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Venus in Scorpio (aka “the love detective”) and Mars in Gemini (or “Peter Pan”) form an unlikely but doable romantic pairing. This couple has an uneasy bond that may never feel entirely comfortable, but it is nonetheless designed to help them both grow and learn about the lessons of love and intimacy.
Watery, dark and deep, Venus in Scorpio only reveals her secrets to those she trusts completely. Sex is the terrain that she navigates most easily in relationship, and in this area she excels. Her suspicious nature can be challenging, but her loyalty when she commits to a partner is do or die.
Mars in Gemini has a way with words and uses this ability to charm and seduce those he wants. This mercurial Mars is a whirlwind of activity and motion, pursuing his mate with a fast-paced energy that can go in many different directions at once. In bed, Mars in Gemini has a creative mind and knows how to put his skillful hands to good use.
Venus in Scorpio, with her depths and need for complete emotional intimacy, can shudder (and not in a good way) when she encounters Mars in Gemini’s butterfly on steroids, his desire for constant mental stimulation and communication. In turn, Mars in Gemini may feel trapped by Venus in Scorpio’s desire for deep, emotional processing. He just wants to feel free, after all….
This couple finds a way to come together when Venus in Scorpio opens herself to learning how to move more freely through the tangle of her emotions. She can draw on Mars in Gemini’s airy energy as a resource which can help her learn to communicate more clearly about her feelings. Mars in Gemini emotionally matures by following Venus in Scorpio’s example.
As this couple learns to not only dance with each other’s differences but also benefit from them, they are able to alchemically transform both individually and also in their relationship with each other.
Well Pisces, I would have to say “Mars in Gemini”, known in smaller circles as “Peter Pan only all grown up and all sexed up” indeed has a creative mind and an ecclectic taste in companionship. The universe gives some people an extra dose of that something, something that makes some more captivating than others and this “Mars in Gemini” has that. We all play different roles in this universe sometimes we are the teachers sometimes we are the students. At this particular time you have something to teach. Venus in Scorpio aka ” curiosity killed the cat ” knows you have that special flair the universe sometimes gives an extra dose of and was checking to see if you were using it for good or evil. No worries about “feeling free”, your cosmic companion is an Aquarius. Talk to the people behind the scenes Aquarians can do “free” like no other sign. We wrote that book, and we did the workshop on that. It is always fun to be friends with Peter Pan,,,,but it is also easy to be Peter Pan when no one is shooting at your front door.
Just to clarify the last comment was referencing the stuff I told u about in the news.
I embody both these placements in my natal chart. Getting
them to cohabit is work : /
Mars in Gemini, if you must go, know this you are a fire starter. I don’t know what they call it on this page, or that page, in this religion or another. In this state or another but you are a lover of the mind and I am quite competent a great lover of the body as well. May your passion always be the glory to God that it is. The world could use a few more men like you.
@ MerDeNoms :
Can you tell me what you go through with relationships? Do you find it impossible to commit due to trust and boredom issues?
thanks.
No boredom or game playing issues here. I live in a small town in southwest county and my family has been plagued with domestic violence issues ranging from bombs being left under cars, granade launchers on roofs, guns. (google Hemet PD) This has been happening since the end of last year. Most of the officers are no longer on social networks and we were instructed not to let anyone new on them if we were still on them because some of the gang members that are stalking us tried to do it through Facebook as well. I violated that order by letting you on. 2 people have been arrested so far but there are others and the officers’s wives sometimes will post pictures of their whereabouts or make reference as to where they are going. Its a closed community right now, we do not even go out dancing without having armed people around until everyone involved has been arrested. Its not drama, because in real life it is not fun only tiring. I feel connected to you but I have my orders for their safety. How can I overcome that???????? I wan’t to know you and I am trying here but if you truly want me to not I wont.
I would prefer if you did not close that door.
Instead give me ideas on how to reciprocate this. And if you have an idea on how to navigate the whole facebook issue I am all ears as well.
Nice write-up. Can you do Venus in Gemini, Mars in Capricorn?
Ok.
I know it’s a little too soon, but the Scorpion in me is always thinking 10 steps ahead and curious. Last weekend I ended up meeting a handsome Latino. At one point I was dancing with his friend and then went to a different floor with my girls. He found me dancing by myself and started dancing with me, he immediately introduced himself. At that moment I really didn’t think much of it because I was at the club and rarely take the dudes seriously. Anyways, he never left my side after the introduction. We actually had good chemistry especially on the dance floor. We were being silly, and I was being my normal self throwing in a little seduction for fun. He was hooked. I’m a shit talker because I’ve seen it all with dudes from the club, he asked where my bf was and I told him I didn’t have one. He asked why, I told him I haven’t met a man yet lol. Anyways when it came time for my girls wanting to leave, he walked with me and offered to give us a ride home..mind you I live on the other side of town and he had his boys with him. He made his boys wait for 30 minutes while he drop me and my girls off at home! Also, he was holding my hand all night and at one point of his boys tried to hit on me, the Gem was like “Hey, that’s my lady you’re talking to”. So of course, he ended up leaving an impression on me even though I typically don’t like Gemini’s. He’s been texting me every day, saying how beautiful I am and he wants us to work something out aka get to know each other and see where it goes. He’s been calling me baby and sending me little kisses via txts, at one point he told me how for some reason he has been thinking about me all day. Is this dude for real or should I put up my horse crap meter? He’s very charming and a sweetheart, I’m still shocked he offered/gave me and my friends a ride home the night we met. Problem is: he didn’t text me all day yesterday and hasn’t text me yet this morning. I usually try to steer clear of Gemini’s, never dated them– just know them through friends. Naturally I’m the type that I want something, I’m going to go get it. I know Gem’s are flighty, so is it ok for me to just wait until he texts me or what?? Like I’m drawing a blank here, and normally I can read people pretty well. Are Gemini’s naturally upfront? He’s also Latin so that might make things a little different too lol.
@scorpionbeauty
Take your time. Get to know him.
Its nice that he dropped you and your friends home. But, any man wanting to make a good impression on a woman is going to DO something initially to look great in her eyes. The quality men KEEP doing it.l. So, since he is two men in one body, get a chance to see both keep it up. Lol.
@NovLady
Thanks for the reply, that’s what I figured. I just wanted to see another perspective to make sure I’m thinking right etc. Definitely a new experience, and that’s the first time a guy really pulled out the stops like that which almost seemed too good to be true. I’m talking to him right now about how I’m sad that one of my good friends is going to Peru for awhile, and he was like “Aww don’t cry when I head to Nicaragua for 3 weeks….I just hope I don’t come back to you being with another guy”
This will definitely be an interesting ride for sure.
I’m the Gem in Mars and he’s the Venus in Scorpio. Will this write apply to the male being the Venus sign and the woman being the Mars sign?
Are we compatible? His bday 10/26/1962 and my bday 6/18/1971. I’ve known him since 26 and I’m so attracted to him. We recently went out on some dates. We didn’t have any sex at all but the chemistry is there. I haven’t gotten physical with him at all cause I know it would be so passionate. I think he ran away! How do I get him back and should I? I really am getting older and looking for husband material at this point.
Thx!
Natasha