i met an aries man and we were intimate on the first night…. physical chemistry was amazing… he wants to see me again but is there any hope for us long term after moving so fast in the bedroom?
You’re writing to me one day after the Leo New Moon. New Moons signify beginnings, and in the sign of Leo, you experience a desire to be playful. However, Neptune’s opposition (180-degree angle) to this New Moon adds an element of fantasy and delusion — you wanna have fun, and you don’t see the consequences, because Neptune’s weather forecast includes low visibility.
This Leo New Moon falls in your Eight House of Sex, making a generous trine (120-degree angle) to your Venus-Mars conjunction in Sagittarius. The combination of the two Lovers gifts you with sexual charisma, and their placement in Sag amps up your sense of adventure and optimism in these matters. In other words, there’s little to inhibit you when you’re hot and bothered, and the New Moon touched your sensitive spot.
I don’t see any definite signs of long-term relationship right now. However, transiting Jupiter — planet of good fortune — is conjunct your natal Mercury, ruler of your Seventh House of Partnership. This fortuitous transit helps you to think big, and expands your hopes. Note that this is all happening in your Twelfth House of Unconsciousness and Self-Undoing (as well as Secret Affairs). Combined with Neptune’s opposition to the New Moon, I would suspect that you’re not seeing the whole picture. Make sure this Aries man doesn’t have a girlfriend, for starters.