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Do you have a thing for freaks and geeks, aliens and astrophysicists, radicals and rabble-rousers? These surefire quotes and suggestions will be guaranteed to get you in bed with an Aquarius.
- “Love-making will enhance bonhomie among the revolutionaries.”
- “Help me act out this scene in my latest Star Trek fan fiction story.”
- Show him your pierced lips. No, those lips.
- “Friends With Benefits are just friends, nothing more!”
- Tell him you need someone impartial and objective to help you reach orgasm. Show him the step-by-step diagrams in your Clinical Sexology textbook.
- Share your fetish for doing it in pubic places while dressed like a panda bear.
- Face it — he’s more likely to do it in Second Life.
@Aquarian
I love when a man peers into my soul and can see me. That’s erotic. Sexyniceredheadvirgo was right about the eyes. I love when I lock eyes with my Aqua friend. It’s like we go into our own secret domain where words are taboo but we understand each other telepathically. Unspoken communicative relations are deep.
@Aquarian
I forgot to mention that I’m not into the melted candle wax on the body thing. I would rather have warm, moist palm sweat caressing and groping my flesh.
@Halloween
Haha yes, flickering fire is lovely, I am pretty much a pyro, other people papershred their documents, I get a bucket and i burn them in the courtyard…tehehehehe
hmm as for music honestly i usually dont have the chance to bother with tat because as u can see from many discussions above that aquarius just reli like spontaneous sex… so it’s kinda like, if the music is already on, cool, if not we r probably not gonna go turn it up..lol… also I feel like it may be a bad idea to play music during sex.. just in case it’s so much of a disaster tat i cant listen to my fav music afterwards just cuz it reminds me of the disaster…
funny how everyone speak so highly of aquarius men… me as an aquarius girl feel no chemistry wtsoever with fellow aquarius i find. We are pretty telepathic but we are telepathic to the point tat if we did anything it would feel like incest…LOL… and honestly i find aquarius men slightly too unconcerned for everyone and everything and it would be a miracle if they even bothered looking into anyone’s eyes… or maybe it’s just cuz im aquarius myself and aquarius boys are just always gonna be my awkward brothers LOL.
Lol for sum reason i have a feeling there would me more fans of “pouring wax on others” than “being poured on…” hahaha
@aquarian.
hi aquarian…Ive being reading the candles post
let me ask you something…have this happend
to you? The last time I did all that the candles
and lingerie thing I did out of boredom I was
with a pisces an boyyyyyy are they as lame as
lame can be SO I did not know what to do?
i DNT think he care thou thats how cold
that guy was!.
about the waxing thing I thing my aquaboy
did it to me…Im this close of remember he
was the one…or was it libra??’ Ill asked
aquaboy we still friends!.
ABOUT finding chemistry with guys your
same sign yeah I dnt find it with virgo men!.
I do with scorp THOU
alot!.
@sexyniceredheadvirgo:
won’t lie I NEVER bothered with candles… it’s just a fire hazard LOL in fact i barely bother with anything… i do bother with lingerie though… I dunt think I ever allow any1 to see me in any lingerie/underwear that doesnt have major visual appeal… just because i like pretti lingerie.. but um, the reason i dunt reli bother with candle or any complicated setup is cuz i noe they dunt care lol! i wudnt say it’s cold… to be honest, because frankly if anyone set up candles for me i wudnt care either LOL…
also… all tat talk about spontaneity made it pretti obvious tat i just dunt reli care about setting up anything lol
haha funny story… i dunt like scorpio guys at all… i only find scorpio girls attractive… i feel like sum signs r just meant for girls while sum other are just meant for guys… and as much as i think aqua is totally meant for girls, apparently everyone other than aqua girls think aqua boys are attractive… hahaha
I didn’t know instructions were need for that. Lol.
I used to find Scorpio men very attractive, and Aries men and Sag men, come to think of it men of every sign. (I am a Libra after all LOL) Since meeting my Aqua man 10 months ago, I find every one else face boring. He is the most handsome guy I’ve ever seen. His eyes are crystal blue, warm and dreamy with these lazy sexy eyelids, his nose is perfectly sculpted, all of his childhood freckles still show in shadow, his strong chin, which he hates, I love his dimple (he calls it a butt chin) His shoulders are solid, naturally, he isn’t all muscled up or under toned either, he is just tall enough to make me feel protected when he pulls me to his chest. His ears are adorable, and he loves it when I nibble on them. When he looks at me, I feel alive and loved. He grabs my hand every time were in the same room and holds it to his chest. He has a little hair missing on top of the roof, but his hair is curly and soft. He smells like the woods and the sunshine…like a clean shirt taken fresh off a clothesline. Thats his natural scent.
He has fur all over his arms and everywhere, I love furry men LOL, he’s cuddly like a bear. When he bites the back of my neck, I melt. He bites me every where come to think of it. Like when I’m on the phone with his mom, he bites my butt to distract me. (Could be his Taurus rising sign) In bed, I feel worshipped and he asks me what I like, Its like being catered to. I try to please him but he likes to take the lead and kisses me from head to toe. There is nothing more exciting then being loved by an Aqua Man. Ive been told by other girls that their Aqua guys are excellent lovers too.
I was with a Scorpio man my first time, and that was a wonderful experience too. I’ve heard by a lot of friends that those are the 2 best signs in the bedroom. Male wise anyways 🙂 My Libra ex hubby, the only thing he was good at was sex. and he was terrific. As much as I hate the guy for a lot of things, in bed he was an adventurer… But my Aqua he is loving and sweet, I’ve never done it when any one but those 3 guys, but after the first time with my Aqua guy, I don’t want to be with anyone else, not ever.
I have only had 3 lovers in my 40 years and never had a poor experience. I don’t know if its like that for other women, but I’ve been loved well. Libra women are lucky in the bedroom, we get spoiled. I think its because we ask, and we talk about everything. Men seem to love hearing what you want. Even my ex, who is not a nice man, in bed he wanted nothing more then to please, men love to please and when you give them gentle back rubs and kisses, they melt too. I can bring my guy to tears with a few kisses and running my fingers through his chest hair. What a romantic. 🙂
i am dying to get my aqua man in bed. but he wants to take it slow.i’m 39 and have had myself on the shelf for the lasted 7 years since my divorce i’ve been making sure my children were set and working 3rd shift.so since i’ve put myself in the window so to speak. and have meet aqua man i seem to think about sex like a man. i work in a super market and work the produce dept. and there are alot of vegs and fruits that get me to thinking. i have a guy that wants to have sex but i like to deal with 1 guy at a time even as it stands right now aqua and i are not a couple were just dating and are always calling one another everyday. any help with aqua man i would be thankful
libby
Don’t mention sex with him personally, talk about it as an interesting topic and also tease him physically but let him chase you for it, its great when they get all hot and bothered. 🙂 I still do it to my guy and weve been doing it for a year, I pretend that I’m not excited but i tease him, this gets him hot
libby
I forgot to mention, he has to think it was all his idea LOL then they turn into real pervs, in a fun way….
As an Aquarius I can tell you sex is all in the mind… Capture us mentally & will be obsessed with you, so tease before you please! ps Yes Aquarians are real pervs not your average lovers will try anything once & libra is one of our soulmates so enjoy a long happy relationship as I did with one!x
@all the way aquar-us: I have my moon in aqua and total agree with u our mind is our biggest SEX member the more sexuality u feed my mind the better respond ull get from me and I love doing the same back feeding once mind! Usually – take pictures of me naked or with nice intimate clthes cause I like what I see and I know my partner will be blast a it so I snd it on emails M my exexexexexex aqua used to comeand take pictures of me and I couldsee those little peevs eyes drooling over me very lusty!
I may have ruined my friendship with my Aquaman. I am Scorpio and I’m afraid my Aqua ONLY thinks about me sexually. He says he knows how intelligent I am but he loves our sex. Lately, sex is all I seem to get out of him. I long for our long conversations, listening to music, being quiet and just vibing together. It’s my fault too because I can’t stand to lay next to him without caressing his smooth, beautiful ebony skin. I suppose it’s a lost cause. I’ll know better with the next Aqua I meet. If there is one.
Halloween
Its not a lost cause. If he did’nt love you he would have gotten sick of the sex too…..They have to be totally into you or sex is dull for them. If my guy stopped all the other loving things he does and only wanted to be in bed to show it, I would ask him why. He might be trying to figure some other things out in his life right now but feels that he can’t talk about it and still wants to give you his attention so he does it with sex. I would just tell him that untill he lets me know whats going on I can’t release with him so we need to talk before were alone again. He won’t get mad, they are very understanding about your feelings when you explain. Sometimes we have to tell them how we feel or they don’t get it. like mostly all men when you think about it, its a guy thing. When an Aquarius loses interest in someone they don’t keep the sex going, they move on. He must have deep feelings or he would have disapeared.
Your spot on there libra lady, my libra ex was only into sex when he was into me when we stopped being close he accused me of just using him for sex – which is odd for a man! I have actually pursued men just for sex even if I’m into them as a person but the sex is good as bad as its sounds, for aquarius sex really means a LOT – & to get it we go to extremes! Get an aquarius mentally & aswell as sexually into you, be up for anything will drive us wild!!
Aquarius all day Long
I was married for 5 years to a Libra man, your libra ex was full of crap, they are the ones who use you for sex. I was his plaything and thats all. When he left finally, he took a pair of my panties with him….LOL I wonder if he still wears them, its been 10 years since that beautiful day he ran home to mommy.
Its a lot better with my Aqua guy, he gives me a lot more love in one day then my ex husband gave me in 5 years. Being with your best friend just makes everything better. Oh,. this is funny, my ex husband is dying to meet my fiancee. he’s going to be in town next month, he hasn’t been around for 4 years now that he’s caught wind of our engagement, (from our son)he’s coming for a visit, oh well.
@LibraLady
Wow-wee! You reached me. You are sooooo right! Everything you said rings crystal clear with me. I suppose I should blame my frustrations on myself for not having the mental ability to define and sum my situation up so clearly as you have.
You were absolutely right about him going through something. When you said,
“They have to be totally into you or sex is dull for them. If my guy stopped the other loving things he does and only wanted to be in bed to show it, I would ask him why. He might be trying to figure some other things out in his life right now but feels that he can’t talk about it and still wants to give you his attention so he does it with sex.” BINGO! Daggone it! CONFETTI JUST FELL FROM MY CEILING! You are right!
I DID ask him why we aren’t doing those other things. He shared a concern with me, that has his focus and has added a little tension to his life. Things will be OK. He explained things to me and I understood.
I’m glad you also pointed out that he’s giving me his attention through sex. That’s true because he begged me to stay the night with him. He wanted me so badly, it was like he was drooling at the mouth like he had rabies! He kept trying to get what he wanted. I told him I didn’t want to have sex because I was enjoying just being around him. He said he didn’t care, he just wanted me to cuddle with him and he wanted to continue enjoying my company….BUT! As you know, IT’S HARD TO RESIST THOSE WATERBOYS!!! I gave in! We couldn’t keep our hands off of each other!
There is definitely a connection between us and he IS worth the effort. I have to be patient and keep myself convinced of the right things. I have been single and free for a long time and so has he. It’s easy for me to lose interest and move on but something keeps drawing me back to this one. He is worth the effort. I’m glad you helped me to understand this. I am pro with friendships but I am awkward and rusty when it comes to love and relationships.
I really appreciate your feedback. I also got a call from an old flame today. He was also instrumental with putting things into perspective with me. Thanks a billion!
@Aquarius all day long!
Men have accused me of using them for sex too! LMAO! Oh well, some are only good for that. You are right. He is into me both mentally and sexually. We had a brief, flirty discussion about it.
I crave more interactions with him. I’m not trying to smother or bind him in anyway, I just want a tad more. I mentioned this to him a few months ago and service picked up for a short time, then we shut down shop and we both go into self inflicted isolation periods.
He also told me recently that I need to call him more but I can’t take the rejection if he doesn’t pick up or return my call. I have no problem calling a dude I’m using just for sex but it’s difficult for me to call the one I like and want. This is causing me frustration but I’ll work through it. I have to find a way to communicate my wants to him without him feeling suffocated or pressured.
@LibraLady
LMAO! Libra men DO try to use you for sex. Their minds are on sex 24/7 to the 9th power of PI or whatever! I was talking to one of my Libra exes today about my Aqua dude. He gave me great advice and encouraged me to hang in there THEN he turns around and mentions that he still has my pictures, how he used one in particular, to take matters into his own hands, if you know what I’m talking about? He lives with a woman, gives me advice on my love life BUT STILL jacks his juices while looking at my pictures!!! They are funny!
Halloween
I know what you mean, Water Boys are hard to resist, I’ve mumbled “NO, I’m not in the mood while undressing, LOL
They give the best cuddles too 🙂
Just talk to him about all sorts of things, laugh, relax. Talk about problems in the world, be friendly. Don’t be clingy, but make sure he really enjoys your company(not necessarily on a romantic way). Look him in the eyes and smile, A LOT. Discuss things with him. Kiss him etc.
I must say it is a bit harder to get an aquarius guy to sleep with you, mostly because he doesn’t want to be committed, especially when he knows he has to deal with you later. Afraid to lose his freedom.
I’ve been through this, this summer and I loved everything about it. It was amazing…….. He picked a flower for me, he looked so loving at me. Is this all show? He’s busy studying now and I don’t see him anymore. It certainly was special. He never slept with a girl he knew so well before and he seemed to really like me.
@all: I had a beautifull relationship with an aqua some years ago!. We met in a strange an very unique way specially in the part of the world where we live!. I called my internet provider he was the only english speaker and to make a long story short he came to my house, he made I contact immediately as if he saw something he liked and that amazed him almost drooling!. Me Im an aqua moon I guess it was easy for me to read him…but then my situation was dif an I just did not paid attention and try to make myself dumb!. A gf of mine was there with me and it seems she like him and for. Anda moment I thought he like her too. So we went out the 3 of us because my gf a cancer seemed to be head over heals for him in a flash… So I kind of help her!. Soon I had to go on a trip an came bck like couple of mos later. When I came bck there was all this stories about this aqua guy from my cancer gf and how he liked her but as a friend and how he rejected her!. I said well thats perfectly cool I find that to be a gentleman!. He did not took advantage like other guys do!. Cause she was really heavy around 250lbs and other guys would you know used her and drop her!. She. Was mad at him real mad so freaking stubborn to have him or do so mething mean if she did not respond sexually to him!. In the other hands this guy AQUA found me online and gave me a piece of his story too!. U see at the end they met thru me in my house!. So we started talking online randomly and I was telling him about my own sorrows! He was like inviting me for lunch and then he would baxk off but I never care/ one day we meet for hot cocoa and start meeting for one to 2 hours everyday for a whole mos!. Ive notice Ive I was going to the beauty parlor to fix my hair to meet him…and soon I notice I felt butterflies in my stomach. So then I was like what is going on that Im so nervous?!. After a mos of seeing him in that cafe -I told him i had a weeding he waited for me at the bar and I would sneak to see him that they he kissed me for the first time /GOD he sweapt me off the floor, he fly me into heaven in a rocket feeling of emotions and place me bck on earth gently!
@all : it was incredible!. Couple of weeks latir our bodys our steamy kisses were craving for each other surrender and we we end up making love !. WuaOoooooo. – boy did I like that slowly but shortly exp was perfect for the moment in time and my then circumstances!. The hidding the exitment the romance the dif ingredients added for great love making sessions!. Within a year thinks were not going well He started drifting away I made the opposite of his behaviour an sag and his distance was an opportunity for the master of conquest the sag/ I end up loving this aqua so much so deep -I was never able to love the sag who was a great guy to me 🙁 so to make a long story short – I dnt know in this point of my life I would hve patience with an aqua or thats just exactly what I need to fall over heals with someone all over again!m after my dear libra!. Who left me handicaPped of being able. To love again!.
Hm. Well – as an aqua girl I never really had a problem having sex. It was the before and after I struggled with. lol
Before I met my current beau (a beatiful, handsome, sensual, mindboggling Libra-who also has never struggled to get me to have sex… WOWZA that man… another story – okay okay), and when I was swimming in the “dating pool of death”, I used to tell those that would ask that I am “cerebrally stimulated”. And, that’s it in a nutshell.
I have met alot of men. I have met alot of sexually charged, good-looking men. A few Don Juans. Some Lotharios. Alot of magnetism. So what.
It didn’t matter if they didn’t smell nice, look clean and could talk up a mean streak. If they couldn’t hold a conversation – stay up at least a little on current events – and conduct themselves with flair at a party…. I wouldn’t even look twice. In fact, it would irritate me a little bit that I would even have to associate with them. Like getting socks for Christmas. *sigh* What a disappointment. All that pretty wrapping paper – and socks underneath.
I don’t mean to be cruel – but truth is truth. I have been known to insult alot of really cute macho dum dums and not think twice about it. I can’t help it.
SO – want an Aquarian? Really??!! Hm. Well – read up on “controversial topics”. Those are fun for us. And, we usually walk away learning something – even if it’s not about the topic. And, once we start learning from you – you are seconds away from the hitting the sack. And – READ A BOOK. Not just for English class.
Atmosphere is everything. Light some candles (put them high up where we won’t walk into them – most air signs I know – and I know alot – my boyfriend and my best friend (Gemini) are two of many – are usually too busy with their heads in the clouds to notice they might be walking into a door….) smile secretly – we love secrets. And woo us with your brain.
We are putty in your hands.
And, it dosen’t hurt to do something a bit exciting like wear socks that light up or something. lol
@all: feed aqua mind before during after the sac – IM an aqua moon and trust me getting me there with mind blowing connection makes me be the best u can do! The trouble is keeping me interested if ur not a person of the mind that loves to talk about smart things u aint gonna last too long!. Have topics to tald about but dnt be surprise ur AQUA out do u on ur fav topic!. They master knowledge, they are observing u and the world getting info in the air knowing more about u than u know urself / Allways wanting to help others thats their great weaknens/ make urself handicapped infront of them and they will come rescue u for lifetime!. Elecricity is their fav domain, the mind works with neuro transmisors there agile thinkers after all our geater inventors have being AQUAs (thomas Alba Edison) BUT remember something our dear water bearer fellow never touch the water wich means his greater incapability is to be in touch with his own feelings!. His the great humanitarian of the zodiac but feelings for him are some how et !. And me I kind related with this aqua moon position ONce my mind take over I dnt know much about how I feel if I let any feelings be felt!. Is as if the mind gives u an ok thru a process of events, when – decided I can let feelings take place!.
Aaaa and also communication there into every social internet network out there they love meeting people thru this type of communication cause is thru the mind someone can have fun and go places and their type of action!. Physical stuff is for the more evolve aqua understanding about food and health to assure a well being of the body! But the body is secondary!.
Okay can anyone tell me how to cool down an Aqua once he’s reached the point where even changing the conversation into something depressing won;t cool down his fire? He seems to be going through the same sex addiction that my Libra ex had, I love being with him, its wonderful but omg, he is “on” 24/7. I don;t see whats wrong with once or twice a week, he wants it everyday. A woman can get exhausted after a while. At least he doesn’t force me like my Libra ex husband used to, but I wonder where does this 40 yr old guy get all of his energy all of a sudden? He wasn’t this much Tiger when we first met, now he’s always hot and ready. He says its my teasing, ???? I don’t tease. Oh well, the love is great, so I can;t complain too much, but I get so tired…..never bored but tired.
I’ve known him for 2 years.
why won’t he show physical affection or just say what/how he feels instead of changing the subject?
He calls me his ‘buddy’ with a pet name but anyone can tell by the way he looks at me and what he does for me that its more than that.
We got into a disagreement recently but sorted that all out. Then I was point blank honest with him and said…”Do me a favor, don’t look at me like you do because it makes me want something I don’t know that I could ever have.”
He backed away from me like I was an alien (lol) and changed the subject like I never said it! I don’t get it because he’s always talking about being honest! And why flirt if that isn’t how he feels? Do you think maybe he’s just a player?
He does say he’s afraid of being hurt. My answer to him has always been..”Your not the only one who has ever been hurt.”
And he’s never had a relationship longer than 5 years. So maybe he can’t?
Any suggestions? I’m a capricorn if that makes a difference. I’m loving, kind, giving, honest, say what I think, and blunt.
Jules
I don’t understand what he would be so afraid of, in 2 years I’m sure that you’ve shown him that you’re interested in more than casual sex. Is he very young, I mean under 30? Maybe they outgrow the hang ups once they get older.
I knew a guy once that wouldn;t sleep with any of his gf’s, I used to ask him why and one day he told me, he didn’t want to touch someone sexually untill he knew that he could make her happy in other ways. weird yes, but some Aquas want to be 100% sure that you will always be his friend, and get scared that if you have sex your friendship might end…..I guess if you want him that way you might have to make him seduce you, the only way to do that is to trick him into thinking that you are scared of that kind of intimacy LOL, its funny, mine thought I was prudish when we met, this made him very eager to try to show me that “love” is better then sex, he seduced me in the most romantic ways, (silly boy actually convinced himself that I’m a shy demure creature that needs coaxing and reasurance in and out of the bedroom) Once in a while when I let my hunger show he thinks that he taught me all of that, it makes him so proud of himself, I pretended that I was scared of committment, it was amazing how fast he found a ring for my finger….. He doesn’t know he’s doing it but he is getting very clingy, I keep telling him to go out with his friends, its been a year since we met and I don;t think that either one of us has visited anyone without the other. I tell him “Oh I’m going shopping with my Mom, I’ll get out of your hair for a couple hours. ” All of a sudden he says, “Why can’t I shop with you?” Get it? He still doesn’t understand me yet, Why don’t I cling to him? All of his past Gf’s did, so he can’t figure out why and this makes him think about me because thats what Aquas do, they get obsessed with things that need figuring out 🙂 I pretend I’m angry sometimes then when I have his attention I break out laughing and this makes him really puzzled, I tell him “I was so irrational, sorry” This makes him follow me around for hours trying to get to the bottom of this…..All the while his hands are on my bottom…..I can never get mad at him for real, he is too sweet, I make a new puzzle for him every week, in 1 year there hasn;t been a day or night that we haven’t spoken or been together, he grabs me possesively in front of all his buddies, his familly tell me that he was never possesive before, Aquarian men with all of their commitment phobias and disgust towards being penned in, can turn into the one doing that in the relationship, you just have to make them think that EVERYTHING was their idea 🙂 oh, btw, always always always look innocent to him, naughty enough to make him crazy but innocent, you know give him that look, that shy smile, look at him, look away smile blush if you can pull it off, pretend your shy… After living with mine for a few months now, it still works, he talks about satuff and I pretend that I’m getting shy, and he loves it!!!! he really loves it that he is the teacher in the bedroom and I’m the novice… There is a drawback though, he wants it more every week. If you get yours reversed like that, be watned now, he will want it over and over untill you’re exhausted.
Thats what most of the Aqua men I’ve met want, a sweet childlike wife, that brings him his coffee and never really asks him for anything LOL “honey, I saw this sweater in the store and I almost bought it but I felt bad to buy it, I don;t really need it and its a waste of money and I feel so selfiish that I even considered getting it.” This is his reply “What the hell do you mean waste of money? I am sick of this, you’re always putting everything back, if its not good enough for everyone elkse then why can;t you have it? Tommorrow we’re going back and your going to try it on” then I sigh, “But honey its stupid, just a sweater and I have lots of them already, lets just stay home and watch tv” LOL Then you know what he does, he gets bossy. and we get the sweater 🙂
Jules
please don’t get me wrong, I spoil him too, I make him his favourite dinners and go to all his familly gatherings with him, the thing is there really isn;t anything that we would refuse eachother. When he is sick I baby him just as much as he babies me, your already his good friend, thats the start of amazing things if you can play him right. When an Aqua man feels like he has the reigns of the relationship, and yet hes with a strange woman that he’ll never understand but damn she is so sweet and kisses his neck while he scolds her for breaking his favourite beer mug, and she brings him his favourite food while telling him that he should change his eating habits. OMG they eat it up! She makes plans without him and looks THRILLED when he says he really wanted to be included “Really hon?” omg he loves it!
Be good to him but make him crazy
Oh I almost forgot, even the littlest gestures he gives me get huge hugs for him. He walks around blushing from the mushy kisses I give him for taking out the garbage, next thing I know he’s in the yard cutting the grass, he fishes for kisses 🙂 and he always gets them
Thank you so much for that insight. I think you are right on! The other day he said..”sleeping together means you can’t be friends..” We both know it does change what we have now and I’m pretty sure that is what he is afraid of. But I disagree on the friendhsip thing..I could make him my bff! and still give him freedom as I also like my own freedom being a Cap. He’s had 2 failed marriages and a g/f who was a cancer sign and broke up with him because she simply couldn’t understand him.
Oh and why does he try and make me mad? I don’t get mad easy but he acts disappointed when I don’t, even to the point of saying out loud..’darn, that didn’t work…” LOL
He’s 20 years older than 30 btw:)
i have a question, I have venus in aquarius and I was wondering if having venus in aquarius relates to this topic, because ever since middle and high school, I’ve always had this desire to have sex all the time and I seem to always fantasize about very dirty things (even during classes that have no relations to sex or anything) and sometimes I feel like I am a bad person for doing so and at such a young age. It makes me worry at times and makes me feel like I am a pervert…..on top of that, I always seem to have 5 or more crushes at a time at school and never just one person, but that doesn’t mean that I only like them for sexual fantasies, but I do like all of them for each of their own unique personalities and ways. So yeah, I was just wondering if this is normal for someone who has venus in aquarius.
I’m a Cap and born close to the Aqua date and have venus in Scorpio…I have a high libido and have since puberty.
jules
Wow, Cap Aqua combo, thats a real kinky mix 🙂 I also have Venus in Scorpio, so it has to be soul mate sex or forget it, LOL Luckilly my Aqua has Venus in Pisces,
Hey! I’m coming kind of late to the conversation, but I’m interested in an Aquarius too. 😀 I’m a through and through Leo, though some places I look say I’m a Leo/Virgo cusp. But, I just discovered that I have Aquarius in the 7th house, which is kind of funny, because his eccentricity and its attractiveness to me came up in conversation the other day. I don’t know any of his planets or houses or anything, but he has told me that the reason he liked me to begin with was that I seemed really confident and fearless, and that I didn’t give a damn about what people thought of me. He did say he never understood me back then, which might have been part of the intrigue…
We liked each other in high school, but never did anything about it. I moved away, got married, got divorced, and am now finishing my degree before I move back home. Mr Aquarius and I are talking again, albeit infrequently. He always says we’ll talk again “soon,” but I usually make the first contact, after a few weeks. However, he never picks up the phone. What’s that about? We agreed there needs to be a meeting at about halfway on the part of both people, but he expects me to call him all the time, which wounds my ego a little.
When he finally calls me back, we talk for two to three hours every conversation; we could only talk for an hour the other day and it felt too short. He admitted to me a while ago that he wants to get me into bed, so I’m guessing that’s a good sign on the relationship front?
He told me he has a sensitive side, but whenever I say something or send a facebook message to the effect of I really like him, or something really overtly flirtatious about him, he either doesn’t respond, gets really quiet, or his response isn’t really a response. I try to reign in the praise -and geez is it ever hard, I love it giving it and he’s pretty fantastic- since he doesn’t respond to it much and I have read everywhere to keep it light in the beginning with an aquarius…any suggestions?
Oh, one other thing. The fact that he’s clearly still after me after eleven years have passed….it sounds like that’s pretty significant, for an aquarius. Right? He told me a few years ago that there are slim pickins’ in our age range…and has made a few references to marriage in the course of our communications, not necessarily to me probably, but just what he expects in it. Am I reading too much into this? Lol, I can’t tell at all. 🙂
This is a typical Aquarius attraction. Most of the girls I’ve dated, actually, have been “after the fact” girlfriends…we hang out frequently while we’re in school or at work or whatever, then, as soon as we part ways I realize I liked that person and we strike something up.
The not calling you back, I have no idea. If I’m interested in someone, they hear from me. Almost overbearingly. Even if I’m not interested in someone romantically, I will pick up the phone and blow in a call once in a while just to see how things are – maintaining friendships is important to me, and that’s an Aquarian thing, I think.
It could be that he wants to be in the drivers seat. If we Aquarians are anything, we’re super control freaks about the most random things – for me, I tend to give up power in a relationship on everything but finances, that’s my little control area. His may be the contact – he wants to exert his control in that respect.
Leo_Girl
Men are strange creatures arn’t they. LOL I think he picked you, I know that sounds funny but thats what the Aqua boys do, they “claim” you. Trouble is untill they want the whole committment thing they just think that time is not important, you can just sit around and wait for him to grow up…yeah right like thats going to happen. So you moved on and build a new life then he emerges from fantasy land. ha ha ha…..They don’t get it, its like they love you so why don’t you just wait? LOL Maybe he grew up now and decided that its time to get together, you have to understand this, they don’t know how long time is, they think that a few years is like a couple weeks, Lucky for me my guy grew up, and never had a woman in his past that was on his mind, just a woman that he pictured, now when we met he sure seemed to think that I was her, and he grabbed me on our first date and told me so. He threw his arms around me and said “I knew you were real.” it was a strange thing to say, only I’d heard that from an ex Aqua before so I just sort of filnched and continued bowling. He kept saying this to me every day untill I finally kissed him to shut him up, Ha ha, doesn’t work with an Aqua by the way, he Stares at me when we kiss!!!!!! I always close my eyes but once in a while when I open them he stares LOL then I laugh, its so freaky that I can’t help it, he looks so different up close like that, like a Martian, omg, its hillarious, his eyes are wide open. So I asked him yesterday, “What kind of freak keeps their eyes open when they kiss?’ So he grins and says, “I don’t want to lose you.”
Oh sure. like I’ll just vanish into thin air I suppose, Anyways, he’s crazy and I’m crazy about him. Oh guess what when he was a kid his teachers thought he had attention defecit disorder and my teachers thought I had it too, you’d be amazed how many people don’t understand air signs. LOL We talk sporatically because our minds move fast not because we get distracted. I’m not distracted I just found a better topic…oooh that used to get me in hot water at school LOL,
The thing is with your guy, he loves you. A bit hard to swallow, its been 11 years but he loves you. Remember, the guy is crazy, he’s an Aqua. If you have room in your life, let him in, trust me if he came back he just might want to stay. Ask him directly, be blunt. “Are you here for now or forever?” He will be honest to the point that you want to slap him but he will be honest LOL
@LibraLady
OMGosh! I have been having an idea that #1 opens his eyes when we kiss and the funniest part of it all is I WANT TO OPEN MINE AND LOOK AT HIM! I think I love him. We agreed to explore this thing to see if there is something behind it. We both admitted we are terrified but willing to take the thrill ride. I’m going to start the kiss with my eyes open and hold the gaze! I’m hopeless, but I don’t care! EFF IT!
Halloween
grab his butt LOL, that always makes my guy lose his breathe….:) Once I dig in my claws he shudders. If you can shock an Aqua, its fun.
@LibraLady
Girl, he was pouring out his heart like an overstuffed, broken pinata full of what I have been desiring for how long??? I pray this is real because I had made up my mind to move on and wash him off my skin but it’s hard when you share a REAL bond with someone. We have an absolute bond and we want to overcome our differences with one another. I know when he’s about to over heat and I am good at diffusing him. He likes it too. He admitted he has an issue with control but that’s due to his fears and what he endured in his past. He came clean!
I told him he can hold onto all that B.S. if he wants but he should try to live life for him now and not in his past because the ex is continuing to win as long as he’s miserable. Light bulbs went off in his head and I know he’s going to have to pay a high electric bill next month! He gets me and welcomes my advice without feeling as if he’s losing control. I assure him my advice is simply an opinion or a suggestion not a commandment. I think I’m in “protected” love with this man. I still need to see more before removing the “S” on my chest!
Good for you Halloween! You are absolutely right, you have to live life right now, you only get one and sometimes its too short. If he trusts you for advice thats a great sign right there, he loves you. Its worth another try I think, go with your heart, you need to see more thats true, but he sounds like he wants to have more then a flighty afffair with you, he sounds like a deep soul in love. keep it slow but let it grow, it will be beautiful 🙂
@LibraLady
I actually feel confident that we have something real between us. He jumped in there like gangbusters to clear up all my doubts about him. It’s eerie. How did he know I was done with him? I made no threats nor nagged or tried to enforce ultimatums. It’s as if he had been reading my mind and thoughts. Skillfully and craftily watching my actions and reactions. Sensing my irritation to particular situations in order to determine the appropriate time to put my mind at ease and stop this madness cuz you know I was outty! I had reached my limit.
I can’t give up on him because this is real. This site has helped me to adapt to him and enabled him to accept who I am…with all of my passion and emotions! 🙂
@LibraLady
I intend to ask him if he wants a long term relationship or just a fling. My best boy friend is an Aquarius, and I’ve always wanted someone just like him. I got really, really (really really) drunk on my birthday and sent Mr crush a drunk text saying I’ve loved him for years. When I woke up the next day I (was still drunk) sent him another message saying I still meant it. His response was that he’s happy I meant it which sounds kind of like a thank you, but he’s still talking to me so I guess I didn’t scare him much with my gushy show of emotion…
Mr crush basically told me I should have dated him instead of the guy I did date in high school. He has this way with compliments, I swear to God….the last one was only three words in response to something I said on facebook, which is near about in public, and I just about fell out.
I suppose I can subvert my ego and call him. I love to chase, but it’s nice to be chased back sometimes, lol.
@Halloween, that’s awesome! I’m glad he’s come around. These Aquarius guys are so frustrating sometimes but dang they’re so freakin’ irresistable!!
Leo_Girl
I think he might be worth it, as long as he treats you good. he must love you if he’s thought about you all of this time 🙂 I hope everything goes great. Fate gives us love only a few times, we have to take it when we can 🙂
@LibraLady, thank you! 😀 You can bet he better treat me well, because I have a huuuuge independent, rebellious bent and I get bored easily.
And @Damien, I meant to respond – he does seem kind of controlling in that way. He gave me somewhat of a tongue lashing because I didn’t leave a voice mail, then expected him to call me in a reasonable amount of time. Oh well. Whatever his deal is, he makes up for it by being different in other ways; not calling me tends to be what happens with most guys I know.
Renee
Ah the Aquarius tounge lashing, I usually start to giggle…. “I asked you to wake me up at 10! not 10:30, does this look like 10?” So I just shrug and that gets him out of bed then I show him that the clock was accidently changed …oops, how did that happen, well he is beginning to relax more. A lot of his little hang ups are starting to disapear, I’m breaking him in. He starts to get mad but i make him the eyes and he melts LOL, I’m not saying that my butt doesn’t sting occassionally but he likes the way I tease him, just puts on the grumpy face 🙁 he knows I love him.
LibraLady – Ahahahahaha! That’s basically what I did, and then he said something crazy flirtatious, hee hee. Make him the eyes, LOL. Guys are so susceptible to charm sometimes. 😀
@Renee
Yeah, that makes sense. Aquarians are like that…I dunno if you believe in Eastern astrology, but you see it espescially in Dragons and Roosters. Roosters (my sign) can be pretty neurotic about it, as well.