Pisces Mania provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,
i met this pisces male who is eight years my junior and he is from another country to boot. love at first sight and despite our language difficulties we connected on a spiritual, emotional, physical and psychic level. never experienced this type of relationship before. but he confuses the heck out of me.
i could tell from his nervousness and sweaty hands that he was really into me but then he’d ignore my phone calls for several weeks only to call me out of the blue and ask why i didn’t call more? the last time there was two months in between our inneraction (because he stopped returning my calls, i refused to keep trying) but curiosity got the best of me and i called. he got in touch a week later and came over. greeted me with the most passionate kiss ever and asked again why i didn’t call more and that he was “waiting” for me. it’s like he doesn’t even realize he is the one being distant or perhaps he’s good at lying. so, it’s now been a month since we last saw one another and i left a message several weeks ago telling him i missed him and would like to spend more time together. of course, no response and i’m ready to walk away. is this typical pisces behavior? have read pisces are indecisive and live in their own world. how do i know to stick it out and fight the good fight or stop fooling myself? help! i’m hopelessly in love with this strange creature….
Stop fooling yourself. It sounds like this Pisces man wants you to be in the driver’s seat, yet he won’t even get in the car with you. You leave frequent messages, and he complains you don’t call more … plus he rarely responds. I don’t care how much you love him … he’s not living up to his part of the deal. However much his feelings for you are reciprocated, his near-total passivity — for which Pisces gets a bad rap — is a deal-breaker.
You have Venus in Taurus in your Seventh House. Stability and a feeling of being valued are necessary for you to have a satisfying relationship — neither of which this Pisces man is offering. You also have transiting Uranus — planet of awakening and sudden change — transiting your natal Jupiter in Pisces. This planet may signify your Pisces man, as Jupiter represents people from foreign lands, and it is in his sign. This transit — which ends February of next year — indicates a lack of any stability with regards to him. He may come in and out of your life with no predictable frequency. Do you want that?
You currently have the opportunity (Jupiter) to build a dream (Pisces) home or home life (Fourth House), which can help provide you a sense of security (Jupiter rules your Second House). I’d suggest you put your energies into bringing the best of Pisces into your life … not the worst.
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