Along your various posts, you ‘ve seemed to consider that Aquarius & Gemini, if not star-crossed, are not altogether a match made in heaven. I’m a Gemini woman with Cancer rising, a Scorpio moon, and Venus in 1st House and conjunct Cancer, if that’s any help… I’ve just started a relationship with an Aqua guy: conversation rocks even if we often agree to disagreee, sex is great although I’d like him to be more of a lingerer before serious stuff begins, the only thing is I find him way too detached, as he would be; but I’ve also read somewhere that a gemini with cancer rising is all an aquarius man needs, what with her gentle yet relentless energy to support and stabilize him.
I’d be super grateful to hear your take on all this. Do you think we could last as a couple, starwise of course?
I don’t recall stating that Aquarius and Gemini are star-crossed. In fact, these air signs get along well. Unfortunately, you’re water-heavy, which does not fit well with Aquarius. With your Moon in Scorpio and a first-house Venus in Cancer, you are focused on intimacy. Someone with Venus close to the Ascendant looks to her environment with an eye for beauty and love, and this goddess’ placement in Cancer adds a romantic, sentimental touch. A far cry from cold, detached Aquarius, if you ask me.
Additionally, with the Moon in Scorpio, you delve deeply into the world of emotions, and feel most secure when you are intensely intimate with another. Another Aquarius repellent. So although your chatty Gemini Sun connects intellectually with the Water Bearer, many of your important chart factors clash with this distant sign. Unless he, too, has some water in his chart to orient him towards closeness, he may be put off by all the lovey-doveyness of your Venus.