Why does a Capricorn fall out of love?

People fall in love, they fall out of love. The clouds of fantasy eventually fade away, leaving nothing but the reality of your lover’s best and worst traits. If you don’t like the “what is” of your partner, were you ever in love in the first place, or were you just in love with the image you created?

A Capricorn man seems the least likely of any other Sun sign member to delude himself. After all, he is ruled by Saturn, the reality principle. If Cap doesn’t fall in love until he’s made a measured assessment of his partner-to-be, then he’s unlikely to have acted impulsively on the basis of unconscious projections.

So, if not disillusionment, what is the source of Capricorn’s heart-retreat? This man may not be as cold and calculating as he is reputed to be, but he nonetheless has his own pragmatic way of making life decisions. We often fall out of love when either we or our lover have changed (or not). A Capricorn man prefers slow and steady growth, so he may be turned off by a partner’s radical deviation from what he’s come to rely upon. Could it be that the withdrawal of his partner’s support — so that he or she can climb their own mountaintop — results in the passing of a cold wind through Cap’s chest?

To a Capricorn, is love more than feeling that your one-and-only helps you rise to partner in the firm?

About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.


  1. he’s not really famous though although he tries to be. but I think I’ve betrayed his trust too many times and he really trusted me but I don’t think before I do things. I really wish it could have worked out but it’s too late now and I feel like I’ve lost him forever but it’s my fault and I feel horrible for it. I had a nightmare about it before and I guess nightmares come true sometimes. :\ he said he’s dreamt about me before and I think he still thinks about me a lot. :\

  2. I think I’ve betrayed his trust too many times and he really trusted me. I feel like I’ve lost him forever but it’s my fault. I shouldn’t have done all those things to him. but I don’t think before I do things sometimes. he’s friends with lots of famous people and he’s really likeable I guess. I really loved him and I had a nightmare about this a while ago and I guess nightmares do come true sometimes. he said he’s dreamt of me. I dunno I feel really bad for treating him like shit now but I can’t do anything about it. he’ll never forgive me I don’t think. he thinks of me differently now but I don’t know what I can do anymore.

  3. I dunno he’s coming to play in my city for a famous band and before he said he wanted me to meet me beforehand but he doesn’t want to anymore but it’s still my fault for getting jealous that he had a girlfriend and thinking that we couldn’t anymore anyways. I think I’ll still go see him cause I’ve always wanted to but we probably won’t ever be able to meet up after this. he probably hates me now and I don’t blame him. I just wish he followed through on his plans cause he told me that the first time he talked me and I guess he still thinks I’m hot but I didn’t want him only for sex. :\ the famous band he’s playing with is best friends with him and I really love them too. they’re one of my favorite bands (they’re electronic) and he said he’d introduce me to them but it’s just heartbreaking now. none of this can happen anymore. :\ I feel really bad for it. :\

  4. he really did try to listen to me and I was trying to help him and I think he meant well but he couldn’t wait forever probably and I probably did piss him off first but I was teasing him and I guess he just didn’t like it. I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t think it would be good to meet him before the concert anymore because it won’t be a good way to meet him for the first time. the venue is not that small. I don’t know what to do anymore. :\ he was trying to be nice to me and I feel like I’ve ruined his life now and I feel really bad for it. he’s such an amazing person. he really is. :\

  5. Ladies,

    can we chalk this up to Cap’s are picky and stubborn as hell and they are going to be blowing through girls until their “one that got away” comes back to them or dies? Seriously, they are big hearted (but belongs to THIS girl who left me) pussies!

  6. Hi, Im a Virgo and he’s a Cap!
    We first starting seeing each other nearly a year ago. He was the sweetest ever.! We spent nearly everyday together, he practically lived with me, so he moved in after few months.
    Things were great, but he wanted to start a business. I really believed in him and we talked about marriage, so it seemed like we were gonna be together forever.
    I decided to lend him money to start up. While he was starting out I paid for everything and he was really greatful.
    Now his business is going really well and hes really happy, but not with me.
    I said you never take me out, your really cold all of a sudden, and i dont feel like a proper couple and he didnt say anything.
    I suggested he move out.
    He has now moved out and says he’s still with me, but wants space. He says he doesn’t know what he wants. Said I nagged him to much, which I did.
    Now he has moved out and im so heartbroken as I feel all that I have done for him and now he doesnt know what he wants.
    I think him saying he needs space is him trying in a nice way to break up with me.
    I have a lot of his business stuff on my laptop as he doesnt have one so he wants to come over for that but still want his space?!
    Am I being used?
    I still love him and am heartbroken!

  7. Lately I have found that a lot of Cap men are attracted to me. However, something always goes wrong for instance I dated one guy his b-day was Jan. 17. I kept getting this weird vibe from him that there was something about I couldn’t trust or maybe I just thought deep down inside he was a pervert. So, I quickly ended this little hook up. Lol. However, I have notice that what really bothers me about Caps Men are their natural controlling nature and seriousness. Btw my b-day is Sept. 1, Virgo, Aquarius moon, Libra Rising, Mercury in Libra, Mars in Leo, Venus in Scorpio. Chinese Year of the Dog.

    Ok the next Cap I met b-day was Jan. 13 he seemed to have everything going ok for him. He only had 2 years left in med school and I could totally see myself as a doctor’s wife. So here’s when everything went sour. After we went on a casual date he calls me the next day with some drama he got himself into and wanted me to help him get out of it. I instantly seen this as a red flag and told him I couldn’t help him, sorry. He blew up at me and acted totally immature. I didn’t curse him out like he wanted me 2 I just hung up on him and delete his # out of my phone and didn’t think twice about it.

    Now, I am with another Cap b-day Jan. 15. I see him as a hottie a bit cocky but I like the look on him! Pss. He has a Sag moon. Plus he said he once tried to date me before when we was younger and I totally dismissed him without knowing 6years back. He told me are u the girl that had the Red Car that lived by the park? I said yes, he said I never forgot about you and was always wondering what happen to that girl. Sounds cool, right. But now I’m not sure if I want to continue to date him. Sometimes when we are together and I throw out jokes at him he gets all serious and ask me why are you laughing? That isn’t funny. I just wish he could loosing up sometimes not be such a tight a88. Lol.

    I know he totally likes me but he’s starting to show his controlling side. Like when he asks me things like what are u wearing? You know u can only wears those things for me and I bet not caught outside like that. Also stating I don’t want u going out to clubs with your girlfriends u don’t need to be in that environment with all those horny dudes around looking for chicks. I told him I only go out with my friends every once in a while and he can trust me. I also have a trip scheduled with me and the girls to go to Vegas. So, he asks me “Are you sure it’s just u and your girlfriends going? Do you girls have guys there waiting for yall to come and hookup?” I told him no. So, he says “well I going to call you on your trip and I don’t care if you’re on the toilet I want u to answer the phone”. Lol. So my question is should I give this one a try? Is this just his way of showing concern for me and claiming his territory from other men?

  8. Sounds like he got cheated on before. But it’s still controlling.

  9. @ no-perspiration Thanks

  10. Hi All,

    I’m a Cap lady and it’s quite funny reading these posts!

    I cannot speak for Cap men, for obvious reasons, but I can possibly give some feedback about Caps in General?!!

    We find TRUST, Loyalty, honesty and respect to be of highest value with friends, family and partners. We tend to be sensitive people who get hurt quite easily, so we usually have a “cold” exterior as a way of protecting ourselves – a bit like damage-limitation. We are scared of getting hurt ‘cos when it does happen we feel it with great intensity and the pain NEVER goes away and neither does that painful memory!

    Caps remember every person that has hurt them to the day they die and they will always hold back a piece of themselves a a result. Melodramatic, I know, but it’s the way we are wired. Do not cheat on a Cap, do not lie to them and do not betray their trust or friendship. They will never forgive you if you do.

    When we “let you in” we are 100% genuine and it is ‘cos we trust you and regard you as being close to us.

    @ Sweetvirgo – Caps are possessive and jealous. NOT for being mean or a horrible person, but because that person means so much to them, it would be heartbreaking and unbearable for them to lose that person to somebody else.

    Caps are deeply romantic and finding a life-partner is their greatest desire. We take this seriously and do not play games with matters of the heart.

    I hope this helps?


  11. Excuses! That’s in everyone and it’s not a good way to be. Learn to forgive and jealousy and possessiveness is a huge turn off to a lot of people. I’m never gonna let a man tell me what I can and cannot wear….again! “oh I trust you but not them”…it’s an insult either way…haha I’m letting my non-traditionalism shine though

  12. @no-perspiration,

    I explained this to you a while back… you’re too fast for them, girl… they’re the old guy behind the wheel of Carrera GT… they drive the car for status and not to open up the throttle…

    your fascination with him is that he is you in a slow motion film doing mime…

    if’s one of the smart ones, it’ll dawn on him in a year…

  13. LOL @ Chip..yeah have to agree.

    @sweetvirgo…not all Caps are like that at all! He has something in his astro chart and/or something from his past that is making him do that.

    I agree NP. i am not entirely like what kitty said.

  14. @Chip,

    he is a smart guy… *sigh* oh well. I hope I’m available when and if he snaps out of this and quits chasing his impossible dream.

  15. casual robber says:

    I’m a December 28th Capricorn man and nothing could be further from true.

    A Capricorn man (hell, any man) who is controlling and possessive has issues that stretch beyond being an earth sign.

    As a capricorn man I value my private time (not being cold, but who wants to smother someone with their presence?) 

    Don’t believe what you hear on blogs and astrology sites, our sense of humor is our strongest weapon (gets me out of all kinds of tight spots).

    Seriousness is lame (there’s a time to be serious and a time for play) true capricorns know the difference between the two.

    Music plays a pivotal roll in our lives (it moves us).

    When we love, we love hard so it goes without saying if you betray our trust the ship sinks faster than the titanic.

    We’re cautious by nature (not cold and calculating) <— I don't think I've calculated anything in my life ( I hate math) <—told you we were funny (dry humor).

    We don't like boring as much as the next guy so our laid back appearance is a smoke screen, we like adventure too, we just need the right woman to bering it out in us.

    With that being said we are very picky (you have to be a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed) <–sex is incredibly important. It's one of the reasons why cap men loose interest (if we can't get it how we want it we'll move on).

    Loyalty and your word are all that means anything to us. Don't talk about it, be about it.

    Family is priority number one and success above all else is what keeps us moving.

    Money and social status mean nothing without people you truly love to share it with (at least that's my thinking)

    If you cheat on a Capricorn man he will never trust you again. He will become jealous and question everything you do, so it's best to call it quits.

    Capricorns can be assholes (we're stubborn and always want our way, but we'll respect you if you stand your ground and don't give in) <— never show emotional weakness in front of a cap (we'll run right over you).

    Contrary to popular belief we hate to argue, which is why a cap man has a short fuse (we don't know how to handle certain emotions and naturally react by getting angry and blowing up).

    A cap man who is truly in love will give his woman everything she wants and needs.

    Oh and if you don't get us it's okay (our mothers do) we just want you to love us back. The good (faithful to a fault), the bad (emotionless exterior), and the ugly (our slow moving nature) just keeps us in a comfort zone, gives us the ability to anticipate disappointment, and keeps us from making a fool of ourselves.

    To the outside world we may seem like the masters of the universe, but when it comes down to it, are just trying to figure it all out like the rest of the zodiac.

    By the way, I've dated Gemini (too unstable and unsure of themselves for my taste), Virgo (awesome love), Cancer (the one who got away), Scorpio (amazing in every way), Aquarius (love that just went south too early) and I have to say compatibility lied with the person. It doesn't what their sign (except for Gemini; a terrible mix for Caps) if the persons great and you're vibbing, just make it work. 

    No relationship will be roses, but if two people truly love each other, they'll learn to love past each others faults.

  16. @casual robber

    Thanks for your insights from your perspectives as a Capricorn man!

  17. Hi I’m a Leo female who is seeing a Capricorn male. We have been “trying” for a year. When we met things were super cool but currently I can say I have never been more depressed, paranoid or borderline suicidal like this in my life. Are capricorn men only here to pay us back for some cosmic mistakes we may have made years before? All the signs are there in my mind that he’s keeping his options open but he fool has a logical explanation for everything. I mean “everything”. Asked him why he had lipstick on his shirt when he came back to my house after leaving a friends grandchild a birthday party. He claims she leaned in to hug him. I kept my mouth shut cause I actually lost it this weekend. He is provoking me to snap on him and for a Leo that is he worst. I’ve dated 5 Capricorn men my whole life and admitting their own faults or that they are wrong wont happen with these guys. I’ve been made out to be the bad person. He works 3 hours away and comes back on weekends. Usually we see each other on Fridays when he comes back and yes this is at night usually. He’s not affectionate, although he was during the nice incubation “I have to conquer this girl stage”. But currently? Nope. On Saturday he says he needs to take care of things so from with 8 am Saturday-6 pm he’s running errands and I don’t get to come along. I will hear from him later but no plans are ever made. Even my 40th birthday is coming up and he hasn’t made plans with me. My mother got me tickets to see Kem for my birthday cause she knew he would say his favorite phrase “we’ll see”, and he did. I need to trust my intuition. He goes to clubs with friends and dances with other women all the while telling me I should stop stressing just be patient and that he sees a future with me. It’s all bulk but it’s hard to end something with someone who makes themselves out to be a Saint! I wish he would slip and I could catch him. He is a great pretender but what do you do when your up against a
    “genius of deception”? I’ve missed out on so much this year while he paints a perfect picture full of you know what. I’m sad, depresses and without hope. At 39 I really thought I had the strength to end this. I’ve ended things before. He’s 48 and still has to be out there but only makes courteous appearances with me. I wish one day I could meet someone nice I wish that for all of you. All I can say is trust your gut. Don’t allow fear of the pain of loss keep you stuck in an unhealthy situation like I have because it not only prolongs the inevitable but it also prevents you from meeting that one that’s perfect for you. Ladies continue to be each others support on here. I appreciate any kind words and peace to you all.

  18. capricorn man and woman we went in day 1 knowing we wanted to settle downn i the female truck driver student wanyt to save vfor a house n he is a supervisor. we both are handling business. im very pickuy n he dont like women who club both our fav color n food matches hes quiete and i am more open he we both were afraid of getting hurt at first . he says stuff like ima treat u like my queen i wont hurt u baby n im more like baby i dont trust u yet u have to show me . freshhh relat

  19. oh and im way freakier than him i mentioned sex first say his exs didnt like it much im dominant at times and submissive i mix it up t

  20. i want it forver im 25 n he 36 n finally ready for marriage

  21. im falling inlove w him now that my doubts are gone . my king my baby n im his queen

  22. So crazy but @Tina your situamsound just like mine. Bet it’s Tony ? Lol. It’s complicated in general and I can completely relate to the boaderline suicide. Dealing with him has made me react and behave completely out of character

  23. I’m a Capricorn female born on January 7. When it comes to love a Capricorn is very patient and observance of their partners actions. From my experience I’ve been hurt. My partner told me I put myself out there too much. Thus this was doing my younger years. I have found now, That I am more analytical and cautious of whom I allow in my life.

    In my case, I do not tell my partner everything about me. I have to know where he stands, and then I can go forth from there. Capricorns are generally business minded individuals. The speaking for myself the field of study that I’m currently and I would like my partner it’s been also, so therefore, we can build an empire together. Family is very important to us especially those who had a rough childhood. Children bring us joy or should I say myself joy.

    Never lied to a Capricorn, never cheat on a Capricorn, never disrespect the Capricorn, never betray a Capricorn, never scandalize a Capricorn’s name, and never be too observant of a Capricorn’s actions. Capricorns can be a bit cunning, if we weren’t realize a week individual we will definitely walk all over you.

    Since Capricorns of my business so much if you do any business with them make sure to have everything in writing. A valid contract will let the Capricorn know that you are serious about business.

    The following statements andare of my view particularly and have not been manipulated in anyway.

  24. Tina I had read your comment and I have to say that…wow is like you are living my relationship…or me yours…I am or I have been with a capricorn man for 5 years…and it turns that now…or the winter holidays…he took a decision to go to the parties and to the mountains alone…just with his friends because he needs his time to relax because I am too possessive and too stressful …mmm…so i have spent the christmas and new year alone 🙂 in 5 years..he was spending time with me whenever he wonted…not when i wanted too…if i was asking him to do something he was saying to do my activities and not to hang anymore on his neck…he have been all over Europe in holidays alone and i dint told him anything…go dancing to …and he enjoys dancing with other women…telling them that he wish to have dance that song with them…and other things that he never told me or felt for me…ooo but he made a step forward..and than backward…he moves in and out when ever he wants…and i have to be fine…and dnt think that if he lives with me he will spend time with me too…no way…and when we go out…hald of the girls in the club are in his neck and i have to be fine coz they are just friends…and dont think that he stays with me too…because he has to make rounds in the club so to see what new girls came in…and he is calling me paranoid, crazy, close mind and so on
    All this made me so tired and i neven know who I am and what I want anymore…and the weird thing is that i still want him and miss him…but im trying not todo it.
    Oh i almost forgot…ha appeared out of the blue two days ago…ans when I asked him where he have dissapeard this days (because he doesnt answer to the phone either…) he said that it’s not my business but he didn’t f**t because he didnt wanted to feel guilty…seriously now?
    I am not going out alone or with the girls…he said that i can go but each time I went even just for a walk I had to give explanations and god…he really knows how to go where he wont’s…the way that he put’s the questions are amazing…and yes…he has answers for everything…and he lies allooottttt…

    Hope that everything went fine for you Tina and all the rest of the girls that had past through a hard time with a capricorn.

  25. Hi im a leo living with a cap……im seriously on the verge of burying him in my back yard lol……we were best friends for 10 years prior to our relationahip and we got along great but hes stubborn hard headed and can never admit when hes wrong…..when hes sweet hes sweet but when hes an asshole omg hes the biggest ahole there is. ….he lets me go out and do my thing but he always acuses me of bullshit……i am so depressed and only stay because my current situation doesnt allow me to leave…..i give up i hate caps!!!!!!

  26. leelee100 says:

    OMG…I stumbled across these comments regarding Cap men…As I just got out of a relationship with a horrible Cap man…and I swear it was like reading my mind. I agree when they’re sweet they’re sweet. Especially when trying to court/woo you. So very attentive, friendly, caring, thoughtful, engaging, fun, kinky etc. But boyyyy when that cover is blown and the Cap reveals it’s ugly, controlling, mean, arrogant, assholish, selfish, self centered, never taking accountability head….run for the damn hills because you got an overconfident pompous devious demon on your hands. I find Cap men to think a little too highly of themselves with entitlement issues that you just have to deal with…because in their mind you’re lucky…not the other way around. They’re dictatorial and bullyish, and gets real nasty when and if you call them on their ish and confront them. You can literally catch them red handed with their hands in the cookie jar and they’ll still fight you and make you out to be the bad guy. They are disgusting men with horrible attitudes and intentions. ..and hold absolutely no remorse for hurting you. They seem to feel that if they checked out..tho you may not have gotten the memo….but everyone else has…If they get caught…that’s your fault for caring..not theirs…because as my cap said…I been past you. Evil I say. Stupid too…because they tend to thin….they’re the only strong ones on the block
    Newsflash Cap…you’re not. If I’m wronged… played…taken for granted…betrayed..or lied to…I will call you on it…I will get in your face….and I will get out what I need to. In other words not everyone is scared or intimidated by their cold mean exterior. And that’s what my Cap under bidded on when it came to me. Nice cars, the ability to make bookoo bucks, having bookoo bucks, dressing nice, being popular amongst the ladies, don’t mean a damn thing to me if you’re a horrible selfish person. In that instance you’re nothing buy a dressed up garbage can, which is useless to me. They are very cold and calculating with a mean streak completely oblivious to other’s feelings, especially if you’re intimate with them. Yet the moment they feel slighted or neglected it’s world war ii. They often want and expect what they don’t give. Oh and did I mention they’re some nasty jokas? I’m GOOD …will never deal with one again…intimately. making money no doubt…my heart…nah…I’ll pass…they’ll make you want to cut them. He brought out the absolute worse in me and mind games are their forte if you ask me. Sensitive too…tho they try and act like they’re not. If I had to say something positive about em…is they are consistent. Consistent in what you ask? Consistent on being a daily asshole…Every so often showing a glimpse of niceness…but for the most part they’re selfish assholes…who do everything with a motive…and that motive usually isn’t in your favor either. It’s ALL about them. I don’t believe they’re loyal…to a fault maybe…but loyal…nah…that’s reserved for you and their minion camp. And you better not question them on it…or else…that girl he been eyeing…you know the one that he thinks you don’t know about…yea her…will move up in the rankings to cater to him…in every way. In a nutshell cap men suck! Oh and I left him…I’m sure that’ll muck with him for the rest of his miserable life..Cuz they always gotta be first. Oh and they’re moody. Stay away ladies!

  27. Deeshawn1609 says:

    Well I’m new on here. I came to get some insight on a cap. Im a cancer woman dating a cap male. He is totally different than any other male I have meet. One mintue he is sweet and loving then the next he become a total stranger. I need someone to help me understand these men. He is quick to tell me he loves me but his action sometimes do not line up with his words. I can tell if he truly loves me or not. When it comes to us spending time together……well lets just say he will choose work each and every time. We are always having a debate is what I call it becasue to has something to say about everything. If I dont do it his way he has a problem with it. He has to be done his way or its wrong, even if he comes out right. I also have a tough time dealing with these disappearing acts that he puls. He will disappear for two to three days with out a warning, anc try to come back like nothings wrong. He is quick to tell me im head strong, but hell so is he. I refuse to let him try and break me down. Any help to understand the cap would really be appreciated.

  28. I think the Cap male and Cap female are very different in some ways. Capricorns are known to not be emotional, but I am a Capricorn female and I have never met anyone more emotional than me, and I have never had any problem with anybody knowing that I am emotional. I love people and I always try to treat people with respect. But Capricorn MEN………oh my god don’t get me started. I am going to get started anyway. I can’t believe how much I relate to what everybody is saying on here about Cap men…. sounds exactly like the one I know very well……. now I am not actually dating him now, I’m trying hard to erase him from my life. But yes, I definitely second that most of them are very stubborn, selfish and refuse to admit when they are wrong. Can be incredibly insensitive. He even told me once that he considers himself to be very unemotional (I should have stopped seeing him at that point long ago because of that) yet he had so many sweet moments. One day he’ll act like he’s so infatuated with you and says so many kind things, and next day he acts like he barely even knows your name. And when you kindly ask him about his feelings, he gets hostile. When he disagrees with you on politics or anything, he acts like he hates your guts and it feels so horrible to never know what to say to him because you don’t know if you’re going to step on his toes. I don’t know if it’s possible for a person to mess you up emotionally more than one of these Capricorn guys. And this is coming from a Capricorn female lol I mean really, watch out…. if you have doubts about him, you may be right. Just try hard not to fall head over heels unless he proves to you that he isn’t one of those stereotypical ones. I’m sure there are better Cap men out there, but as for most of them, beware. Good luck to all! (I’ve given up on dating now btw)

  29. @Deeshawn1609 I was in the same boat as you for so long. It constantly had me wondering if I was just too emotional, or if he was the one with problems. Either he has serious relationship problems, or nobody is compatible with Capricorn men. I am a Capricorn female, and I am emotional. When I really do like someone, I make sure to show them and be there for them and try to always hear them out. Capricorn men, however, aren’t usually like this for some reason. How you described your guy sounds exactly how mine was. I think the saddest reality when it comes to them, is that most of them always have something they are hiding or keeping from you, they don’t seem to fully open up. I am a Cap female, and I take a long time to open up but if I really love someone then I definitely open up. I crave intimacy and don’t like my relationships to be meaningless. Knowing this, I couldn’t help but be paranoid that the Capricorn man didn’t have genuine intentions right back. I think if he cared enough, you would think he’d constantly show if like we do, right? However, every time I’d bring it up he would quickly reassure me that he does have feelings and change the subject. Yet his actions still never change? If there’s a problem, I would guess that maybe he isn’t as into a relationship as you and me. I can’t say though, because even I can’t understand the Capricorn man. I see you posted this a while ago, but I hope you are doing well and that you are content with your life now. Cap men are roller coasters…

  30. That is not an insult. I find it extremely disrespectful when another man starts hitting on the women I’m with and I trust that she will inform him of his mistake but many men keep trying further disrespecting me and my relationship. It’s one thing to dress nice but dressing like you’re on the prowl so you can get a confidence boost when a guy hits on when you are in a relationship is disrespectful to your man.

  31. what you have commented are all true!
    they are completely a-holes!they are selfish and manipulative.call them out on their cheating,and they will even switch ot on you trying to reason with you even though its a load of bullsh*ts!you can be the most loving,most loyal,but they will look,and look for something to give him reason to cheat!you can even be most perfect,and theyd still cheat on you!they are mean and rude.a complete douche you may say!of all of the signs ive been with,the cap guy is absolutely the worst nightmare!he will continiously pull you apart and in time will even make you almost getting crazy with all that he is treating you.
    he is down selfish.only thinking of himself,his wants and needs.not caring of your feelings.he will suck all the positivity you have and leave you with nothing!he will dry you up until youre nothing.he expects alot of things from you,but he himself cant deliver.and yet,expect all love,loyalty and everything from you.cap guys always have a motive.they wont be with you for nothing.there has to be something they benefit from you.they are users.will use you until there is none.then,they will cheat and look for some hoes.if you catch them,watchout.they will switch it on you and even blame you for your imperfections and that you are not satisfying him.they will use you until they can still benefit from you.and if theres none anymore,they will leave you.and i say this,THEY WILL LEAVE.no matter how much you loved him,how loyal you are,how long youve been together,it doesnt matter.even if you cry and cry and beg him,he will just look at you coldly like he doesnt feel anything.and yes,they are like that!ive experienced the worst from a cap guy and never again!so ladies,watch out for these a-holes.if theres a cap guy trying to get your attetion,there is something he wants from you.its either your status,some strengths he saw in you that he doesnt have,or,he wants you just for sex.never let them use you.dont give them that power.leave them.they may appear as everything,but dont be decieved.cos theyre not!and totally far from being as high and royal as they appear to be.nothing but empty,cold hearted guys whos only for fame and money and other things beneficial to them.shallow beings that one day,will get what they deserve.and i know it aint pretty.

  32. cerysev says:

    wtf… im capricorn,very hardworking and independent..the reason why we fall out love is bcause we realized woman love us just for money. but thats ok, bcause we know its hard to find true love for a cold hearted men.

  33. I dated a cap man just ended it a month ago…you hit the nail on the head…mine was crazy jealous..bitched all the time about anything and everything…if it wasnt about him and his needs and wants you might as well forget it…if he did “compromise” then he made the whole experience awful so he could get his way…the double standards killed me ?…i do not know how anyone who cares about their sign can act like this! I know this if you want a Cap man fine but dang sure be ready to be soemone who has no past..zero kids..and never been with a man…from my experience thats the only way you can handle a cap man…maybe it was just mine…i thought he dated or was married to my ex because he brought him up all the time..i will tell you this i am not wired to cheat never have never will..i never in my life had been accused of od it until him…it was all the time!!!!
    G??d luck ladies …

  34. A real women makes her own money…the posts i have read sounds almost like they were dating the same man..relationships are hard enough without making it seem like a second job…but to decide to leave a Cap man isnt because we fall out of love its the point in every relationship..enough is enough…
    Cap men seem to be very jealous..controlling..self centered..ego freaks…money drives a Cap man to the point of insanity…but all i van say is this ..apparently Caps are prone to savatauging tbeir relationships and putting blame on the other person!

  35. XLightning says:

    My personal experience with caps is that they´re ultra arrogant, self-centered, they fall in love with you and use everything that´s good in you for their improvement, and then cheat on you with a third person, then accuse you of cheating and being crazy. I do not like this sign, all Caps I met in my life were just lying cheating people, be it woman or a man. Yes that is very right, they put the blame on you, and are very, very insidious. I avoid Caps very much. All they seek in life is passion, they are very selfish but you will not discover in the beginning – they give you things to look like they care about you, but then when it is benefiting them, they accuse you of being ungreateful because they´ve done so much for you and use it as excuse. And they lie so bad, I just don´t have the energy to describe, because they really did me wrong. Basically how do you know they cheat, my personal experience: they will NOT tell you, they will act as if they ?have friends” and they tell you that you´ re crazy for making stuff and literally believe how excellent are they because you believe them, they even are proud of their ability to lie and not to be caught. When they keep denying everything even though you literally SAW it with your eyes as I did. But never is it their fault, is it? No, never. They are mind-f*ckers, they will just f*ck up your mind, they make up things like it is nothing. They pretend to take you ride horses on your birthday to “make you a good time”, but behind is that they just wanted to see the person they are cheating on you behind your back. Like my ex did. But nooo, I just “was making up things” and he never cheated right. He would never, that is what he wanted me to believe. Well, sad for me, I guess I wasn´t good enough.

  36. XLightning says:

    What I learned is, that when I feel like he is cheating, he is really cheating. Because your inner instinct never lies.

  37. Honestly was he cheating ..no i do not think so..he had his head up my ass…but that wasnt the problem….i caught him in lies and he fessed up ..but i look at it like this being a big lie ir a small lie it doesnt matter …the smaller the lie then you know tbey will tell a bigger one…i had a heart attack and even in ICU he still was trying to have it to be about him…since i kicked him out my heart problems have damn near disaappeared…so in actuality regardless their sign…get out when it gets to the point of the question of wth am i doing in this crap relationship…

  38. I spent 19yrs with a cap man, until he changed in Jan/Feb this yr, yes he cheated on me, I was loyal to him trusted him and was devoted to him, his still with the other woman she is welcomed to him, once a cheater & liar always a cheater & liar, God what I can’t get my head around was that his own wife done it to him 21years ago &I he had the neck to do it to me, well it took me 19years to see his true colours, he is a cold hearted selfish liar and he deserves everything he gets, his not worth the hassle, O and I’m a Scorpio and a Scorpio never forgives !!

  39. They are really lovely and good boys, very loyal but if u hurt them..never forgive and Capricorns can be very cold..only love your Capricorn and they will do all for you.

  40. Can someone help me out?
    I met my cap man almost 7 months ago. When we started dating, we spent ALL our time together. It pretty much became a silent contract that I stay at his house every single night. I went through some tough times with my roommate and eventually moved in with him. 3 days before Christmas, a girl who was friends w him on fb and had added me, sent me screen caps of them texting. she was his ex. his ex, that when we met, he told me hurt him so so bad. he had been cheating on me with his ex for 3 months out of the 6 months we had been together. apparently he ended things with her, which is why she “snitched”. He said he had a change of heart and realized he was in love with me. I definitely noticed around the time that they broke up (even though I had NO IDEA) he was being WAY more affectionate both physically and verbally. I really really love this boy. I want to be his wife and have his kids. I want to see him grow and just be by his side. We are still together but should I trust him? I always said if he wanted to sleep with other people, thats FINE because i am poly. but since i met him, I have only slept with him and i spend all my time at his house, because this is where he wants me lol. Am I wasting my time? Is HE wasting my time and keeping me from something better???

  41. Capricorn men are the worse they proclaim their love and then hide not worth it for me. sick of their excuses they love to cheat and then make themselves look like the victim. All they care about is how to use you for their gain.I’m never involving myself with a capricorn men ever again

  42. I slapped my cap man

  43. You hit that nail slam on the head

  44. Amen

  45. Well caps need to understand the way not to get hurt is not to hurt anyone else

  46. This is exactly my life rn, my cap boyfriend just broke up with me( and by this I mean cussing me out and calling me all types of names) just because I texted his friend( I texted his friend to just pick his brain and know what was going on because my bf used to act strange sometimes, cold, uninterested and treat me like I was dispensable) then he accused me of wanting to get with his friend and then told me I was dead to him and he hates me for what I did to him and I’m just over here hurt and confused af cos I ain’t do nothing all I did was love him unconditionally and try to be everything he wanted but he just constantly accused me of doing shit and this nigga was my first and that’s the funny part. But still he wanted to think of me as a hoe. I’m still confused and hurt, but good riddance cos that dude was a handful and heartful. Lol

    He even gave me an sti and asked me who I’ve been fucking and he’s the only man I’ve ever slept with in my life. So I don’t know why I’m so surprised he’s accusing me falsely.. This is someone I dated for over a year… It just sucks?

  47. Vernon Jamison says:

    Wow ? first off i am a capricorn man my wife is a libra and our love is very strong im straight discussed wit the way u ladies have been treated by other cap guys im very simple i work very hard to provide for my queen were very simple guys let us work and provide jus love us show us your loyality and be truthful and u will have the world if u want it nothing makes me strive harder 2 make sure my queen not want for anything were simple jus be yourself and dnt stop us from doin what we do best and that’s make dreams come true. Thanks again

  48. Vernon Jamison says:

    Not all capricorn men cheat if dont fill the right vibe i let u knw cheating leads 2 stds and unwanted baby mama drama jus sayn

  49. Girl that’s how caps are. I was dating a photographer and I basically bought the camera. Idk what happened but he wanted space and he already had a fan base from his work and he wanted space to fix himself but still had me around it was totally confusing I felt used for his own needs and he swore he was fixing things but hardly did anything

  50. I am a cancer and dated capricorn for nine months. When I read all your comments. Which it is all true. He is loyal, love and passion. We fall in Love. Things went smooth with happiness together. One thing bother me when his ex texted me and warned me about him. I started see more and more what is going on. I heard few stories about him from other friends and etc. Hard to believe he can be asshole, use you, and threat you everything I can’t imagine until He decided to break up with me recently in last month. I knew something was going on with him. I asked What is going on? my guts said GET OUT!!!! You know I am cancer, I tends have emotions from time to time. We talked few times, he can’t get his emotional check. I knew immediately that he is with someone else.
    After the break up, He showed his true colors!!!! Asshole, selfish, egos, treat me badly and see his new gf right out of my door. I am like what is going on? We need to compromised things out but he wouldn’t have it. I was supposed to give him a huge gift as a Jeep grand cherkoee. But he was being an asshole and treat me like a shit. He trying to make me look bad. I decide NO Jeep for you after how u treat me. Then I packed everything and left the town. I knew he will keep threat me like all his friends told me in the past. I have to GET OUT!!!!!!
    After few weeks, he still keep threat me until I blocked him and everything. All he want the jeep and not me. He didn’t even care about me anything else.
    Yesturday I learned He got married quickly to someone else. He barely know that person. She is gemini. I believe he is using her like he used me.
    Dreadful Caps!!! I am so sad and heartbroken. I will move on with my life. He will still continue using other people for his own selfish ways.

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