hes got a moon in gemini. mars in taurus. venus in capricorn.
me- i have a moon in aries, mars in aries, venus in saggitarius.
He broke up with me yesterday and then he said he needed some “mental clarity” and then he wanted to call me back in a couple of days. I dont think I need to answer the phone if he calls. . He knows I don’t:
1. I’m NEVER friends with exes. (he knows that)
2. I’m NEVER friends with benefits with an ex
said ok to be polite but im trying to figure out what would be the point as he knows i dont believe in friends with exes. So why would he want to call me? i havent decided yet if im gonna pick up if he does but im curious to get others opinions. Thanks! he gave me 2 reasons really. not a BUNCH sorry lol
honestly to me whats the point. he said he needed “mental clarity”. i feel like he couldve gotten mental clarity with a break, not a break up. he never actually came out and said it. i had to ask him if i was single. then he got snappy and was like yea do whatever you want.
How do I get him back?
This guy didn’t break up with you — he just said he wanted time to think for a few days, and then he’d get back to you. In your Aries Moon/Mars/Asc impulsivity, you essential cut him off at the pass. You tried to clarify your relationship status, and he responded defensively.
Now you are wondering if you should even pick up the phone, because you’re never friends with exes. With an Eleventh House Aquarius Sun, friends must be very important to you. Yet the combination of your Aquarian inflexibility with a square from all-or-nothing Pluto in your Seventh House of Relationships results in rigid boundaries. No doubt the Plutonic realm in relationships (jealousy, possessiveness) can feel threatening, but ruling out friendship with former lovers only protects you from growing up. In addition, having decided not to be friends with someone who just needs some time off removes the possibility of dialogue with this Capricorn man.
If you want to get him back, don’t be so darn stubborn.
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