[ad]It’s a bitch trying to hitch a wild horse, so it’s reasonable to assume that one must appeal to the upper half of the centaur if you want to marry him. The higher mind of a Sag studies the religious or philosophical foundations of marriage. The animal self wants to just gallop off to distant lands and impregnate many mares.
Therefore, a Sagittarian’s faith, his religious commitment, would be a primary motivation to tie the knot. If God says a man and a woman shall unite and make babies, then Sag will be the first one to jump onto the bandwagon. He’s not a conformist, but he’ll do what everyone else is doing if there’s an inspiring reason to do so.
Not all Sagittarians are God-fearing folk, though. This sign relates to both the legal system and foreign lands, so obtaining a green card would also make him want to exchange rings. If he’s truly in love but bristles at the idea of being constrained by a piece of paper, he’ll do it anyway to keep his beloved in his country. Or if he’s not really in love but his student Visa ran out, he’ll exchange vows just so he can stay overseas.
Comment below: Are there any other reasons for a Sagittarius to get married?
Thanks for sharing big hearted sagg.For the record I am a sexy woman the most freaky lady on the planet I do it all good if you got the time I got all night long stamina(not boring baby)it’s about solutions,and encouraging the person also I have no problem with calling him but he has to show he’s still here no man wants a woman he doesen’t have to work for he might need space and maybe he has moved on.oh and I will look super pretty thanks
thanks 24/7.
Today was a good day even if I AM ALONE RIGHT NOW it won’t be for long
@ Taurus woman,
I can tell you are feeling stronger every day. You are great, and I know you will find a great man who will treat you right. Keep us posted!
ran into him twice saw him from a distance kept going the other way 2nd time he was parking keep going he knows my car he’s very careful to not let you walk up on him so he saw me.I ts very hot here looking forward to a beautiful evening.
Good to hear you are feeling better Taurus Woman…the way to win a Sag is to not care and act like you have moved on, that could be a common thing with all men.
This will make sag want to chase you and try to find out what you are up to.
And most importantly, stay strong and show him that you can live better without him!
And what would really want him to have you back is take a hot mate out with you and pretend to bump into him…he will chase you like crazy afterward.
We hate losing something even if we no longer want it.
And if we do have it back, we will appreciate what we’ve lost a lot more second time around.
Thanks big hearted sagg that’s good stuff super hot. I miss him.
OMG Big Hearted Saggi…
I hate losing something, even i didnt want it in the first place…so shallow but true!!!
We will go NUTS if someone we really like has moved on!!
MY LIBRA, who i really care deeply for had been texting me and calling me but i had put him in timeout…I guess he got tired of my ignoring him and my flirting with other men and changed his status on facebook from SINGLE to IN A RELATIONSHIP… i had a freakin nervous breakdown…he knew exactly what he was doing…i came crawling back…crawling
if by chance the next time you see him Taurus women, wear something good! we like shiny round red balls if you know what im saying…the brightest star gets and keeps our attention..
My darling is a Sag – Leo rising, I’m a Virgo – Leo rising.
We have funny arguments, we can’t get our hands from one another, and we never shut up.
All in all, he was the first to suggest marriage, and the fun part is, he loves me cos he has difficulties with keeping up with my wild spirit and energy 😛
Sag 24/7, we are so similar in many ways…if I found another guy before my scorp found another girl…I would prob be fine…but now knowing he’s with her and I have no one drives me nuts…he’s lowered his standard and found a girl old, ugly and non educated girl…but for me to be satisfied I want a guy of equal standard to me…which seem impossible to find these days. Where are all the good men gone?
How would you describe dating a Libra men? I know of one who’s interested but I’m just not that into him…I don’t like how I’m so shallow…he and I get along fine, we talk and laugh, but the idea of a relationship where I have to have sex with him…I can’t do it to myself…
@ Big Hearted Saggi…
I am casually seeing a Libra that my scorp doesnt know about but the libra knows about the Scorp…if i had to choose between the 2, i think i would choose the libra…there is awesome chemistry in and out of the bedroom….he lets me be me and flirt and i let him be him and he flirts…hes a social butterfly and so am I…i love that we could both be at a party and do our own thing but we both know in the back of our minds, that we are leaving with each other…there are NO dramatic fights!! its been almost 3 years with me and the libra and i care alot about him and vice versa…the sex is very experiemental because hes a voyerur and loves a good lap dance…he also loves sexy lignerie and porn…geez louise, everything that i am n2… BUT we are both not really looking toward the other as a partner, but really we have been having this OPEN relationship for years now…
I was initially attracted to him, so it was easy for me to take the plunge…i love waking up to his sexy ass in the morning! he has these long dreads and dreamy eyes…but the eyes of the Scorp are more mesmerizing and the sex with the Scorp was more intense, but the Libra satisfies me and ITS EASY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sag 24/7…thanks for sharing your experience with your libra…
I’m still not over my scorp coz of the intensity and passion in sex…my best friend is a libra…and I love her…we get along so perfectly, it’s like we are soul mates!
I am a sag, but I can’t handle open relationships because I do get jealous and want my man to show loyalty and have sex with only me and that is why I have trouble accepting Libra men…my libra gf has cheated on her bf multiple times…and she can hide it so well that he’ll never find out!
Sag 24/7…you mentioned how if you had to choose, it’d be libra…but aren’t u more attracted to ur scorp? I still want my scorp back 🙁 Because sex was just so intense with my scorp that I can’t fall in love with another guy…but I have started flirting with other men…currently I can’t decide between Libra, Aries, Aquarius or Sag…deep down in my heart…I still love my scorp 🙁
I would choose the Libra because ive known him longer and we are truly compatible…all i know of the scorp is sex..i mean sex is #1 to me, but i cant take the ambivalence..men confuse me enough, and then add a scropio man to the picture is just torture…i hate not being able to grasp who a person is by at least 2 encounters…
my Scorp knew from day 1 that i was a player and he was right. he knew that i was only interested in what was between his legs. i had to admit, HE HAD ME FIGURED OUT..i wanted to prove him wrong and i think thats the only reason why i kept pressing him, i saw another challenge…a challenge to prove him wrong and still try to get in his pants in the meantime….to be honest, i really have heard you mention anything other than intense sex with your scorp that makes me want him back…can we both say shallow at the same time!!!
*havent heard
let me elborate on the challenge…us Sadges love to win and get there at any cost…failure is not an option…
i had to prove to him (and maybe to myself) that i could want more from him than what was in his pants, but thats really all i wanted….sigh
@ Big hearted…i met another libra last night…i dont know what it is, but i attract them likes moths to a flame
wow! saggi have fun take it slow
?what makes a sagitarius want to get married …love more than anything .
one sagi guy who loves to play the field told me he would the first girl he falls in love with if she say yes!
@ Kay…i honestly believe i am capable of it..if i am swept off my feet the right way and fast enough..definitely
I believe HE LOVED ME we made plans to marry in Jamaica IN TWO YEARS THEN HE DISAPPEARED AS IF WE HAD NEVER SPOKE OF IT. Were at the end of one year now I miss him and I haven’t been with anyone else but when I do it won’t be casual. I gave him too much. Was it all about the sex? if it was what was it about him that he had to have something new?
@tauruswoman….if he told you that he loved you and you believe it…hold on to that memory…you didnt give him too much, you gave him what you wanted to give him and dont regret that
seems to me they love the sex but need something deeper. more mental. they need spontainity also. and if it has always been based on sex as the main thing u will have to casually show him there is more u have for him. you might have to abstain for a bit. my sag couldnt get enough of me those times i killed myself refusing him. he would take me for meals and such just so he could try and get his wicked way with me. id always give in after a while and feel a failure but while it lasted it was good, no sex to distract him made him notice my qualities more and want to know more about me an want to understand me more. id let him in slowly (into my world my mind and way of thinking) hed always want to know more. hed chase me. he hated no knowing. but then id give in and itd b back to mainly sex again. i think if u can maitain less or no sex it makes for a relationship based on minds primarily instead of the bodies. once thats establised and a foundation is set let it be plenty of the good stuff lol
im thinking to tell him hes MY horsie lol wonder what hed say to that??
i often wonder of some things i could say to him that he aint heard before that would realy make his mind work a bit??
i also feel like ive given him too much ov myself even all ov me, those feelings make it much harder for one to recover coz feel like u also have the seemingly impossible task of mending yourself, and typical sag wont be around to help you pick up the peices even though hes probly missing you or thinking of you and what your upto.more than likely that stubborn selfish streak prevails almost everytime you pop into there heads.
sag 24/7, can’t agree with u more on your comment:
“I had to prove to him (and maybe to myself) that i could want more from him than what was in his pants, but thats really all i wanted”
I haven’t contacted my scorp for an entire week, the feelings are slowly dissipating and I’m starting to realise that he was nothing to me other than what was in his pants…apart from great sex…he couldn’t fulfill me in any other way.
Congrats on meeting another Libra…I met a libra too, we get along great, but no physical attraction…
Sexy Scorpio Queen,
It’s a great sign that your sag “hated not knowing” That is a sign that he has already fallen for you.
As a sag, we normally don’t care about what you do, infact we encourage you to go make friends with the opposite sex becoz we’d be doing the same. It’s not until we decide that we want to commit to you, we’ll start becoming clingy, caring and selfish in the sense of wanting you all to ourselves and no body else!
In the sex department, I doubt you’d have trouble pleasing him…Scorpio male and female are the best in bed…I’m sure he loves sex with you…but u do have to keep in mind, don’t let it just turn into sex…give him the cold shoulder after sex…don’t become all emotional…and let him chase you…we love chasing and we hate to lose…if u can master that…then you’ll keep your sag for life =)
Thanks sexy scorp.I seen him from afar last twice it’s been a month since the last time we spoke he really hurt my feelings and was not around to help put the pieces back together and none since. yesterday I thought about it and got a little sad I don’t know who does that so hard that hey don’t care about someone who loves them unconditionally, I used to be good at getting he’s attention with words then he would say I was being malipulating but still he like what I would say but it wasn’t enough to hold him he went younger than the both of us our kids age so far I have met one saggi already in a relationship and a capri in a realationship but says it’s a room mate I AM HOPEFUL THAT ONE DAY HE’LL PEEK IN.
@big hearted….no physical attraction huh??
@ big hearted,,,yeah girl it was the sex that blinded us….theyre could have been more, but he choose to not stick around…his lost…
Ok heres the real truth; Im a male Sagittarius and my main goal everyday is to find a woman who can phisically satisfy me. Although im in a relationship with a pisces woman, all i want is sex. I make her feel like she is on top of the world and show her how much I “LOVE” her… It’s way too easy. 65% of my relationships with woman is based on our sexual chemistry. Jus like Big Hearted Saggi says u have to turn the cold shoulder and show no emotion. These woman try to put emotion behind the sex. U cant do that because that will b putting feelings in the relationship and that opens up the door for people to get hurt. one thing I cant stand is being hurt in a relationship and I will do everything in my power to avoid that situation.(I have a Venus in Libra) That is really wat has me running for the hills is the emotion. If u want me show me that u dont care so that i can create a challenge to care for me… jus dont act like i dnt exist n let me come to u.
So YoungSag,
Are you saying you’re in a commited relationship with your Pisces woman, or are you saying you’re dating her and also looking for sex with other women everyday?
the sex was great at first then he started holding back after I never wanted to go overboard be he insisted then when he got me where he wanted me he started to back off and say things like we need to take it slow .WHEN i SEE HIM I DON’T SEE HIM. I don’t acknowledge him.I know he’s having a problem accepting that he doen’t hear from me and he can be very stubborn and replaces his emotions with a new person to deal
@YoungSadge….i thought i was the only one who thought about sex constantly and saw every man as sex. takes me a long time to seperate emotions from intense lust. i think thats my main reason why i can commit…i never want to deny myself that sexual conquest.
Hello everyone this morning I got a e-mail from him saying he’s been thinking about me and he knows he mess up and he wants a chance to make it up to me and can we talk as friends and he’ll be nicer this time. I don’t know it’s good to hear from him and good to know he can say he loves me still but the trusting.Ii really don’t know I have been healing from the last time.I am totally in love with him.
Big Hearted Sagi and Sag 24/7, you girls are hilarious, I identify with all your posts, I must say.
Yes, YoungSag, sex is also super important to me, probably in the top few qualities that have to be good in order to be with someone.
I used to feel bad about being so shallow, but now I accept it since I’m very visual (an architect, into photography and painting) and I’ll be visual my whole life so it’s just a way of appreciating life… Life has so many good things and one of them is that it’s very visually diverse and beautiful. Why deny our tendencies? I’m a firm believer of being with someone good looking (at least in my eyes) because they take care of themselves and because I feel pretty when I’m next to a good looking person and I love being the hot couple or the hot group of friends walking down the street. I pretend not to care about attention but deep inside I love it. That said, to be my friend you have to be good looking but most important you must have a brain. I love dumb jocks (my neighbour) just to sleep with them or train with them (I also do triathlons lol), but avoid them at all costs to hang out.
Earlier I pulled in the gas station and his car was being towed so I called him to warn him he came down we spoke for a while he sent a text to say he really really loves me I am speechless and shy about my response.
@ super …whats your birthday??? i also want to always be the IT couple in the room…I feel like i have be the IT girl..i have to be the one that everyboday talks about or i just dont know…i think its our ego, it wont allow us to think otherwise..
@ taurus….i would be careful of your sadge…i definitely belive that he misses you but i feel like the taurus ppl in my life dont fully appreciate me and thats why i cant find success with them..hmmmm…he may also miss the readily available sex..i dated a taurus for a year and i pretty much used him for sex because he readily gave it up!
thats another thing…i never feel like a guy has bagged me, i always feel like i bagged the guy..is that a surreal way to think…only 1 sign has managed to BAG me and thats a scorpio..
@ taurus, just go out and have a few drinks and be prepared for some nookie
sag 24/7 I was easy for him you are correct but now I really have no intentions of repeating the past as we had it no way.New day I love him and I want more than a sex. We were having good sex and he begin to move around so for me sex is not the answer this time.
sag 24/7… I’m Dec 20th.. My Sun is in Sagittarius, Moon in Pisces, Ascendant in Aquarius, Mercury/Venus/Saturn in Scorpio… Mhmm what else.. Jupiter in Capricorn and Mars in Libra I think.
And what does it mean ‘to bag’? To dump someone? Lol, I’ve never been broken up with either, it has always been me who gets bored. The closest to being dumped is when my bf at the time had to move away.. And maybe someone else but it was not me being ‘bagged’ he just didn’t want anything serious and guess what.. he’s a Sag hahaha now we’re just friends with a lot of attraction for each other.
Taurus… Be careful with your Sag… I’m sure he means well but we tend to confuse ourselves over how we feel towards someone so if he’s messed up before, most likely he’ll do it again… not on purpose, it just happens. Just make sure that if he stomps on you, he doesn’t keep doing it over and over because that cycle will never stop.
Real talk.
I told him seeing him brought back memories HE WAS WAITING TO HEAR SOMETHING from the text to the e-mail so I couldn’t act like nothing happen but I had to be positive not playing victim.
@ super… to “bag” means to “smash”
lol ha ha ha….. You guys are awesome. It so nice to see how desperate some of you get when the ship sails off and you are stuck at the dock. lol Dont hate the player hate the Game ladies…. lol
I love this……
I gotta change the channel this is to much Sex in the City.
@Sting pmsl
Every Saggy has a tendency towards boredom within a relationship, and at 40 none of my relationships have worked out, so I’ve never been married, and I’m fairly happy about this. I would not want to be with someone who I knew wasnt going to be around forever and vice versa. Only If I was absolutely positive that I loved him and he loved me would I commit, but as we confuse ourselves as previously mentioned, it does make us wary about going that extra bit incase we make a big mistake
Sex is important to me, but I dont go out looking for it and I dont chase guys. OH And I cant stand Scorpio men, never have got on with them in a relationship, and Ive been out with 2 lol, one bored me to death, and the other I just wanted to bash his head in with a hatchet pmsl.
Up to now Ive been out with a Scorpio, a Libran who was a serial womanizer, a Capricorn who was okay but i was on rebound from Libran lol, a pisces who was an abusive freak, an aquarian, another abusive freak lol , Scorpio(Hatchet job), A gemini(was okay but a compulsive liar), another gemini (was okay but stalked me when i split up with him lol), an Aries (hmmm he was just a mess coming off coke), and another Capricorn who was a thief, liar, cheater and abusive)
So U can see why I am quite happy being single. I think upbringing and experiences have as much to do with what someone is like as starsigns.
But then again maybe I should try a firesign…someone a bit more like me who can take my bluntness and humour…havent tried one of those yet hahahaha
OOps ….yeah i have…Mr Aries lol
@cynical Sag….
so true…so true…most saggis stay single forever…the bachelor of the zodiac sign.
why do u think a Sag man who wanted to be married to me once, now says he is not sure if he wants to go ahead with our wedding plans? What do u think could have gone wrong! While from my end, i feel everything was the same nothing changed, except him!