The following guest post is by Lisa Saliture.
If you really want to seduce and eventually get a Leo man to commit to you, you had better devise a clever game plan, and be ready to play the game like you never played it before!
Of all of the 12 Sun signs, when it comes to attracting a multitude of women, the Leo man is at the top of his game, oozing cockiness, charm, and an almost boyish sexiness that he uses to lure you in. He is fun, loyal, and can be a poet when it comes to seducing you into a frenzy with romantic words.
The Leo man is 100% all about the hunt, the chase, and the conquest. The lion couldn’t have been a more fitting icon when describing the astrological traits of the modern day Leo man. Being a single woman, I’ve had the privilege — or should I say the experience — of being part of a Leo man’s conquest in the boudoir and in a relationship. While the Leo man is very sexually addictive and alluring, here is a bit of advice on how to tame him without falling prey to his seductions first.
[show_to accesslevel=’All-Access’]Lion King Traits
A quick breakdown of the Leo man’s celestial make-up can help you devise the best game plan for keeping this lion in your jungle, and will have him begging to make you his ruling queen lioness instead of just one of his pride waiting for his call. With the Sun as the ruler of Leo, this man truly exudes power, energy, vitality, and a personality that truly shines. You can easily spot him in any crowd — even the size of a football stadium — with his sexy smile. That hypnotizing bad-boy reflection you notice — the first time you lock eyes — will definitely have you hooked. The Leo Man is larger than life both in his own mind and those of his followers — aka buddies — who just love to spend time with him. You can’t miss a Leo man when he is out on the town, or even in the workplace. He is usually the life of the party, and he’s Mr. Suave when it comes to attitude — captivating and drawing both men and women to his magnetic personality. Even though his ego is in need of constant nourishment from all of his fans, underneath this powerful exterior is a sensitive guy, especially when it comes to how his woman feels about him. If you do capture and tame a Leo man, he can be affectionate, warm, and tender, almost purring like a cuddly little kitten insisting on your approval.
The 3 C’s of seducing and getting a Leo man to commit
An absolute must for your seduction and commitment game plan is to include the 3 C’s to seduce the Leo man and keep him interested in you. The 3 C’s — Challenge, Confidence, and Control — are your biggest advantage in winning over the Leo man. When seducing a Leo man, always remember the rules of the game: He is the hunter, and you are the coy lioness always keeping him at bay. (Or, for as long as you can muster up enough willpower to keep him from pawing off your panties.) Even if you don’t like the idea of playing the role of the hunted prey, you have all the power if you want to both keep this lion in check and keep him sniffing long enough to capture his heart.
Seduction is Leo’s game, and if you fall prey as his victim too soon, you might as well enjoy a couple more good nights of the best sex of your life, and then be prepared to be downgraded to just another female in his pride. A big turn off for the Leo male is a female doormat, one who gives him what he desires whenever he wants. Challenge is the power you create for yourself when playing the role of the hunted prey. The thrill of the hunt — your power card — is very appealing to a Leo man. A “hard to get” attitude will definitely catch his attention, and that is exactly where you want him.
Have him learn to be attentive to your needs, by being a little selfish about what you expect in a relationship and challenging his behavior and beliefs about commitment. Making your needs and wants clear — before you become emotionally involved with a Leo man — ups his attraction level to you in a big way!
The biggest turn-on for even a hardcore player is a woman who is confident in herself. Her attention is the reward for the male who is relentless in his chase to win her love. Mr. Leo will be putty in your hands and will crown you as his lioness queen. Leo men truly respect and respond to a woman who can be aggressive enough to keep him in line, and who can call the shots when it comes to affection early in the dating stage. Confidence also has a big impact if you want to move things forward in a relationship with a Leo man.
A woman who is in control of her own actions and emotions will put a Leo man in a tailspin and spark his interest in a big way. You need to get him on the chase on your terms! The best way to have a Leo man commit for the long haul is to keep him out of your bed for as long as possible, and let his appetite for your affection and attention build until he is starving. This means you will have to use portion control to keep him consistently interested and intrigued with you. At this point, he will do just about anything to keep you interested and happy.
The more time a Leo man spends getting to know you outside of the bedroom, the more he becomes attached to you as a potential partner, and starts to envision you as his queen. Once you tame the Leo man, plan to be spoiled and showered rotten with gifts, affections, and all of his love.
Deep down in the heart of a Leo man is a great guy who hates to be single or alone. Once a Leo meets a woman who challenges him and enforces the 3 C’s during the seduction and dating stages, this stubborn cat will be tamed. How do you know when a Leo man is happiest? When he is playing the role of the protector of his family, taking pride in raising his offspring in the blissful kingdom you rule together as a couple.
About the Author
Lisa Saliture is a Marketing Communications Specialist and freelance writer. She recently started Astrology Dating Match, a web site that will match singles by using the most compatible aspects of their love planets in their natal charts.