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My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. He recently broke up with me and told me he no longer has feelings for me. He has said this in the past when he gets upset at me. I’m lost without him. He had lied to me about somethings in the past and in time I built up resentment and the last two days it all came out. I said somethings to him that I’m not proud of. I didn’t mean any of it as I was speaking from being hurt. He has never cheated, but he did lie and that lie devastated me. He is a Scorpio. He has said he doesn’t even want to talk to me anymore. Will this pass and will he ever come back to me? I’ve been faithful and honest to him for three years. I’ve stood by him and always showed respect. I’m heart broken)>: Should I stop trying to email him and call him? Please tell me what to do.
The buildup of resentment is a Scorpio/8th House/Pluto matter. Its expression is Martian. You may have particular difficulty expressing your anger because your Sagittarian Mars is squared by a tight Sun-Pluto conjunction in Virgo. Although your Mars just wants to let the anger out, your Sun-Pluto is tightly controlled. Pluto brings a concentrated force to your self-expression, and in Virgo, these two planets can be intensely self-critical, and are much more reserved than your Mars. As a result of this conflict in expression of your planets, you may have a tendency to hold on to underground anger until a trigger leads to an explosion.
In your case, the volcano has been active for a while, and it just erupted. Transiting Pluto has been moving through your 12th House of Deception, Lies and Hidden Things, revealing information about your Scorpio man, as well as intensifying your anger, as transiting Pluto is conjunct your natal Mars. Transiting Saturn has been moving through your 8th House of Intimacy and Ugly Feelings Aroused in Relationships, and it is trine (180-degree angle) your natal Mars, bringing some concreteness to its expression. Finally, a Leo New Moon this past Sunday fell in your 8th House, stimulating your brewing resentment.
Note also (and this applies to everyone) that retrograde Venus is conjunct Saturn. It’s a hard time for relationships in general. Old stuff comes up, and some of it is unpleasant to confront.
I don’t know if your Scorpio will come back. Scorpios do tend to cut people out of their lives, but there are always exceptions. Transiting Mercury (which happens to rule your 7th House of Partnership) will conjoin retrograde Venus this Friday (8/17), a good time to talk about relationship matters. Venus then goes direct on September 8, a time when love lives can move forward. I’d suggest you not overwhelm him with calls and emails, but to just pop him a note this Friday and on the 8th of next month, and see how he responds.
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