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Socializing, good conversation and stimulating ideas are shared areas of interest for Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Libra. Their connection flows easily, and in fact they sometimes get so used to getting along that they don’t know how to handle conflict gracefully when it does arise.
Venus in Aquarius needs freedom, space and ingenuity in relationships, and would rather make up new courtship rituals altogether than engage in those that are too traditional or that emerge from the “dark ages.” This Venus is not impressed by standard romantic gestures, preferring offerings that are different, unique and forward-thinking in some way. Venus in Aquarius expresses love in quirky and unusual ways, letting others know that she cares in a manner that is as intriguing as it is weird. Though this Venus can sometimes seem detached and cut off from her heart, she may simply need a little more time to let loving feelings settle in and digest.
Mars in Libra is hopelessly romantic and absolutely thrives on being in love, but this Mars is so eager to please that he can adapt easily to Venus in Aquarius’ need for the new and unusual. Mars in Libra shudders at the thought of conflict and so will do anything to bring calm and balance into a relationship. It wouldn’t be wrong to say that he is almost aggressive in his desire to avoid and manage anything that even approaches a (gasp!) fight. For this reason, Venus in Aquarius’ somewhat detached and intellectual manner feels safe to Mars in Libra, as there is a comfort in knowing that the fights are likely to be few and far between. This couple would do well to occasionally risk deeper waters, diving down into the raw emotions that can keep things juicy and alive.
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About the Author
Fern Feto Spring is a counseling astrologer, tarot reader and writer whose sessions blend intuitive and practical insight with compassion and humor. With over 20 years of experience, she incorporates a variety of tools into her consultations. Besides her private practice, Fern teaches classes and workshops nationwide. She also works as an intuitive consultant for businesses and organizations, providing counsel and facilitating organizational development workshops. More info at: www.wisestars.net
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Could you please do Venus in Aries/Mars in Taurus next? Thanks!
from what i know men with mars libra are the absolute WORST men to have relationships with..and i am speaking both from myown personal experience and the experience of other women i know.
thay have been horribly jealous obsessive manipulative and sex addicts and some have other addictional problems like alcohol or drugs and some even violent.thats been the case with at least 7 seven mars/libra men i know of.
though the woem are usually great.
Hi Fern,
Just wondering….. will you be posting venus in aquarius mars in leo? -my guys venus is in aquarius and i would be really interested to read about this combo.
Thanks
anyone can help, i can’t seem to find a blog about aries-pisces compatibility. i’ve been talking to this pisces guy who’s born only a week apart from me. we have the same planet placements except for his sun and moon.
me:
sun in aries
moon in aqua
mercury in pisces
venus in aqua
mars in libra
him:
sun in pisces
moon in saggi
everything else is the same except i dunno his ascendant. i’m pisces rising btw.
@ kate,
i couldn’t agree more. I just got out of a 5 year toxic relationship with a mars in libra guy (he was also a gemini) and he did get violent, definately manipulative and horrendously jealous. Being a pisces is even worse because I’m so passive, i easily fell into his ways. Definately makes more sense now.
So very true! I love that my guy hates fighting!
me and my bf – so true ! we have this amazing connection that none of us can explain but we love it and enjoy the ride … we intuit each other without words… my venus in aquarius and is mars in libra + his venus in cancer and my mars in pisces … And our sun signs Aquarius and Leo – kinda good right ? 🙂
For all those commenting above.. pisces(water) and all air signs it is a no go… I ve been there and done that….