Jessica Shepherd over at MoonKissd has written an excellent post on how women use their Mars in seduction when they should really be using their Venus:
When women use their Mars to attract love she invites a landmine of problems. Here’s Mars marching orders: chase, capture and conquer. Versus Venus’ beauty credo: the world is one big orgasm (or ice cream cone) and it’s coming my way! It’s a subtle difference in attitude. Mars is all red alert and high intensity, while Venus is warmly expectant and receptive. Dating, for the woman who has lost touch with the innate playfulness of Venus is Mars dangerous – like lobbing hand grenades cleverly disguised as romantic overtures into enemy territory. Because that’s what it feels like for a man, sabotaged and caught by surprise, when she comes on too strong.
Read the entire article Put a Muzzle on Your Mars, Think With Your Venus.
Jessica has an upcoming book on attracting your soul mate — from which her article is excerpted. She also has one of the most well-designed astrology blogs I’ve ever seen. So check ‘er out!