You’re nearing the end of your first date, and nothing horrible has happened. In fact, the evening has progressed smoothly. Your Libra date has been charming, polite, great at conversation. Hell, he’s even added romantic gestures that are “just right” at this stage of the game.
Yes, you want more. No, not tonight … you don’t want to send that kind of message too soon. But you see that this could go somewhere. However, he’s a Libra — how do you know all these flourishes are authentic? Maybe he’s like this with all the girls.
Dinner’s over, he drops you off at your place, tells you he had a wonderful evening — “Me, too, ” you add — and gives you a light peck on the cheek. What? Is that all? Isn’t he going to say, “Are you free on Wednesday?” No, instead he says, “I’ll give you a call.”
You wonder what that means. Is that the kiss-off of death, or his true intention? You reply, “Sounds great,” and unlock your front door. He returns to his car. After you get inside, you collapse a little inside, for after so many awful first dates, this guy’s actually someone you’d like to see again. But no follow-up is planned, and you’re left hanging. You don’t even know if he’s interested. Do you wait for him to call? You’re not up for asking him out, maybe because you’re so frightened he would say no.
Fortunately, you’ve got this limitless tool called Sun sign astrology. Armed with the knowledge that Libra is a romantic at heart and wants to be in a relationship, that he craves balance and fairness in all things, which snappy line would you email him in less than a week’s time, if he hasn’t followed up?
Respond below.
I do love Librians…. one of my best friends is a libra male… we´ve never fallen out in 25yrs… always pick up where we left off even it its been years that we havent spoken & we always make each other laugh. The libra that Im dating is lovely… when we´re together its like we are the only 2 people in the world but when we´re not its mysterious… although over the weekend we have moved to a new level. We´ve both realised that we mean more to each other & want more from each other… thanks to me bringing up the subject as librians need things to be planted and then go away and weigh up the situation.
He makes me happy, thats all that counts & I have to stop analitical about things. We do make a great couple, he makes me go weak at the knees & his voice is like a God… he´s shown me that I can have thoses feelings after a broken heart…. & I think he´s learning to have those feelings again too…. and hey we´re both not getting any younger…. life is too short… we both know that as we´ve both lost important people in our lives recently.
I just feel like a love sick teenager lol 🙂
@piscesqueen> i never told him anything about kids a marriage IT WAS him always AND me laughing but with time I was mean on that and said are you kidding? what HAPPEND if I HAVE A KID AND YOU leave me out in a cold at least with my ex he is a good provider!. I never knew how wrong I was until one day I said to him I was pregnant and he came running telling me Im here baby I hug him and he said YOU thought I WAS GONNA leave you? and then he mentioned mommy I couldnt tell him I was kiding and then on tues I said guess what? I got my period!. THIS is one of my biggest secret I did not do this in a mean way…I did it to test him I dodnt know why? maybe cause I dnt trust people….maybe is my scopr asc I dnt know!. For me It was a big issue the kids stuff and marriage I was there before I KNEW the great deal THAT IT WAS….it was not a joke!. couldn marry out of someones thinking it was their time or marrying someone who could cheat on me with time!. no I had to save myself I was scared
@GIMINILOVE: OH im happy…let him show you the world in his magic carpet….let go and youll see you have the best partner ever…soon he wll give you so much confidence you will stop analizing….IM a virgo and we shared the same ruling planet with GEM mercury and I KNOW what you are talking about analizing but soon youll see thru him and one thing libras are not is being liars THEY rather tell u
things up front even if you dont like it!.so how old is you libra? and what did you guys lost?
@sexynicevirgo:
Yes I see my libra fighting all the time with his negative influences…..it’s always written on his face…your libra has way more positive influences in his life. his parents had a good marriage and his sister is married, etc. my libra has none of that…just a whole bunch of cad influences…lol…I know what you mean about us talking like this on this post…but that is what is very similar about pisces and virgo females…we can go head to head and then just ignore it like if nothing happened….lol….cap mothers are very protective of their sons…trust me i have two cap aunts and they have both went head to head with thier son’s girlfriends to the point where one son married his girlfriend and moved to another state…lol…i believe that the fact that his parents had a great marriage was a very strong influence as libras often mirror what they see until and unless they see something that disproves it
@geminilovebitten
I got a bit of a headache from all the posts on here today, only kidding!… wow too many females with issues on the Libra men. Take into account that we cannot pidgeon hole all Libra men, thus taking into account there time of birth, date of birth etc… yes there are all similar traits, but each of us are certainly true to our star sign. Me being an Aries, independent, beautiful, fiery, not needing a man, honest, passionate, cold etc… there are alot more factors to include than just the norm, which is what all us women are saying on here. It is a tragedy, as all Libra men I have come across are beautiful on the exteria, but underneath they are the ‘ peterpans’, they never trully grow up!
For the girls/women on here who it is working out for, take it, grab it and enjoy it for what it is, just guard yourself slightly as these men come in and out of your lives for eternity. Yes, I have heard from mine, but the ‘toing and fro-ing’ so to speak, and having to wait is not one of my traits – hence me being an Aries. They say the best match for Libra is Gemini, Aries, Leo….. Ying and Yang…. I adore this Libra of mine, but life is too short to hold on to my breath and live in hope of something that may never materialise….
They are honest, almost to a fault, but they are also contrary creatures. U work with there rules, or no ones rules. When they want something, they expect us girls to go running. For some women they will do this, but what century do we live in???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… Just go for it with your Libran, do not ‘nit pick, enjoy and do not analyse’… love should not be a conquest, but two hearts that come together, sometimes without words!!
🙂
You so speak the truth India & have great wisdom…. One of my favorite sayings is… There are two things to aim at in life; first to get what you want, and after that to enjoy it… Only the wisest of mankind has achieved the second! Yes they are Peter Pan´s inside but what man isn´t… I have two brothers one is a sag & the other is a cap… boy they compete against each other with their toys & nights out lol.
I think after our chat things have gone better & progressed nicely… & he´s taken note of the issues Ive had where normally if it would have been another man it would have been in one ear & out the other. Im just glad I have a mature librian…. what I need in my life right now is stability, a best friend & a rock… & hopefully Ive found it… well he found me 🙂
sexy nice read virgo…. he lost a partner, I lost a child…. so we understand that sort of pain 🙁
“geminilovebitten – not sure you got my last post as changed my username now fleur-india (my real name)!!! with profile pic ! SAD.COM
I got a bit of a headache from all the posts on here today, only kidding!… wow too many females with issues on the Libra men. Take into account that we cannot pidgeon hole all Libra men, thus taking into account there time of birth, date of birth etc… yes there are all similar traits, but each of us are certainly true to our star sign. Me being an Aries, independent, beautiful, fiery, not needing a man, honest, passionate, cold etc… there are alot more factors to include than just the norm, which is what all us women are saying on here. It is a tragedy, as all Libra men I have come across are beautiful on the exteria, but underneath they are the ‘ peterpans’, they never trully grow up!
For the girls/women on here who it is working out for, take it, grab it and enjoy it for what it is, just guard yourself slightly as these men come in and out of your lives for eternity. Yes, I have heard from mine, but the ‘toing and fro-ing’ so to speak, and having to wait is not one of my traits – hence me being an Aries. They say the best match for Libra is Gemini, Aries, Leo….. Ying and Yang…. I adore this Libra of mine, but life is too short to hold on to my breath and live in hope of something that may never materialise….
They are honest, almost to a fault, but they are also contrary creatures. U work with there rules, or no ones rules. When they want something, they expect us girls to go running. For some women they will do this, but what century do we live in???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… Just go for it with your Libran, do not ‘nit pick, enjoy and do not analyse’… love should not be a conquest, but two hearts that come together, sometimes without words!!
@gminilove: wuao Im so sorry to hear gemini my heart goes out with you girl!
hope the best for both of you! libra are nobles! not perfect cause none of us
are
men are like tiles… walk on them the first time, you can walk on them for years……. !!!! 🙂
@pisces queen. HIS SISTER the one who is married marry a guy from my country you see I live in a dif country were I was born I meet him here my libra in his country….but wanna listen to this his sister marry my cousin bf from kids they live one in front of the other!. So when we went to chicago to meet his sister I was only gonna meet his sister cause I already knew her husband from my childhood and all his family can you believe that? amazing! He NEVER told him mom he was taking me so she call and she ask he said CANT tell you cause you are gonna killed me…the other day his bro in law the guy from my country said hey the machine was getting on fire with your mom voicemail …at all this I was quite and observing everything…I heard my libra saying to his sis hey what the hell she wants she dont even know sexynice virgo hahaha why is she like this? Im gonna marry her in vegas! he kissed me but you see there was a big fight and somehow IT felt that it wasnt about us but those two!. mom and child
this guy from my country his bro in law is living in my country they left chicago after having a beautifull baby they could have it easier here in this other country her country but he does not like libras mom not one bit!. she said once libra sis If we live near mom Ill be separated by now! sorry to have a mom like
that I dnt know if is a cap thing or is pure cultural! I think she screams and daddy dnt say a word!. his other sister is half sister daughter of the mother she is a completely psyquiatric case, not only cause Ive heard but also cause he use to tell me, that one has marry and divorce several times! she is a nut case her parents support her and raise the child she had with a man….my libra used to see after this kid even thou he was a kid still
@india fleur: are you french? lol at ur post men are like tiles lmao
@sexy nice read virgo – love the user name!
I do have french in me, but English, from London!
MEN ARE LIKE TILES…. I think we should all be more like Samantha in Sex and the City….
Quote:…. men can never be your friends, they are all pricks!!!!! lol 🙂
@fleur-India – yep got it… as well as wise youre funny!!! I love Samantha…. her character is brilliant what star sign would you say she was? And yes when I woke up this morning & went into my emails I was like whooa whats been going on here over night???? I got lost after the 4th lol… but hey girls you go!!
Im in a really good place right now & may it continue with my guy… how was the phone call with your librian & when are you seeing him again or have you completely knocked him on the head?? xx
@fleur india: or british that nice!listen to this I have french canadian but I do have irish, scotish but I was born in panama wich makes me latina! isnt that amazing my combination I LOOK european but Im latina!
everymen in this latitudes fall for me hahaha
nnnnnnneeee im kidding!
just playing samantha character I watch the movie too cool love the fashion I wanted to seat and try to copy those dress with a costurerie!
@gemlove:
I think samantha is a fire sign either a sag, aries or leo! but I would tell you that even thou Im not closer to 50 I was years ago being all concern with age and shit putting on thousands of creams and knowing all about age defying techniques SO she can be a virgo with a mars in leo and sco asc like me
Im gonna steal that MEN ARE LIKE TILES and display it on my fb profie too good!
@gemlove
noooooo – i actually feel quite relieved to not be pent up thinking constantly about my Libran man… he will come back, but whether I am around is another question. There are so many great men out there, I am just going to have some fun, and not think too much about him (for now)!!!!!
“sexyniceredheadvirgo’…. great combination!… latino women are very fiery, passionate and control there men !!… can any Libra man handle us fiery, passionate women!!! lol
On the subject of bloodlines…. I´m a bit of a Heinz 57 myself hahaha…. Mothers side…. south american eg venezuelan, arowak indian, english, scotish my dads side…. irish & german jewish…… and yes I know about the the passion of a south american bloodline…. My mum is a piscian, my adoptive dad is a scorpio & my bio dad was a gemini… although my bio dad was a gemini & neve met him until I was 40 he drove me up the wall… I love my scorpio dad, I do have a special relationship with my mum but she does get over emotional sometimes for me but they are a great combination & have been together for over 40 years bless them.
@fleur-india Im glad youve got your head around your librian & I know where youre coming from with the constantly thinking sometimes you just cant help it… they are like magnets, they have such a power, its like they drink you up & drain you…. you have fun & yes he will be back once again when he´s levelled his flippin scales… I think you may have tipped them a bit, the trouble is he´ll end up missing the boat with you if he takes too long to align himself…
xx
girls, I could tell you the story what happened with my Libra last weekend, which was officially our first date. We had been chatting together for about 6 weeks previously, and he cancelled 2 times to meet up due to other committments (more like he was playing tonsil tennis with other girls)…..
We basically hooked up, and the arrangement was for him to come to my friends 35th birthday party, which was over in North London, which he came 2. He stood at the bar most of the night, just watching, i felt uneasy as he did not make any attempt with my friends… i do not usually drink THAT much, but this night I appeared to have got carried away… I have no idea what happened at the end of the night, as the last converstation we has (looking at my mobile phone was just gone 4 in the morning)…. we obviously had words, and not heard from him since…. apart from 1 text how are you? So I have no idea what to think, apart from he is not interested in me…. HE has not told me what actually happened, or what words were said between us. I was silly to think I could alter him, as he made it clear he just wanted friends with benefits, which I cannot DO !!!
I did have alot of people to catch up with on that night, and did not pay him enough attention ( yes, I blame myself here, but been blaming myself for the entire evening). I have given up on him, but my gut feeling is he will be back probably xmas 2020 !!!!??? Any ideas?
@fleur-india …. How old is he? Its a bit strange that he didnt mingle & make an effort with your friends because they are social butterflies & love being around people… maybe you should have gone out just the two of you for your first date…. has he actually said to you all he wants is friends with benefits… I know how you feel about that one because I am sooo not that kinda gal….. perhaps you should take the bull by the horns and make another date with him alone & maybe you´ll get out of him what happened at the end of the night. We all know librians can be slow on the up take because of their scales, if he really wasnt interested I dont think you would have heard from him at all…. when I had a small falling out with mine, this was at about wk 4 but he called told me he wasnt going to call but he had to & ever since then we havent looked back…. although I have had my analitical days & he has put me right on those & now we´re fine. Dont keep blaming yourself for that night… it takes two to tango & he could have made more of an effort too… as for you drinking more than usual on that night I would put that down to nerves because of him….xx
@geminilovebitten… My Libra is 28. He did not interact all night, me and my girlfriends paid for drinks most of the night! The cheek as well, he booked a cab and we get to north London from West London, and it cost £20.00 and me and my girlfriend paid for the Cab, he did not even offer. This also happened on the way back…..
I feel a fool, and cheap as I stupidly thought I could handle friends with benefits, but come on first date and having those expectations is going to make any girl feel uncomfortable. I was stupid though to have booked the hotel, PAID for it… so i guess I asked for it… he left in a huff after we went to a club, hence the last call i had was just gone 4 in the morning, and I have no idea what was said and he will not communicate with me !!!!!
INFACT the more I read what I have just put, he sound like a bastard…. !!!
Well when you put it like that I think you´re best out of it & bloody dump him! That certainly isnt the way to impress a lady… shame on him!!!
Im a little bit old school but also independant but I do feel in the early stages of something happening between two people its down to the man to impress & the rest will follow… my libra is old school, our dates he´s booked & arranged & paid for even down to either picking me up or paying for my taxi…. but then he does have expensive taste & Im no way in my position able to match them.
Your libra man should have been paying for everything especially the hotel!!! And stop downing yourself, you never asked for it, you are just a generous person, who has feelings, you had something special to give, he took & never even gave back…. when I mean give back I mean, communication, affection, adoration…. you deserve so much more…. he is nothing more than a lost little fish in a big ocean… you however are a smart, clever, beautiful, loving, generous woman in an ocean that is there for the taking!!! 🙂
Oooooh I came all over protective then for you… he doesnt want to be put in a room with me a protective little gemini!!! 🙂
xx
That is really sweet of you. Even though I am feisty, and come across as someone who does not like romance, I would love a guy to go back to old fashioned basics and have that giddy feeling of meeting someone that was NOT expecting too much too soon.
I put myself on a pedestal and it all came crashing down around me. I am certainly not loaded, and he took all evening and gave nothing back. Even to apologise I would accept that, but I get nothing. He spent all evening just watching, and watching my every move…. Atleast I got to sleep in a lovely hotel room ALL ON MY OWN!.. thank goodness!
6 weeks ago, when we first started chatting on line.. he was SUCH a charmer, very softly spoken, well educated, clever….I really thought I what a catch….. then the cancellations of dates, where on the first date we had HE DID NOT EVEN BOTHER TO TELL ME HE WAS CANCELLING…… then the 2nd date he was AWAY working.. I should have put two and two together then. I give people the benefit of the doubt… knowing me, IF HE DOES contact me, I would go back for more… that shows how much self respect I have for myself….
Question is… do you think he will contact again…. then what happens…
grrrrrrrr… I am great at giving advice, but awful at taking it… I know I should be kicking him to the kerb, but I honestly cannot get him out of my head.
My friends went mad, and said I set myself up to fall with him, by booking the hotel. Which I agree partly with !!!!
🙂
@fleu-india Your email is so funny…. I too had all the cancellations of dates all work related also one where he never even cancelled & yes I was bloody frustrated & angry at times… but in my situation I knew we had something special to give each other, especially the little things we would say. I like you always give the benefit of the doubt & like to see the good in all things especially people, I can almost be childlike. Ive experienced his anger & boy they do show it although I know they dont like to but he hasnt experienced mine yet & there´s two of me lol
Im again like you good at giving advice but not good putting it into action, you were great with me when I needed to sort my head out & sort out my situation & it did… now I couldnt be happier… thanks to you!
He will call but I think you need to meet up with him face to face… although librians dont like confrontation they like atmospheric places, they also like humour in your voice & they always go for beautiful strong women which is why he´s gone for you…. they dont deal with stress very well & can go within themselves as they like to be incontrol of their own situations & terible at making decisions, sometimes they need a push. If confronting them do it as “we” & not “you”, eg not to put all the blame on him…. show him there are two sides, he will know what youre talking about because of his scales & he would agree with everything you say & realise what he´s done wrong… he would then go away & you would have given him something to thing about. And yes they are complete mind f*&$ks!!
If you want to see him again try instigate him to take you out for dinner, get him to book the restaurant so its in his name & dont you dare pay for the meal or even call him yourself and ask him if he fancies meeting up for a quiet drink because you need to clear the air…. what have you got to lose…. BUT I would keep your guard up until you know in your heart he´s a keeper.
At the end of the day if he really likes you, you will see changes in him…. I have in mine & although no L words have been exchanged & there wont be for a long time…. my librian has me hook, line & sinker, Ive been completely 100% committed to him from the first wink, Ive been patient, stuck in there & its paying off….. & get this me a gemini… patience phah…. he must be the real deal for me lol
Only you know what is good for you & only you know deep down if this guy is right… some of us need the chase & some of us like to be chased personally I think a couple should chase each other….
Here´s a bit of your own advise to you: love should not be a conquest, but two hearts that come together, sometimes without words!! lol I love that!!!
🙂 xx
@ hi girls I know uk is around 1 or 2pm in the afternoon
while in this side of the world is 743 a.m.
@fleur india> and geminilove>
whith who should I start?
the shorter first OK gem Panama is in the middle of central
america and south america…Im living in guatemala now
for some years Im separated from a leo husband
many many years ago Im 40
I have to beautifull kids one is 21 and the other is 13
they live with me….we never sign the divorce papers cause
law here is stupid and the process is dead it could take
years so we leave it like that
Imnatural red head as You can see, tall and latina at heart
Im passionate yeah but I CAN BE cold….
not emotional thou my mom is a cancer I never met my
bio dad who was a gem hahaha
I grew up on my grandparents house granpa pisce grandma
also cancer too much water!
my mom also gets into my nerves cause im too realistic and
down to earth my role is that im her mom she is another
daughter to look after but not economically
my kids where born in miami I LOVE it there
and the love of my life was a libra
fleur india>
Im going to tell you many things about libra lets
see if you get the picture with your libra
remember I know u aries girl better than you too
and im gonna pin somethings about you!.
first libras always knows what they want
and usually when they ask for something like
a fck buddy or something they mean it
that is their state of mind at the moment
2nd they are exellent judge of characters
and you my dear like to pay the bill cause
thats how my bst gf is and many other
aries i know
also you are interest ih him cause he is not
easy catch but as soon as he give in
you might not be interest
3libras are chaser and you havent giving
him the chance to do that
4 what i know about libras when they
dnt want to be in a love relations is
by seeing libra male friends
and let me tell you they do stik to
their guns
5 i never met a cheap libra that dnt want
to pay the bills You must have insisted
really hard in paying that cab etc.etc.
6 if his not calling girl you are doing the
right think and looking elsewhere
I think you can get him with sex
cause you are intense and libras
are kinky! but if he acts already like
this i dnt know
my best friend gf aries went out with a friend of mine
a libra she pratically move for one night to his apt
i saw his face…this is a bussiness man and he loves
to invite everybody…but she took the bill more than once
on him and he was like wtf?
later when they talk on the ph she explain to him all
her situation wiht her husband at the moment and
he started to make numbers and found her risky
he call me and said virgo listen this is being the
best one week stand in y life bla bla bla but can
keep on with your gf
later it was a joke the one week stand!
if i have to compare him to my ex libra
then i would have to compare her to me
and nope my libra was exactly the opposite with
me but i was exactly the opposite with him too
@sexynicereadheadvirgo
I think you have read my blog wrong… When I met the Libra, i did not put out or sleep with him or DO ANYTHING… he took advantage by allowing drinks to be be paid for by me and my girlfriends and CABS.. he did not even offer. Which is selfish!
There was no way I was going to sleep with him on a first date, which is the reason he got peeved off and stormed away from me.
Easy Catch??? NO – as my girlfriends said I am way better looking than him, and I could have other guys, but it is him I am interested in !!! :)… Saying that, I have gone completely off him for his stinky attitude that evening. Shows how childish he really is. I have too big a heart to give it 2 someone like him, unless his sorts himself out emotionally !
If he wants a fuck buddy, he certainly came to the wrong person. I think he knows that also..
fleur-india
That selfish guy you described sounds a lot like my ex husband. Just imagine I was his F*** buddy for 5 years of cold marriage. Best thing to do is to move on, and oh boy will they not even bother to follow you. Finding a better friend or lover won’t be hard to do. not all the Libra guys I’ve met were like that, some are super sensitive, but I married a machine.
To: sexyniceredheadvirgo
Libras are actually quite cheap!! They like to mooch off their girls. My libra has never spent a dime on me. I assure you that I never INSISTED on paying. Of course I offered out of kindness, which he totally jumped on. He was a complete user who took and took and never gave. In our last days together, he actually had the audacity to blatantly admit that he’s always been a taker and not a giver. The only time Libras spend their money is when the girl plays the charity case card, which lets them show off their humanitarian side because they are oh-so generous. As for living luxuriously, they sure do! But only when it comes to spending money on themselves. They will never go spend a large amount of money on their gf, just on themselves. They don’t care if they have the money or not to spend on themselves, but they will just go max their credit card if they want something.
My ex-libra was the cheapest man I know. I know that you seldom come across men who are gentlemen nowadays, but this guy was a whole different level of user. One of the reasons why I dated him to begin with was that he’s a libra, my compatibility, and since I know their reputation for being romantic, witty, charming and a gentleman. So much for that!! What a lie!!
Although Libra is an air sign, it is unlike Aquarius and Gemini in the sense that they are emotional. In other words, they are smarter version of a Cancer. They have emotions and sentiments of a Cancerian, but brains of an air sign. They are a logical sign with emotions and since logic and emotions don’t go together, you can see why these morons are so indecisive and always torn over things. Their logic says one thing and emotions say another. My ex really made me hate this sign
@aquarius 09> well my xlibra was yep way generous and good!. they can be real nasty if they want to…but when they love u they can also be the BEST and BIGGEST SWEET HEARTS. in my case I have venus and mercury in libra and a scop asc my ex libra had venus and mars in scorp LOTS OF EMOTIONS like u said! but he ws xtremely smart!. commited to everything he did!. but he got marry JUST because I couldnt marry him!. i think people should be measure by their love and not their sun sign!. they more Ive experiences with other signs and shared with people in this blog!. is about love and just another relationship!. I think when u cant love someone U CAN ALSO be an asshole or a bitch u know!.
by the way I have my moon in aqua!. I THINK im pretty cold and mental cause that position then being a virgo dnt help much either!. I have trouble feeling and being in touch with my emotions
oh sexynicevirgo….is this also sexyredheadvirgo? My sun is Aqua, Moon Virgo haha…..I can help you with your emotions. I’m third decan Aqua, so we actually are the most romantic in that sign. But, also the most idealistic….damnit! lol -jk-
I think my experience with Pisces definitely made me a warmer girl….but now I find myself explaining myself a lot…with a hand gently place on the man’s inner thigh when I say it…and then I just smile…and keep smiling all the while saying “Right? You get where I’m coming from, right?” haha til they say yes.
I totally agree with you because a sun sign hardly defines a person’s romantic nature. There is more to astrology than sun sign. You have to know one’s moon, ascendant and venus or mars. Also, lets not forget that your experiences shape you first and foremost. You could be a libra in some aspects but a jackass in others because maybe life wasn’t too good to you.
My ex-libra was a total moocher because not only was he spoiled by his sisters but also his ex gfs. They all gave him money and spent money on him, so he was naturally accustomed to taking instead of giving. I don’t know why I ever associated with him. Red flags were right infront of me especially when he showed up empty handed for our 2nd date. lol.
Anyhow, I still like Librans because I’ve had amazing friendship with guys and girls of this sign. Needless to say that I’m not going to let one bad experience represent this zodiac sign. They are very caring because all my Libra guy friends have been protective of me and looked out for me. Too bad my ex was nothing like a Libra, except for the non-confrontational aspect.
My sun, moon and ascendant are in Aquarius so u can just see how cold I could be considering you have moon in Aqua.
To: Fleur-India
I totally agree with you when you say:
“It is a tragedy, as all Libra men I have come across are beautiful on the exteria, but underneath they are the ‘ peterpans’, they never trully grow up!”
Funny that you mentioned Peter pan because I used to call my ex Peter pan. And yes they are quite handsome on the external beauty factor. My ex was very good looking in terms of his face. I used to call him Peter pan because he refused to accept change that comes as life progresses. He had a hard time realizing that life is constantly changing whether we like it or not. He did everything he could to hold on to his friends. He is still friends with his high school buddies considering he is 25. He never wants to let them go, no matter how bad of an influence they are on him. I told him that now he’s an adult and he has to look for what is in his best interest, but that just fell on deaf ears. He will do anything to keep his friends. When I say anything, I mean anything even if it harms him. He doesnt want to change for anything or anyone. He embraces his negative qualities as if anyone would love him for that! Psh
@aquarius 09:
I think all aspects in life need to be consider.
..it would be unfair to say that my ex libra was cheap cause HE was not!
my mom says that my uncle the one who marry her sister was a real
cheap guy!. I never saw that he gave his children so much but he was
a pedifilic…..I think their general aspects in people sign like virgo are
suppose to be critical of themselves and like to bring order into cHAos!.
aquarius are supposed to be real smart, and caring for peoples need.
but I guess when we have an experience with different people we start
seeing traits in one and other and coincidentially they happend to be
the same sun sign….but I wonder if they have other simmilarities!.
ur ex libra sounded to me that he had lot os scorp on his chart!.
cause u mentioned the peter pan syndrome and also was he fat?
Im trying to get to know this new libra…..and I do feel attracted to him,
his personality, etc. but sexually seems like he have a big problem
with having an erection. So, I want and like him but that STOPs me
big time!.
in the other hand ur right my experience with my ex libra have
somehow mold me into thinking their ok. but I cant see many NASTY
traits in their personalities!. anyway I did fall in love with my ex libra
and after 4 years I still dream with him!.
@ sexynicevirgo
My libra was attractive. He wasn’t fat. It was his looks(that’s all he had about him) that got him girls. He didn’t have anything other than that. You can see that I was only with him for superficial reason. Not to mention I was lonely and having a mental breakdown when I hooked up with him. lol. Either way that asshole cheated on me, and I found out a year later through some serious measures I took. I could’ve taken those measures a lot sooner, but I didn’t because as an aquarius, I give blind trust and benefit of the doubt. But once someone wrongs me, I turn cold like ice instantly. I erase every sign of that person and kick that person out of my life like they never existed. Also, I’m vengeful so I will screw you over, which I did.
Not only was my libra a cheap, lazy, demotivated, uneducated bastard, he turned out to be a cheater. He only loved himself. You have no idea what I did to him when I foudn out he cheated on me. He will think twice before cheating another woman. He thought I was the his nicest girl he met in his life(lie or not). I was innocent and naive as it was my first relationship. Anyhow I showed him that when he messed with me, he offended the wrong person. Innocent I am, but naive, no wayyyy!! He never thought I would find out, but I used my brain and found out and punked him reall bad!! Bastard didn’t even have the decency to pick up the phone and give me the answers I was looking for. I got them from his gf, he was cheating on me with and vice versa. Even tho I have already screwed him over, all I’m going to say is that this world isn’t big enough for me to bump into him someday!!
aquarius09,
exactly. this world isn’t wide enough to see him again.
Libra’s are free rider.
hi everyone,
i see librans are a lot of work. im new here …
aquarius09 says: these morons are so indecisive and always torn over things. Their logic says one thing and emotions say another. My ex really made me hate this sign
lol its no wonder ive never fancied or been attracted to a libran but until … a month ago. sighhh … mind games, hot then cvold, only text when he wants something …. maybe its best to just stay as friends but once i’ve drawn that conclusion, typical aries in me will not regain the loving feeling for the said libran. Too much work …
libra lot of work????????????? wuahahaha absolutely NOT true!.
if their into u, they wont leave u alone!. xtra SUPER ABSORBENT!.
BUT aries women TOO!. I know many libra aries combo ….MY ex
libra LOVE OF MY LIFE marry an ARIES!.
I think libra need a woman like u…and I think libra and aries
feel SECURE with each other!.
but some libra MIGHT not even date an aries women after a
week!.
it depends on the libra guy!.
they ARE super dupper smart and organize….opposite of
aries!.
how u make him fall in love with u? here is a TIP
have sex with him…AND after that IGNORE him for a whole
mos!. BUT the sex HAS to be ONE that ROCK his WORLD
ok?. one that make him think of u, and everytime he look
for u…u R busy!. also HAVE the BODY of a GODDESS!.
physical fitness is vip for libra!.
what happend with libra is that u have to use ur HEAD!.
not ur liver…and aries love to have things RIGHT away!.
I bet u call him….after sex and look for him…HE saw
ur interest and ur desperation!. and a SMART not too
needy LIBRA would RUN from a woman like that!.
literally RUN
@aries
@sv
I totally agree with you…
esp with this comment “libra lot of work????????????? wuahahaha absolutely NOT true!.
if their into u, they wont leave u alone!. ” ahhahaha I can totally relate
and this
“how u make him fall in love with u? here is a TIP
have sex with him…AND after that IGNORE him for a whole
mos!. BUT the sex HAS to be ONE that ROCK his WORLD
ok?. one that make him think of u, and everytime he look
for u…u R busy!.”
If im into someone, and they do this, it drives me nuts!! makes me want them even more…
@aries and I am a libra, but libra female… lol
@lucky charm:
hahahah yeah love of my lifa was or is still
libra!.
and without know anything how to treat libra
I did what i POST!. knowing that another
libra confirmed it, feels good!.
my x libra I love him still…so much
but I have to love him only in my heart now!.
he got marry…BUT I dream with him alot!.
still after 4 years and 3 mos!.
@sv
your love is a LIBRA.. you must be lucky lmao 😉
Yeh well you got me down pat. at least.. I can vouch for your post as true, from how I tend to tick lol
sorry to hear the love of your life got married.. that is so sad, even worse you still dream about him after 4 years and 3months???
so Im confused are you now seeing a Libra? and you have an ex Libra? or is that love the smae person?
I actually have my eye on a Libra, how do you reckon that would go to Librians?
ok I say I love him …cause love real love have not present, past or future!.
true love is not limit to time, space or movement!.
I still love him…
in the physical world I cant love him like that cause
he marry an ARIES!.
is a long story!
@lucky charm
@sv
Oh ok I understand now, I truely do understand….
sorry bout my first comment then “your love is a LIBRA.. you must be lucky lmao” sorry I got confussed..
that must be hard, I am sorry 🙁
sorry? nooooooooooooooot at all!.
he is a beautifull memory that I
will always cherish!.
he lives in my heart!.
I wish him the BEST,
he deserved it…
He gave me the BEST!,
we love each other while it last!.
nothing to be sorry about!. but it
was hard hahahaha at some point!.
lol
@lucky charm:
@sv
oooooh well thats good to hear 😀
your such a wonderful lady, I really like you 😉
thank u….we are only human…sometimes we are good and sometimes we are bad!.
BUT ur WORDS AND beautifull thank u again.
to keep us in that GOOD part of the tennis court were all positive, good, laugh, happyness,
angels, god, light, symphony, etc LIVES is our biggest BATTLE thru life!.
cause we are pulled to the dark part of the tennis court most of the time, were angry,
sadness, mocking, belittle ing, accusation, low selfsteem, demons, neg thoughts
lives….is were we have to run from!. even when we are pulled in…the shortest time
we are there THE best!. to received all the good part in the other side of the TENNIS
COURT!. and knowing what belongs in each side is our way TO stay away from
what we TRUELY DESERVED as being ALL the most precious this CREATED on
this physical plane!.
So whenever u feel sad or depressed, angry or nervous REMEBER that is the
dark side of the tennis court…run away that is not Ur NATURAL habit!.
muax love u very much 2….lol
@lucky charm
@sv..
YES.. i really do need to remember this!! “So whenever u feel sad or depressed, angry or nervous REMEBER that is the dark side of the tennis court…run away that is not Ur NATURAL habit!.”
Or how not to be on that side, in the first place lol….
much love mwa xxx
love your little life quotes.. makes me smile 🙂
So. Two weeks ago, I met a Libra.
I was sitting on the phone talking to one of my girlfriends, when I saw him from out of the corner of my eye. I noticed him look at me. He walks past me and smiles, I smile back and say “hi”. He keeps walking. I was shocked. I turned around, and noticed him look back at me as he kept walking. The boy kept walking?! 15 minutes later, I’m still dumbfounded and talking on the phone. I see the boy come near me, but this time he has a friend with him. I pretend to not notice. They sit not to far from me. I kept talking. Once I got off the phone, I walked behind them. Libra boy looked to see where I went, once he realized I was behind him– he called me over. We ended up kicking it for a few minutes and he asked for my number. He wanted to join me wherever I was going, but I politely rejected that idea (I was meeting up with one of my guy friends for a beer).
We’ve txtd back and forths, but I didn’t see him again until yesterday. I told him to come into the city (he lives an hour away), I didn’t think he was going to, but he did. He even called me to see where I was. We met up, and I watched him skate board with his friends. Then I had to go after 45 mins, because I had other plans. He seemed a little bothered that I didn’t invite him out to my plans prior to seeing him lol. He seems a little shy, but he’s so cute. As soon as we saw each other, we were just vibing off each other. He had his skateboard, but walked right next to me. Walked really close, for a minute I thought we were going to hold hands haha. He seems like a sweetheart. He just got out of the navy (he’s a year younger than me, 22). Just before I left, he told me to get at him later and we could hang out tomorrow. That he wouldn’t bring his skateboard so he could completely focus on me.
I txtd him today, telling him I wanted to see him. Idk what it is, but something about him is drawing me to this guy. Maybe it’s the fact that it’s something new, and a new person to figure out lol. He’s hella cute. Needless to say, Libra boy said that something came up with his grandfather and he had to help him, but would try his hardest to come out and see me….seriously? I know it’s still early, but I want him to fully pursue me. Any other guy falls over himself and txts me constantly, wanting to see me.
This boy, our txts are fluid and then he’ll stop responding for some time or if he’s busy he’ll ask to get at me later…later turns into a few days. I called him out on it a few days ago, I was like “sure if you want, but you’ll probably forget. So do as you please” and a day later he txtd me saying “See I told you I’d get back at you later” smh. Silliness.