Most of people think that Leo is extrovert and very easy to attract people especially women. It seems that i am very different. I am very reserved and shy especially with women and it is not easy for me to approach them. It makes me wonder what sign is more compatible with me? Recently I am attracted to Virgo woman but I have no idea how to approach her? Any advice?
Although you are a Leo, your love planets are in yin (or feminine) signs. By feminine I don’t mean relating to women — rather, that your Venus and Mars are in Water and Earth signs, which have a negative polarity. Air and Fire signs (yang, masculine, positive polarity) are typically extroverted, while Earth and Water signs are introverted.
You have Cancer Rising and Mars in Cancer in your First House, which relates to how you interact with your environment. Cancer is emotionally sensitive and tends to retreat when feeling threatened. (This self-protectiveness can sometimes manifest as defensiveness.) Mars, the action planet, is in its “fall” in Cancer — it’s difficult to be assertive (or aggressive) in a watery sign, no less one that is more into caretaking than meeting one’s own selfish desires. In other words, Mars in Cancer can be passive. The Crab moves sideways, and some women like a man who is direct.
It’s no surprise that you’re attracted to a Virgo woman. Your Venus is in Virgo — in a man’s chart, Venus symbolizes the type of young woman to whom he is attracted. Your seduction planet is in a sign known for self-criticism and modesty. You may be excessively hard on yourself, and you probably don’t want to come across as a boar. If you’re going to flirt, you want to do it the proper way — and so much analysis and perfectionism often results in a lack of action.
Probably your greatest asset is your imagination. Your Sun trines Neptune, planet of fantasy and idealism. You have an inspiring, poetic sensibility which surely can draw women’s attention, especially expressed through creative and dramatic Leo.
But you want to know how to attract women. Virgo likes to be of service, and Cancer wants to nurture. See if the lady you like needs help in some way, or offer to cook her dinner. Look up “Venus in Virgo” and “Mars in Cancer” in Venus in Love, Mars in Heat for more tips.
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