How to keep a Scorpio man interested

Scorpio manScorpio: Mysterious, deep, intense, sexy and brooding. Intimidating? A little. Intriguing? A lot. So how do you keep this particular astrological specimen from getting bored, complacent and blah about you and your relationship? More to the point, how can you contribute to the health, vitality and sustainability of your relationship with a Scorpio man?

Relationship games may entertain a Scorpio man for a little while, but they aren’t the core of what keeps a Scorpio man “on the hunt” with you. So while you may find that making him jealous and trying new sexual positions seems to elicit some kind of response from him, the response you are likely to get is probably not what you you’re going to want over the long term.

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  1. cancergirl1 says:

    i am in a relationship with a scorp and yes he is very jealous ! when we are together he calls me gorgeous and beautiful.i work part time and he takes me to work and sometimes he drives by
    to see me-but i think that maybe he thinks i am not really there that he is testing me.
    i feel taht he trusts me because he has told me i am the only one he trusts.
    i do love him and i know he really loves me and wants me to be happy and i am most of the time.
    but once in-a -while i get a little sad, maybe it’s because i am getting older and i realize how fast
    life is passing by.he wants us to live together and own a home but right now neither of us are in a position
    to do that ( a big decision) i want to design my own jewelry and i have other ideas in my mind.\
    maybe i feel as if he may hold me back because he is jealous.

  2. This blog has been real quiet for awhile. I hope it is a good thing and the ladies/gents are moving on.

    On August 15, my scorpio came back, sitting outside my home at 9:30 PM calling me and asking me where I was; pleading to please call him. (I have soundproof windows and probably went to sleep. When I hear the message I called him back just to calm him down, he is lonely and I wonder Why? He called again on August 21, we talked for 30 mins. His past seems to be caughting up with him and he is at home alone.

    Don’t get me wrong I love and care about this (Man) but he doesn’t get it……..and can’t seem to change.

  3. I always fall for appropriately placed Pluto . . . maybe it is my 8th house Venus . . . we don’t just want someone’s heart but their very souls. At the same time what we desire most is also what we fear the most.

  4. curious757 says:

    how to keep him???

    ‘best LOVE his momma!!


  5. I have only been talking to a scorpio guy since a little before his birthday on Nov 7. He just turned 23 years and I am 30 years. We met at a local grocery store here. He was checking me out and we talked and exchanged numbers.

    He told me that he had just ended a 3 year relationship 3 weeks before we met, but that he was really trying to move on and start dating other people. I told him that we should just start out as friends and see where this may go. He asked me about sex from the very beginning and I told him that we should just wait. We made-out heavy for a couple of nights and this past weekend I was off so I asked him to plan us a little something to do (i.e., see a movie, drive into the city, go out to eat) but he never called me.

    Thursday of last week was the last time I heard from him. He won’t return my calls or text messages. I am really confused because he always would tell me how much he couldn’t wait to see me or how comfortable he felt around me.

    Any ideas? I would hate to think that he disappeared simply because he had not had sex yet?

    Hunter (p.s., I’m a Cancer, July 19)

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