How to make a Pisces man chase you

PiscesYou’ve got your work cut out for you, because Pisces is not exactly a chaser. A man born with the Sun in last sign of the zodiac is essentially passive in nature, more inclined to going with the flow than going for what he wants. At the very least, the Pisces man is not “in your face” about his attraction. He may woo you with song and poetry, or hope that just by “sticking around,” something will happen.

If you do want to be stalked by a troubadour, you need to fit his ideal image of a woman (or a man, for that matter). Pisces thrives on inspiration, and if it’s not coming from his inner muse, he’ll look outside himself for someone to stir his insides.

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  1. I already ddiiiid that’s why I left him quietly cuz I got bored talking to him and saving the relationship

  2. i knooooow but you feel shocked hes not getting ahoooold of you because y’all were already off and on. It’s not healthy. He most likely won’t come back unless he wants sex.

  3. ITA with NP

  4. known pi-guy for 2 years as friends only. Long story with ups and downs even as friends…we over came it and a relationship is beginning. hasn’t been an easy start but we’re willing to try…

    the sag in you..I’m cap with sag in… I forgot what… but that placement with Pi isn’t good in our synastry. We can make it work though if he can overlook this and I can overlook that in him between those placements.

  5. @Cap-tivating

    I’ve been out of the loop! Apparently, much has happened! I hope being friends first makes for the best foundation.

  6. NovLady!! yeah I’ll have to tell you..soon..short on time right now!

  7. why is it that a Pi man can ignore you but when you give the same treatment in return, give them their space, they get pissy? I mean..seriously?!

  8. @CAP-tivating,

    you can look at it one of two ways…

    Pi is in Pissy…

    Pis–s is in Pisces…

    and I hope that those who’ve been ignoring me, continue to do so… coz I’m the opposite… those who chose to p!ss on the P! make me p!ssy… 😀

  9. I like the “don’t be too available” part. True, if a woman shows that she’s to open, she might be sending the message thus can be misinterpreted by the guy. Get your act straight girl friend and lure that Pisces in all the right places.

  10. True to the word, fishes are not chasers rather they are the one’s being chased. Good luck in catching one.

  11. tauruslove1234 says:

    I’ve been with Pisces guy for 1.5 yrs and my life is so unpredictable now. I’m Taurus and I love to love show him d world take him places but I don’t get much in return. Sometimes hez so nice and caring but d very next day hez so cold for no reason. I realized the more I chase him d more cocky and comfortable he gets and it’s like he preys on my attention and love. I confront him abt it but he just tells me life is too short to be mad sad. I really need to detach myself from him so he feels wot I’m feeling . To make a Pisces chase u just him make him feel insecure

  12. To make a Pisces man fall for you all you have to do is support him in his dreams, show him you appreciate him and treat him like a king, he will be putty in your hands!

  13. curious757 says:

    Definitely INSPIRATION. A huge must. The woman must be above all else, be his “goddess” , a goddess who brings him inspiration in all forms. For his fully imaginative mind, it’s what he lives for.

  14. tauruslove1234 says:

    well i realized by being with my pisces dude is dat ever1 of dem act like their busy and dey dont respond… just tell him he needs to act properly now or else ur out of here… trust me he will pee in his panties also make sure whenever u hang out try to be a good girl dont be a bitch for no reason show hom respect and then scold him on d spot if he behaves bad with u… they just need some1 to guide dem they are not gentlemen … they r very indecisive and. insecure and will always come back after some time

  15. I have been dating a pisces guy for 9 months. The first 6 months he was the most considerate and loving person. Now he is cold and calls or texts me once to twice per week. He told me he internalizes problems in his personal life. I figure he is so stand offish because he is off in his fantasy world with his new job. Which requires him to travel throughout the week. We spend less time together and when we do spend time together he tells me how much he misses me and how much he has been thinking about me. He gets real nervous around me and sometimes cant keep his hands off of me. The sex is great, he sensual and passionate, but the down side is I dont like the feeling of only being good for one thing. What happened to the dates and whats up with the Pisces disappearing acts. Sometimes I get random calls asking me to come over and of course that is a call for sex. Its a dysfunctional situation because I am a Gemini. I need communication and he no longer gives me that and I dont like feeling used. So I guess my solution is simple date other people or walk away. If its meant to be he will get his act together and date me. If not no more bedroom priveledges for him! im sure he can find someone else to satisfy that need.

  16. I met this pisces guy abt two years ago and we instantly connected. We met up a while later and I fell in love with him.we don’t live in d same city,but we communicate pretty well. I think he is love in with me(he’s neva said so),he says we have a connection he’s neva had with anyone and I believe him cos I feel d same way too. Howeva,its been 2 yrs and we seem stuck in a rut. I hardly see him,and he never seems to want to take d initiative to get together. Sometimes we seem to lose touch( no calls,no text) for many weeks and I get frustrated. I thinks this isn’t working and I tell myself to move on( I have even tried dating other guys),but then he calls and apologises for his absense and I m back to square one… In love with him and optimistic about us. I want to get married soon and start my family,but I dnt know where he is on dat. He talks abt it casually somtyms… Lyk how he would make sure I had 6 kids for him in 6 years(joke, of course). Does dat mean he is talkin abt me as a wife and mother of his kids? I m goin crazy literally cos I really love and care for him and he is just perfect for me in everyway. I m a virgo and very decisive,so I can’t stand his indecisiveness.

  17. Alyssa (pisces) Price says:

    can pisces and pisces be together or would their relationship suck? i have been getting mixed signals on different sites (obviously lol)… well i really like this pisces guy who’s b-day is a day after mine!

  18. Alyssa (pisces) Price says:

    y does everyone hate pisces???

  19. BubblyFishy says:

    Hello, as a fellow Piscean, I’d like to share some traits that I have noticed in Pisces men (generally speaking). This is only what I have seen so far in my fellow fishy male companions though, so it may be different here’n’there ;

    THEY :

    * Don’t like being told how to do things (what man truly does though? Haha)
    * Carry many masks with them and almost expect you to be psychic on what mood of the day they are currently wearing (this becomes draining over time though)
    * Like their privacy and a fair amount of space to the point of being indifferent about you (they will be calling/texting you only when THEY miss you).
    * Like being “the man” and having their ego’s stroked (just don’t overdo it too much or they’ll start assuming you’re not being sincere).
    * Usually stay pretty quiet about their true feelings (they just have too many of them! Haha)
    * Have a tendency to try and woo girls they have quickly rejected in the past (this is so confusing for me – may be part of that indecisive nature they have?)

    That’s my list so far, hopefully it helps a little bit. Pisces people are slippery by nature, so it takes a bit of effort on your behalf to catch their attention (once you are successful though, they will be there for you no matter what). Also, even though there are some similar traits among people according to their astrological sun sign, please don’t overlook their Moon signs, it’s a definite eye-opener.

    Cheers and Good Luck!
    (Pisces Sun, Aries Moon)

  20. Juliet A says:

    Hi,jst want to say dat most of the things said here abt pisceans are true. I’m sagittarius n I have a pi friend dat making life frustrating to me. I’m have tried most times to undstnd his nature, bt he is being more slippery and I can’t cope with dat. I like him a lot bt I jst can’t figure out how to make him want me more. I have known abt a year now. Thanks!

  21. I had a thing with a male pisces coworker in may. we r both pisces sun im Aquarius moon hes leo moon and we r both venus in aires. at first he qas playful hed shootrubber bands at me and just acted goofy. he was gopfy the whole summer then recently he just stopped. hell still be nice but he doesnt joke around and hell tell me he has alot of work to do so he cant talk but hell go and sit woth other coworkers and talk their heads off. im frustrated with the lies I dont get what caused the shift in his personality. ive been trying to figure him out for the past few months being a pisces I know how we are but man im tired and emotionally worn and I think im going to move on and pretend we never had anything…since thats how it seems he is. any advice or suggestions?

  22. Ok, first, understanding half the lingo in this newsfeed is brutal, seriously, talk normal people! Ok, so I’ve been seeing a PI for almost 4 months (can’t believe I’m even writing this) but, the first two months were insane, in an amazing magical way. Everything was natural, easy, surreal, but then he wanted to have, “the talk”, which put a serious crinkle in our relationship. His concern was that I was starting to care quicker than he was, which he was spot on, so, I backed off. Three weeks went by and he wante dto have “the talk” again, basically repeating our first “talk”. He didn’t want a “relationship” and all that was tied up into a relationship as he had just come out of a 24 year marriage where his wife left him for another man. Anyway, taking his past and concerns into consideration I backed off again, but this time reciprocating his actions. I would only text when he would text and I started delaying my responses and at times not responding at all. Then, he decided he wanted to “date me officially” after realizing that I was disconnecting from him. The first twe weeks were amazing. I followed his lead, until just recently, about a week ago, I noticed he completely withdrew, said he wasn’t ready to go into an all out free fall and that he felt I was wanting a life long committed relationship. Where he got that from is beyond me, because not once did I mention any committal type lingo. The past 3 days I’ve noticed a serious decline in texts. I haven’t seen him in over 7 days because he was out of state, but even though he came back into town today, he did not stop in to see me. I haven’t said anything to him over text. he sent me a good morning text and I responded with a good morning, nothing more, nothing less. The instability is driving me insane. I am completely ok with the days he needs “his” time, but I am not ok with him completely disappearing without a single concern of me, what I’m doing, etc. I feel it is rude and incondiserate to someone you supposedly care about to just vanish on them. The day after his disappearing act, he comes to see me as if nothing has happened, a big smile on his face, wanting to play kissy face with flower in hand. I don’t get it! I’m ready to pull the plug because my heart can’t take it and I have no room for this emotional roller coaster in my life. I care so very much for him, but at what cost? When is enough, enough? I dont’ want to completely give up on him if he is sincere, but at the same time, he needs to decide what in the Hell he wants in life. If it’s not me, then I want to know. I’ve wasted way too much time in my past on indesive men, I’m not getting any younger and have pretty much run out of patience to feel like I’m in juinor high again. Is this a Pisces thing? Thanks

  23. By the way, I’m a Virgo

  24. I’m a Gemini Female & I been dating a Pisces male for almost 3weeks.. Like when we go out we have fun & he Cherish me. Like he call & txt me Goodmornin Etc.. But things started to change when I didn’t have sex with him. Now I barely hear from him… Can Someone Explain that to Me???

  25. IAm a Leo woman.. Since last year 2014 this Pisces guy have been tryna get at me and take me out haha I never gave him my number not replied to any of his messages or comments on social media.. So now the current year 2015 he gave me his number and hours later I’ve started texting him.. He was so anxious and happy that I’ve finally decided to take his number lol.. So that night we went out on a date it didn’t really seem like a date to me I was just acting how I would normally act with one of my female friends which I silly goofy flirtatious confident passionate and accepting of nature is that makes any sense.. He was very busy always on his phone because of course he’s a business man.. I didn’t really care to know what he was truly doin on his phone. But long story short he is a true gentleman with a strong nature and bold personality. He praises me with compliments and woes me with poetry. I like him as much as he likes me but I don’t really show because I dot wanna boost his cockiness nor want him to think I’m being clingy.. And I usually txt him back every 5, or 10 mins plus lol and I never make myself too available I say I’m busy when I’m really not

  26. I am an Aquarius woman & this Pisces man is really starting to piss me off like hell. He tells me he likes me but shows no damn interest in me. I call, I message, I once got so damn pissed mad at him I yelled at him. I also called him a liar (I told him, he said “he likes me but I am the one how shows the interest, etc & not him”) in the process of yelling at him. He’s showing me signs that is so annoying & unreadable. I mean does he like me & want to be with me or not??? I sometimes feel like he’s acting “too busy” just to piss me off. No replies to any of my messages or replies when he wants to. God, I am fuming right now even thinking of the way he behaves!!! Someone help me!!! Please!!!

  27. I’m a Very Leo lady of 62 dating a Pisces man for the last three years. Wow! The love of my life in every way possible. However, it has been an excercize in patience and tolerance, understanding and a lot of forgiveness. He’s a bundle of secrets, secret thoughts, secret goals, many, many secrets. He compartmentalizes everyone in his life. Everyone is kept separate and kinda of in the dark so we don’t figure out his true motives. Secrets. But I have the patience and know that I already have him figured out way before he does, I don’t want to pop his bubble. He waits until the time is right then springs into action and confides everything. He’s my kind of weird. He’s charming and women love him because he’s such a nice guy. He needs a woman to trust him and share his journey with him. Very sensitive. I’ve learned to watch what I say and how I say it because he takes it to heart. He’s calm and mellow and I’m a type A personality. I’m full of energy and like to play. I keep him young. He treats me like gold, and he should. They need someone whose silently in charge to guide and support his dreams. I’ve never had so much fun as I have with this Pisces. Lots of patience.

  28. SandySue says:

    First let me say ,NO WOMAN should have any patience or tolerance for a man who plays games.

    The “Disappearing Act” is well known of all Pisces Men; whether they are your significant other, friend, co-worker or sex buddy.

    Majority of the time when Pisces men vanish from our life, its usually something that the female has done to upset them and there too sensitive to handle it. It can be something as simple as laughing at the Pisces Man almost tripping and falling cause they are not paying full attention to area that there walking in. They will stop all contact, for a week or longer and when you finally give in to call them, they choose not to answer the phone because they have found a new girl to comfort the minor bruise that you caused a few days back.

    Why any woman would put up with that is ridiculous. If a man cant see your golden self worth, despite your flaws and imperfections. THEN YOU NEED TO LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!

    So what if he was so damn sweet, nice, the perfect gentlemen to you in the beginning…PISCES ALL ARE, especially the ones who dont want to be in a committed relationship. Those uncommitted Pisces men is sitting back relaxing, flirting with you and several other women through text messages, patting themselves on the back as they say to themselves….SOON I WILL HAVE HER AND SOON WE WILL HAVE SEX! And as soon as you show them any type of affection they are going to drop you like a bad habit, crushing your wittle heart in the process.

    95 percent of Pisces men know exactly what they are doing, when they do it. They will romance the hell out of you so they can make you puddy in there hands and here are signs of what 97 percent of what women do when they fall head over heels for a Pisces.

    1. As soon as a Pisces man call, you quickly pick up the phone (always answering, and if you do miss his call, you damn near drop your phone trying to call him back right away.

    2. Any time he Text Messages you, you quickly reply in a flirtatious manner…even with him saying something as simple as Hello

    3. If you already had plans and he calls you at the last minute, because you havent seen him in a while…you quickly forget about your plans, just to jump in the car with him and go anywhere he wants to go cause you don’t want to risk not seeing him again.

    4. you tell him you just want to be friends, but a week later with all the flirting he does, you spread your legs or are making out with him cause you dont have the mental strength to turn him down..

    I could go on and on with signs but I will not, YOU GET THE MESSAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  29. Akilah cleary says:

    I don’t think that works in treated my pI like a king and was very supportive and right before he graduated from fire school he dumps me and tells me he doesn’t want the relationship anymore..

  30. Akilah cleary says:

    I don’t think that works in treated my pI like a king and was very supportive and right before he graduated from fire school he dumps me and tells me he doesn’t want the relationship anymore..but still want me to go to his graduation..he’ll no..

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