We all know that the prim and proper librarian experiences reckless abandon in bed, throwing off her geek-chic black-rimmed glasses, letting down her long black hair, and ripping open her bodice, buttons flying. (Or is that just my male fantasy?)
Virgo is associated with the myth of Persephone, in which the daughter of the grain goddess Demeter is abducted into the underworld by Hades. In Demeter’s grief, she neglects the earth and people starve. Zeus intercedes to bring Persephone back, but Hades slips Persie a bottle of Pom Wonderful, which results in her needing to stay in his realm for four months every year.
The underworld is a kinky place, full of sexual deviants. The Virgo female needs to occasionally get dirty to fulfill her contract. One archetypal expression of Virgo is the Sacred Prostitute, serving the Divine through the sensual arts. The key for the Virgo female is to get down while maintaining her integrity. She can be “pure of spirit” in the bedroom, as long as she does not stray from her center. When winter has overcome its stay and Persie has not returned from Hades’ realm, it is time to call the Zeus Recovery Service.
Virgos love to have secret lives, sexual or not. If you are someone who they trust, you just may be part of that secret.
Yes, the real question is – will Virgo admit to being dirty in bed?
Surely not!
I am a female Virgo Sun, Virgo Mercury and Virgo Mars. I am VERY sexual, enjoy watching porn, and can be dirty in bed. I love sex. I have been told I look like Fergie, Carmen Electra (sexy women) but with my Capricorn Rising, I have also been told I look resrved, but I’m not. Yes, I admit happily that I am dirty in bed and I have to have sex of some type at least once a day! But for me – I have to have strong attraction to someone before that dirty tiger will come out. I don’t just do it to do it with someone. Never had a one night stand. I gotta want the person badly. And the more secure I am in a relationship, the more sexual I get.
A Virgo woman will get dirty in bed as long as we know you’re not mentally unstable and it won’t get out of control. Right, we won’t admit to it, not even to our lover after it happened lol. Security in a relationship is one way to get us to unleash the bad girl because we’re not just going to “give up the ghost” and transform from Virgin to Vixen unless you prove worthy. Trust is the key and can open the door to many indecent acts, photos, videos, and orgies. So, the next question is… Can a Virgo woman find someone worthy to trust that much?
all the female virgos stated just what i would… must be the right person to get the right response… no one night stands but worth the repeat, repeat, repeat action… i need to be with someone i actually like and am attracted to … a sexy body isn’t enough to turn me on…did not realize that sex was actually GREAT until I met the right person.. also, definetly can get dirty, talk dirty, and enjoy hearing and watching dirty stuff…
I don’t believe there’s much I can say that these gals’ haven’t already said. In short, if we feel you like that, it’s ON! I hope you worked out before you got here cause your gonna need everything you got! Atleast that’s what I tell’em. I will do whatever you want, if, like Chris Rock said, “you know how to ask for it” – plus, like all the other gals’ said, I gotta be feelin’ ya too. Oh, my mind is reelin’ with thoughts. I can tell the age of the gal who said she has to have some type of sex everyday, because when you get to a certain age, as a Virgo woman, you HUNT like a lion for what it is you NEED. Your very selective about your diet. You can’t even begin to meet that need everyday. You won’t even HAVE that need EVERYDAY if your doin’ it right. You’ll need to breathe. Your body talks to you, and it will need some rehab afterwards if it’s done right. Atleast that has been my experience. No disrespect to anyone, but if you’re a true Virgo woman, listen to the vibes your body is giving off. Feed on it. And the only way you can truly get all the juice squeezed out is if you analyze the entire sexual experience after it’s had, just as us Virgo’s are famous for doing. But you must savor the experience to totally enjoy what you can achieve sexually. It’s like good liquor, you can’t just drink it like it’s Moon-Shine, and you darn sure can’t consume it everyday without it loosening your pallet. Someone once told me that they could cum without touching themselves and I thought “yeah, right.” I was young. Let me tell you – to cum without touching yourself is maddening. A virtual experience like nothing Bill Gates or the WII people could EVER cum up with. Trust me!!!!
I don’t believe there’s much I can say that these gals’ haven’t already said. In short, if we feel you like that, it’s ON! I hope you worked out before you got here cause your gonna need everything you got! Atleast that’s what I tell’em. I will do whatever you want, if, like Chris Rock said, “you know how to ask for it” – plus, like all the other gals’ said, I gotta be feelin’ ya too. Oh, my mind is reelin’ with thoughts. I can tell the age of the gal who said she has to have some type of sex everyday, because when you get to a certain age, as a Virgo woman, you HUNT like a lion for what it is you NEED. Your very selective about your diet. You can’t even begin to meet that need everyday. You won’t even HAVE that need EVERYDAY if your doin’ it right. You’ll need to breathe. Your body talks to you, and it will need some rehab afterwards if it’s done right. Atleast that has been my experience. No disrespect to anyone, but if you’re a true Virgo woman, listen to the vibes your body is giving off. Feed on it. And the only way you can truly get all the juice squeezed out is if you analyze the entire sexual experience after it’s had, just as us Virgo’s are famous for doing. But you must savor the experience to totally enjoy what you can achieve sexually. It’s like good liquor, you can’t just drink it like it’s Moon-Shine, and you darn sure can’t consume it everyday without it loosening your pallet. Someone once told me that they could cum without touching themselves and I thought “yeah, right.” I was young. Let me tell you – to cum without touching yourself is maddening. A virtual experience like nothing Bill Gates or the WII people could EVER cum up with. Trust me!!!!
I’m a Virgo, too, and I love being very kinky, dirty and I give myself fully in bed. Also one night stands give me the same pleasure – there is no difference. I must have sex atleast once a day – with myself or with another person. But of course it’s not something I say right away to a new man, because I want them to love me for who I am as a person and not for my high sex drive alone. Many men – atleast those I have come across – just want to use me for sex, if they knew the whole story. And I am looking for my true soulmate! A soulmate is something that satisfies an equally important need in me. And I want some kids as well. Even though I’m already in my mid-thirties. I think it’s hard for men to see me as both a sex vixen and a mother of their kids. But – you know what, guys – there ARE women like us out there!
I’m a female virgo. I like kinky rough sex just as much as the next lady. The thing is you have to keep treating me like a lady once we leave the bedroom. If you make me feel like the things I’m willing to do with you behind closed doors are “wrong” in some way you’ll never see my panties again. The right person is a man who appreciates all the attention we pay to detail, how willing we are to serve, and how good we are at what we do. While still knowing to show respect later on.
Another virgo women here! I too am the vixen- I love too make love and just drive my man wild. If men only knew how we truly can be (mind blowing) I do not admit too my ways. But when the time has come it has been worth their wait! NEVER under estimate the the purity we seem too project to the outside world. When we finally find you- you will be one hell of a lucky man! We will be sure of that!
Another virgo women here! I too am the vixen- I love too make love and just drive my man wild. If men only knew how we truly can be (mind blowing) I do not admit too my ways. But when the time has come it has been worth their wait! NEVER under estimate the the purity we seem too project to the outside world. When we finally find you- you will be one hell of a lucky man! We will be sure of that! God bless my virgo man who I have been waiting out for!
I’m a leo. Virgos definitely get very dirty in bed. But Virgo women scare me now, having dated one. Incessant nitpicking. I keep meeting Virgo women, and they’re very attractive, accomplished, clever, intellegent, alluring, with sensible chic.
They make me want to run away in madness
I’m a virgo and I prefer getting dirty in the bedroom. However, that’s only once I’ve come to trust and am invovled in a relationship. Not much of a one night stander.
I’m also a female Virgo (Moon in Aquarius, Venus in Leo, Mercury in Libra, Mars in Scorpio; rising sign Sagittarius). I, too, am like many of these Virgo women. I am a high energy, sexual, creative, considerate, and adventurous lover. I can be sweet and soft, sensual and giving, intense and fiery, dirty and hard, into games, into porn, into roles, communicative, and loving…I don’t consider any of my sexual behavior to be inconsistent, but friends who turn into lovers are always very surprised. These traits are apparent in other areas of my life (Sagittariuses ascending), but I intentionally keep my sexual life secret.
“Lovesvirgos”, the first poster, is right: Virgos love to have secret lives. But you’ll only learn this fun secret if I trust you. I’m highly intuitive and very mental (Virgo/Aquarius), so I know whether I can trust you within moments of meeting you. The kind of trust I need from you varies. I don’t like to be duped (and rarely am), so if I sense that you are not truly interested in me, then I’ll hold back. If you make me feel slutty or if I don’t think you can keep the secret of my private sexuality, then I’ll hold back (or turn cold, goodnight). I don’t expect you to know that I want things to remain private, so I’ll let you know in a sweet yet direct way (you’ll agree, I’ll restate the importance, you’ll get the point, I’ll be able to clear my mind, we’ll progress, everyone’s happy).
Virgos love and want to not be in control (especially sexually), but we need to control the strings of our image (even if others are doing the pulling). Hence the need for trust. This isn’t a “I don’t want to be judged” image/self confidence issue. Some of us are more crafty than others; we know the power of perception.
If a man is in my extended network (social, professional, alumni, etc.), then the image trust is really important. But if he is outside my network, then much changes. I’ve never had a real one-night stand, but I’ve had more trysts in faraway places than in my own city. Almost no one knows about them. Again, I love secrets. I’m very good at keeping them–yours and mine.
Virgo women love to maintain the image of refinement and sweetness, so as long as you can help us maintain this image while feeding our desire to let go/not think, you’ll have a very pleasurable and exciting sex life.
One other point: unsafe sex and/or a partner with poor hygiene will turn us off. Both force us to start thinking, considering the situation, analyzing possibilities, etc., all of which kill more than the moment.
I am A Virgo female with a Saggitarius rising!! I would never call maself “Dirty” that is sooo not Me, I’m Naughty!! I L.O.V.E S.E.X and am an extremely sexual person who enjoys foreplay in detail (Fingaz absolutley DO IT 4 ME) I like partners that have as much energy and many desires as me and am put off by men who don’t share the same fantasies (Or find them strange) I love men to tell me in detail what turns them on and like to be asked a lot of questions during sex. I love a man that has the self-control to watch me play with myself until orgasm and not get involved!! I love men that watch me intensley during sex and admire my body as I drive them wild!! I also have a re-occuring fantasy about another girl touching my body and kissing my neck before she goes down on me and finishes me off with her mouth while I’m on the phone with a male lover telling him what she’s doing 2 me!
I like the other Virgos don’t like 1 night stands prefer to have one consistant sexual partner and although I enjoy a liberal sex life do not like partners 2 kiss and tell or discuss our conquests in public!
I’m a Virgo with Scorpio rising – within an atmosphere of trust, it’s all about the sacred and the profane, elements of sacrifice and abandon, breaking the rules behind closed doors…and being valued and respected no matter how creative your fantasies.
Naughty rather than dirty definitely (Virgo is Virgo after all), and keep the specifics private – tell your friends what Virgo girl will do for you or embarrass her in public and the knickers will be firmly back on!
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there was a energy sex comment very serious and intense stuff. when done it becomes a outer body experience its good to see people do this. i haven’t been able to find much on this. i have found not everyone can feel it only because of hesitation but, everyone can. some more then others . its hard to go back to physical after this
there was a energy sex comment very serious and intense stuff. when done it becomes a outer body experience its good to see people do this. i haven’t been able to find much on this. i have found not everyone can feel it only because of hesitation but, everyone can. some more then others . its hard to go back to physical after this
As a Virgo female I must:
a. trust your integrity
b. feel self-confident
c. feel extreme attraction & undeniable sexual chemistry
and then stranger or no stranger, IT’S ON! One night stands or committed relationships, doesn’t matter, but it has to be the perfect combination of all three. Porn, toys, and multiple partners are all invited. Virgo’s are so prim and proper that we LOVE to free ourselves in the bedroom to get some relief from out strict self-regulation. What I love most about kinky sex is that I’m indulging in something seemingly risque: there’s no better feeling than when I have resisted all I can and finally become powerless against my primal urges. Feeling ‘naughty’ is the key for me! I definitely am the naughty librarian archetype, but if you ask point-blank I’ll be coy to admit!
Viro here. Yes we will get dirty! But we don’t wanna talk about it afterwards!
my ex a virgo. we were together for eight years and it took time for me before i conviced her to have sex with me. i Respected her in every way i can but everytime i ask her to its like she’s really not into it.
To BinX21: If she won’t have sex with you for 8 years, there is something going on in her head, plain and simple. Virgo women especially need to feel emotionally content and connected to want to be intimate. She may have been with you for that long because she valued other parts of the relationship but there was a large underlying disconnection that was causing resentment and preventing her from wanting to feel close to you.
I am a virgo and I love get dirty in bed!I have my sexul disirs and fantasies with men and woman but it gose back to the trust and relationship.If they can keep their moth shut about what goses on then it is ON.And I need to feel that it is a stable relatsionship.but once I have that I am very sexul.I like to do a lot of thing like whach porn use toys and roleplay aswell.(so dose my boy friend!!!!!!!!!!!!). But no I do not like to say it. We do like some pashion in there to. And the secret love life thing is so true I did not even tell my boyfriend I am BI. But he will find out sooner or later
Pop
We are “ladies” in the street but can be a freak in the *****. You know the line. And when we do let go —- it’s like unleashing a lioness! Every man’s fantasy. We attract many many men with our wit, intelligence and just under the surface sensuality — but are usually selective about the lucky men we finally do choose. All men want a Virgo woman…and it’s because we are just that “A Woman” — not just some girl!
Vigo Gal- Amen to that!!!!!
Lets just say virgos just live their life as a secret, they like to keep the sweet innocent angel image.
OMG I am so glad that I am not the only one out here… I seriously thought it was just me. I don’t know any other virgo females. I am a rising scorpio so imagine that. I have just really fully started explaoring but yes only with someone I fully trust. He to is a virgo but he seems to enjoy learning thru my actions. I am hard to statisfy though… I need it at least 1 time per day either me or him but he is a 1 time per week kind… Good thing we don’t live together because I would want to crawl into bed and take charge. Thanks for letting me know I am not alone…
HA! im soooo glad i found this page… Well 1st and foremost let me say Im a virgo (Sept 22) and we are very, very kinky freaky in bed. We just like to play that sweet innocent role. Most Virgo women are super sexy and attractive examples: Beyonce(Sept 4) Sanaa Lathan (Sept 18) Sophia Loren ( Sept 20) Jada Pinkett Smith(Sept 17) Raquel Welch (Sept 1) Kyla Pratt (Sept 15) Lisa Raye (Sept 23) Foxy Brown (Sept 6) Jennifer Hudson (Sept 14). Just to name a few. I believe Virgo females are under-rated while I believe sexually we can give Scorpios a run for their money in the bedroom! In a nutshell Virgo women are: Sexy ,Sweet, Very charming,Sophisticated, Stylish and very sexual… We just a bunch of closet freaks….SShhhh dont tell nobody..LOL
I AM A FEMALE VIRGO. FEMALE VIRGOS LOVE BEING DIRTY WE R JUST THAT WAY WE LOVE SEX AND BEING SEXUAL SO YES WE WELL GET DIRTY IN BED
OH AND MY B DAY IS ON THE 1ST OF SEPTEMBER. AND MALE VIRGOS R FREAKS LIKE THE FEMALES EX SPECTACULAR FROM PRETTY RICKY SEPTEMBER THE 7TH OH AND VIRGOS RULE
Happy B-day Maria Fellow Virgo here (Sept 22)
Happy Birthday Virgos….hope we all have a great one and get plenty of what we want./need! I love being a Virgo 9/21.. I love that I love sex. to bad my bf just don’t know how much..
I’m also a female Virgo and enjoy kinky spontaneous sex; however, like most of these women stated I need to first trust that my partner sees me for more than just a vessel for his enjoyment. I aim to please in every way that I know will please the man that tickles my fancy, he has to see me for the lady that I’m in public and treat me as such; but must be willing to let the freak come out of me behind closed doors. there is very little limit to the things that I will do to make my man happy, if he needs me at any giving time am always ready and willing to give him my undivided attention in and out of the bedroom. Stimulating him both mentally and physically is a great way to also guarantee longevity in the relationship.
We can be accurately described as ” A lady in the streets and a frak in the sheets”
The article that precedes these postings is so true! I have always connected with Persephone’s myth above all myths and now I know why! On the streets I project myself as a strong centered woman with with poise, reserve and integrity. I will always step up to the plate and keep a cool resolve. If we have chemistry and I trust you and know you’re of the same virtues, my freakiness in bed know no bounds! I will do anything, try anything, and be anything my partner desires of me and the Virgo urge of servantry will prevail. I am the quintessential naughty librarian, complete with glasses!
Oh sooooo true my fellow virgos!!! I feel our sign is misunderstood in a multitude of ways, especially when it comes to sex. Ladies we are undercover BAD!! Literally! LOL 🙂
I’m a male Taurus and very, very picky about my food, surroundings, art, music and SEX. The best sex I’ve ever had has been with a Virgo girl. We were deeply in love, so that helped both of us, but the bed sessions were beyond describing it to anyone else. And by God I was happy to lure the low-down slut in her: she gave me the best oral works I’ve had, and I returned the favours of course. We would have to stop and warn each other, like “HEY! I’m coming…” and had to really MAKE LOVE. It was mutual understanding and love as I penetrated her and she accepted it, like a lock and a key. She once said afterwards shyly she likes the way I warn her right before the orgasm, so she’ll be able to time hers. Happiest couple in bed we were. No noise, no nonsense, Virgo! I’m so sorry we’re not together anymore.
I’m glad I ran into this blog/post. You ladies and men helped me out a lot. There are times where I’m being intimate and I just don’t feel its right to unleash my naughty side (so I’m guessing its because I didn’t fully trust or feel comfortable with those men). I was with a taurus very recently and we have connected on so many ways outside the bedroom so I had already thought of all the nasty, naughty, dirty, and freaky things I was gonna do to him inside the bedroom…..and yes, I had it planned, lol. But when we hit the bed, I was so nervous and shy. I wanted to please him so badly. I tried getting on top and failed at that since my legs were shaking so badly (due to the nervousness). He told me stop and I asked him if he was upset that I couldn’t please him the way both and I wanted to. He said no, you did just fine. So, being the natural pleaser that I am, I went down on him and pleased him that way. Needless to say, he was very thankful! BUT…..Can anyone give me some pointers on how to calm down, live in the moment, get rid of the shyness, and actually take my plans and put them into full effect?!?!? And before anyone thinks that maybe he isn’t the one for me, let me just say that he’s the only man I’ve ever been with that made me feel like he was the one without even having to say it!
PS. I am not a jealous person at all, but I soooooo envy the previous post. I want my relationship with this particular taurus to be like that. And Rekku if you’re serious about getting your virgo female back, then I truly wish you all the luck in the world!!!!
I’m glad I ran into this blog/post. You ladies and men helped me out a lot. There are times where I’m being intimate and I just don’t feel its right to unleash my naughty side (so I’m guessing its because I didn’t fully trust or feel comfortable with those men). I was with a taurus very recently and we have connected on so many levels outside the bedroom so I had already thought of all the nasty, naughty, dirty, and freaky things I was gonna do to him inside the bedroom…..and yes, I had it planned, lol. But when we hit the bed, I was so nervous and shy. I wanted to please him so badly. I tried getting on top and failed at that since my legs were shaking so badly (due to the nervousness). He told me stop and I asked him if he was upset that I couldn’t please him the way both he and I wanted. He said no, you did just fine. So, being the natural pleaser that I am, I went down on him and pleased him that way. Needless to say, he was very thankful! BUT…..Can anyone give me some pointers on how to calm down, live in the moment, get rid of the shyness, and actually take my plans and put them into full effect?!?!? And before anyone thinks that maybe he isn’t the one for me, let me just say that he’s the only man I’ve ever been with that made me feel like he was the one without even having to say it!
PS. I am not a jealous person at all, but I soooooo envy the previous post. I want my relationship with this particular taurus to be like that. And Rekku if you’re serious about getting your virgo female back, then I truly wish you all the luck in the world!!!!
Shyvirgo
So u have never got down-right filthy in bed?
Mountain Goat –> yeah, sure i have but its been when I was drunk out of my mind. Don’t wanna be drunk with this one guy though.
Virgos are the best..We can definately give Scorpio a run for their money in the bed room.Scorpi-hos are sooo Overrated!!
I love this blog. I 2 am a virgo. I don’t haveto say anything, The Virgo Women have spoken…And, it’s so true. All true.
shyvirgo,
I don’t think you’re being irrational at all. Remember, we virgos are meticulous, and we do things based on our feelings, hence the stress and uptightness most of us feel during the day. There’s a reason you were so nervous, and I bet it’s something to do with him. You’re not completely guardless yet for some reason. So take your time. I’m sure it’ll be perfect when it happens. How do I know? This happened to me once.
I already wrote once, but I’d still like to point out how essential the settings are to a Virgo. Quiet, easy music and very dim lights work like a charm. Clean, newly-changed bedclothes are a must. You yourself must be clean! If the hapless Virgo is reluctant, she won’t go anywhere near the bed, but if she shows true signs of interest, take charge. A Virgo girl isn’t quite as invulnerable as she’d like it to seem. *CAUTION – restricted zone… 😀 Start off with your routine warm-up, whatever that is, kiss her softly, look straight into her beautiful big eyes an whisper that you really like her, of it you are in love with her, say it out. She will blush. If she has real feelings for you, her eyes will wet: wipe or kiss the tears away and hold her tighter. Then you can try, depending on her clothes of course, as by accident, touch her breast: if the nipple is hard, th poor girl is ready. Be aware that when you hit the bed and she takes off her glasses and opens up her hair, you’d better be prepared. If you’re experienced and she’s not, teach her. She’s a fast learner. Some like odd positions or even bondage, some just like the missionary. Be sure to keep up with her mind and you’ll have the time of your life.
This was a long post and might work just for Taurus men. I can’t speak for anyone else. I won’t even bother to give advice to Virgo girls, for if they don’t know quite the right way of pleasing a man they fancy, they’ll make it up as they go. I love Virgo girls!
Im a virgo gal myself, Im a very sexual person more like a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets, but Thats only with a guy that Im very attractive to with chemistry in order for me to unleash that side of me Im a very private person. Plus with my partner I will have to trust him enough to know that he wont run his mouth. I love toys, phone sex whatever to make my bf or partner happy. I will do the pleasing as long as he keeps his mouth shut lol Actually, I can have any male zodiac sign sprung, just letting ya know how sexual and freaky us virgos can get but I dont do one night stands not my thang! I love being a virgo!
Virgos stop pretending and you will get the right guy. it becomes a turn off for many men when deceite is involved. embrace the true you and many of the wrong men will show there faces. you loss out more than any one else because of that. if its not right you will know.
I`m a virgo man, it`s good to know that my fellow virgo women are hot in private, because i am born 5th sept, and a lady i am interested in is 10th sept.In my opinion only a vorgo truly understands another virgo.I mean for long-term soulmate material.Yes we can have sex with any star sign, but if your looking for your soulmate which in the end that is your end goal, then choose carefully!
Love virgos ALL