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In the comments section of Sagittarius woman only needs Cancer man when she’s lonely, many Sagittarians lambasted the poor Cancer guy with Pisces rising for lying to his Sag ex-girlfriend.
“You see we do always tell the truth (as we see it) for better or worse and we do appreciate the truth in the same way.”
“Sadge women CANNOT be lied to…no matter what.”
“Sagittarius people cannot tolerate a liar.”
Perhaps the truth as Sagittarius sees it is not the same as The Truth. This sign’s ruling planet is Jupiter, the Expander and Exaggerator. When a fact doesn’t support Sagittarius’ worldview, philosophy or theory of everything, the Centaur may just choose to ignore it. After all, the Big Picture is more important than every little detail. And Sag may give some supporting pieces of information slightly more emphasis than others to make her point. She wouldn’t call this “lying,” just “putting things in perspective.”
Is stretching the truth less ethically questionable than outright lying? Sagittarius may not see it as a problem. But then again, Sag may not even be aware that she is leaving key points out of her version of the truth. Nor may she recognize when she is over-emphasizing a minor tidbit that makes her look better. And if she does know what she is doing … well, surely there is a good reason for it.
Sagittarius governs higher education and universities, and there are numerous cases of professors or researchers who fudge the data to help get their scholarly articles into the most prestigious journals. In her arrogance and self-aggrandizement, Sag may prune a few trees to make the forest look better.
Comment below: Do you know a Sagittarius who’s told a tall tale?
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@Sag24/7
My condolences on the passing of your father. Yes, unfortunately Pisces come in two extremes…either we are really good or really bad. The vices, however, apply all around for the most part. I am not sure if you were describing your pisces mate or ur pisces deceased father. However, what you described is the really bad extreme, a pisces spiraling no where fast. It is really bad to watch and takes someone with unrealistic amounts of patience to deal with. Its almost as if dating a little boy in a grown man’s body. My dad is pretty much the opposite although he is retired. He retired very early but he made sure that my college education was paid for. He is definitely a provider and he also doesnt have any vices, at least not drugs or alcohol, which is why I believe I do not have any of those either. Our environment is REALLY REALLY important growing up and pretty much dictates what type of life we will lead. This may sound pretty general for everyone but its more serious with Pisceans. Unless you are dealing with a very strong-minded piscean, it will be very hard for that pisces to not take the same paths of the people they saw around them growing up, especially the men. Pisces do not like being caged or controlled and will purposely lash out of anything that restricts them, even if it is a good restriction. For example, my cousin’s friend grew up with a mother and grandmother who were some of the strictest people I ever met…she has turned out to be everything they probably prayed against with every vice in the world staying in housing for victims of domestic violence, having all kinds of sex with all kinds of people and a weed head, etc, etc. It is very hard to watch because its almost impossible to help them out of it unless they are constantly being supported on a regular basis and who really has time to do that when we are trying to support ourselves. So yes, a pisces of the other extreme can be everything you do not want to see in a person, friend, far less a mate but usually, there is some influence that that got them to that point, whether during childhood or otherwise. What makes it the hardest to watch is that usually these pisces do not want to be this way and deep down dream of when their life changes and all the things they would or will do differently when they get the chance but yet seem to get stuck in immobility and can never pull their bodies to do what their mind knows and tells them they should be doing.
no i was describing the son, not the father….but he blames alot of his depression on why he cant work on his fathers passing….
its very hard to watch him do nothing with his life except collecting food stamps when he is able bodied to work….his friends have pretty much deserted him and i just didnt have the patience to sit with him in his apt (i dont know how he pays for it) and watch him do nothing with his life…
I don’t want to sound like a jerk but I just think he’s super lazy. We tend to be that way sometimes. What he needs is a good kick in the ass to point him in the right direction. We all loose close ones and yes we are sensitive we like to dwell on things. Its honestly the worst trait that we have. We can be the biggest kids sometimes. Its like a dog who doesn’t listen. Sometimes you have to give him a jerk to show him who’s boss.
I lost close ones in my life but you cant run from the world. Its there if you like it or not. It keeps going weather you choose to face it or hide under the bed. Man up….
Vices well this doesn’t just apply one sign , It applies to all signs that are weak mind.
You can be a Sag a Scorpio it doesnt matter.
When a person solves their problems by closing themselves in and blocking all out. Stuck in a rut with a bottle or drugs. Its not the sign. Its just not being mature enough to deal with a problem. To stick your head in the sand and pretend all is OK. Yeah… Pices…
Look at any problem. It comes in three phases.
Problem…..
Facing the Problem……
Closure…….
Tell him to dwell on the good times and the times his Dad gave him shit for being stupid coz that’s what hes doing right now. Knowing us and how we get. Yeah pretty sure his dad didnt have patience for that kind of crap…. Tell him to take the world of his shoulders coz hes no Atlas. That shit will squash him like a bug coz he cant hold up the whole world by himself. Tell him you cant fix yesterday but you can look towards tomorrow. Tell him there are people worse off then he is. Man just find someone he can help or someone who’s a Sag. Sag will turn that frown upside down. Sag will give him the Blunt Truth weather he likes it or Not….
Sorry about your Father….
@ Sting…i agree completely with you…but even my optimistic ass couldnt turn him around for good….he always seemed to back to that place and started to take me with him….i pick and choose when to deal with him….i dont want to hear about his misery
I’m sorry Sag24/7
I don’t know why it take so long for us to deal with problems. I think its that whole doweling thing. What worked for me was just spending time with friends and family. Distractions… Hes probably really stubborn just like you coz your a Sag. Fire and Water sure makes a lot of steam. HUH? 🙂
When my ex crushed me it took a while to move on but eventually I did. It takes time for Pisces. I dont know why. But man can we be sissies from time to time. My best and honest advice for you is to get him out of that house. Its the best thing for him. Get him around people coz he will be there for a long time if you don’t drag him out. And when he gets over it after a while he will see how stupid he was. Trust me Id know. I was stuck in the basement for a long time. lol But the best thing for him is to be around people. He will be a zombie for a while but in the end he will see and hate himself for it and he wont do that again. Life throws you curve balls he just has to learn how to hit them back and not cry about it when he gets hit in the face. Coz he will get hit in the face weather he likes it or not.
Your a Sag. And I feel bad for you…. It must be so hard for you to hear it over and over again…. Be patient you hold this out there will be nothing but blue skies for you…. 🙂 He needs a father figure. Wanna know something Pisces like to be told what to do. Especially from a Sag. I did. 🙂 We like women who wear the pants… lol He wont tell you that. But deep down inside its true…. Hope you can stick it out.
He def likes to be told what to do and we go out to comedy shows and dinner…comedy shows are OUR thing because we both like to laugh…but shyt im tired of paying his way! i will be his friend to the end but thats about it…hes lied to me on many occasions and we cant have 2 liars in a relationship
Tell ya what Sag24/7
Lies get you nowhere. Trust is key in any relationship. Not all Pisces are lairs. (No that’s not a lie :))
I was 100 percent open with my ex. I didn’t lie to her. In the end I lied to myself. She could never see what she did to me. And she never cared. And I couldn’t explain it to her. I felt bad for her coz she was engaged to a guy she didn’t like. I loved her and I wanted to make it work but she was living with her fiance. I was always on the outside looking in and you have no idea how much that hurts. To be stuck on a shelf and just sit there till she decided to come and play. I admit i was stupid. I never done anything like that. It goes against my morals. But love makes us blind. In the end after moving to be closer to her. Giving up all my friends and job. She dumped my ass his and half a month later she was engaged to another guy. Shes getting married this fall after being with him for a year. I picked up my peaces and moved on and being a Pisces. I hope it works out for her… I miss talking to Sags I don’t know why. But i admire your honesty. As blunt as it may be….. I’m here because I want to fix it for others if I can.
the fish i wanted to be with always second guessed my motives and withheld sex from me…
and and..he promised that he wouldnt sleep around behind my back like his friends do their girl, but i caught him with the girl and he lied and said that she was his mom…then he broke up with the girl in hopes of getting me back.
To be honest. Take this sign stuff with the grain of salt. No two people are alike. Look at it this way. I base my relationships of trust, morals, ethics…….
I know love is hard….. It hurts…..Is unpredictable….
In the end if you sacrifice for that someone and they don’t care. Its a one sided relationship. And it doesn’t matter how much you try to make it work. In the end you wont be happy. You will feel like a used condom…. sorry bad analogy. The guy cheated on you. For me that would be enough to walk away for good. I’m old school I guess. European….
Stick to Morals, Ethics….. The dude has none…. Your there for him to cry and complain and he screws around on you… Sorry Sag24/7 Id make him pay for his own Comedy show…. Don’t be his cash cow…
Life has consequences… some come in a form of a std…… Id show the dude my middle finger and find someone more stable…..He can cry in the basement about two things now… lol
Im listening.
whats up H20? That’s good that your listening. Way to state the obvious… Kinda figured that one out when you typed. I’m listening.
@ sting, thats why i seperated myself from him…i havent seen him in months…the rest of the story is that now me and his friend are now sleeping together (hes a scorpion)… the scorp gets jealous
Man. what is it with North Americans and Triangles… I try to date outside my social circles…. That way I don’t hear. Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
Well that’s complicated. Scorpio and Pisces don’t get along too well. Your a Sag. Question here. Do you want this to become something or just Bang Bang See ya next week?
@ Sting…dude i like you alot…your funny ….i swear i almost fell out of my chair at work
no they do not get along, the fish is always talking smack about the scorpio and vice versa….for a moment, i considered myself to be a pawn in their hatred for one another….
As a sag this was strictly supposed to be a wham bam thank you maam. but he did something to me and vice versa…its nothing serious yet and i dont think it will lead to M word or anything but its a fun ride for the moment…although, hes been talking babies and pregnancy
Thanks. lol I guess..:)
If you don’t like the Pisces man did you pick the wrong dude to rebound on. You went from a sissy to a chick on the rag. Scorpio is basically a PMS…. but this one happens more then once a month.
Jealous
– Obsessive
– Suspicious
– Manipulative
– Unyielding
That’s the negatives. So I’m just giving you the heads up here.
Scorpios have an excellent memory. So you being a Sag. This will blow up in your face if your not careful. Your a Sag so you lie but unlike Pisces you don’t have the memory for lies. So it will bite you in the ass if your not careful. Pisces we have a good memory. But Scorpio. Shit you better start jotting things down on a peace of paper coz you will need it later.
@ Sting, yes i have felt his stinger before and it wasnt very nice….he almost caught me one time in a lie, but i just quickly recovered with a good ol fashion BJ
yep, he totally gets his period and starts beefin with me for no reason other than his mind playing tricks on him…but hes got every right to be scared of me…lol@ sissy to a chick on the rag
sometimes he is a bit much
eventually he will drift away or be replaced by someone else
Well my advice to you is. When you play Russian Roulette with a loaded gun sometimes you get shot in the face. Don’t hate the player if you don’t like the game.
He might suspect something if during a conversation or an argument you go down on him. lol Sure he will catch on. If not then hes a keeper for ya. lol
Here is a double standard for you, and your a chick so don’t take this the wrong way. Who am I kidding your a Sag chick your more a dude then Scorpio and Pisces put together. lol (I’m more of a shark type myself).
You will never be a Stud. They may call you a slut in the end. So watch your rep if you care…about that sort of thing.
Look at it this way. The game that we play is the same game. But the girls will never get the respect. It sucks but its the honest truth. A guy can sleep around and its fine. But when a girl does it well they bash you.
One comedian said it best.
Look at the guy as a key that can open many locks. Hes the master key.
But a lock that can be open by many keys…. Well that’s just a shitty lock.
So be careful.
@ sting…yes i get you completely…
Good luck to ya. Sag chick are fun. You guys are crazy….doesn’t matter where. The more forbidden the better it is. lol And it is good. But not all of us are looking for a one night stand. Sure its fun. But there is more to life then fun. Eventually Gravity takes over and you end up stepping on your tits. And you run out of things to put in there. And you will start to reflect…. In the end what goes around comes around. That’s the lesson of life.
Do it while your young Sag24/7 coz time flies. There comes a day when you look in the mirror and you no longer like what you see. Its not a thing allocated to a sign. Its just human nature. We all grow up sometime. Except for Peter. He lives in Never Land…… Oh crap Michel Jackson owned that….
Guess Peter is homeless. 😉
I eventually want to get out of this pattern and i will.
maybe a nice libra will come and sweep me off my feet…
Its not the Sign. Sag24/7…. I know all the signs and their traits. In the end its you…..not them…… If you really want to make it work. You can make it work with any sign. Question here is do you love them enough to do it?
Love is an addiction……A vice in a way….. Its how you deal with it and what you choose, that makes it or breaks it. True love is not a one night stand. True love is when you put that someone before yourself. That is when you find true happiness and True love. Its not a Disney movie. North Americans have a lot of movies on relationships. They show you how to get one. Honestly That shit is easy. Its how to keep them when you have them that’s hard. And life is not a movie. Hurt. Pain. Love… We have feelings all of us. Sometimes things end horrible. My buddy hung himself coz she didn’t want him. No love is not easy. What you do may be fun for you…. But whether you think about it or not there are consequences…
It stupid easy to get laid… Just lie to her and tell her what she wants to hear. Sag chicks are easy….
You must be young… I know they say Sag are very mature for their age. But to be mature and not think of consequences is anything but mature. Maturity comes with experience and understanding. Sag is like a kid with a loaded gun. You shoot it coz it makes a loud noise and its fun. Then you look around and you go shit and run. You find a leo and make up a story….and lough at how you did something bad. teeee heeee heeeee.
Pisces well we can do that too but we are aware of the consequences of our actions. So 9 times out of 10 we don’t discharge the wepon.
Take care….It was nice talking to you…
Sting.
ditto, im sure we will talk again!
I accept that challenge Sting and one day i will not run from love
make sure there is a stable near by. lol
Hey Sag 24/7
This was my dilemma with the EX about laying. I trusted her but she lied to me.
This was the situation. She went out with two guys she had feelings for one of them and I knew that. I was Ok with that. She went for drinks and I was fine. Friend what ever. I texted her just to joke around. She was fine with that. It was a long distance relationship so it was kinda hard coz I could never know for sure if she was laying to me after this event. She texted me like all was fine. Then She just quit. Her phone went dead. So i got worried. She finally replied at 4am. She went out at 10:00 For me at that point it was over. So I told her that i dont have time for bull shit. Told her it was over. She cried and I feel stupid for giving her a second chance. I should have ended it there. She told me that one of the guys who had feeling for her tossed her phone and the battery broke. Rule number one don’t bull shit the bull shitter. It was a blackberry. For you to break that battery would require divine intervention.
I don’t play mind games I don’t have time for them. So being a Pisces. I turned off from there. I wanted her to be upfront with me about it. I wanted the truth from her. If I was annoying her she could have said that. If your upfront with me Ill be upfront with you sort of deal. I admire honesty. Sad to say I lost trust in her after that. Sag and Pisces like to be right and we both like to have the last word. Months later I found out which friend it was and I asked him. Call it paranoid but I needed to know the truth. He said that he never did no such thing. That was enough for me. If she wanted a relationship she should have been upfront about it instead of laying…. ?
So to back up the Pisces. Yes all signs lie. But with us we tend to lie to people we don’t trust. Nothing in life is free. Trust is earned…..
Dammit….i admit i have lied because it was easier than telling the truth….and i lied to my ex fish as well…but i did really like him…he had every right to second guess me and my motives
as a sag, i trust damn near everyone and forgive almost too easily….the fish doesnt know about the scorpio but the scorpio knows abut the fish….i think…..the scorp wouldnt have any benefit from telling the fish unless it was straight up revenge….i would kept thinking this but the scorp keeps pursuing me….in the end i know that it was def wrong to sleep with his friend, but like a dumb horse i did it anyway
Sad truth about your situation. Bros before Hows. I have a feeling this will bite you in the ass Sag24/7.
It their friends and good friends they will destroy you. Scorpio cant keep a secret Sag. This will blow up in your face. As for my EX. She should have been upfront. As sensitive as we may be. We take the truth very well. You show respect to me Ill return the favor. But you lie to me just like Sag its over. Difference here Pisces have the memory and skill to lie. But like I said we tend to do that when we loose trust.
As fish we are pretty fair. They say we are the sign that learned the lessons of all the other signs. There may be truth in that. We are fair to all the signs. We treat them equal. We don’t show favorites. We will pick the truth no matter what. Unless its to protect.
@ sting…….i still talk to the both, im just not romantic with the fish anymore….but the scorp is different. theyre both wham bams anyway
Scorpio is a survivor. Strategist. His greatest strengths are secrets. One dude that a Sag should not take lightly. This guy will save his own ass. One sign that you cant fool. Even is you lie to him once he will make a note of it. Hes probably in your room right now and you don’t even know. 🙂
Don’t mess with him coz you cant. Hes the guy you yell surprise for and hes not surprised. He knew about it before you knew about it. He’s Chuck Norris. 🙂
he was never into me to begin with (the fish)…we were dating and only had sex 3 times in 6 months…thats like death to me…i remember one night i came over wearing a teddy and he wouldn teven touch or look at me and i never felt uglier…after that i said F it and decided to go be with someone who wanted to be with me…turns out he was too busy tryin to be a player and got mixed up with the girl with mad isses and broke up with her in hopes of getting back with me and now hes not even in my radar…shoulda known what he had…we never cuddled after sex…he wold tell me to get off of him…tell me what would you do?
for some reason the scopio is different to me…the scorpio knows that hes not the only one that i sleep with and im not the only one that he sleeps with….but i have a better time with him than with the fish….me and the scorpio are having a very passionate love affair…something me and the fish never had…but i tried to make it work with the fish b4 seeking comfort elsewhere, but like i said i got sick of masturbating and got tired of his put downs and got tired of him….funny thing is the fish was more well endowed than the scorp and he thought that would keep me but it didnt.
now that i think about it the fish was an asshole and a jerk
Man I give props to you. You juggle like a pro at CircusOle. You got skill.
Your a Sag. Find a third dude. Both you and I know that’s the solution.
Well the whole cuddle thing. Don’t think he cared too much. three times in six months. Sorry Sag he’s not into you. If he was you would have a hard time walking.
yeah, thats what i figured….
Whats new? Hope things are going good for you. Sag24/7 I changed my name kinda. lol
Its Friday….lol…..Hope you find him….
LOL yes i peeped the name change….its highlarious…i will find something tonight, whether its HIM…the Lord only knows…
He knows Sag24/7 about the Scorpio. He’s doing exactly what a Sag would do. He cant have you so hes going to ruin it for others with lies.
@ Sting…yes…he does know what has happened and what is happening between me and he scorp….i created this mess…between 2 friends…and i heard from a mutual friend that they both take jabs at one another now over stupid shyt….HAHA i dont think a Sag would do that, would we even care long enough to go through with it??
someone else told me that months ago and i didnt believe him and i did once ask the scorp if he had told the fish what had happened…and he said no…his ass is grass
at least with the fish, no revenge is neccesary…he can screw up his own life with no help from me….
Yep. Many your like a wrench in the system. lol
So much drama. lol I tend to stay away from crap like this. lol
well, not a total wrench, just an interesting twist…..its captivating
You did this to yourself Sag24/7. When we do things out of spite and anger shit gets ugly. What you guys made have had as friends is pretty much over now. Now all three of you will play the childish games. So id say walk away. Its not in you to do that because as a Sag you believe that the Scorpio lied and you are going to get him for it. How dare he. lol You got it all wrong Sag. You put yourself in this situation. All by your lonesome. The Pisces didn’t want to bang you so you found a Scorpio. Now you have a triangle. I cant help you here. Truth be told. I have no clue where to start. lol
I see so much of my ex in you that it makes me lough sometimes. You get angry at other people so quick and you point the finger. But you never see your own wrong doing. You like to be in control of it all. You cant. To control this whole situation you have to lie. All three of you need to lie. That being said. Let it go. Nothing good becomes of lies.
No honor amongst thieves.
@ Sting…No, i took responsibility…i said “I created this mess”….i didnt say i was going to play games…i can simply walk away from the scorpio without explanation and it will drive him crazy…now the funny thing is is that i see the scorp on a weekly basis if not a few times a week, so it will drive him really crazy…not a mind ame, im just walking away…slowly
i dont think the friendship is over…i dont hold grudges…i will probably forget about this by tommorrow….
i have a sense a humor and can laugh this away….im not vindictive at all….i just find it to be an interesting twist…like a movie, its captivating