Listen to this articleCan an excess of smoldering intensity lead to spontaneous combustion? When two secretive people meet, is there any hope of direct communication? These are the questions that arise in a Scorpio-Scorpio relationship.
But before we answer the question, “Can two Scorpios be happy?,” we must first ask if one Scorpio can be happy. Why, in fact, does our culture place such value on “happiness”? Fulfillment, rather, is what we ought to seek. From a Scorpionic point of view, how can anyone be happy in the face of death, torture, manipulation, abuse, garbage, Hell and discarded biological fluids? There’s just too much crap in the world. Even if you swim the waste products of your own psyche, happiness is just too much to ask for.
So imagine throwing two clinical psychologists or private investigators together. How can they resist the temptation to search through each other’s files, to probe into their partner’s cavities in search of drugs or wiretaps? Will they, as a unit, dig their own graves and bury themselves, locked in a casket of black magic rituals and BDSM roleplaying?
The best we can hope for is that two adults will respect each other’s need to have a private self, and will trust each other enough to expose their flaws without fear of blackmail. And, of course, that they’ll have a killer sex life.
I think that when two Scorpios have it good together, they do experience moments of sheer ecstasy
crowded round the pain.
They just are too intense and passionate not to feel everything deeply.
So sometimes, yes, two scorpios can be happy for a little while, anyways, imo. Just don’t expect them to be content for long. Also, if you have a tormented past or soul, no one can make you feel more accepted than a Scorpio. I mean, really accepted bc he won’t look at you through rose-colored glasses the way that a Piscean would.
I think two scorps can be as happy as any other couple.
It would definitely depend on the type of scorpio.
There are three levels of scorps: immature(the worst), growing and fulfilled(the best).
I agree with Eme Kah about there being nothing like a Scorpio’s acceptance. They see (almost) everything and will ride with you until the wheels fall off. As long as you don’t try to pull a fast one on them. 🙂
An even better question is “Can two Scorpio Moons be happy together?” The short answer: Hell to the No!
Why not, Jara? I’m curious, if you care to share.
I guess I’m biased here, because I’ve dated several people with Scorpio Moons. There’s always an immediate connection, but there’s something I don’t trust about them. When they play their little mind games, I can see through it too easily. Although I understand WHY they’re doing it, I just can’t ever let my guard down around them, and vice versa. It’s even worse when they claim they don’t know why they do the things they do, which I interpret as them having no control over their emotional responses. A Scorpion Moon with no impulse control? Be afraid, be very afraid.
Imagine what you know of the sign Scorpio. This is the sign that will cut off its own nose to spite its face or sting itself to death rather than admit defeat. Now imagine this is how two people act when they get emotional. Not pretty.
How would two Venuses in Scorpio act together?? Would it be different from two Scorpio Suns or Moons together? Hmm…
THANK YOU! I have spent so much effort trying to explain this as my reply to the question why are you always so serious, or some variation of it:
“how can anyone be happy in the face of death, torture, manipulation, abuse, garbage, Hell and discarded biological fluids? There’s just too much crap in the world. Even if you swim the waste products of your own psyche”
i had once started writing a post on scorps and piesceans on my sisters birthday (she is a fish) and somewhere it turned into a scorp and scorp post. it was way back when. if i could have found it i would have shared it with you as my take on scorps with scorps
Laney the scorpio said….
Well.. Its weird when I cook up with another scorpio.
We get along really well but we are both subborn, aggressive, Like power and refenge…So when we fight it can get pretty ugly.
Hello, i am a full blood scorpio, i was in a six year relationship,
first four years, love over board,
fifth year lies started, my mate was a cancer, i was powerful when needed however on the sixth year i came into full power when i got the proof cheating had started.
Year seven we made a pact with total honesty and cheat when you want, i really did not want to make this pact but to have honesty in the relationship i put it on the table, the answer was i love you and i will not cheat on you.
The cheating started because i did not want to have sex every night, my responce was i do not love you and i just cant,i was drained and wanted it over and the fall of the seventh year i walked the person i came to dislike out of my life.
I requirer honesty in a relationship, and that is why i have chosen to remain alone, we all long to have some one near at times and i am no differant, but, i made my choice, someone said to me once, when she left she took the best part of you with her, to this date i still can not understand what my friend meant.
can to scorpios live and have a happy relationship? i say yes but each has to allow the other to express power and above all, love and truth has to be the foundation.
Two Scorps together (Sun/Moon/whatever) can be the epitome of passive-aggressive guerilla warfare. Usually ending in a stalemate, unless the wiser acquiesces. Both would rather die than admit weakness and relinquish control.
It’s a Romeo-Juliet kind of thing, very passionate.
I have loved two Moon in Scorpios (deeply) and it was mutual. But always the proverbial stalemate with both parties standing at arm’s length to see who will leave the field open to move (or cave) in. No one moves, no one caves. Forever frozen in time. Framed works of art.
In both cases we hypnotized each other, observed each other with a mutual fascination. Similar to an exhibit at the Museum of Natural History, taking turns viewing the other from behind the glass.
Sex with these types may be phenomenal, beyond words– but as such ill-fated. The man needs to be wanted, the woman wants to be needed. In essence both desire pursuit but neither wants to pursue.
This formula lacks the necessary ingredient for the loaf to rise, leaving us half-baked. I wait for him to need me, he waits for me to want him. A sordid standstill affair, since it wounds his pride to need her, and wounds hers to want him.
Would a Scorpio ever grovel for someone’s affection? Hardly. We prefer to obsess, research and analyze the situation, then wait it out. And the clock keeps ticking.
I’m a scorp and I tend not to get along with my signmates. I’ve only had maybe 1 or 2 scorpio friends my whole life. However, scorpios tend to come in two varieties: (1) the low-level scorpion, a malicious coward who stabs you in the back when you lest expect it and (2) the self aware scorp who can rise above the destructive tendencies as a phoenix. My troubles are generally with scorps of the first variety. Also, some people are just dicks, regardless of their sign 😉
I’m a scorpian (Female)
My Scorpio mate and myself have been together for 17 years. I think our relationship worked because one of us is more dominant than the other. It really is a rewarding relationship, and does have its rough spots. But scorpio partners can be dynamite and thrilling. He is 6 foot 6 and tells people that I am the bouncer and he is the cooler lol. He means MY cooler, as I’m the one that tends to need the cooling off. I have control of the house and all it entails as well as the children, because I’m the one home more often than he is. He takes care of everything else. He is hilarious and always keeps me laughing, even when I don’t want to. Trust me! It does work.
hi, can you help interprete my chart and husbands..we are both scorp sun..my moon is caprcorn and his aries..mercury is scorp for me and libra for him..venus is scorp for me and sag for him…what the heck do i make of it?? i love this stuff
Whether or not two scorpios can be happy together depends entirely on how possessive and secretive they are. My longest and most meaningful relationship was with another Scorpio and he was only minimally possessive and actually very open. The only Scorpio-like quality he had was the intensity of his feelings, but he rarely acted out because of them.
I on the other hand am very intense and I show it. I’m very possessive, sometimes without realizing that I am, and I’m very hot and cold sometimes.
In the end I, the more intense and true-to-form Scorpio, broke his heart. I believe that union between two Scorpios is possible, but you need to have at least one moderate Scorpio if it’s ever going to work.
Also, I completely agree with eme kah in that Scorpios can make you feel more comfortable with your demons than anyone. I have ALWAYS found that to be true, because I don’t think I’ve ever dated anyone without serious baggage – then again who doesn;t have at least a little bit? Scorpios can make you fall in love by accepting what you think are flaws but later the Scorpio may resent you for the very same reasons.
Liz
While people always blame Scorpios about being a bit too much… I want to say… Scorpios always feel that they had a bit too less as compared to what they deserved. Scorpios don’t do much talking… even if they do, it has a lot substantial. Scorpios can figure it out very early… if you are the way you should be for them OR some other way round??? You CAN NEVER BETRAY a SCORPIO. Try doing this, you’ll feel the heat… MOSTLY, “When you get involved with a Scorpio, they’ll know you a bit too quickly.” They’ll even figure out what you haven’t said. YOU KNOW WHY??? “They are just with you, when they are with you…”
Hello, My sun is in scorpio(female) and I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a scorpio male. My scorpio boyfriend was very demanding and possesive and I was to..we each expected a lot from each other and couldn’t budge..so we had to part and continue on our own paths.
I feel the need to say something on this topic. I’m a double scorpio woman, and the one person who truly knows, accepts and loves me with all his being, is a scorpio man. A few men have fallen hard for me, but they couldn’t handle what they fell into and things ended as tragically as you can imagine. This scorpio man can’t get enough of it.
Things have spun out of control into volcanic eruptions of anger and even violence, but as soon as all is said done and thrown, we come back to square one, having accomplished nothing and both refusing to let up the control or change our views, but both coming to the same conclusion: that we love and accept this mirrored monstrosity more than anything else in this godforsaken world.
how are you all doing. . how honest are you …if your so strong then why do you need so many of you SHES ;…… sad…..you kinda sound like you all combine into one person….talking to your self ..all make mistakes..i ve made mine …as a male scorpio we know how to forgive and forget…and try 2 mend…maybe try to sort out problems in your head …cause you have the wrong advice…lisien to your love ones…and let your bad mind go….your giving scorpio a bad name….if you know ..then why …..good luck…………Peace and love unity ……world will be a better ….
agree with feisty!
i am a full scorp, and to be honest guys didn’t really understand me well EXCEPT for another scorpio guy.
my man which is a scorp guy really understand my need and things that i want and need in my life.
as for me, i love my scorp guy coz we basically working in the same ground..
haha~
I have two scorpion friends who are playing mind games with each other, when you see them together, you can say that they like each other way too much, but why can’t they move forward and open it up, it is always one mind game or the other, sometimes it is frustrating, and they are very loyal to each other, can anyone explain why two people who are so similar and understanding be so like wax and water?
hi
I AM A SCORPIO FEMALE AND MY BOYFRIEND IS A SCORPIO MALE… I AM MORE INTENSE AND CONFRONTATIONAL… HE IS MORE LAID BACK AND TENDS TO NOT LET A LOT OF THINGS BOTHER HIM… I AM MORE OF THE OUTGOING, SPOTLIGHT TYPE AND HE IS MORE OF IN THE BACKGROUND, OBSERVER..WE ARE BOTH SEXUAL BEASTS (LOL) AND WE ENJOY EACH OTHER’S COMPANY…POINT BLANK… THIS MAN IS THE YING TO MY YANG… WHERE I AM WEAK HE IS DEFINITELY STRONG AND VICE VERSA…WE BOTH KNOW ABOUT THE MIND GAMES THAT SCORPIOS TEND TO PLAY AND WE TRY TO REFRAIN FROM THAT BY COMMUNICATING MORE(WHICH IS HARD FOR US TO DO AS WELL) AND BECAUSE WE ARE BOTH “VERY” ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE…WE DO TEND TO BE JEALOUS.. I MORE SO THAN HE… BUT WE COMMUNICATE AND JUST BECAUSE WE HAVE SIMILAR CHARACTERISTICS DOES NOT MEAN THAT I KNOW HIS EVERY MOVE OR THAT HE KNOWS MY EVERY THOUGHT…WE BOTH KNOW WHAT WE ARE DEALING WITH AND WE USE WHAT WE KNOW TO ADVANCE OUR RELATIONSHIP. I HAVE DATED PISCES AND CANCERS AND IT WAS FUN BUT NOT MEANINGFUL AS I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE.. WITH THIS MAN ITS LIKE ME IN A MALE BODY… AND I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT… I KNOW THE “STARS” SAY TWO SCORPS CANNOT STAY TOGETHER BUT THATS COCK AND BULL.. WHEN YOU ENTER SUCH NONSENSE INTO YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS.. WHAT ELSE WOULD YOU EXPECT..YOU’RE ENTERING NEGATIVITY, BEFORE YOU GUYS HAVE EVEN BEGAN YOU ALREADY FEEL AS IF ITS GOING TO END OR WON’T LAST LONG..IT CAN WORK OUT…(ADVICE)SCORPIO COUPLES JUST SWALLOW SOME PRIDE EVERY NOW AND THEN AND BE VULNERABLE IF ONLY ONCE AND LET YOUR SIGNIFICANT IN…SEE HOW MUCH HAPPIER YOU WOULD BE…THEN GO HAVE WILD,ANIMAL, BUT LOVING SEX!!!!
This Scorpio male had two Scorpio gfs. Great sex and wonderful psychic connection. But too much tension after a while. But they still think the world of me and me of them.
I know this: If I ever see them again, we’ll end up in the bedroom……. (and they know it too!)
So let me discribe my scorpio woman and i. Im calm and collolected most of the time im less social but get along with everyone. Im apperently a rarity in anything shes ever experienced scorpio or otherwise. Shes more social and shy and afraid of everything but confrontational. I however am grab the bull by the horns or find a waay fear is not an option. Im also more controlled sexually but shes not. Ive made her lose cotrol and i havent even started and shes frustrated that she cant. ITo her it seems im reading her mind and giving little. Our whole thing is to ask a questionn like what and we’ll have small argument like nothing and thats the worst. What im really wondering is why we are so good but why i have not the same feelings as her. To me she seems like any other giggly girl but unlike them i find myself unable to turn away for to long. Im definatley more dominate and stronger but deos that matter? We both feel unreasonbly safe and combterble like its supposed to be but im more wary of this and catiuos. The big difference is ive found myself and know who i am and shes still searching. So what can i do to keep us together i want all or othing and i want it forever. Could a scorpio woman pay that? And any other scorpio scropio awnna help me out?
Vixen and duecess thanks that gives me faith.
Phenix/scorpio
I finally get it, she isnt as mature as you, thats what you keep trying to tell us all 🙂 She hasnt matured yet, but she will…. The question is are you willing to wait for her to catch up? Youre young, so Im assuming that she is too, You know what might help, being around her familly whenever possible, if you can, I dont know the circumstances…. You are trying to leap into a life that she isnt ready for, you shouldnt be ready for yet but youve grown up faster then others your age, you have to give everyone a chance to catch up :)All or nothing gets me into a lot of trouble with guys, most people find it intimidating when you throw the truth on the table and say here, this is it, Its all or nothing…..
libra lady- so just chill with her fam. I’ll wait but it seems anoying when i got a time limit to get all the things i want. what other advice besides patients is required.
My Scorpio husband and I are very well suited to one another. We relish the darkness without letting it taint our marriage. When I was with a Taurus, his jealousy and possessive nature were annoying and amateur. The passion of another Scorpio can’t be considered amateur by any stretch. We are liars and manipulators at our cores, but we’ve found our match in each other. There is no judgement, and we can be perfectly honest for the first time in our lives.
I am a Scorpio and have been dating my boyfriend since September 2008 who is also a Scorpio. In the beginning things seemed tough because we would keep everything secret from each other and when we would fight (which we still rarely do) it would be over the stupidest and smallest of things but it would get very nasty and have to admit that we have gotten physically aggressive towards each other (me more so than him of course) just because one of us didn’t want to admit that we were wrong or something like that.. We since then have come really close and feel at peace, safe, and completely myself around him. He is my other half and I love him with all of my heart and I know that he feels the same way as I do. We talk a lot and share how we feel so as to avoid hurting each other. He knows almost everything about me from what makes me happy, makes me sad (memories that trigger sorrowful events), my fears, my joys, and just everything else. I know his as well and when we probe into each others minds we know it is happening and he can pick up thoughts I’m sending to him and I can pick up thoughts he is sending to me. Personally, I think that 2 Scorpios can go great together if they try to make it work and make sacrifices for the sake of their relationship.
Can a October Male Scorpio
Date A November female scorpio :).
Scorpiogal
October born Scorp guys are not much different then a November born ones, maybe just a bit more curious. If you 2 are crazy about eachother, I would go for it. You’ll never know unless you do. I think it would make a good match.
LibraLady, YES, a Scorpio man born in October can successfully date a Scorpio woman born in November. I am here to say that it is possible. However, they both have to be mature. I am a scoprpio woman born in November and I am happy to say that I am marrying my scorpio man, born in October in December of this year. Our relationship is something I’ve never experienced with a man before. He’s a few years older than I am and from a different background and culture (not sure if that’s what makes him so special to me), but he is so different. He helps to complete me as a scorpio woman. We had one disagreement and at that point, we both realized and discussed that we did not want to bicker with each other because we know that it will only start a war between the two of us that would never end. Of course he thinks he’s better at the war game than me and I think the same, so we left it alone. But, yes, an october male scorpio and a november female scorpio can be happy and in my case, ‘happily ever after’
I’ve been wondering if scorp and scorp will work and I am always curious about it, coz clearly I have no role model. My BF and I are scorps, we both born in November and I read deucess* post it does true. He is definitely myself in a male body. This is perhaps one of the elements which making it work: we share similar interests. A LOT.
I know there will be things come up and would rock the boat but we have had chats quite seriously and realized that we both are so much alike. We pointed out our weaknesses and we agreed to double up the doze of our ‘communication pills’ more when one of us is sensing something weird going on in our relationship. We’re having loads of laughter and the sex is just A.M.A.Z.I.N.G (HA!)
The thing is… I admires him and he adores me (LOLS…)
Love is not the word to describe how I feel about him, it’s beyond it. I never feel this very deep emotion towards a man before in my life!? It feels so right for me because he made me reveal the best side of myself. I did things that I thought I wouldn’t be able to do it, I believe I am spiritually evolving spiritually as well. So, our plan is to moving (very) forward next year (RAWR…)
Wish us luck, guys B-) YEAH!!!
I have this funny situation with a scopio woman at my dance group
last year, I was not 100% certain whether she liked me or not, but was in a bad way and told her about another woman, who was messing with my head, on facebook, she looked down when I told her of this other woman, (and there was 1 time when I thought she looked at me in a steamy fashion but am so use to 2ndf guessing a womans interest, that I don’t always trust it)
she continued to ask me about this other woman for a few weeks, and I explained at one point, ” that I was done with this other woman and was going to ignore her”
I expressed concerns over dating anyone from my dance group just in case it got in the way of the dance group and caused atmospheres and she explained ,that she had once gone for a coffee, with somone and remained freinds, “I then said in, that case, was she free for a coffee” she understandably said no, which I don’t blame, as the way it come off was no good
but I always liked her but was honest enough to say at that point, that I had learnt the hard way, about putting all my eggs in 1 basket and so, had my eye on a few women there
I did not say this to be hurtful but was simply tired and a little cynical about the way, i feel women play men off against each other why they decide who is suitable and was simply saying, I have not learnt to do the same for my own protection.
later things resecalasted with the other woman and she at least witnessed us, dancing and having a good time but nothing ever came of it with this other woman as she was a quite a bit older, a gemini and could not have possibly understood me
some time passed, we continued dancing together and i felt kinda gutted, about what happened before, and always laughed like a drain with her when dancing with her
I aksed her out for the 2nd time, she said no again ( this was despite her, another time impulsively hugging some dude at another dance venue when i think she knew i was looking and waiting to ask her for a dance: she just danced with him again )
when i saw her the following week, I felt her energy level drop when she saw me,
when i aksed her for a 2nd dance that evening she seemed uncomfortable
“I said alison, you don’t have to dance with me”
she said something or other about not feeling the evening and the music which i did not believe
the following week, i avoided her like the plague and did not ask her to dance
i dropped out of my dance group for six weeks and upon my return, continued to ignore her, as I thoght it best to let go as she clearly was not interested and when I saw her, I always felt something and did not want to feel that uncomfortable again
after the third week, back, she asked me to dance and we resummed our laughter and fun 2-3 dances a week
we had some really fun dances, and cool things happen but becuase, of what she had said, becuase the first time I aksed her, I did have i guess didivded loyalyties, and the 2nd none and in both instances,, she had said not, i still thought, ” despite all the laughter and her asking me more about me, what i did etc, it still seemed pointless to ask, her out for the third time
a few weeks into me being back, another girl, expressed interest but I held off becuase i was holding out for alison but nothing happened with her, that made it clear to me,
a few weeks later and I had 2-3 dances with this other girl and there seemed to be some chemistry there so ,I thought, I am so tired of being alone,, and aksed her out for a coffee
she said yes and gave me her number which alison saw
this girl bailed on me and ignored my text and phone calle and has tried to kinda apolgise after 18 days without an explanation
when I saw alsion, the following week, after aksing this girl out, I explained how maddening , I found women and she said nothing, but seemed fine and in good spirirts
she saw it and I was acknowledging that it had taken place
the following 2 weeks, she seemed to keep on blocking my normal requests for a 2nd/3rd dance in a manner that I found so blindingly obvious, it seemed like a scorpio payback and i was left thinking, I didnt think you was interested, but understand as a fellow scorp how, I may have initally hurt her, if she did indeed like me
2 weeks ago, when i went up to her and saw her whisper in some guys ear, she, was dancing , with for the 2nd dance, it seemed beyond obvious to me as i am certain she knew , I was coming up to her, like 2 ocassions the previous week
it really hurt, and I just ended up feeling so fed up, deflated and beaten that no matter what I do in life, I can’t seem to date: she is without doubt, sexy, charismatic and fascinates me, but , we are still stuck
she later saw me look over at her and what I found strange was she did come and find me for a dance, and wanted to know why I seemed so down, but I told her nothing, and just said, that yes, I had had, a hard week when she asked
later, i swear when she knew i was coming up to her, she did it again, with soemone else
I am not saying i have not created this situation but I do really like the girl, and really feel something around her that I don’t feel around anyone else
it seems fucked now, though
not at all they are too much alike..and their is more to enjoy besides sex…
ive returned ill be here soon enough
scorpio gal we can indeed im severaly in love with my scorpio female (nov) and im an october male weve been together going on two years with a friendship before it. Its been energy im a scorpio acednent scorp to lol so uslaly i make people uncombeterable and instantly i hatye or like you tis one i liked and couldnt get away from. We started out crushing on eachother and i jsut strait up told her i wanted her. that i wanted to be wtith her i won her trust with coolikng her dinner writeing a stupid song for her doing the little things they matter. THe trouble with us is that when we started argiing wed take it to extrmemes everyone seems to get it right talk and open up and itll be the best ever the sex becomes something that most people could only dream of but more importantly is the bond you share and the interest you have in one another were a team we take out our proems we attain our goals we are heading in the same direction I plan to pursue and keep pursing her a tip for the guys flatter tell her shes beautiful all the time write on her facebook wall i love u or just becuase. Tell her you want a life with her but after the inital sizing eachother up phase and i find this one worthy.
okay so here’s my story:
I’m a Scorpio sun (Aries rising & Libra moon) & the guy of my dreams is a Scorpio sun as well (Sagitarius rising & Pisces moon). My venus is in Scorpio & his mars is in Scorpio. We’re both in high school.
Last year, we met through a mutual friend & i could tell right away that there was something different about him; an energy that i had never been faced with before. A series of events culminated into us being alone just talking one day and there are no words to describe it; the connection was amazing <3 – beyond anything i had ever experienced in talking to someone before. I was a nervous mess because i knew i had already fallen hard for him, but he was fine; composed, energetic, & open. The problem is that after that, my scorpio tendancy to run from things that might hurt me led me to barely talk to him for the remainder of that school year. I knew he was the only one who had enough of me to break my heart & he didn't even know. However, i later found out that he was still getting over his aries ex from the year before who had blatantly rejected him after a week of being together. But anyways, fast forward to this year, i'm still crazy over him, i'm pretty sure he's over his ex & i'm trying to be on a "friends" basis with him first, which is a big step up from last year. I can't even explain how hard it is though; to TRY to have a casual, light, friendship with him without coming off as overbearing or too intense. The Aries part of me knows what i want, & it's to be his so badly. I'm fighting my scorpio tendency of being crazy jealous of every girl that talks to him, but it's hard. It's as easy as talking to him, getting to know him better & him getting to know me, but is it really? What if he doesn't like what he sees? What if he rejects me, like i hope he wouldn't? I know he can hurt me & him being a fellow Scorpio means that the scars would run deep for sure =/ Should i take the risk & try to get to his heart? & If i did, how could that be done? Any help, interpretations, or advice would be appreciated <3 thanks.
Id take the risk my scorpio woman did with me after i came on to her lol just try and figure out if he likes u you could lawyas try and hang out with him at a coffee shop or at a mall or something worked for her at least our first get together resulted in us being together and it was at a highschool football game.
thank you for the advice <3 & i guess i can try that. the only hard part is how do i get him to see that we are so different, yet so similar? We may come from different walks of life & different familiar situations, but our goals are so much the same: to succeed in life in whatever we choose to do, to provide for our families, & to be happy. We are both extremely driven & proud. & I don't know about him, but i'm not going to be the one to bend over & break for one that is not willing to catch me, though it seems i already have…I often wonder however, that if he knew of how capable we could be of understanding each other, would he see me in the same light that i see him? That is to say, would he ever choose some other girl over love, care, & mutual understanding? Or is it a Scorpio male characteristic to constantly chase until one worthy enough comes along, regardless of understanding & connection? Or do all the answers to my questions & hopes lie in simply talking to him & getting to know him better? i'm lost…
to be ohnest ladylovee i didnt know i was intersted in my scoprio woman. It took a year for me to notice how good we were together. We spent some tiem apart and when i came back and we seen eachother she ran into my arms and weve been together ever since, I guess i was being stupid but she finally got me out and we’ll we started talking like crazy and hanging out like crazy and here the kicker if it makes you feel better were from different backrounds to. I was from the poor backround and shes been spoiled. but we ve come together. idk most scprps like to know about the zodiac idk strike up some convo lol. And to be ohnest my loved had to be earned> at first it was so ubleivable the connection and then we clashed and whew was it nuts lol ha ha but neither of us backed away from eachother. now we have or own ways for it i realize sometimes im a but head and shes kinda nuts sometimes lol i remembr recently she got upset cuase i hugged a girl lol never understand 😛 but it is about findining one worhty or proving to themselves there worthy enough 😛
thank you tons phenix/scorpio! your story shares some similarities with mine & i can only hope mine turns out just as successful as yours(: i now know what i need to do & i can only hope that all goes well. thank you for the inspiration <3 you have given me the push & reassurance that i needed(:
no prob good luck and if it makes u feel better im young as well lol shes in colledge now and im army now and were stillmaking plans to be together. oh i was an idiot to cant beleive it took me a long time to figure out she liked me i never could tell with her that was part of the reason it took so long. so i put her in the freindzone and evutially it happened good luck make it happen wont be sorry best relationship ive ever had
my scorpio man and l met online. he left me many messages asking me to contact him as l hadn’t been on the site for a long time. When l finally got his messages, l left him my msn and we started chatting. Am not sure how possible this is, but we connected instantly just by chatting. we didn’t meet for a while, but we kept chatting and eventually l gathered enough courage to give him my number. we then went on to talking and texting on the phone.
Then came the meeting. we recognised each other instantly. we went for a drink and we couldn’t keep our eyes away from each other. l knew l was in love with him. after a few more meetings he said he loved me and he wants a future with me. he wants a baby although all we’ve done so far is kissing, which was great. we’ve dated for three months now.
am a bit cynical because l’ve been in a previous relationship with a aries and he said the same things to me….said he loved me and wanted to be with me and it turned out he was lying about so many things.
does anyone out there know if l should believe what my scorpio is saying to me and if l should give him the benefit of the doubt. when we are together we are both so intense but when we are apart l feel vulnerable.
@misunderstood scorp
I had an intense connection with a scorp guy over the Internet this past summer, so I can relate to you.
Take your time! If a man is so earnest about spending the rest of his life with you, then why rush? Uncertainty is fine. Feel it out and enjoy
him. Passion is wonderful, but maintaining the ebbs and flows of passion OVER TIME and
building intimacy while doing that can be super healthy. Not to mention- reassuring for you!
I’d like to believe two scorps can endure! And more so, transcend and change the world! Complex, though. Might have to be two eagles. Or at least one eagle and an ‘aspiring’ eagle. Forgiveness and vulnerability seem to be the key and that’s easier said than done. Trust is a must!
bah misunderstood beleive in him hell need u mine didnt help me my scorpio woman the connection is so unbleleiveble its odd to me. Beleive him hell beeive u no fake alays talk on pint ill teach u what i couldnt learn till later if youll listen weve hit rocky times but this woman is of interest to me shes not the easiet to love at times but this is ok i like the challange and dont back down what ever u do one of u must be the wiser and understand otherwise youll destory and resent and the scorpio male is often reffered to like a king cobra when the female pisses him of he bites her belly and kills her lol sadistic tehre are other things just all or nothign remember that no hesitation youll learn what i mean as u progress and watch out my sexual expereinew ith a scorpio woman i can say i wasnt board but i was so keep things constant affection sex oh nvm youll figure it out
i wanted to know because me & my ex broke up.i realized we were both scorpios & just wanted to see what was up. 🙂
I’m a Scorpio who was with an intense..mysterious dashing Scorpio man for 5 years.. Our personalities were so similar though, so although we understood each other we also clashed. The relationship was pretty intense in both good and bad ways.. We had a bitter break up over a dumb disagreement and didn’t speak to each other for two years. I’m still healing from it. We are slowly talking again especially since we hang around the same people and work in the same location (different buildings-it’s a university). The thing is I still love him and I think he still loves me too but he is so darn stubborn! (Like I should talk!) Anyway I decided to try to move on and just started seeing a man who is a Pisces..Wow..polar opposite of my Scorpio ex… Nothing too serious yet just getting to know each other and so far I like him and I’m sure the feeling is mutual.. My Scorpio ex has seen me with this new guy and he just glares at us or walks away all in a rage.. The thing is my ex’s line of work forces him to be around these really cute 20 something year old college girls and he’s constantly flirting with them .. (I’m sure they don’t mind interacting with a very dashing older man) It drives me crazy! Especially since they are young enough to be his daughters..but I guess this day in age anything is possible. I know that I’m trying to move on and he has the right too find someone else also.. But still..it hurts me so much to see him with other women..especially since they are younger..(For the record I’m actually younger than him..in my 30’s..he’s in his early 50’s but looks much younger) I guess deep inside I just want him back.. I’m so jealous of these girls who get the attention he used to give me..It’s hard for me to let go of him..at the same time, I might have something special brewing with this Pisces man.. I don’t know what to do anymore. Anyway..I’m sure some Scorpio Scorpio combinations work..but others need a lot of work.
No one understands scorpio better then another scorpio.
Me and my guy are both true scorpios but there are a lot of differences between male and female scorpio.
He is my great friend and a love of my life. He is doing that kind of job where he must travel a lot so we are not seeing each other a lot,but that kind of helps.
Me as a female scorpio, i’m way too emotional and i show it, and when he is not feeling well he doesn’t show it.He just becomes quite and thinks a lot about it. I learned how to treat him and he learned how to treat me. When we first met we were very nice to each other, then after a while we both became more relaxed so we had arguments but nothing serious, coz i notice when i hurt him and then apologize, he on the other hand rarelly apologizes, insted of that he turns everything on joke…
He won my heart in a second i saw him.
They are very hard to get involved especially if they’ve been hurt before.
I usually don’t like other scorpios, coz i see all my bad quallities in them, but he is something special.
I hope this would last : )