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The Astrology of Kink: The Sagittarius Adventure

September 19, 2008 by Laura F. Walton 69 Comments

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Leather and lace, fringe and fetish … in this series, we’ll take a peek at the kinkier side of the zodiac. Each sign has its own distinct sexual flavor; by combining the various tastes you find in the natal chart, each person’s unique sexual recipe begins to emerge. What makes the Sagittarius so special?

Sagittarius is represented by the Centaur, half-human, half-horse. Ever visit a stud farm during breeding season? Equines who are otherwise decent-enough working animals are insane with the urge to breed; the only thing standing between the animals’ urges and utter rutting chaos is the intervention of human handlers.

It’s lucky for the rest of us, then, that Sagittarius has its human handler built in — if they’ll stoop to obeying him or her, that is. The sex drive is strong, impulsive, and somewhat conquest-oriented, and some Centaurs end up with more notches on their bedposts than Virgo has little pills.

Sagittarius has the ability to easily separate sex from emotion. Security and intimacy are important to Sagittarius, but are not necessarily linked to their fiery physical drives. Spontaneous sexual adventures and one-night stands are usually guilt-free; Sagittarians hate restrictions of all kinds, and the occasional bout of unrestrained sexual freedom can be deeply satisfying in a way that other signs might not readily understand.

Sagittarians also make fantastic sex workers, especially if the job calls for live action on demand. They’re not necessarily the show-offs of the sex industry, but practicality and physical vigor more than make up for any lack of showmanship.

[ad]This is a mutable sign, and its ruler Jupiter lends a cavalier streak — Sagittarius will try anything once. They’re not fond of labels (labels equal limits) but will sometimes compromise outwardly in order to maintain security at home. Hence, you find a large number of naturally pansexual Sagittarians maintaining the appearance of a monosexual relationship, while dallying elsewhere with members of both sexes. They’re also attracted to the idea of open relationships, but, like their opposing sign Gemini, sometimes find even open agreements tough to keep; restrictions are restrictions, after all, no matter how generous!

Oddly enough, Sagittarius tends to pick up specific fetishes more readily than any other sign except for Virgo. Stocking fetishes, latex fetishes, more esoteric fetishes like pony play or other role-specific “musts” … you name it, a Sagittarius will adopt it, at least for a little while. The difference between Virgo and Sagittarius is persistence; a Centaur’s fetishistic interests tend to fade abruptly. This sign explores things thoroughly, yes, but then moves on to the next unexplored sexual arena with little warning and even less regret.

Both Mars and Venus in Sagittarius are equally prone to this adventurous outlook on sex. The Sagittarian Sun shares it, too, but most Centaur Suns tend to settle down eventually, and turn their expansive urges toward less physical conquests. No Sagittarian can tolerate excessive restrictions, though, no matter how settled they seem. Confinement is always uncomfortable, and when the horizon of possibilities begins shrinking around them, it’s only a matter of time before they react, with all the desperation of a claustrophobic mustang in a broom closet.

If you’re the kind of person who values spontaneity, adventure and fiery independence over certain security, you’ll love Sagittarius. Give them plenty of room to explore all the fascinating experiences life has to offer, and you’ll have a lover who is affectionate, playful and vital. Try to fence them in, and all you’ll have is an empty paddock. Think you can handle this free spirit? If you can, it’ll be the ride of a lifetime.

About the Author
Laura F. Walton is a writer, artist, and arts instructor based in Texas. She has been a practicing astrologer for nearly ten years; she specializes in areas of sexuality, individuality, and creative self-discovery. She has contributed forecasts for print media, and currently provides monthlies on her blog Astro What?

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  1. angelineelise says

    September 19, 2008 at 1:05 pm

    Great post Laura, as usual!!

    “Adventure” is the perfect word for the Sag bed play…yummy and exhausting!

    Sags are also very great to be with because of the bluntness…both on their end and their appreciation of yours! They aren’t really good with the teasing, to put it lightly.

    Like Sag Julianne Moore in ‘The Big Lebowski’ when she breaks into ‘the dudes’ house and gets into his robe and when ‘the dude’ shows up she just drops it and says…”Jeffrey..love me.”

    (I loved that! Jeff Bridges is also a Sag and that movie is like one big fat Sag adventure.)

    Anywho…I love this post and I love the Sags on the streets and in the sheets…great people!

  2. Anonymous says

    September 19, 2008 at 4:38 pm

    I used to feel enthusiastic about Sags, males in particular, that is until I realized how much they lie. They are truth seekers oddly enough, but they tend to lie alot through omission. Not outright lies, just leaving important details out of the picture.

    I’ve had Sag males screw plenty with my mind twisting it into believing thier weaved tales. I dunno. My Sag male was not adventurous in bed, but rather stale. Most times, it felt like he wasn’t even there with me and it really wasn’t intimate or very enjoyable. It was more a selfish adventure for him and I received little to no satisfaction out of it.

    Wish I’d have had a better experience, but honestly, my Sag was into drugs, reckless behavior, impulsive moves – and just generally unpredictable. I’m a Taurus and that energy doesn’t fit me. It’s unsettling to me and frankly, he looks wishy-washy to me. Like a car doing 60mph down the road and he’s sitting in the backseat drinking a beer wondering where it’s going.

    Great guy, lousy boyfriend. Sorry Sags. I’m sure there are many of you out there with a tad more self-discipline than mine had though. We should’ve just remained friends.

  3. Valkyri says

    September 20, 2008 at 1:29 am

    “They’re not fond of labels (labels equal limits)”

    Haha, love it!

    I’ve had a few sag lovers (and friends) through the years, and it fits all of them well. I see tinges of my partner in there too, and he has a sag moon (and I suspect rising, but that’s all speculation) – then his sun is in Cancer, so he has the tendency to live through his moon.

    I also agree with angelineelise up there, that they tend to be experts in the art of tease.

  4. Anonymous says

    September 20, 2008 at 4:23 pm

    To Anonymous Taurus,

    Hey if you cant handle the “FIRE” and the mess in the kitchen, get your boring, routine loving earth sign out!

  5. Matthew The Astrologer says

    September 20, 2008 at 6:50 pm

    Absolutely agree, angelineelise. If you want to know Sag… rent The Big Lebowski.

    And also, Anonymous… be careful not to make the same mistake we all do about painting all of one Sun Sign with the same brush.

  6. fallen-astro-angel says

    September 20, 2008 at 11:55 pm

    I’m a Sag…with Venus in Scorpio (and Scorpio rising).

    I’m a conquest maniac to the extreme, but I will sacrifice the need to roam if my partner will let me possess them….mindbodysoul, all of it.

    Usually, the best way for my partner to keep me in line is via domination…..or crying to me (yeah, I’m a sucker, Moon in Pisces, and a crying man renders me faithful). I like a strong, but emotional, male.

    We Sag’s are not ALL a bunch of sluts and cheaters. Some of us are just sluts, but we can keep it with one freak, if we find them πŸ˜‰

    @anonymous taurus: About “lying” Sag…leaving out the details. Um. We honestly don’t think they are important. Even in books, I get pissed when the author goes on and ON about the way something looks bla bla bla. I’m thinking, “Okay, and then what HAPPENED?!?!?!”

    We will always tell you when your butt looks big though.

  7. Mu'Min M. Bey says

    September 21, 2008 at 11:11 am

    Well, did someone bring up us Archers? LOL

    I was just saying to a good friend and colleague the other day, during a conversation about noted social critic, writer, playwright and jazz music expert Stanley Crouch, who is about as known for his multiple marriages (three of em, a White, Black and Latin woman – there’s Sag’s love of variety for ya!), Scorps ain’t got nothin’ on us Archers. Remember Captain Kirk and that Green Lady on Star Trek? Kirk was DEFINITELY a Sag.

    I personally have the Moon in Taurus and Venus in Capricorn in my Western/Tropical chart, so that inclines me a bit more toward the settling down type, at the very least, to being a bit more upfront about playing the field. I just never had much tolerance for all the gyrations and game playing, so if I was interested in a lady, but didn’t have an interest in a relationship, I’d simply tell her that and that I was very interested in a sexual encounter with her. Of course, that line of argument netted me a couple of slaps, LOL, but one would be surprised to learn just how many ladies out there are game for a no strings roll in the hay. If nothing else, putting your cards right on the table, in a most respectful way of course, says that you’ve got balls.

    And women, really, really, like that! Even if they’re not interested.

    Just my two cents; in the words of the great philosopher Dennis Miller, I could be wrong.

    Holla back

    Salaam
    Mu

  8. fallen-astro-angel says

    September 24, 2008 at 5:57 am

    salaam aleykum mu

    how is that spelled?

    anyways, you are such a centaur! haha. i’m a sag female, and you archer boys annoy the cheese outa me. but i do appreciate that i ALWAYS know where i stand with ya’ll. that is SO ANNOYING about all the other signs (except maybe scorpio). no one else really knows how to be CLEAR and make things so simple, straightforward. afterall, who wants to play a game if the rules haven’t been properly explained? duh!

  9. KP says

    January 28, 2009 at 2:59 am

    Dude, seriously.
    Sags are asses. They just are.
    It’s their nature.

  10. gin says

    July 26, 2009 at 12:04 am

    Sag,aries,sag,cap,scorp

    Ok, first off I don’t lie, I do not reveal the whole truth, but only because I don’t think details are important. Seriously it eerks me when others want details from me as if trying to catch me in a lie… when I just don’t care or even remember minute details. We are forgetful to a fault. We tell it like it is even if you don’t want to hear it but not because we don’t care, its simply that we aren’t as touchy feely as earth, water and air signs. It does not evan occur to us that it may be hurtful, if we do realize… we WONT go there.

    As for your bad sex… well you just weren’t suited for each other. I once had a pisces guy that wanted to stare deep into my eyes and whisper sweet nothings until dawn…literally dawn. It bored me to death. Imagine my sag mind energetically going from here to there whilst he droned on about himself. I actually timed how long it took for him to realize that I had not said a word… yes 8 hours. Basically we love adventure, action, intrigue, physical games that forever change. Too much of a good thing is just too damn much… so you cant really blame a sag for not being “there” while in bed. To tell you the truth he was probably trying his best to visualize you as someone else, doing something else, some where else… and it obviously showed be cause once again, we SUCK AT LIES.
    Even in completely committed relationships we have to feel like something is changing. But once we find the catalyst we become enthralled and hand our hearts over like a little child giving away his favorite toy. Oh, and if you hurt us once we give our heart to you trying to rekindle what was once there is like trying to light a candle that has no wick.

  11. rabbit says

    July 26, 2009 at 11:49 pm

    Gin – I couldn’t have put it better myself.
    I’m a fellow sag

  12. LibraLady says

    October 2, 2009 at 12:46 pm

    A lot of Sagitarius friends of mine used to head to swingers parties, I never went with them after hearing them describe the action plans….EEEWWWWW
    Its funny, of all the people I know the Sag’s are the most open about sex….Like they dont care who knows or whatever… Libras are sexual beings that hide their inhibitions but Sag’s seem to leave magazines out in the open, a devil may care attitude… LOL

  13. kismet says

    October 6, 2009 at 2:52 pm

    we sags don’t really lie. we just leave out details. and any sag that teases isn’t a true sag. LOL!

  14. kismet says

    October 6, 2009 at 2:53 pm

    @ LibraLady

    Lol. we never hide. ever. sometimes to our own detriment. *shrugs shoulders*

  15. LibraLady says

    October 13, 2009 at 11:50 am

    kismet

    I’ve met Aries that blush at Sag’s ways πŸ™‚ And thats really something πŸ™‚ I wonder what happens in a Sag/Libra relationship…. going to read more about this. Libras are kinky people behind the bedroom door, do sag’s kiss and tell? I mean can a Libra be with a Sag without the whole neighborhood knowing or comparing photos ? LOL

  16. kate says

    December 11, 2009 at 9:11 am

    wow something i have learned in the post is that person says a negative thing about her expirience and ALL the sagitarians are up in arms.
    but really you guys are VERY quick in the sack and there is nothing good about that.
    i have also noticed sag men like very strong aries type women maybe to dominate and even slap them around a little. hmmmmm.
    kinky bunch

  17. Euromerican says

    December 13, 2009 at 6:26 pm

    Wow, these posts are pretty on point. I am a fellow female Sag and I agree and disagree with some points. Whether a person lies or not is not gonna be determined by their sun sign. I personally don’t lie. The importance of particular details can become an issue only because we see things differently. We don’t want to seem like we’re full of s*** going through unimportant details, so it’s to the point we go. Relationships are always tough because of a restless nature. We desire a continuity of freshness so that we always feel alive. If our partner’s sex becomes a bore, then on to the next we will explore. It’s our undying urge of conquest and growth which makes us ever so unattainable. If you just can’t love that, then you’ll NEVER be good enough. We are pretty open people, so the possibility of open relationships is interesting, daring, and risque…all of the things we crave. Once you’ve wronged us, we’ll “forgive” you. One thing is, we rarely let our defeaters see us sweat, and we ALWAYS get our sweet revenge…usually remaining to be playful in our endeavors. I personally don’t like to make messes of things. One thing that is great and important is that we love to love. We may not be the greatest partners, but we have amazingly enormous hearts, and we spread our love everywhere we go. Bless all of you fellow Saggis!!!

  18. LibraLady says

    December 18, 2009 at 5:38 pm

    Euromerican
    I know you Sag people love hard and fall hard, my brother has been broken hearted as many times as I have. He is with a wonderful Aries girl right now, what a pair! I love seeing them together (no not that way, mind out of the gutter, Sags)
    They make a beautiful team

  19. Taurusmen says

    February 8, 2010 at 12:53 pm

    Personally been thru relationship with 2 Sagittarius. And I can tell u that the Sags are like birds. Don’t ever try to cage them in any sort of ways cause in the end it will definitely end up with Armageddon.

    For any earth signs, my advice is if you are dating a Sagittarius, don’t ever believe that they will adore your ways of life. They may be for the moment, but one fine day they will decide that its not their cup of tea and they will not bare any responsibility for what they said early. If you thinks you cannot accommodate to their way of life then pls find ways to leave this relationship while you can. Else you be wondering what hit you so hard and fast.

    If you think you can accommodate then make sure u let them lead their life while you find ways to keep yourself occupied while your Sags is busy venturing at the moon and does not want you to be there.

    Of course you can join them an their adventure if they as you to, else leave them to their on.

    Regarding sex, well definitely boring for me. As a Taurus, I think I enjoy it with a Pieces partner.

  20. yoda says

    February 8, 2010 at 3:43 pm

    I am not happy with Sag. males, I have dated one since last June and he lied, he is tight with money, he cheated (and deny it in my face until he confessed)and he is VERY SELFISH!
    I fell for him in a blink of an eye, even he was not someone I was attracted to at first and broke my heart when went back to an ex that himself let go…Sags and Aquarius are not for me. I guess I should know as an Scorpio woman not many men are ready for me either. πŸ™

  21. Taurusmen says

    February 8, 2010 at 10:47 pm

    Well take it easy yoda, the sags are just not our type. We can’t blame them too much its, just in their blood. We just have to make sure the next time when we have a new candidate, find out more about their horoscope before we board the ship.

    For me, each time I give in believing that time will adjust different signs together. Hell I was wrong. What ever the horoscope says is their main character that’s the one to watch out for. If we can’t accept that then don’t jump into it.

    Oh look who’s talking, the sucker who manage to be with 2 Sags for more than 10 years. Hehe.

  22. Gemini girl says

    February 9, 2010 at 12:18 am

    Hi everyone. First time dating a Sag man and he is so darn fun, intelligent, charming, witty and smart. He isn’t the most handsome man I have ever been with but you totally get through that with his bright eyes and his true sense of humor and fun. Any advise for a first timer at this with Sag? We have been out 3 times and have just started to kiss…..

    Thanks,
    Gemini
    P.S. I am 42 and he is 55.

  23. Taurusmen says

    February 9, 2010 at 7:20 am

    Hi Gemini girl, I can’t say whether it will workout between u two but since I got a Gemini friend who I know luv meeting new people but at the same time criticizes, so may advice will be that both of u will have great time on adventures in group, but since Sagittarius dislike constrain of any sort even if u mean well, try your very best not to criticizes him in anyway or make him understand what u want from him or else one find day you will be left wondering what happen. On ya another important point, they do not face an argument like a man, and tend to keep quite as such u will be wondering are they committed to making the relationship work. To make it simple, they will only do something that they like and they will never be happy doing anything you like.

    Since you Sags is 55, maybe you have a good chance, because they may have been tired down by their adventures and may want to settle down. Good luck.

  24. Gemini girl says

    February 9, 2010 at 12:24 pm

    Interesting information! Thank you. My Father is a Sag and he is one of the nicest man you will ever meet. That being said, he doesn’t treat my mom very well at times and I hate that trait in him. Not that is strictly a Sag trait, but he can be very negative because he entrenches himself into World news etc. I am enjoying myself immensely with him. We talk and talk and we have such a great time together….and yes we do have chemistry….

  25. Joselyn says

    February 21, 2010 at 11:45 pm

    Sag girl 26!!
    Currently dating Taurus male 29..Calm Collected, routine puts me in his corner and guards me all the way but where is the excitement, the crazy stay out till dawn because the music was tooo damn good and the drinks were going down to easy!? Life in security and comfortable arms is nice but there has to be more of a connection that just sex..great sex at that! But no fire before and after the sex is gone and we are left saving penies for a rainy day and talking about future pans! I wanna live today and spend money tonight! where’s my fire sign again this life is way too boring here on earth (sign) Taurus… Love is great but passion is my base for love, as well as most Sags!!
    Continue to rock the zodiac fellow SAGS!!! xo

  26. Butterflygirl says

    February 24, 2010 at 4:48 pm

    All I gotta say is…whooooo. We made love for the first time last night and boy does this man have it going on. All about pleasing me…what a change. He loves to touch for hours and hours. Gives the best oral ever and this man is like the energy bunny. I asked him when he was going to be clamaxing himself and all he could say is “baby, it’s all about pleasing you and continued on”…whoo. I am so post coital right now I swear. I went by his place this a.m. and made love again….it truly is amazing. Thank God I have knowm my Sag for 6 months. The basis of him making love with someone is getting to know them and feeling comfortable. We are both feeling much comfort with one another emotionally and physically. When we made love last night the first thing he said as he entered my body was “I’m not going anywhere sweetheart”…so beautiful..He is a keeper…..

  27. hotkiss12 says

    March 5, 2010 at 10:11 am

    I am a Sagittarius and we are very spontaneous and love adventure. We are a free spirit and can not be caged no matter how hard one tries. We seek and want to experience new things and we don’t conform well to routine when it comes to rommance. We are flirts and love to tease by nature always making the moment interesting and exciting. We are excellent lovers in and out of the bedroom! We love the daring rendezvous….any where every where. Oh yes, if there are people around it never bothers us…lol!
    If you ever get the chance to be with a Saggie…take it!! IT IS ONE FUN RIDE YOU WILL NEVER WANT TO GET OFF OF!!! WE ARE HOTT HOTT LOVERS!!

  28. Gemini girl says

    March 5, 2010 at 6:19 pm

    Yes indeed! I can’t get enough of my Sag man. He is fun, smart, outgoing, charismatic, freedom loving like me, business minded and oh so red hot indeed. I love that fact that he loves to touch me so it is SO refreshing not to have a wet noodle to hold hands with. So different from the Cancer guy I was dating that constantly goes into his dark hole and can’t seem to get past his own BS. Sag is the man for me and I so very hope we are building a great foundation because I want this one to last….

  29. mz_coco says

    March 5, 2010 at 8:38 pm

    I must say we sag’s are special if we let you stay around long enough to find out LOL…Omg as a woman I have a sex drive out of this world I will try anything at the drop of a hat. I love to please my mate it is a must do for me. I love romance and rough play at the same time it doesnt make a difference to me. I have a libra man that I so badly want he has the romantic side that draws me but he wont let me see his freaky side that is what makes me want him even more the fire in me burns to find out. I dont lie and will tell you the cold hard truth..at times I will omit some things in order to not hurt your feeling. I dont like to feel trapped that drives me crazy I have to have one foot in and one foot out of any situation..As far as relationships go I like open relationship but I can be faithful when I want to!!!! Peace and luv to all my fellow sag’s

  30. Gemini girl says

    March 6, 2010 at 11:25 am

    My Sag and I had a wonderful so cherished evening last night. He loves when I pamper him and we love to cook together, make love, etc. He told me that he has never met such a giving person before and this is all new to him because I also love to please him in so many aspects. He is 13 years old than me but it feels like we are so close in age. We made the most intense love last night that was so truly amazing. It was so romantic as we were eating dinner because we looked into each other’s eyes and we said to each other “will you be mine”…and we both said yes. Then while we were making love we both said it again over and over. I can truly say that this man is very special and I hope to continue to give him the freedom he needs with his business ventures, sports he plays, etc. I am thoroughly enjoying him indeed.

  31. Having trouble with Sag man says

    March 13, 2010 at 6:49 pm

    Hello,
    Been seeing Sag man for about 3-4 weeks now but have none him for at least 6 months. I am 43 and he is 54. We both have strong business minds which is nice but Sag man doesn’t pamper me enough. He had taken me to dinner but it just seems like I keep giving more in the relationship. I have cooked several meals for him and am always able to spend quality time. I know his work keeps him busy around tax season but am I asking a little too much for a little time here and there? Also, where are the flowers or little cards? I told him today that it is WAY to early in our dating relationship to skip on the romance. About now we should be frolicking so much in the sand and having fun getting to know each other that it is wonderful. He seems to be stuck a little in the past and his old relationship which is quite upsetting too. I’m not ready to cut him loose quite yet but I am a little frazzled because I expect romance pretty early in a relationship. He is a very nice, warm man….but I don’t think it’s too much to ask for us to have a nice foundation of more romance, etc….thoughts please..not ready to give up yet….

  32. sag 24/7 says

    May 9, 2010 at 5:08 pm

    Saggis RULE….our ego will tell us nothing different

  33. sag 24/7 says

    May 9, 2010 at 5:12 pm

    oh and for the love of everything good….dont tell us what to do; it will not end well for you

  34. Taurus male says

    June 12, 2010 at 5:25 pm

    sag women need strong men to define their identities. It’s hard for them to slow down and they hurt many partners through the process of “finding” themselves.

  35. Taurus male says

    June 12, 2010 at 5:28 pm

    strong doesnt necessarily mean easy and that would make sense. sags arent easy to be with after they catalyze and move on to whatever they see next.

  36. Super Saggie Gal says

    June 30, 2010 at 10:37 am

    Lol, reading these posts has made me crack up at all the Sags antics.
    I love how Taurus people dislike our all over the place energy… But I don’t get it, don’t they get tired of being boring?

    I do feel bad that we hurt others (not on purpose) with our promiscuity, but the way I see it is that others get attached for no reason… Sex is just sex, it’s like jogging, or playing soccer, the more diverse, the better, I run and bike almost every day and each time I try to take a different path than the day before or explore some new area… Same with men, I’m really, really lucky to live in a big city where there’s no gossip and I can sleep around without having people judge me.. And the best part is, my city is so diverse so I get to try out all the hotties from pretty much any nationality I want..

    Regarding lies… I think it’s good to be straightforward. The biggest insult for me is a lie.. I rather my boyfriend sleep with someone and tell me than lie to me about where he is, even if he’s alone. I hate it when people lie to me, it’s like they don’t trust me, I can handle pretty much any truth and find the most ‘horrible’ ones entretaining.

    The top three matches for me have been Sag, Sag and a Leo. But all of them are in different countries right now, we all love to travel.

  37. sag...24/7 says

    June 30, 2010 at 2:44 pm

    @ super saggi girl….i couldnt agree with you more! i dont think a taurus and a sag will have a successful relationship unless that sag is just as boring as the taurus…i hate to say it, but i just dont think it will happen.

    i was talking to a my boo last night about the sag blogs and i told him that i found them to be really judgemental of sags…i know its helpful to dicuss problems here and there, but what about the other persons’ problems, it cant always be the sags fault..

    my most compatiable (sp?) is Sag, LIBRA, and my scorpio male…i know scorps and sags dont go together, but our natal/compatibility charts were out of this world…

  38. Phenix/scorpio says

    July 2, 2010 at 2:47 pm

    hmm the sag sounds better on this thing. I met a sag guy prolly the worst guy i met to date. Maybe something was wrong with his chart or soemthing.

  39. Sag24/7 says

    July 18, 2010 at 9:25 am

    Confinement is always uncomfortable, and when the horizon of possibilities begins shrinking around them, it’s only a matter of time before they react, with all the desperation of a claustrophobic mustang in a broom closet.

    *couldnt have said it better myself…..a claustrophoic mustang in a broom closet….pretty much

  40. archerdiva says

    July 25, 2010 at 3:24 am

    I agree that us archer girls are nymphos lol but it doesn’t mean we should sleep around it hurts the natural inosence we have that draws good men to us along with our bouncy humor or the fact we can’t stay on one conversation subject for five minutes. I want to see us be better than letting our passions control us. Yes we have passions that burns with our fiery nature but let that encourage you to be spontaneous in bed to keep a boring relationship alive, we can’t depend on other people (like our significant others) to entertain us or “my lord I’m leaving this is boring” if a relationship is dead leave it. But try to keep you passions to a boyfriend or preferably husband that way it doesn’t hurt your morals or integrity. Depressing your natrual inner happiness we cherish… *just my two cents* love all you archers out there

  41. Sag24/7 says

    July 25, 2010 at 6:54 am

    word

  42. Super Sagi Girl says

    July 25, 2010 at 10:12 am

    Mhmm I’m not sure if i agree. I really don’t feel guilty about it. What is the problem of sleeping around if you’re doing it safe and it’s not affecting your life? In a big city you don’t get a bad reputation since people are from all kinds of social groups. I don’t sleep with two friends or people that know each other, and what I do only my close friends end up knowing so it doesn’t affect my school/work life. It’s actually unnatural to be completely monogamous and many people know this and live by it. It only hurts your morals if you feel guilty and your integrity if you hurt others.

  43. archerdiva says

    July 26, 2010 at 12:35 pm

    True but one day you will find someone who can handle the heat and how will he feel knowing he wasn’t the only one that severel guys had sampled his girl

  44. Sag24/7 says

    July 26, 2010 at 12:54 pm

    @ super sagi girl, i try not to sleep with best friends, but it happens….but i dont feel bad about it….i dont think ive ever felt bad about the fact that i sleep around. I enjoy it. My sex life is compltely seperated from my work life…like my alter ego when i leave the office

  45. Sag24/7 says

    July 26, 2010 at 12:56 pm

    does anyone else feel claustrophobic when someone that your smashing wants to always be in your face? i mean even sleeping next to someone? i feel like im the walls are closing in..

  46. Sag24/7 says

    July 26, 2010 at 12:59 pm

    sometimes i feel so misunderstood as a Sag

  47. Super Sagi Girl says

    July 26, 2010 at 10:14 pm

    archerdiva, several guys sampling me? Lol, I see it the other way… how about I sampled them!? Plus who cares, it’s just sex… If he doesn’t like it, too bad. I don’t care how many girls he’s slept with, so why should he care? I will never tell anyone my number lol but I won’t pretend to be prude either. Thanks to experience I’m a good lover and never gotten any problems about it, on the contrary, they love me for it πŸ™‚

    Sag24/7 I know EXACTLY what you mean. One really weird thing is that for some reason, most guys I end up with want to move in together and start a family and I get freaked out and bail… Like right now I’m heart broken because my ex gave me an ultimatum… if I don’t commit to having a family and think of the possibility of marriage then he’s going to try to find it somewhere else… It hurts me a lot because I really like him but I definitely do not want to get married !! Ugh. I’m only 24 and already have gotten the same thing from 3 guys.. I don’t get it, I feel that as soon as they smell an independent girl, they try to put a rein on us and domesticate us πŸ™

  48. Sag24/7 says

    August 2, 2010 at 9:49 am

    @super sagi girl

    I sample men, they dont sample me….they think they do but they dont…i set the trap and i catch them. I will say that this scorp dude did seduce me but i was setting traps for him long before he made a move. He just happened to get caught in my bear trap by accident; an unexpected surprise.

    i feel where you are comimg from with this guy who wants to tie you down…i cant tell people enough that demands on a sag are only temporary and do not work…we may say yes just to get you to shut up and undress, but eventually we need O-U-T….In the end the other person making the demands ends up with an unhappy animal in their house! and theyve ruined a GOOD THING with their own need to feel secure and safe. I would call that selfish…I get that all the time from men and early on 2…they always try to tie me down and tell me what to do…PUh Lease

    like a dumbass i say yes and submit to their demands only to breakaway in a hail of destruction and theyre left brokenhearted and i got dirt on my hands for no good reason…and i get called selfish, egotistical, shallow, insecure, attention hog, etc…when all i tried to do was have a good time with them…

  49. Sag24/7 says

    August 2, 2010 at 9:50 am

    instead of just taking my lead and riding out the wave of adventure they screw it up

  50. Sag24/7 says

    August 2, 2010 at 9:51 am

    @ archerdive and super saggi girl….i have only told one guy my number and he was a Sag guy….

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