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Aries is ruled by Mars, the warrior planet. This sign is also at the start of the zodiacal wheel, signifying beginnings, the burst of new life corresponding with the Spring Equinox. But that’s not why you are here. An Aries man (or woman) screwed you over, and you want revenge!
Pulling a Saturn
An Aries man wants to initiate, to pioneer … and what better way to get even than to stop him in his tracks! Saturn is the planet of obstacles and delays. Frustrate him by taking the wind out of his sails!
Anything you can do to throw a brick wall in front of him will suffice. Calling on an authority figure (ruled by Saturn) like a judge, the police or a boss will work wonders. A restraining order, some disciplinary action … imagine how aggravating it will be for your Aries to get punished, when all he wants is to get ahead!
You can also burden him with responsibilities (also ruled by Saturn). Heap pointless chores and mounds of paperwork upon him. This will only work if the weight you’ve put on his shoulders has to be reduced before he can move ahead.
You can also take the air out of his tires, cut up his monthly train or subway pass … anything to cause delays and bring on a tantrum when he realizes he can’t impulsively get where he needs to go … now.
Comment below: How have you gotten even with an Aries?
No!! I love Arians! I’m just as impatient and fiery as they are (although I don’t have any Aries in my chart), so I can relate to them. I especially love that they can get so angry and forget all about it within fifteen minutes of a blow-up. After all, if you’re gonna be angry with me, tell it to my face, get it over and done with and then let it go. I LOVE that. Also, I love their directness. Nothing irritates me more than people who beat around the bush. So if you’re looking for someone to foil Arians’ plans, don’t look at me.
I had a hurtful affair/relationship-experience with an Aries. I don’t consider that person as my enemy nor am I ever being openly hostile, despite the fact that I have nothing good to say about them on an emotional level.
First of all, it is of convenience to me to have the Aries as the catalyst to social connections. Second of all, open hostility is draining and will never serve to any advantage, in my opinion. I avoid conflicts and headbutting if I can.
I tend to put the Ram into place sometimes though. I feel like what I do is perfectly justifiable for the affair-hell I got dragged into. Since that Aries is very dependent of success, acknowledgement, recognition and attention, the worst thing one can do to them is being indifferent, unaffected or not take them too seriously.
Which is exactly what I do. I am indifferent, clinical, unattentive and it can drive the Ram insane and even affect their esteem. May not sound right of me to do, but as said, I feel like it’s perfectly justified.
The Ram isn’t too fond of hearing of other people’s success or admiration either, and gets easely bugged by implications and secrets. At least the Aries-native I refer to is like that.
My daughters old teacher was an aries.. I’m a scorpio and my kid is a lovable taurus.
The teacher messed with my kid and then refused to acknowledge it.
Long story short, she called my daughter a liar and encouraged her to be picked on by other students in the class. It traumatized more than just my daughter in the classroom. Other students went home crying that day too.
When my daughter told the teacher how she felt about the days events the teacher said, “dont be a big baby, its irritating.”
I found all the dirt on the aries I could and then held her accountable in front of a room full of her superiors. It felt goood.
She left the room crying after an hour of retelling the story and her answering questions from her superiors.
I didn’t give her another chance to mess up my kid. I pulled her out.
typically i like aries. Just not that one.
I like Aries.
They never hold a grudge or anger. They get it out and it’s over with. A lot of fun to go out and socialize with as well.
Just not very bogged down in emotions so don’t look for much empathy when you cry at a sad movie you are watching with them.
Scorp: That’s some pretty awesome stuff right there. That you put the teacher into place, and that you also did it in a such effective manner, instead of being the “hysteric mother” as they say. I imagine you make one awesome parent and guidance for your kids.
Tina: Arians are indeed social and fun creatures, and they sure know how to explode every fifth second and then cool of and put on a wide grin as if nothing took place.
I know three Arians, and I’ve watched movies with two of them (not simultaneously), and funny enough, they were always the ones getting into the movies and getting annoyed that I guessed the plot before it was revealed.
As you say though, they aren’t quite the soothing Pisces when you come crying, if you know what I mean XD
HA! Oh god this is great. I work with a guy with Mars in Aries in the 7th. He is an utterly obnoxious, self-centered bully. He’s also brilliant, but his egocentric ways of relating FAR outweigh his good points. I’ve stepped away from my desk and returned to find him sitting in my chair and eating from my lunch plate!!! I’ve been wondering how to tame this big, dumb gorilla. Thanks for the ideas!
The best revenge is a life well-lived.
Anonymous…he’s not a bully. He’s a big kid. 😀
Aries literally do not notice how childlike they are about giving into their impulses.
Scorp….that teacher should have checked your sign out before messing with you child. DUH!!! I would never dare to mess with the child of a scorpio woman, holy s**t.
Also, I dated an Aries for all of 2-3 weeks when I discovered he was a TERRIBLE liar. Any man who thinks he is gonna lie to me is also an idiot in my book, so I carefully led him around until he was standing face-to-face with one of his lies, since he continuously told me he wasn’t lying and he was “an honest person.” He STILL insisted he was an honest person, even though he admittedly was caught red-handed.
The worst revenge I had for him was to show him what a honest person looks like: I told him honestly “For the rest of my entire life, I never want to see you or speak to you again, EVER!”
It took him 6 months of continual pursuit before it finally sunk in for him that I wasn’t making that up.
The warrior lost a battle. Completely lost it. There was not even a shred of victory because even when he threatened “I am gonna get married” and “Don’t you want me to bring your things back to you?” I didn’t even call back, answer, or acknowledge his existence. He essentially died (it’s that Scorpio side to me as well) I’m not even interested in checking back to see how it burns him. I already know it does. I hope I helped the next girl out a little by teaching him a lesson 😉
Oh, and Jeffrey, you are right about the best revenge. To not let that person make your life less, they do not even get the satisfaction of being worth your revenge. It reminds me of a quote by a FAMOUS Pisces author, Chuck Palahniuk: “If you could be God’s worst enemy or nothing, which would you chose?”
It’s so much worse to be nothing! 🙂
Sagilarius, that guy was not only dishonest but a total idiot! trying to lie to a truth shooting, intuitive sag pisces is a sure fire way to get caught red handed and then served a heeping helping of bluntness! Way to go!
My old boss is an Aries. Totally brilliant but obnoxious, firey, impatient, had a temper that flared as quickly as my Sag one. That was the hard part – being a fire sign too and knowing my usual antics didn’t work on him. Typically a direct male, when he didn’t promote me (like he said he would) and I called him out on it, he shaded out completely, never giving me a straightforward reason and wouldn’t talk to me for months. I made numerous attempts to get to the bottom of this and busted my ass to prove my capabilities and value to his agency. NOTHING. Having been his favorite employee for so long, I was totally stumped by all of this and internalized it (not sure if that’s completely a Sag trait). What had I done wrong? How do you go from being two people who got along and could tolerate each other to the complete opposite?? So I pulled away – just like he had – and didn’t socialize with him anymore, didn’t show any enthusiasm like I used to – all the things that drive both of us fire signs crazy. So it was a double edged sword. I got even but I was miserable too. Eventually I did the typical Sag thing and left. I don’t think he was surprised. We left on relatively decent terms. Interestingly after a few months away in a new job, and me working through all my lingering issues, I stopped by and he wound up emailing me afterwards saying thanks for dropping in…since then we’ve been colleagues and when I decided to start my own marcomm agency, he was a huge supporter and mentor. AND even offered some insight into why he did what he did when I still worked for him (I was young and emotional).
ah, anonymous: Your Aries boss could’ve been selfish to promote you. Or he could’ve had some insecurities in promoting you, or something of the like! They’re all “me #1” so I know you’re crushed that he did not keep his words.
eme kah: I LOVE EXPLODING EVERY 15 MINUTES. It is the BEST thing ever! It feels so good when it’s done. I have 3 planets and a north node in aries, in the 1st house, and it feels gooooooooooooddd. And usually, I get really creative afterwards.
I’m sure it does feel good to explode and let that fireball get out, but do you ever consider the wreckage your explosion leaves behind? I feel singed after dealing with a fire sign or fire-influenced explosion, while they feel better. My last two breakups happened like that. I walked out after an ex’s explosion and he didn’t understand why I was leaving.
Meanwhile, I have explosions of my own, but those are last resort explosions. 🙂
…there’s no point in being vindictive …Ariens by nature are the causes of their own downfall
…they chase the unattainable …they’re easily distracted …they hate to be scolded …they hate to be told
…one actually explained she was flexible *gagging*
Eme, they don’t remember an outburst 5 min. later because when you butt heads, you’re likely concussed…
they cannot explain their behavior becuase they’re not retrospective, and sincerely under most instances, they “see no wrong”…
aka Venus in Aries
treat the like they are expendable and you life will go on wonderfully without them.
but how do you get back at a aries man when he is in and out of your life. one moment he says he cares sticks around and all is great and then BAM, he disappears again, what’s the best revenge on that?
Personally, I wouldn’t mess with an Aries if I were you…even subtly…as there are some of us that are not so naive (in fact, have quite good antennae), that speak softly (as well as loudly) whilst carrying a big stick, and who can play your games straight back to you, and wait for years for an opportunity for revenge to present itself if you cross us…especially if we have Sun in the 8th. If we also have plenty of Gemini and Pisces planets, you can end up wonderfully confused.
Be nice to us and we’ll be nice to you.
Love,
X
I pulled the authority figure card after breaking up with my Aries boyfriend for the hundredth time. Aries loves a challenge and would not take no for an answer. When he started banging on my door in the middle of the night and one occasion breaking in, it was time to call out the big dogs. More than anything this caused him a ton of embarrassment. In the end I dropped the charges (because Libras are all too forgiving), but he had to get a lawyer and go through a lot of hassle and money first.
Of course, after dropping the charges, Aries was hot on the pursuit again in no time. I gave him chance after chance and finally this last time I made it strongly clear that he was only one option of many that I have – Aries HATES that. Hopefully he won’t be back…..
ignore us lol, we hate that we always love too be the center of attention exp with people we’ve had relationships with.
Would an Aries guy just hate it when you confront him on his mistakes ? I think thay like to have the last word, does it torture him if you get in the last word? LOL
Do they dislike women with brains so if you show him your smart does that make him fume? LOL
In the first place if an aries man or woman has lost her love for you in my opinion its because they either felt unloved, unappreciated or got betrayed which will hurt them in a deep way.
It will take alot too win back an aries trust once u hurt them badly even if they are one too forgive and forget. If an aries is deeply hurt they will become cold so warm them up. Send them music, or flowers Aries are romantic people and who love the attention. Text them, show them how much they mean too u, hit them in the heart by doing something sentimental or romantic. Make them laugh and smile at them be affectionate towards them that will warm them up. Then is the time too work on building back their trust as without them trusting you they will not respect you the way they use too.
Aries also love the chase but won’t chase unless they are fully sure of the relationship in hand, but don’t take that for granted either because if they feel they are not appreciated they will walk away from the chase and the relationship just as quick. Once an aries becomes distant its hard for them to come back to you because we see you as an experience that failed. U were the one that we thought would be their other half(our soulmate)….after that they will just go with the search of another mate and soon time we forget about u….
Go too their places, bump into them if possible and show affection, make them laugh, tell them u miss them, u trust them, be open with them they appreciate it more than you think.
Aries are free spirit people if you have their hearts you have it for a reason, always remember with aries “actions speak lower than words”. A shy aries will act dumb sumtimes so the conversation doesn’t feel ackward or to question if you are sincere and loyal twards them. These are very causious because of the fact when an aries falls in love they really fall hard. Aries wether its the shy type or not will be blunt too a point sometimes it may seem humorous but also tend too be secretive too, which explains why Aries are hard too figure out at times. Be tender, patient with an Aries and gratitude will soon follow.
Brag about your accomplishments. The guy I was seeing Aries, would kind of get irritated when I used big words, I guess cause he had to break out the dictionary. Idiot! I’m a Leo by the way. He also got irritated when I told him one day “Do you really think your the only man I’m seeing?” This was after he decided to show up to my apartment 2 hours after the time specified earlier. I love a man that’s prompt, because it shows respect. Also I would turn my phone off cause he started calling me nauseatingly late, (this is when I knew he was losing interest or pulling a control card on me) I would turn my phone off, the next day I would have messages saying “I miss you Kat” and all that other bull crap. I wouldn’t call back because our relationship dynamic is a little different than everyone on here. I would delete the message, then later on I would get text messages, saying how much he missed me, but I always knew it was for the sex, so I started losing interest. I believe I lost interest wayy before he did because once I’m taken for granted you can forget about it. I will not let you know it’s over, I will let it fade away, until you can’t help but tell me how you really feel, which is all I was fishing for in the first place. I will never get involved with an Aries male again. This is only my 2nd time and I’m 37. They never listen to you when you talk, they want to be heard only, their topics are the only important ones. You do feel on top of the world in the bedroom but my goodness, if that’s the only place you make me feel good then wow that’s selling myself a little short to someone who really isn’t worth it. I need substance.
NOt true…the Aries Dragon that I love to bits, but is hot and cold and makes me wonder if he will EVER come over, does listen intently and answer accordingly when I speak…except on the days he claims to be ignoring me. However, he is also very timid beneath his dragonian exterior, and so scared of failure.
He hurts me, by ignoring me, but I appear to hurt him through his misconception of events…like he thinks I am playing with him or trying to pick up other guys because I get along with everyone and talk to everyone…silly boyu.(: If he had the guts to ask me, he would know I wouldn’t bother pursuing him whilst interested in another.(:
Their jealousy is their worst enemy.
All qualities apart, the worst of Aries are ‘ selfish, self-centered, me-me-me’. They NEVER EVER feel for others. They are always short of time & too full of ideas to the extent that they most often do not see their assignments to the end. Success of Aries at the end of the day always remains a BIG QUESTION.
ARIES is perhaps too much gifted to be happy, content and successful. Their FIRST LOVE is MONEY-MONEY-MONEY. Yes its always me-me-me……..even in bed, they prefer to sleep immediately after.
I had to deal with an Aries co-worker that was behaving competitively instead of cooperatively, thus stiffening my progress at work and compromising our group’s progress. And if anything, I really hate those kinds of traits in people. Thank god he was just a co-worker and not my boss.
When I joined the company I did my usual thing of lying low while I got to know people better and got a sense of the bigger picture around me. I saw that very often my Aries co-worker tried to appear as the man who is running everything, who is getting stuff done, while in reality he didn’t put much effort into our work. Several times he stole the limelight of others. And he was getting progressively pushy with me, belittling my efforts and putting me down in front of others. I acted submissively, that is until I could figure out what to do about this situation. I’m a Cancerian with a lot of Scorpio in my chart so I do not forgive and forget, and neither do I get pushed around indefinitely.
When I felt that I was solidly rooted in the atmosphere that I was in, I took two projects that he was developing and completed them working behind his back organizing a few other people to help me. It took a lot of work and many sleepless nights. But when I presented them to our group at one of the meetings, I knew it was worth it. He was enraged and acted it out like an angry kid and not in a mature manner, further aiding my cause of pointing out his incompetency. I acted innocently and placed emphasis on work getting done for the benefit of us all. The second project I really enjoyed; he sensed that. So one day I get an evemail from our boss saying he’d like to speak with me. Turns out my Aries co-worker very carefully went through it and found a place were I didn’t quite follow company guidelines. Normally precautions, here they just weren’t applicable and I figured would only slow down implementation. On next meeting he pointed it out to entire group and said his concern was that with such lax attitude that I displayed what would happen if other workers followed suit and did not follow company rules. It didn’t quite hit the mark. At this point already our boss knew whose project it was, mine, and he knew that nobody else could oversee it as well as I did. So formally I agreed to redraft it but internally our boss let it slide. I did get a laugh out of this whole thing, and had to supress a smile several times that I saw him around.
After this I have started to aggressively call him out on his bs. I had plenty of time to prepare, to study him to know where the bs was and to get group’s support behind me. I am generally a kind person, quite empathetic and always willing to give support to people when they need it. Just not to the egoistical, self-centered ones. Other people at our workplace grew to like me, so that when I started this little war I felt that I had their support on my side. After all wasn’t just my toes he had stepped on. It has gotten to the point where he simply became too angry and/or scared to even talk to me. At this time he was appointed to act a bit more like a subordinate with me overseeing the progress. So he had to intract with me, but it was funny to see how uncomfortable he was with it, he even tried doing it indirectly through other people.
As months passed our little war started to wane. I was now secure in my position and happy with how things were going. The Scorpio has retreated and the Cancer that wanted to see our workplace as one big happy family took over. I started to see more value in his ideas, that he just had a very different way of thinking about things, and then making amends with him, stroking his ego little by little.
The result was rather strange. He got out of whatever angry/scared stupor he was in and started to actually initiate conversations with me. Eventually he made it clear that he wanted to get to know me outside of work. I found out by accident that he went as far as digging up bits of personal information, particularly my likes and dislikes. He would then very casually bring up things I am interested in in conversations. All of it took me by surprise. Now I feel like my inner Scorpio has crawled back out out of whatever deep dark corner that it crawled into and fixed its steady gaze on him through the kind receptive Cancerian eyes. Will be interesting to see what comes out of it.
when aries gets me me me, remind them that the world doesn’t revolve around them and watch their response. I was reminded of that also, He/she could be talking me me me all day but thinking of u u u, it was a way for me personally of not letting people in. When aries takes out small bursts of anger, with me personally it was the fact i was missing that person. Its complicated, i know and we’re hard too figure out too but to get even or to hate would just make us hate u more. Aries pride, won’t have u loosing at anything.
Aries, I can fully relate to that…I am a libran with an Aries/Taurus rising. I tend to talk me, me, me, but think of you only…for same reasons…however, it can be taken by others as being self-centred, when I am really just not wanting anyone else to know what is bothering me(: Yep…complicated little critters we are…but loving too(;
Aries Say’s, I am not into revenge…karma deals with all that stuff. I am into forgiveness and loving however. It is not nice to be blamed for something not done…or to be called childish names out of spite…or to have honest, deep feelings discarded with the trash…or to be put down in public for merely loving you. I sincerely hope love finds us again and the future is brighter than it is right now…for all of us.): Revenge is for fools.
I fully agree & ENDORSE what Monkey Says:
Love is ‘caring & sharing’ & it should be there even if you are seperated. I am a Scorpio- a hardcore one: recently I have been used & dumped by an Aries BUT what pains me is that she has not yet achieved her dreams yet…… not the seperation.
…Sun in aries, moon in Leo and venus in aries (volatile u may think), AND mercury in pisces(THE CALM)…….and 90% of mY R friends ARIES….anyway just wanted 2 say the world can also be beatifull, full of love yes…love! with aries ppl…and i’ve had friends of all signs capricons, scorpions..aquarius leo…all of ’em, and always find myself 2 be dominate without always realising…am now grown and and have taken the pleasure of seein others shine (25yrs) lettin myself be alittle vulnerable, listening more than talking. from an aries perspective we come into this world as u all now ‘know’ ME FIRST attitude….but take it from me and some may dis-agree wit me, but aries’ greatest pleasure is knowing we’ve made it work for someone else…this is not apparent even 2 the aries person. Paving the way 4 people, new traditions new ideas the untourched the ‘still 2 be known’ is wat we r best at….offcourse on the way 2 that mountain we may cross a few. However we also different as individuals, so next time u involved wit an Arian remove all conceived ideas of wat an aries should be or act and so goes for other signs. And thats not 2 say every arian will be your ‘knight in shinning amour’…..but generally they r some of the most calm and king ppl i’ve met which is ironic!
kind i meant! and kingly sometimes! but generally i personally love all the signs! u just need 2 knw where it ticks 4 them! looool luv and bless u all! and try and spend less time on this kind of personification (astrology) it can rob u alot about people’ true nature and ways!. i also think it gives people i chance 2 act how the please…e.g ‘oh am aries therefore am prone to anger’ and the like…CHEERS. XXX
Tani, backstabbing much? Shows you smth about Cancer people
ARIES SAY’S says:
“January 5, 2010 at 8:09 am
when aries gets me me me, remind them that the world doesn’t revolve around them and watch their response. I was reminded of that also, He/she could be talking me me me all day but thinking of u u u, it was a way for me personally of not letting people in. When aries takes out small bursts of anger, with me personally it was the fact i was missing that person. Its complicated, i know and we’re hard too figure out too but to get even or to hate would just make us hate u more. Aries pride, won’t have u loosing at anything
I HAVE TO TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS STATEMENT AS AN ARIES EVEN IF PRIDE GETS IN MY WAY AT TIMES, ITS THE WAY IT IS WITH ARIES. ALWAYS SEEM TO PUT EVERYTHING INTO OUR RELATIONSHIPS, WEN WE FALL IN LOVE WE FALL DEEP, OUR HEARTS, SOLES AND EVERY THING ELSE. BUT TRY TO COVER UP SO MUCH AT TIMES THAT ITS REALLY ABOUT OUR PARTNERS AND NOT US!!!!
Dear confused Aries and Aries SAYS, It is not onlyyou guys who are misread in this department…I am a Libran lady and also get this crap! I often don’t ask questions for fear others will say I am prying into their business, or I may feel I could offend if I pry. I find it hard to communicate to those I love the most, but think of them 24/7 and I mean 24/7…all through the night…not much sleep. The more I learn about Aries, the more I love them. At present, there are many in my life in work, female friends and the man I love…who may not feel the same for me, but not a deterrant. I personally think Arians just need to be heard and to say what they really feel sometimes, just like myself…but I do have Aries/Taurus rising. Revenge is foolish, as karma deals with everyone equally, and revenge is a sign of insecurity. Those wanting revenge need to look dep within their own souls and see what it is they are lacking that causes them to not want to be more interested in finding an amicable solution to their relationship problems and what maybe they are actually not doing to keep it afloat. Maybe it is purely a fact that they are not compatible…so be it. Love to all and angel hugs to those feeling a little down today.
“Revenge is foolish, as karma deals with everyone equally, and revenge is a sign of insecurity”
Barb Libra/Monkey so true, i could not of said it better myself 🙂 I would find it hard to let the ones i love in at times. Apart from being very protective over the ones i love i can also be secretive too and maybe your man is the same but it does not mean that he doesn’t love you. It could be that he’s trying to protect himself from getting hurt.
aries will fall hard and fast but if we feel unappreciated or taking advantage off we tend to back away from both the relationship in hand and the chase.
confused aries says,
I am aware of the walking away if feeling unappreciated,,,I just don’t know how to assess when/how I am showing that I don’t appreciate him…I was of the impression I appreciated too much and was a nuisance. It would be so much easier if the guard were dropped and I felt comfortable enough to just casually start a conversation and have it reciprocated. I always claimed his behaviour was to protect his delicate and loving heart, but want that reversed so I can fill it with love(:
K, Barb Libra/Monkey I had a simular conversation with a taurus on another site, Listen to him, he will tell u how or when ur doing that. Ignoring him will make him feel like that. My advice maybe joke with him “the more you open up to him the more he will open up to you” always remember that with aries. let him do the chasing aries love the chase in relationships but have to be fully sure that the relationship is secure otherwise we won’t chase. Remember aries have alot of pride and have to proud of you to be in a relationships.
His behavour is certaintly to protect his heart. Aries have big hearts and alot of people take advantage so instead we close up. To get him to open up you’ll have to open up first little by little. Its the only way i’d feel comfortable with a partner. Talk to him ask him how was his day keep it light but then open up yourself and watch his reactions. But remember little by little alrite 🙂
confused aries says, thank you so much for your advice. I shall try to contact today as feel it is time…hope I don’t screw up this time. So many BIG changes are taking place in my life this weekend, and this would be the cream on top(: I just pray he accepts my call…for once. Cheers aned wish me luck.
Barb the way to his heart is the truth but don’t be too heavy with him either it will make him run. Don’t say i love u either or put to much pressure on him My experiences with a libra man was he put to much pressure on me and i disapeard. It made me feel trapped and smoothered. keep it light and give him little by little. Just say what u said to me about hoping u don’t fuck up he’ll understand that and i think ya’ll be fine. The best of luck with him girl. He’s just protecting himself and has walls built up so take them walls down brick by brick (little by little) ya’ll be fine.
Hey barb – Aries always wants that best friend as well as a partner in their relationships so give him friendship too alrite 🙂 🙂 🙂
confused aries, Well, I made he mistake of txting rather than actually calling…or maybe it wouldn’t have made any difference): Anyway, He just txt back ‘I don’t read your txt so save your money and delete my number’…so I did.He obviously has made his mind up not to bother with me again, for whatever reason…but if he read my txts, he would see I was offering friendship and wishing him every happiness and not wanting any harm to come to him. Ignorance is bliss and I am wearing out just caring for him too much.): He is younger, so I hope he finds someone who can offer as much love and honesty that I can/have.
K it really sounds like he’s hurting to me. so let him sit with it. otherwise he’s gona just keep being nasty and hurtful. As for him saying he don’t read ur texts LOL i bet you so much he does 🙂 🙂 he’s probably sitting looking at that text all night.
The fact he texted u back says so much. If he didn’t care for you honestly he won’t give u the time of day never mind a text back. He wouldn’t acknowledge you at all.
Girl if u hurt him with words tell him your actions always speak louder 🙂 🙂 🙂 he’ll know what that means. And will understand u more.
Dear confused aries,
I am confused now…lol! What do you mean about my actions being louder? Do you mean I should do something to show I care, or that I should just txt that to him, or what?? I have to stay over the other side of the country for Valentine’s Day, so should I send him flowers? I really wanted to be there to see his reaction when I had something delivered to his work…bugga!
With aries its like don’t say it show it sorta thing 🙂 words are only words actions will always speak to us alot louder. yes maybe do something that will show him how u feel, send him a song or lyrics off a song or i guess do whatever to show him that u still love him. Aries will put up a fight at times but thats just either we are hurting or insecure about something be his friend when he’s like that and ya’ll never loose him. thats actions your showing u care so much about him ya get me.
If he can depend on you, he’ll always run to you. actions again 🙂 if he had no time for u or didn’t care for you he wouldn’t of texted u back. He would of just ignored you, his actions speak louder too. do u understand now???
Dear confused Aries,
Yes, I do…so, because I am on the other side of the country I thought of sending something for Valentine’s Day via post…Chocolates and a rose…the CD I ordered won’t get there in time. The irony is, when I got his txt to delete his number, I was in Myer’s store and his song he got the band to play for me, ‘how sweet it is’ came on their intercom…I thought to myself, bullshit you want me to delete your number!! I believe in these messsages even though it sounds corny(:
No it doesn’t, he’s just hurting and again its words not his actions. they speak different and his actions mean something that comes from his heart. words are just said out of anger or hurt that don’t mean much. Its hard to explain it fully but when u look at his actions even if his words where hurtfull u will see that he’s trying to tell u something that he can’t find words for. He’s struggling i was in that position and the more u understand or be his friend threw this the more he’ll love u for it. Personally i think u will know ur own man and know when or if he truely wants u around. And with aries i’d walk away from u and ignore u totally if i didn’t want u around me. I get cold and when i get like that i don’t take any prision’ers