Are tired of the dating game? Before you resign yourself to being a solitary soul, consider a Cancer woman! You may not have noticed the shy yet seductive quality that exudes from every Crab. Her head slightly tilts to one side as she sympathetically listens to the woes of a friend, and a tinge of desire beckons from within you.
So how do you turn on a Cancer woman? Not easily. If you have plans to get in her pants, unlike her Cardinal cousin Aries, she isn’t interested in “wham bam, thank you ma’am” sex — there are some hoops to jump through first. Don’t take her out to dinner, take her home. Cook old-fashioned dishes like your mom used to make. Play romantic dinner music, light the candles, and be sure to stack your bookshelf with cookbooks! Take her on a tour of your home so she can size up the potential of bringing up kids there. Have photographs of your family placed throughout so she can see in her mind’s eye what her children will look like.
When it comes to coital matters, go s-l-o-w! To set the mood, cuddle and hold hands. This sends her the signal that you are safe and won’t use her. Don’t be afraid to talk to her about your past, your childhood, your relationships, your heartbreak — it will bring out that mothering quality in her, making her feel comfortable with you. The key with Cancer is emotional security.
[show_to accesslevel=’All-Access’]All the emotions of a Crab are locked inside her shell. To bring out the sexual goddess inside her, the Cancer woman needs romance. Let her know you think of her by “whispering” sweet nothings via email or text message throughout the day. Roses will melt the heart of every Cancer lady, as will keepsakes and gifts. The most important thing to remember about the Cancer woman is to develop a mood meter! Hers are changeable like the Moon, her ruling planet. She will expect you to know her mood at any given time — master this, and she’ll be forever yours.
The Cancer woman is no great sexual adventurer. However, she is easily influenced. Tell her how great her breasts are, and pay lots of attention to them. This will unleash the mother in her — and in the bedroom, that translates to domination. Once she has unleashed her inner animal, let her take charge … you’ll think you’ve got a Scorpio on your hands, making the hard work worthwhile![/show_to]
About the Author
Cassandra Tyndall is an avid professional astrologer based in Sydney, who offers readings to clients locally, interstate and all over the globe. Known for her passion, skill and honesty, Cassandra combines traditional and modern techniques to enhance specific predictions for individuals, couples and businesses. She has been a regular contributor to the annual WellBeing Astrology Guide, and is the resident astrologer for Australia’s Women’s Health & Fitness magazine.