is initiate contact, but once we are talking, I speak the truth to him. He will share his feelings with me, which is refreshing, so many men just won’t. He loves my honesty and openness…I do have to reign in some of my directness with him, his feelings get hurt easily…I would never deliberately hurt him.
He is like a little boy (but most men are…) in many ways, and my mothering instincts kick in high gear with him…
Remember the Rolling Stone cover of John & Yoko, taken the day he was killed? The one where he is curled up next to her in the fetal position and Yoko has this look of all-knowing bliss on her face? Yoko is an Aqua and John was a Libra…’nuff said.
the man with me is a super libra with 5 planets in libra, a perfect air triangle.. his venus and mercury are in libra along with sun.
he is super nice and kind.. but what I noticed that he is not Instantly Kind.. Like if there is something which annoys him, he can reply in a very bitchy and selfish manner.. totally unlike him… but then given he has a day to think it over, he comes up with perfect right answer.. 🙁
it is kind of perplexing.. before him my boyfriend was a scorpio, who almost always got it right the moment something happened, actually on the contrary, if scorpio are given a lot of time to think over- they get massively sidetracked. their first reaction is right reaction..
but how long can you be with someone who gets it right after one day,, so we gotta live 24 hours apart in time. ???
(I am a sag)
@sexysag: At least yours replies! Even if it’s bitchy!
@Aqua Angel: Did your guy return?
@all…everyone ready for Christmas??? 😀
Me & mine started talking again about 2 weeks ago but then he got his feelings hurt or got mad by something I said (wasn’t intentional) and ignored me for over a week til I lost it, went off on his ass and went Houidini. He knew that was a hot button for me and did it on purpose! Here’s where my stubborn Aqua comes in because he won’t be seeing me for a LONG LONG time if ever. It’s been a week and I’m still mad as hell. And I was doing SO good at reigning in those Aqua emotions… Guess I need a little more self-help! LOL!
One thing for sure is those Libras are horribly indecisive, chronically MIA, and ALWAYS take advice from trusted friends/family members. Once mine goes MIA he spends time chatting about me with people until he’s figured things out in his head (he has told me he does this LOL) and then he comes back for a while. This would probably drive me insane if he lived closer than 2,000 miles away. I’m annoyed as hell right now and just ignoring him too and dating other guys. Honestly, my Aquarian stubbornness has really kicked in at this point and even when (IF!) he calls me again I think I’ll just ignore the call for a few weeks. I hear many Libra guys end up lonely old men…
@Elizabeth
I hear ya! I’m dating others as well because who has time for these bs games?? I just checked my messages out of curiosity and mine asked me if I was going crazy on him and what the hell I was talking about!!! He’s trying to turn it around on me. Dumbass. Boy if he thought I was pissed before…that idiot doesn’t even deserve a reply if he thinks I’m buying his BS! Stupid ass.
@Kit
I know, it’s crazy-making behavior! Classic because they never want to admit that they are the ones making waves, they just want “harmony”….but boy is mine a drama queen! I am way past the drama stage of my life, so this might be the deal breaker for me. Mine’s not a player or deliberately doing anything…which makes it worse, if they don’t know what they’re doing how can they ever stop??
Hi Kit!
Hi Elizabeth!!
Hi Everyone!!!
Compliment of the season everyone…
I hope that someone, somewhere is having good luck with their Libra Man, maybe-JumpInTheWaterIsFine????because….
I swear, I am reading these comments and I can’t help but LOL amidst my momentary sadness.
Ok, so since my last little fiasco with my Libra man, for a while, I was able to shut him out, and then one day, I could not take it anymore, boom! was overwhelmed…so I let him in AGAIN!
The usual, he was sweet, tells me he loves me in the middle of the blue, he can’t let me go all the bullshit and crap that comes with their tune of seduction.
I swear, these Libra men want to drive us crazy!! You know-desert ourselves in the derset. Cry endlessly to the crawling scorpions and scorch in the sun, dying slowly from their love or lack thereof.
I mean we are not kids anymore. One day he comes on so strongly he freaks me out, the next he acts like a little spoilt brat! I swear I have never wanted to hit someone so hard, like I want to choke him at tmes.
He drains me, he really does. Ifeel my life is on hold for him-because I just do not know what is going to happen next, when, or to what magnitude.
I have decided, I can’t live like this naymore. I am just tired…really.
So now, I am seriously considering cutting him out of my life completely. I love him-God knows I do. I hope if i can move on from him, that one day, I will have someone who is stable and knows what they want, and not like a God damn leaf in the wind-blowing here, there and everywhere!!
Like you said Kit, it seems a lot of them will grow old and lonely, by their own doing.
It’s sad though, there is so much more to life and deep down inside of me, I have sooo much love to give to him. But I cannot put my emotions through this assult and turmoil anymore.
Right now as we speak, I am thinking of the best possible way to close this chapter of my life, once and for all. Life is stressful enough as it is already, without all this unneccessary baggage/crap.
All I want to do is love him-is this such a bad thing?! F*ck!!!
And so, I pray and so all my little Aqua Angels-unite and may the force guide and heal me, fast!!
@Elizabeth & AquaAngel: I know what you mean! You want good chem with them and it ends up being crazy chem! Sucks! I say we call them out on their bad behavior. Let them know we aren’t putting with this crap anymore! LOL! Time to be a bitch I say. Maybe they’ll get off their teehineys & shape up! When I went off on mine, I told him I couldn’t decide if I wanted to slap him or tie him to the bed! That is the nice version btw…lol! BUT, I WAS RIGHT! He wouldn’t turn it around on me unless he was mad or hurt & doesn’t want to admit either. I love being right. He drug me into this little game and I have decided to play. In my own little Houdini time. A couple months from now. I’m still pissed so I have to calm down first. LOL! 😀
Ladies, I think the best thing we can do is ignore them and let them know exactly how it feels…I don’t have the energy to erupt on mine, the drama itself has taken the wind out of my sails! Also please don’t forget that Libra men have a really hard time with guilt, so if you still want to prod them into action, let him know in a calm way that he has hurt you and a mature Libra will take steps to make you feel better. I don’t know about yours Kit, he sounds like a game player! Sadly, it appears that mature or not, a Libra man loves to disappear periodically. I don’t know how a wife would be able to put up with that.
Yeah, mine is definitely a game player. I recognize the symptoms and that’s partly because I’ve been one myself in the past lol. I could run circles around him if I wanted. Don’t really enjoy the game anymore though. I saw a Gemini once that was such an ass one evening that I let him have it. He came back two weeks later with the exact same crazy comment as the Libra & turned it around on me. He apologized when I calmly explained why I got mad but I’m not sure he ever really thought that he did anything wrong. He just said the words that needed to be said. It’s like you mentioned, how can they stop if they don’t get it? I’m not big on guilt trips but I agree that ignoring has worked very well in the recent past with others. That’s one reason why I’m not saying anything for awhile but the other is I just don’t feel like dealing with him yet. He can wait, come find me or leave. In the meantime I’ll pursue my fun elsewhere.
Need help ladies!!!..got an email from my Libra. To say I’m surprised is an understatement. This time he apologized for hurting me or making me angry. Said he was tired of the online lifestyle and I was the last one because nothing good ever came of it. Was sure I’d meet the man of my dreams and take care. I don’t even know what to say…I want him to know the door is open if he wants to step through but that sounds like a goodbye. Advice?
Nevermind! I came up with the perfect response. I’ll keep you posted. 😉
Oh Kit..Sorry to hear that, but it sounds like goodbye.
I know you must be hurting, but whatever you do in the name of Angels…do not give him that power of leaving your door open for him to come back whenever he wishes, he is not worth it.
Chant after me Kit, “we are Aquarians, the seducers, leaders and heartbreakers of the zodiac”..( and we will not hand over this power to any other zodiac member any time soon, not even the irresistable Libra Man!! 🙂 ).
By letting him know your door is open for him whenever, puts you on the uncontrollable end of things. He will see you as weak and desperate, and continue is silly games of using and abusing your emotions.
We Aqua’s are thinkers, if we focus and think long enough, we figure out what works, and how to get eactly what we want, it might take some time, but we get around it.
There is a saying, if somethng is yours, let it go freely, and if it returns to you, you will have known that it belonged to you.
If he thinks there is something better out there for him, then I would tell him fine! Go get it, I am moving on-there is someone who is more deserving of me out here, plain and simple.
I can turn into the ice queen in the blink of an eye, it’s not funny-just don’t cross me with bullshit.
Now, onto my little Libra Man. I, Aqua Angel, have decided, I will not be his little undecisive star, he feels intimidated by and can’t make up his mind about anymore.
I have decided, this control I gave him, this power, is MINE, and i retreived it. I shall never give it to him again. I will not let him into my soul and see the love and vaurnability that lies therein for him ( they do not know how to handle such realness ).
Certain part of me my heart, my mind, he can’t touch anymore, I have taken this power away from him, ( no I have not turned into the ice queen, but a light has gone on in my head-especially after reading JumInTheWater comment ).
I will talk to him, but on my conditions, when and for how long I choose to.
Recently I spoke to him, I had nothing to do, but the conversation, I kept it to minimum and told him I had something going on, so I had to go, we will talk anoter time. And poof, i flushed him, and it felt good-really darn good, me-I was in control again.
Even though I had bsolutely nothing to do, and I was home bored out of my head!! But the satisfaction of knowing he was home going crazy, trying to figure out where I was, or what I was up ( since I never told him ) was priceless and brought me much satisfaction.
I, Aqua Angel was in control again. Yes, I hold the cards, and he will dance to my tunes and march to my beats, any which way I chose. I have decided I will not talk to him everyday, nor let him in on everything all the time, let him go crazy a little bit sometimes, not too much-just enough.
Let him think of me, miss me till it hurts. I will seduce and mentally stimulate him till it makes him crazy-no it’s not a game, it’s how they want to be handled and we in return get the darn respect we deserve.
He loves me, I know he does, and I love him too. But, this is my time, I have decided. And should it come to the point where it’s not what I want anymore, or he is not worth my time and love, then, only then, this free little butterfly will move on from this Libra flower and onto the next deserving bud.
But not before he has tasted my wrath of seduction and painful unbearable wantness.
Love all you guys, Aqua Angel for life!!
Hi Kit,
I guess everyone writes to you. What do you think about this Libra male who’s come back into my life and charmed me and made me fall for him again? We’ve known each other since high school and I lost my virginity to him, and I’m 99.9% sure he lost his to me. I’ve always liked him and cared for him, but he was such a womanizer in highschool. He hasn’t had a girlfriend since I’ve known him and his best friend mentioned that he wanted to go out with me, but was afraid that I didn’t see him as dating material and that all I wanted from him was to mess around.
We had a big fight, and I cut off communication from him for three years. During that whole time he was in love with two other girls, but he never went out with them.
After a year that I cut communication from him, he started trying to get back into my life by being nice at first, then me. I started going out with someone then, and all this Libra male did was try to get me to see him insistently. I’m not going to lie, he pursued me for a year and a half before I gave in. He then started being friendly, but threw little insults at my boyfriend and what my boyfriend was doing with his life.
Soon after, I broke up with my boyfriend because I realized I’ve always been in love with this guy, and the passion I feel for him, I never felt for my ex-boyfriend now.
I’m a Cancer. I know it says we’re supposed to be incompatible because I’m too clingy or emotional. But I’m giving him all the space he needs, but I hate this waiting game. He is passionate and I have a feeling he likes me, but thinks I only want him for hook ups.
Hi Giselle… I don’t think I’m the most qualified person on here lol. I’m horrible at dating & came here for advice! 🙂 It sounds like he likes you so in my opinion, I’d find a way to tell him you like him as more than a hookup. Either directly or through the mutual friend. I wouldn’t go so far as to say you love him. Let him say that first. I would suggest telling him in a playful manner that he’s more than a booty call or something like that if he implies that’s how you see him. I have been very direct with my Libra so far and though it’s been a little awkward for us both (neither of us are good at expressing emotions), he has been honest in return. He said he really likes me but isn’t over his previous fwb and we are currently friends. There is still a great deal of sexual chemistry but we have not acted on that again nor have we seen each other because we are trying to keep it as friends. We’d be in bed in under a minute lol. He’s not ready & may never be so we talk only & I’m just trying to be patient in the hopes he’ll come around. That being said, I am seeing others. Can’t have all my eggs in one basket lol…Hopefully this helps a little. Good luck! 🙂
Thank you Kit! It sure helped, and I’ll sure try that =)
NOPE they are not worth the effort. ‘Cause they will try to seduce everything that breaths, be it women, men, dogs, camels, hamsters… Libra men are basically w*ores, hence they may be okay as friends or sex-toys, but not as monogamous partners.
I know from experience.
Of course there are the exceptions to the rule, but the general outlook is as I’ve stated above, so the Libra man is NOT worth the effort.
I would take a Libra man into consideration as a love partner only after HE had proven, through his actions and for a LONG period of time, that he was a wholesome and loyal person and not a w*ore.
In my humble opinion, the only time they are worth the effort is when they have made a decision, and have decided to include you in their life. Other than that, not worth it. Ladies who try to push a Libra man to a decision or commitment will know how they set themselves up for game playing. Libra men need space to make decisions – they are terribly afraid of making wrong ones, especially in the realm of love – this is wholly important to them as it is the fabric of their soul. Plus, they like freedom and need true love.
I have been seeing this guy for 4 months now and yes he is a libra,He is handsome,shy ,laid back and can be very sweet at times and sometimes not so sweet.One day he will be all over me and the next day act as if he don’t know me,but he can’t stand to see me geting attention from other men it kills him and it shows all over his face he will tell his friends that he don’t care but when we are alone we go at it, and sometimes he can’t help his self he will go off on me in front of his friends it do matter who’s around.He like to get all of my attention when we are out partying with our friends we party at the same places and he want me to be up under him when there are alot of men around, I find him to be very possessive and controlling he want to have his cake and eat it too, This libra ***hole will look at other women right in front of me and not just for a second are 2 but as if he want to be with them too, he want to have other women and me too, he want to control me and know my every move and get upset with me when i flirt are dance with other men are if other men ask me out.I never said that i was his girlfriend and he never said that he was my boyfriend just friends,when we are out partying and we see each other like i said he will act like he don’t know me but will watch me the hold time cuting he eyes at me.I don’t like to be ignored and he does this to me ,at times he will talk to everyone but me he will speak to my sister and friends talk to all of his and everybody else and wait for me too come to him,some of the other women that he deal with will be around and he will not say anything to them but they will come and be all in his face and yet and still this libra ***hole will keep watching me when he see other men in my face.We have had sex 4 times already and he keep coming back i’m aries women and i don’t like games and i like to be number ONE, and this is not the first libra ***hole that i have been with in life i find them to be very sneaky,losers,want to have there way all the time,possessive,control freaks,liars, jealous hearted,attention whores,cheaters,don’t no what they want,confused ***holes,o’ yah i forgot to say whores? he’s not worth my time he’s not worth being in my life, I’m A DIVA I’M STRONG BEAUTIFUL AND VERY SMART, AND STRONG MINDED, AND I KNOW HOW TO GET WHAT I WANT ,I’M 29 YEARS OF AGE HE’S 22 HE HAVE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS A MAN AND THAT HE COULD HANDLE A WOMEN LIKE ME AND HE SURE DID SHOW ME THAT HE CAN NOT I FEEL LIKE HE’S A LITTLE BOY TRYING TO PLAY GROWN UP HE NEED TO STAY IN HIS LANE? AFTER THE FOURTH TIME WE HAD SEX HE BROKE DOWN AND TOLD ME THAT HE HAD A 7 MONTH YEAR OLD DAUGHTER NOW I NEW ABOUT HIS 2 YEAR OLD SON BUT NOT ABOUT THIS LITTLE GIRL,NOW HE SAYS THAT BOTH OF HIS CHILDRENS MOTHERS ARE WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND THAT HE IS NO LONGER WITH EITHER ONE OF THEM I DON’T KNOW HOW TRUE THIS BUT I REALLY DON’T CARE.WE ARE NO LONGER SEEING ONE ANOTHER ANYMORE AND WE HAVE STOP SEEING EACH OTHER BEFORE AND STILL GOT BACK TOGETHER?HE IS VERY UPSET WITH ME RIGHT NOW FOR TALK AND DANCE WITH OTHER MEN IN FRONT OF HIM AND MINE YOU THIS WAS A DAY THAT HE DID NOT REALLY WANT TO TALK TOO ME BUT HE STILL WANTED TO WATCH MY EVERY MOVE AND BESIDES I DON’T CARE BECAUSE 2 OF HIS LIL GIRLFRIENDS WAS ON HIS HEELS AND HE WAS ON MINE WATCHING ME. I’M MOVING INTO MY NEW APARTMENT SOON AND HE ASK IF HE COULD MOVE IN WITH ME AND I DON’T THINK ,SO FIRST OF ALL I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS MAN FOR ONLY 4 MONTHS AND HE ASK FOR A KEY HE WILL NOT HAVE A KEY TOO MY APARTMENT NEITHER WILL HE HAVE THE KEY TOO MY HEART? LIBRA MEN ARE ONLY GOOD FOR ONE THANG AND HALF OF THE TIME THEY CAN’T EVEN DO THAT RIGHT, HE’S STILL YOUNG AND VERY YOUNG MINDED I HOPE ONE DAY HE GET HIS **** TOGETHER ? YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN, I’M DONE?
Tiama LOV AGAIN ,THE GAME , It’s been a week and a day now that i have not seen are talk to the libra ***hole i did find out through a friend of his that he ask about me i think he just want my sex that’s what he keep coming back for? When we are out he will keep following me from one place to the next he like to set right behind me and my friends, so he can hear what we are talking about, He want me to feed him and f**k him rub him down with oils treat him like a king, And have other females on the side.He love the sex that i give him but he will act like he really don’t care when his friends are around , he like for me to kiss all over him tease him and some more? he like the way i dress and i evening think he like the way i came to him first and ask him out he like the fact of that i go after what i want and know how to get what i want. He love the fact that i’m strong and that i can go days without him and that i don’t need him, he did fool me because he was so laid back he was not loud and in my face and on my heels like most men that have came on to me , but once i get to know him i sure did see his true colors and how immature he was. See it’s like a big game to him and he want too play, one day he loves the ground that i walk on and the next day it’s like he don’t care for me really it was a time he disappeared for like a week and come back looking for me? SEE LADIES IT’S LIKE THIS WHEN YOU RUN A CROSS A CONFUSED IMMATURE WANT TO HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO LIBRA boy ? YOU HAVE TO PLAY THE SAME GAME THEY PLAY BUT BETTER HE DISAPPEARED AND SO DID I HE FLIRT WITH OHTER WOMEN , SO I FLIRT WITH OTHER MEN HE LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN IN FRONT OF ME ,SO I LOOK AT OTHER MEN IN FRONT OF HIM, AND LIKE I SAID BEFORE ,ONE DAY HE WILL LOVE THE GROUND THAT I WALK ON AND THE NEXT DAY ACT LIKE HE REALLY DON’T CARE FOR ME AND SO NOW I’M LEARNING HOW TO DO THE SAME THING TO HIM, AT FIRST I WOULD TRY TO FIND OUT WHAT WAS WRONG WITH HIM THINKING THAT HE WAS GOING THROUGH SOMETHING ? HE WAS NOT GOING THROUGH ANYTHING THIS IS WHAT THEY DO PLAY GAMES ALOT ,SOME OF THEM THINK WITH THEIR MIND AND NOT THEIR HEART AND SO IT’S A GAME? I KNOW HE LIKES WHAT I GIVE HIM AND I’M FINE WITH THE FACT OF IF I DON’T GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANT HE WILL GO FIND IT SOMEWHERE ELSE, BUT WHAT I DO KNOW IS THAT HE WILL ALL WAYS COME BACK ARE TRY TOO IT’S UP TO ME TO TAKE HIM BACK, JUST LIKE THE COMMENT THAT I POST RIGHT UP ABOVE THIS ONE, HE LOVE THE ATTENTION THAT I GIVE HIM HE’S POSSESSIVE, JEALOUS,AND HE LOVE THE WAY I STOKE HIS EGO AND MAKE FEEL LIKE A MAN LIKE A KING. AND AS A ARIES WOMEN I KNOW WE CAN BE JEALOUS AND POSSESSIVE WHEN WE REALLY CARE FOR SOMEONE, BUT THIS IS NOT THE CASE I REALLY DON’T CARE TO SEE HIM WITH OTHER WOMEN IT DON’T BOTHER ME AT ALL , BUT I KNOW IT BOTHS HIM TO SEE ME WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND HE CAN’T HOLD BACK THE WAY HE FEEL, HIS ACTIONS HIS WORDS , AND THE LOOK ON HIS FACE TELLS ALL????? AND LADIES DON’T BELIEVE THAT BULL **** ABOUT IF YOU PLAY HIS GAME THAT HE WILL OUT SMART YOU AND BEAT YOU AT YOUR OWN GAME DON’T BUY IT IT’S BULL, EITHER YOU WILL GO BACK AND FORTH AND KEEP PLAYING THE GAME WITH HIM AND HOPE THAT ONE DAY HE WILL STOP THE GAME, ARE YOU CAN JUST STICK IT OUT WITH HIM AND HOPE AND PRAY THAT ONE DAY HE WILL CHANGE AND JUST BE WITH YOU?? HA HA HA HA, BUT IF YOU DON’T WANT TO PLAY THEN GET OUT OF THE GAME?????
Those of you that are in a established relationship with a Libra, did you do the pursuing or were you the one pursued? My relationship hasn’t been established yet, and this guy showers me with attention and I could tell he likes me. But I don’t want to come on to strong.
Ok, I have a question. I am a Virgo woman who likes a Libra man. Ok, we first met in a club. He came out of nowhere and ask to show me a popular dance move. We dance for like 3 mins it was great. When I look at him I instantly felt for him. He was tall, handsome just perfect! My friends said after we danced he try to get my attention all night but I didn’t notice. I left the club wanting to know him. Fastforward I seen he was tagged in a pic from a club of one of my facebook friends page. I sent him a message and we quickly began chatting. At the time I was ending a relationship. 4 months later I hit him we met at a local beach. I started flirting and things got hot and heavy. We do live like an hour apart from each other. Now its been 6 months and we hardly communicate. I have text him a couple of times saying I give up and when I do so he texts back sayin i’m special to him and he’s not angry at me. I want him to know that I like him and would like for us to have a relationship. It seems as if we have some miss communication between each other. So, yesterday I got up the nerve to call him. He was on the phone with someone else and it rang like 2 times and he click over to talk to me. I said hello, he said hello. I asked him if he was busy since he was on the phone he said kinda of.. What’s Up? I said I wanted to talk to you for a little bit. He said ok, let me call you back. I got all excited but he didn’t call me back last night. What should I do??
Hi Shauntae and the entire gang!!!!!
How’s everyone doing?
This response is for Shauntae, do nothing…..Don’t text, call nor pay attention to him.
Ignore him, nothing makes a man more crazy towards you, than knowing that you are NOT desperate for them ( contrary, it turns them off ).
The more you ignore them, the harder they will work for your love and attention!
I have to run out now, but I will come back on later to elaborate for you….
@ Aqua Angel Thanks can’t wait for u to come back and tell me more.
@aqua angel and SHAUNTAE:
I agree on aqua angel comment….Ive done it all my life
AND i NEVER what so ever complain about men IGNORING ME…
maybe cause I never care about them!.
i WANTED to comment about this long time AGO!.
all girls complain about men dnt returning txt,
call fb inboxmes,etc.
regardless of the SUN sign…
and If YOU DNT care LIKE me…you will never
exeperience that!….
is as if men SENSE that u
r DESPERATE….I see it wiht my gf in real life too!.
to do that u have love ur self FIRST…that means
you love to do things alone…you have to set priorities
like god, family, sports, friends,and men in last place!.
take it from me im a virgo with mercury and venus in libra!