My fiance recently broke up with me. Will we get back together? She is a Leo.
Your natal Venus — which signifies relationships — is being squared (90 degree angle) by transiting Uranus, the planet that yearns for freedom and independence. The tension of the square aspect, along with the “sudden break” energy of Uranus, corresponds with the end of your engagement. Additionally, your progressed Moon — one way to time events — is currently square your natal Venus and opposite transiting Uranus.
Another more subtle indication that you are undergoing struggle: Transiting Saturn — planet of delay and hardship — is conjunct your progressed Sun in Leo. (This goes exact on June 14.)
Transiting Uranus has only passed over, or “hit,” your natal Venus for the first of three times. Its first hit was in mid-May; it retrogrades over this point in early August, and then finally passes over Venus the last time in late February of next year. This means that the instability and need for change in your love life will not end until Spring.
Will you get back together? I don’t know. However, you can use this time to make the following inquiry: What can you change in your relationship patterns? What rigidity needs to be shaken up?
Your Venus in Gemini wants variety and stimulation, yet it is squared by Saturn in Virgo, adding a need for stability and commitment. This complex is being challenged by transiting Uranus, and you have the opportunity to re-organize your values during this transit.
Uranus opposes your natal Saturn — which rules your relationship, as Capricorn is on your Descendant — in March 2009. Essentially, your difficulty expressing love, your fear of affection as symbolized by your Venus-Saturn contact, is being awakened over the next few years. Perhaps, with consciousness, you can loosen your defenses … and you will be more attractive to women (or your Leo ex, in particular) as a prospect for marriage.