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Venus in Virgo, Mars in Aries compatibility

June 24, 2009 by Fern Feto Spring 8 Comments

VirgoLike Felix and Oscar in The Odd Couple, this combination has an almost comical chemistry, defined by their very different approaches to love and sex. They can’t help but bang heads as they each try to get their needs met — yet as they push through their conflicts and learn to navigate their challenges, they have the potential to ultimately build a dynamic and lively connection.

Venus in Virgo wants to love and be loved, with great attention to details and specifics. She needs to feel like she is serving and being served in love. When Venus in Virgo cooks, cleans, massages, or organizes for her sweetie, she is expressing her deepest heart and emotions. Venus in Virgo channels her romantic feelings into practical forms that may seem mundane to others, but that are very heartfelt to her.

AriesMars in Aries, on the other hand, is like a fire storm, pushing boldly in the direction of his needs and desires. This Mars wants what he wants, and he wants it NOW. Impatience is a vast understatement when applied to this planet/sign placement. Like a marauding raider, Mars in Aries takes no prisoners on the path to love. Courageous, risk-taking, brash and exciting, this expression of Mars is pure fire, acting first and thinking later.

When these two energies meet, Venus in Virgo can feel overwhelmed by the sheer passion of Mars in Aries, and need to retreat and defend. This may manifest in Venus in Virgo as outrageous nitpicking and criticism directed towards Mars in Aries. Mars in Aries may in turn feel blocked and confused by Venus in Virgo’s ability to break things down to the smallest denominator. When Mars in Aries would rather “go, go, go,” Venus in Virgo is saying, “no, no, no”.

This couple would benefit from really practicing the art of walking in the other’s shoes for a day, just to get a sense of the nature of their differences, so they can then reconnect with a broader sense of perspective and a greater sense of compassion.

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About Fern Feto Spring

Fern Feto Spring is a counseling astrologer, tarot reader and writer whose sessions blend intuitive and practical insight with compassion and humor. With over 20 years of experience, she incorporates a variety of tools into her consultations. Besides her private practice, Fern teaches classes and workshops nationwide. She also works as an intuitive consultant for businesses and organizations, providing counsel and facilitating organizational development workshops. More info at: www.wisestars.net

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  1. Sunniskye says

    June 25, 2009 at 11:56 pm

    I dont quite understand the order that you are doing these. I am really interested in your analysis of Venus in Libra Mars in Scorpio compalibility. Did I miss it?

  2. fern feto spring says

    June 26, 2009 at 1:23 am

    hi sunniskye,
    I’m doing these by request and Venus in Libra/Mars in Scorpio was done a couple of weeks ago, but the content is still available on the sight, just click Venus/Mars above and you should see all the posts that have been done so far…
    thanks for reading,
    Fern

  3. Sunniskye says

    June 27, 2009 at 2:08 am

    Oh okay, thanks for responding so quickly…

  4. Meghana says

    July 2, 2009 at 5:55 am

    Hi,

    Can you give me the analysis for Venus in aries (my boyfriends) and Mars in Aries (mine). I have a venus in leo and his mars is in taurus.I am libra moon,libra rising with cancer sun and he is leo moon, cancer ascendant,& aries sun.

    Thanks
    Meghna

  5. fern says

    July 9, 2009 at 10:19 pm

    Hi Meghna,
    I will put your request on the list-should be up soon:)
    thanks for reading,
    Fern

  6. Dana says

    December 27, 2009 at 12:30 pm

    Could you do Venus in Virgo with Mars in Cancer and also Venus in Virgo with Mars in Libra? Thanks!

  7. fern says

    December 28, 2009 at 8:28 pm

    Hi Dana,
    I added your requests to the list-they should be up in about two months…
    thanks for reading!
    Fern

  8. Lovepsychic Readings says

    July 18, 2011 at 1:15 am

    What an exciting combination. Venus like to serve while Mars wants it now. Truly compliments both personalities.

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