Leather and lace, fringe and fetish … in this series, we’ll take a peek at the kinkier side of the zodiac. Each sign has its own distinct sexual flavor; by combining the various tastes you find in the natal chart, each person’s unique sexual recipe begins to emerge. We’ve made it to Capricorn — it’s about time, too — and the sign of the Goat happens to be one of the most pivotal sexual influences of all.
Capricorn is the sign of authority and ambition. Saturn’s drive for material mastery is readily expressed in that most physical of physical-plane activities, sex. Capricorn lies on the projective, paternal end of the “mama/papa” authority axis, and has a strong influence on sexual preferences.
For one thing, depending on where Capricorn falls in the chart, it’s often a clear indicator of BDSM tastes. As counterintuitive as it may seem, Capricorn Suns (and sometimes Capricorn Ascendants) often like to be dominated, and dominated completely, in the bedroom. If this seems odd, think of the proverbial hard-driving executive who secretly visits a dominatrix for various forms of discipline, bondage, and sadomasochistic release. While urban myths like these are often completely goofy in many ways, they can sometimes contain a grain of truth.[notpremise]
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About the Author
Laura F. Walton is a writer, artist, and arts instructor based in Texas. She has been a practicing astrologer for nearly ten years; she specializes in areas of sexuality, individuality, and creative self-discovery. She has contributed forecasts for print media, and currently provides monthlies on her blog Astro What?
Great Article Laura!! 😛
I am a Cap Sun and Asc. and us Cap girls be lusty folk!
Man, what you said about the orgasm as directive is totally true..there is an element of work in everything we do and not having an orgasm is like surviving a long power point presentation without closing the account. There is almost a feeling of failure.
Almost all Cap girls I know have a “daddy” thing in bed too…
With my Moon, Venus and Mars in Aquarius though it modifies a lot of my Cap sexuality.
While I enjoy the domination THEME I have to have my partners work this out with thoughts and words…it’s a scary thing to be an Aquarius Moon and in handcuffs. It’s like hell on earth…or when last summers Burning Man got totally out of hand.
Oh and I switch (what can I say, handcuffs look good on other people).
What about a Cap sun/mars with Aries ascendant? Dominant or not?
I say top.
🙂
Bravo.
I have a good friend who is a Cappy sun, who is seeing a Cappy sun. They are both into TPE, and all that, and are both most definitely non-switchers.
Very interesting. Thanks again Laura.
Oh, I’ve been waiting for this article, and it didn’t disappoint!
Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Ascendant/Pisces Moon here. I have to say, so are so right about the dominant/submissive thing. I’m very much the dominant person outside of the bedroom. Inside of the bedroom, it’s about 50/50. I’ll have my way with them, but I need someone who’s willing to turn the tables on me. And boy do we treat naughtiness as an ultimate release- we have so many stressors on us, that it’s all about the O. I have a problem sometimes remembering to enjoy the whole of the experience.
Because of my ascendant (and I’m on the Sag/Cap cusp), I find that I’m more experimental and spontaneous. However, I was in a long relationship with a stereotypical Cap and he was very much “meat and potatoes”- it was less about the art form and more about stamina. I guess it’s all about what you like.
Thanks again for the article- very insightful.
Capricorn in bed = thank god you’re in bed, so you can go ahead and fall asleep during the event.
WTF is TPE?
WTF is TPE?…
Thank God you asked. I was wondering bout it too. I just didn’t want to advertise my ignorance unless someone else did it first….:-)
TPE (total power exchange) is a term sometimes used to refer to dom/sub relationships in which the submissive, or slave, hands over complete control to the dominant partner, or master, even outside the bedroom. Decision-making, scheduling, major life choices, etc., are made for the submissive.
What makes this different from plain old misogyny or bullying is that the exchange is completely consensual…everybody openly agrees to it, and derives long-term satisfaction from it.
I’m glad you all enjoyed this one! I could go on forever about Capricorn/Saturn; this is such a fundamental psychological and sexual influence, like the bedrock you hit behind the layers of the Libran/Venusian wine-and-roses, the Scorpio/Pluto mystique, the Gemini/Mercury sweet talk, etc….
At the risk of pathologizing, the psychologist in me wonders even what consensual means. I am not saying that all people in the BDSM scene have histories of sexual abuse — because I honestly believe that some of this is pure archetypal drive that is deeper than personal history — but if, say, someone has a strong history in which beatings during childhood were eroticized, and this person “chooses” to be in a relationship in which they are a sub, part of me thinks she is simply replaying her original abuse, just running the record player over and over, not really transcending, but rather re-enacting.
Well noted, Jeff, and I have some of the exact same concerns and questions…these are ongoing, so I may change my mind at some point 😉
The difference between reenacting and transcending has to do with learning and inner personal transformation. When engaged in a sexual activity that touches an old wound, there’s this deep pleasure/pain feeling– it hurts, and it dredges up all kinds of inner tension, but it’s also highly pleasurable. It’s like scratching a cut.
Finding that spot of pleasure/pain is Step One. Step Two is acknowledging that spot, and exploring it fully with courage and an open mind. Few make it to Step Two; it’s so much easier to just sweep these things under the rug and live a half-life of “proper behavior,” or denial, or self-deception of all kinds.
Unfortunately, some people never move beyond Step Two, either, because the activities involved in Step Two can be addictive, seductive, delicious; they can also simply become habitual, and people give up, out of fatigue or complacency or smugness or whatever. And there’s where your endless reenactment comes in.
To get mythological (sorry) Step Two is just the descent, the pre-initiation. Step Three, the actual first initiation, often involves something like walking away from one of these pleasure/pain-giving situations, or taking on a reversed role, or something similar, depending upon the situation in question. If you try to move into initiation before you’ve learned everything you needed to learn, you can’t pass. The doorway guardian (whatever that is for you) is too big, kicks your as*, and you get sucked right back in.
Step Three is the bigger pain and loneliness of the initiation itself (which can last years.) It’s a raw time, in which all your psychosexual nightmares and closet skeletons are laid bare, to yourself and, appallingly, to others. It’s not fun anymore; the layers of sexy mystique are gone, and all you’re left with is your wound, your “defect.” It’s no wonder we all stop here and retreat at least once or twice, sometimes indefinitely!!
Step Four? And Five and etc.? I’d use the word “integration” rather than “transcendance,” myself, but I think we’re saying the same thing. Somehow you have to bring what you’ve learned back into the world, use it for something productive, something for the good of the community and the world as a whole. You never, ever get rid of those things that led you into the initiation process in the first place– this is like the discussions we’ve had on forum about hard aspects– but you can integrate them and use them in a more conscious manner, for something other than mere personal gratification.
Working through universal lessons through sexuality is tough. I’d say that it’s one of the toughest paths there is; suicide and substance abuse is pretty common among folks along this particular learning curve. In a way, we’re all on it, but it’s also definitely a distinct path; it’s a legitimate one, too, but unfortunately not one that we, as a society, acknowledge as legitimate.
That’s too bad, because the lack of legitimacy and acceptance leads to the lack of ready help and guidance– all you get is moralizing, condescension, and denigration. Imagine someone whose learning curve lies in the political sphere– think of all the support, mentorship, and readily available intitiation guidance for this person, in comparison to someone on a sexual learning curve. This is changing somewhat for the better, though, and I for one am glad to see it.
Sorry that got so long-winded…!
your long answer is much appreciated. It does indeed seem quite difficult to jump off the hamster wheel and figure out why we even do what we do, let alone feel what’s driving us.
I’m not sure we can know what drives us, not until much later, anyway. This is where I think our expectations of talk therapies sometimes break down; you can intellectually know all the answers, the reasons, the trails through the psychological layers, but until you actually step forward and live your own experience, it doesn’t count.
And that’s why I’m so pro-sex and pro-identity-freedom, lol….
Oh my, I don’t stop by for a day or two and look at what I miss.
Laura answered the TPE question, so I don’t have to address that, but I do want to kick on on what Jeffrey said.
Psychology for me is a hobby, not a profession, and I admittedly don’t have a great deal of book learning on the subject, but I’m a student of life, like the rest of us, and I like to think I pay attention.
In the kink community, of which I have been kicking around in for quite a long time, I’ve observed a lot. My friend, the Cap, who likes to be a slave is from a perfectly loving and caring family. There were no beatings in her life, and her childhood was perfectly fine. I run across many people in the BDSM community that had non-violent, average, "normal" chilhoods, and they are just there to have fun. They like it. It gets them off. That's it. There are some that were never hit as a child ever, who have spanking fetishes. Maybe they feel like they missed out on something their friends got? Who knows.
Then there are the broken. There are the ones that learned that love came with pain, or after. There were those that don't know any different. There are those that are so messed up they reach for TPE as a living death, a place where they simply go through the motions dictated by another, and thereby relinquish any responsibility for their self-proclaimed pathetic existence. There are those to varying degrees ALL OVER the kink community. Others actually "regrow" themselves with their surrogate parents help and it is cathartic. Midori (google her) professes that humiliation play can be used to get over issues if done correctly.
There are those that are lonely, with poor self-esteem searching for comradery and a sense of belonging. Those are the types that call other subs "sister" and hug a lot. Rather than finding their own strength, they meld into the group. They were not necessarily beaten or neglected, those kind of things can be much more subtle than that.
So Jeffrey, the kink community, once you hang around long enough and meet enough people starts to look exactly like any random sampling of the population. The commonality is that they like BDSM type things, the rest, well – they're as good, bad, and ugly as people who have "vanilla" sex.
There are so many things that are "not for me" in that world, including domination and submission. I prefer good old S&M, a fun adrenaline pumping (endorphin raising) experience with a good dose of anticipation and surprise. Like, say, a kidnapping role play. My childhood wasn't great, but I wasn't anyone's (regular) punching bag, and I'm definitely not "living what I learned" or anything of the sort. Just having fun, living a regular life otherwise, and feeling like I'm getting the most out of my sexual experience.
Laura, I really appreciated what you had to say, though I think I've droned on long enough. I have nothing to add and no points to argue, but I wanted to thank you for contributing what you did. It's a subject that is near and dear to me too.
thank you, Valkyrie, for correcting my assumptions.
I agree- with Capricorn Sun, &Cap Asc. as often being into B and D or S & M.
I was involved wiht a Cap Sun who also had Cap ascendant.
AndI also had 2 best friend Capricons too.All were ..interesting in their tastes.
Most do switch back and forth (in my experience of course.)
Jeffrey, when you said Capricorn "happens to be one of the most pivotal" I laughed–because, it's my own experience that they're the most *kinky*.
(and btw, I have a Cap ascendant)
As for the thoughts and theories that perhaps there are underlying issues re: true abuse that motivate such predilections–I have found that to be true.
Yes, I definitely agree with Valkrie, that it's not always true. Of course not.
It's sometimes just about release from pressure and repsonsibility etc.
But really?I'd be very surprised if even some of those aren't a bit twisted down inside too.
It's my professional and personal experience that it doesn't always show, isn't always even *conscious*.
It's not a black and white matter, either where some people are just having fun, and some are just miserably going along wiht their partner's demands as they did in childhood with an abusive parent or teacher.
Many people who like "kink" like all kinds of sex too–but have difficult ambivalent relationships (to say the least) with their opposite sex parent , and most have some history of abuse–why do you think it turns them(us) on in the 1st place?
It's not always a need to be to be made into a total slave,or to be a dominant either.
But as Jeff said–some verbal or physical abuse was eroticized, and/or was connected less obviously, to an older person who shamed and abused them (in *some* fashion).
There is also, I've observed a lot of things that people more women than men, but men also, will do to get attention, or appear open or cool.A girl may not be depressed and going along wiht her bf's abusive demands–but she *may* be trying to act overly excited by what she thinks *he* likes.
Another interesting trivia point I want to add is something I learned many yrs ago– that's that apparently, S&M/B&D lovers are usually higher-up on the IQ charts too.
or who knows…maybe a Capricorn statistician made that up.;-)
THIS IS VERY TRUE I LOVE SEX AND I LOVE BEING IN CONTROL… I LUV TO TEACH AND TRAIN MY PARTNER WHAT IT IS THAT I LIKE AND LIKE TO PLEASE HIM AS WELL AS TEACH HIM TO PLEASE HIS SELF… MY QUESTION IS WHO IS CAPS MOST COMPATIBLE SEX PARTNER?
@Laura and/or Jeffrey: heyyyyy…so why does every other sign have an astroloy kink thing except aquarius? i’m a tad upset; i’ve been told we’re the most innovative sign in bed (big fat duuuuh) =P
laura
@ Laura: Aquarius should have an article…lemme hunt for the link…http://sasstrology.com/2008/10/astrology-of-kink-aquarian-experience.html
Try that, and I hope you enjoy 😉
@ Capricorn Girl: Traditionally, Capricorns are said to be most compatible with Taurus and Virgo (the other Earth signs) though Pisces and sometimes Cancer can work. Judging compatibility based on Sun signs alone is tricky, though! It’s best to check out a few more factors as well, such as Moon sign compatibility, Mars & Venus aspects, and Ascendant matchups. Good luck!
Caspricorn Girl, I think Caps are more sexual compatible with Scorpios, leos, aries and other caps. From my experience though scorpios have been the best.
This is True, I’m cap sun, moon, venus etc and I am definitely drawn to the darker side of sex, I’m a switch, I like being submissive more though, but being dominant is a lot of fun. I like edge play, I’m into s&m, can be very masochistic, I also have a sadistic streak sometimes. I think Capricorn and Scorpio are best compatible sexually, the intensity is amazing. They help us try things we want to do sexually but are afraid of trying. The darker taboo type things.
Very interesting, must add your link to my site.
What would you say about a female with sun, moon, mercury and venus in Capricorn? Ascendant of Cancer.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP! there is a scopio guy(capricorn raising) who i knows like me but wont approach me. I see him everyday and i catch him staring but when i look he turns away like he wasn’t lookin’. Even know we don’t talk i feel a incrediable connection with him. When i look into to his eyes i feel the surge(not just in a sexual way). am i crazy or does he feel the same too. ADVICE ANYONE. it might be my last chance because i’m leaving in a week.
I agree with Capricorn and Scorpio being the best sex mates. Both most likely would bring out each other’s kinky fantasies.
Question: How sexually compatible are caps and sags?
Haha! YESSSS!!! Cappy are by far the ones who love being submissive in bed!! 😉 My boyfriend is a Cappy and Im a Pieces and sometimes although the sex is so intense and liberating.. sometimes i cant even keep up with his kinky streak!! He loves being in total submission, blind-folded, calling me his Dominatrix and even fantasises out load of me being with other men.. the pure thought of it just turns him on.. i know its only a fantasy tho but this makes him all the more quirky which i adore. Yes ladies… these Cappy men love 2 be dominant in life and look after u but love the switch in role-play in the bedroom! 🙂 Its like 2 different personality melding together to make this Cappy an explosive rollercoaster of a ride!! WHOA!! Watch out girls!! 🙂 xxx
I loved this article. I am a Capricorn and a very submissive person in my relationships. I am currently looking for a master to have a 24/7TPE with. I always thought that the traits of a Capricorn made him/her dominant. So I wondered why I was a submissive. Thank you for this article.
@DIVASAG
im a cap man
i think caps and sags make good hot flings and one night stands,………. if you are into that sought of thing.
i dated a sag girl once, i liked her because she knew how to have fun taught me new things. the sex was hot and flirty. no real commitment,
after an argument one day she said “im tired of you and i think we need to see other people” I WAS CRUSHED ON THE INSIDE, so i said okay.
did not show one drop of emotion and walked out. went home and cried like a baby, damn she hurt me. after a month she was called me, she wanted to hook up i said would meet her but i never showed up.
I couldnt because i had gotten over it and did not want to open up like that again.
ooooooh….I’d love to be with a Capricorn man……..Is it really true, do Cap guys really get that dominant ? Do they like submissive partners or is it fun to wrestle first? What exactly does turn on a Capricorn man?
Mr Goat,
I dont blame you for standing her up. She wan’nt fair. I hate it when people hurt you and then expect you to forgive them without any effort to make it up….Its sad, but youll have the sattisfaction of knowing that women get this done to them too, many many times….Its a cold world
@ LibraLady
you know u live learn, i was young. the funny about that relationship was i knew going into it we where not meant to be, but i started catchn felins and i got caught slippn.
I know that feeling but it doesn’t stop a person from trying. We all do it, stay in a relationship just hoping that things will change, or they will….
I’m a cancer with a cap male. The sex we have is incredible. He loves to be dominated at first and I almost always have to initiate the foreplay. But when we hit the bed he likes to dominate and get on top. It’s perfect for me as I like the secure feeling I get from him on top but the kinky side of him is a real turn on as well. He can go for long periods and never fails to give me multiple o’s/ On occasion he has dominated and initiated the foreplay and anytime he does my heart races… I wish he would do it more often. At this rate I will never think of any other lover and if he leaves you better believe I will find another cap.
oh yay and i have capricron in my chart right along with my scorpio traits 😛 idk if this is good or not.
Pheonix/Scorpio
I think it just means your serious and more focussed….
Hello…first time chatting….I’m a taurus. (5/9/1974) My las relationship of 2 years was a Virgo,…or best described as (HELL ON EARTH) I felt like I was in a relationship, were I was on the outside looking in. With all the sex we had,… at the end I felt like I hadn’t had sex in 2 years. Sex is mainly complete with me when the love is strong. Anywho….before her I told myself I was gonna just do me and, you know, date…which really means, just have sex. I met this Gemini, she was so down to earth and so damn cool. Unbelievably so. I still get goose bumps when I think of her. But that had a terrible outcome as well. Sex was off the chain…but she was just so wild at times, to my disliking. She liked to be in the streets…went through money like water…but she was like crack to me, It took a lot to let go. Ok…Ok…I’m getting to why I’m writing – After the Virgo and the Gemini, I was totally f@%ked up. That was 2 years ago…now, I’ve met this Capricorn..whoooo…Just like me. It’s kind of wierd. My main issue is trust. Because I know that with a simple thought I could go out and f@&ked, then come home like it never happened. Not to mention….have it so it never ever gets back to her. But, its not what I want…it’s what I’m capable of. And because I know what I’m capable of, I know what she’s capable of. You have to first understand….I’m so determined to not be cheated on that i’m prepared to live the rest of my life with out a mate. And then, I have a best friend of 20 years who’s a damn capricorn…and he’s a stone cold h0@. Married and all.. I can’t play with that. And then, she’s a stone cold freak. Who know’s without hesitation what to do. I mean, its’s like she was built for sex, this woman. All in out she appears perfect for me. I’m just so damn tired and so damn afraid. Hpv…Aids…Herpes…come on man. Can’t we just find 1, and f@%k the h@ll out of them?
Hello…first time chatting….I’m a taurus. (5/9/1974) My las relationship of 2 years was a Virgo,…or best described as (HELL ON EARTH) I felt like I was in a relationship, were I was on the outside looking in. With all the sex we had,… at the end I felt like I hadn’t had sex in 2 years. Sex is mainly complete with me when the love is strong. Anywho….before her I told myself I was gonna just do me and, you know, date…which really means, just have sex. I met this Gemini, she was so down to earth and so damn cool. Unbelievably so. I still get goose bumps when I think of her. But that had a terrible outcome as well. Sex was off the chain…but she was just so wild at times, to my disliking. She liked to be in the streets…went through money like water…but she was like crack to me, It took a lot to let go. Ok…Ok…I’m getting to why I’m writing – After the Virgo and the Gemini, I was totally f@%ked up. That was 2 years ago…now, I’ve met this Capricorn..whoooo…Just like me. It’s kind of wierd. My main issue is trust. Because I know that with a simple thought I could go out and f@&ked, then come home like it never happened. Not to mention….have it so it never ever gets back to her. But, its not what I want…it’s what I’m capable of. And because I know what I’m capable of, I know what she’s capable of. You have to first understand….I’m so determined to not be cheated on that i’m prepared to live the rest of my life with out a mate. And then, I have a best friend of 20 years who’s a damn capricorn…and he’s a stone cold h0@. Married and all.. I can’t play with that. And then, she’s a stone cold freak. Who know’s without hesitation what to do. I mean, its’s like she was built for sex, this woman. All in out she appears perfect for me. I’m just so damn tired and so damn afraid. Hpv…Aids…Herpes…come on man. Can’t we just find 1, and f@%k the h@ll out of them?
Did I mention, the gemini cheated on me. With a lessor man who did nothing for her. (which completely crushed my ego for a second)…relationship ended…
The virgo just palyed my emotional pain. I fought to build with her and she treated it like a competition. Throughing a monkeyrench in my plan as much as posible. I felt, she wanted to always have more than me to feel secure. It was bizar…
A lot of the feedback I’ve read is right on the money. Caps and scorpio is a definite wild match and I agree with mostly everything thats been said, as I’ve been married to 2 of them(one for 28 years). One match I am curious about and not been able to find anyone ever talking about is a capricorn/capricorn relationship. for the past year I’ve been in a relationship with a capricorn woman and all and all its been great. We seem to balance each other very well. Because the time of my birth was not recorded,I can’t have an accurate chart made. So I’m kind of in the dark about a few things astrologically speaking. Any advice, comments, suggestions,etc. would be appreciated.
i am a cusp aqua/capricorn and i DONT like bdsm or s’n’m or being a f****ing slave . i have my pride.im born jan.19th and i this article is not true with me but i do seem to attract these sorts of men ie guys into s’n’m and the other kinky things -which im not into
i have venus capricorn and mars aquarius which may explain why these very strange men are drawn to me or maybe it’s something else in my chart -and i dont care i just wish they would all just disappear.
i like things equal and sensual maybe with food or the great outdoors to go skinny dipping or litrally roll in the hay basically i like it natural…
.and not all these these domi/submissive relationships are entirely consenual some women are preasured into them i know of quite a few women who are deeply unhappy with there dominating partners.
i agree with Jeffrey Kishner September 25, 2008 at 5:20 pm post i have known men who have liked to be dominated as in being beaten ,walked around on a leash and have there heads flushed down toilets or those with rubber fetish one guy liked to be slapped punched while his mistress wore mary gold gloves the reason why is his mother used to spank him while wearing her yellow washing gloves.
as for the man who liked to walkeed on a leash and have his head flushed he was once in nazi concentration camp and this is what the guards did to him when he was small boy -it’s not sexual it was for him therapy-though a disturbing one.
i also know a woman who when she was a child would be molested in the bath tub by a male guardian she is into the bdsm community now -she denys ever being abused but i know she was because i saw it with my own eyes.
it’s like with women in the sex industry like prostitutes and porn stars MOST of them where raped and abused at some point and so there ‘work’ is maybe because they are trying to regain control or because they dont know any other way except through humiliating abuse and pain.
there have been i wide number of documentarys made about people into these sort of lifestyles .
i saw one recently on a uk tv channel
this is interesting stuff. im usually attracted to women that like to dominate in bed. whether that has anything to do with me capricorn i dont know.
but the thought of a woman biting and leaving stratch marks in back is a big turn on.
My Aqua guy is Moon in Capricorn. It is a very interesting mix, on one hand he is like an Aquarian, fun and easy going then he gets serious, really serious…I though it would be fun to role play with him, once I gave him a taste of dominating me, just for fun he seemed to change in the bedroom. now my once “I could never dominate anyone” guy is totally in charge…..We do switch sometimes but I’m beginning to see that I’m more submisive then he is….I don’t love pain, its more mental then physical. He can pretend he’s hurting me without giving much pain…..Its really exiting….I don’t know how anyone could really do that for real. Anyways he gives great discipline….LOL
He said he had no idea that he’d be into that and he thinks about it all the time now…I wonder if I’ve created another monster? Oh well
This post made me smile. One of my closest friends is a capricon Ive known him since we were little. It is true what they say capricons are wise beyond their years,he was my first serious boyfriend at school he was very much nose to the grindstone he was very serious and was always buried in books he wore glasses and was small and skinny, he loved maths, me being a fish you can probably guess was very theatrical and very artistic and went on to do drama and theater arts at university( him economics 🙂 ) he drifted away from our group when we started dating very shy but always there for you. We broke up because our paths took too different turns but still remained on good terms
I was at a high school reunion recently and hadnt seen him for a while because he had travelled to go to university. Anyone who has gone through a lot with a Cap they change once they are older I didnt recognise him at first he was totally different those in our group who shot him down for being akward were laughing at his jokes( caps have a whipcrack sense of humour) and he was able to show everybody what he had become
My point is capricorns blossom when they get older,a lot of cap guys are actually very good looking after they have gotten over their akward phase. Trust me they are worth the wait! the capricon I am ver close to we are no longer dating but are still good mates proves it 🙂
When I first met this guy, born on Dec 30th, I never would have guessed how good the sex would have ended up being between us. I’m an Aries woman with Venus in Taurus and can have a slow start when it comes to sex, but this Capricorn guy I met almost a decade ago got me into bed within a matter of hours from meeting him! It had honestly never happened to me… and of all sun signs, I never would have guessed that a Goat would have done it.
So, the weekend sex marathons were really amazing. Nothing too kinky, just excellent, albeit slightly traditional bedroom antics between two single people who were more or less after the same things when it came to intimacy. We were not destined to ever work under a relationship point of view, though. When we did try, initially he was the keen one who even spoke of marriage and children (!!!), literally weeks after meeting me! But very soon after that, as soon as the very short-lived honeymoon period was over, we started arguing fiercely, saying more and more atrociously offensive things to one another at every successive fight we had. And those arguments were all the more frustrating for giving us the feeling that neither of us got anything out of them – just angst, frustration and anger, exactly like a ram and a goat locking horns and not even managing to do it properly!
The initial, explosive physical attraction fizzled out very soon after we started arguing so fiercely, but it was also a matter of time before we realised that we were being plain silly and destructive. The amazing thing is that when I started believing that the attraction was all but dead, it rose from the ashes like the phoenix from the flames! That had simply never happened to me before to the same extent. Ten years on, this Capricorn and I still hear from one another occasionally – we’re both gotten married to other people in the meantime. Years after our sexual liaison my father got sick with cancer and he was one of the most supportive people I knew, even though we had never consistently been in touch or been friends throughout the years. I will always be grateful for him for this, and Aries gratefulness means undying loyalty.
What I love about Capricorns – and this is so true of my female Capricorn friends as well – is that they are actually good people deep down, no matter how horribly they might argue with you. They can be fierce in an argument, but never gratuitously cruel. They can be stubborn and obtuse but they seem unable to actually hate anyone. They don’t bear grudges, and God knows Aries doesn’t, either. Sooner or later Capricorn will see sense and realise that staying angry is just plain stupid. My Capricorn ex lover is the person who has told me some of the most horrible things I’ve ever been told, as well as some of the genuinely kindest and most generous. I’m not compatible with Capricorns a lot of the time, and find them a little boring occasionally, too (sorry, guys!), but I do like and respect them. You can always count on a Capricorn and God knows I love my Cappy girl friends. Some of the best conversations I’ve had about sex have taken place with my Goat girl friends!
I’m a capricorn bday is january 2 i usually be in a sad depressed mood for long periods of time sometimes and out of nowhere I’m back to my old self I’m sooo undecisive with everything I work too much and yeah I do get complaints from family but heck I love the money and I love being pampered but anyway i am in a relationship with an aries guy and i like to dominate but i looove being dominated its just something about feeling like if im gettin taken advantage of i love it and i am seriously into sex toys even strap ons i secretly used them on my two of my bffs who’s a guy and one a girl…yeaaa but whole point being when I do get in the mood my wants and desires are too much to handle..maybe!! Lol
P.s I’m not a very boring person I love to have fun I work as a bartender on the side but reg job is receptionist but I love the clibs the bars I loooove music and dancing drinking not over doing it and I most of all love foot ball I love my Giants and Saints lol =)
Yea I guess but I’m a gamini and we are waayyy bigger freaks than a cappy anyday capricorns are don’t get me wrong but stupid dumb laame and most of all not on the top level capricorns are actually lazy and don’t do nothing my baby daddy is a crap I mean capri and he sux big time he cheated on me with my sister and then I took him back then again with my aunt I took him back and last time I gave up on him when he cheated with my little cousin who is 14 btw and he’s almost 30 but anyway I think us geinis need to take a stand to show that were the best I gave up on men I am now a lesbian and don’t care who knows its 2010 who isn’t gay now a days and veronica not to call u out but who don’t like to use straps ons every now and then I mean get with the program strap ons are so old and lame I’m thinking about gettin surgery to get a penis for real and remove my breast and who cares if you like to club clubing is dumb I rather go to a house party and chill and why do you like football football is stupid and dumb it has no point and meaning its crap jus like a crap I mean capri and giants sux balls and ass cheeks and the saints are total garbage right along with the steelers they suck d!?k and shxt point being alll the capricorns on here and everyone else who likes capricorns are retarded and S yea you all are very very S geminis are the best and I’m tired of being on here I got 4 kids to go take care of now by myself cuz my crappy capri ex don’t help me and I’m so stressed I need to smoke and a few dozen drinks!!
first off all capricorns are vomits and everyone else is too that like them capricorns suck and are retarded all of them i don’t care. i’m a female who is going to get surgery to have a penis and breast removed so strap ons are so sixities i mean who even uses those lame things anymore.i use to go out woth a crapricorn male he’s a crackhead and dumb he left me with 4 kids to raise alone that’s why i hate men now and i want to change my sexuality because i am in a relationship with a girl who’s a gemini like myself and btw giants and saints are whack they suck dookie and even goes to clubs anymore clubs are dumb and boring i rather go to a nice house party i’m thirty five years old and my girlfriend is fourteen who cares its legal where i’m from i wish i were drunk and now i need to get the surgery done so i can be the kids dad and mom literally seriously no joke
capricorns are lame I think my ex bf was a cap and was garbage that’s why I’m datin a girl who is a libra like myself and im going to get a gender change surgically yes ppl i will be gettin a penis and a breast deduction