My Gemini man cheated. Call me crazy (in love that is), but I want him back. So far, I’ve only read negative compatibility matches for Gemini man/Cancer woman. Does anyone know any successful matches for those signs? (Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise don’t count for obvious reasons 🙂 And how do I get him back?
She also wrote the following to me in the IM widget on this blog:
Well, he cheated on me with a Leo girl he thinks is more outgoing and compatible… We sort of broke up because of that, but he keeps calling me and saying he still has feelings for me.
Saturn — the traditional ruler of your Seventh House cusp (Aquarius) — is being opposed by transiting Pluto in your Fifth House of romance. Pluto is the planet of betrayal, and oppositions by transit often signify a “culmination” point, in which you either separate or decide to further your commitment. Of course, he was the one who cheated, but you must decide whether you want to continue the relationship. From what you have written, it sounds like he wants you to take him back.
During a Pluto transit to Saturn, you may feel that the structures in your life are being demolished, and that you are being severely constricted. It’s a period of break-down, as well as a “no way out” existential crisis. This transit will not be over for you until November. If I were you, I’d be wary of taking him back with the attitude that it’s “water under the bridge.” This is an opportunity for you to expose the dark side of romantic involvements, not do further burying of the past.
Not surprisingly, your Saturn is in Gemini. You may be attracted to a man with this Sun sign, but your Saturn’s conjunction to his Sun (by sign) makes a relationship with him a series of trials. Also, Gemini can be rather restless to a homebody Cancer. Not to say that it’s not workable, but be forewarned.