Scorpio is ruled by Pluto. Mythologically, Pluto is the Roman counterpart of Hades, Lord of the Underworld. However, there is more to Pluto than textbook mythology. The astrological Pluto governs all that is hidden and taboo. Whatever society deems unacceptable gets shoved aside, either into the unconscious or the red light district or other disreputable parts of town. The “underworld” is not just Hell, but the dwelling place of people who need to work or live outside the light of day.[notpremise]
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Religion
Sex, for better or worse, is taboo … or at least most types of sexual activity. The Church only approves of sex within the context of procreation. Sex outside of marriage, sex between two people of the same gender, sex between minors, sex between a minor and an adult, sex between clergymen and ….
Words and deeds are, of course, two separate things, as we see. But nonetheless, many people in power want to suppress sexuality, unless it is sanctioned by the ChurchState.
Death
Pluto also rules death. Sex and death are intimately related. The French call the orgasm a “mini death.” In sexual union, there is a death of the individual, when two beings dissolve their ego boundaries and become one emotional, spiritual unit. The act of procreation itself is essential for the survivial of the species. Without sex, our race will literally die. In addition, humans often feel the biological imperative to have their genes carried along future generations. There is an illusion of immortality when you know that, even when you physically die, a part of you is carried along by your children, and your children’s children, and so on.
Archetype
Psychiatrist Stan Grof conducted LSD research and found that participants had different types of psychedelic experiences. He categorized them into BPMs, or Basic Perinatal Matrices, which he correlated with stages of the birth process. BPM III relates to the stage of contraction of the uterus. It is a life or death struggle for the fetus … the most intense part of birth, no doubt. During BPM III LSD experiences, participants had inner experiences with the folowing themes: “titanic fight, sadomasochistic experiences, intense sexual arousal, demonic episodes, scatalogical involvement, and encounter with fire.“
Sounds Scorpionic, huh? Philospher and astrologer Richard Tarnas, in tandem with Stan Grof, associates BPM III with the astrological Pluto. This archetype is deeply ingrained within the collective psyche. It appears to be greater than “culture.”
Astrology
Scorpios are intimately familiar with the Plutonic realm. Sex may be a fight against death, an effort to die a little death, or a desire to overcome death. Either way, Scorpio’s planetary rulership goes a long way to explain why this zodiac sign is so sexual.
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Related post: The Astrology of Kink: the Scorpio Taboo
I guess ill ask the question anyways. SHould i trust my scorpio woman? Trusting is not a stronghold of mine .
Ya, it is some history there.But, im getting over it, slowly but surely.Sorry phoenix scorp, no more drama fron this gal!!haha!!
bella im proud of ya sound strange from a stranger but reach for what you want we all have the pwoer to do so life is to short to waste.
Hey pnehix
Thanks for the advise.I look back now and think “What was I thinking!!”.I am coping so much better.I never tought I would heal so quickly, but ya, I suprised myself!!How you doing??
Im doing great learned more about astrology and looked up my chart and stll dateing my scorpio woman, how to know your scorpio doens t love you i been on there alot if you wanna switch over lol Your the scorpio woman who was with a leo huh lol im not a leo fan to be ohnest. bet you evutually find someone who knocks you off yor feet in all ways well picks you off your feet sounds better 😛
Nice to hear you doing gr8.Ya, i am the sucker that got cought up with the leo.I know they not good news but well, JUST HAVE to find out WHY ( ou know ).I am glad you still with your scorpio, I know we can be a challenge but it has rewards in the end, trust me.Hold on!!, if you up for it of cause!Astrology is very interesting I must say.I have been meaning to ask you, are you a scorp as well?I am waiting patiently for the one who is gonna sweep me of my feet , NOT looking though, waiting.Keep well, maybe I will come say hello on the other blog!Tata for now!
yes im a scorpio my title phenix scorp lol. Im a scorpio acendant scorpio got scorpio all over the dang place in my chart.pluto mercury venus i forgot what else lol also have mars in the 8th house lol im pretty sure youd be hard pressed to find more of a scorp then me imfao sorry im in an odd mood very sleepy but im not in the mood for bed just yet.
and if your wonderingi actually meant to check if you were on here sooner but i forgot which one it was 😛
Lol!!Yes, I was.Oh okay, that explains the whole “trust” issue….hmmmmmm.I havent done my charts or anything, find it kinda difficult to understand?!.But it sure is interesting.My best relationship EVER was with a scorp.A whole 11 years ( but that was since teens ), we broke up because I went to pursue my dreams and wanted to complete my studies.He was truly a real gentleman..Anyway, Im doing so so much better, Mr Leo came to visit me 3 times , Showed him the door, ALL 3 TiMES and did not even feel guilty!!Hows that for recovery!!lol.Take care, chat soon!!
I know so many Scorpios that cheat and most of them cheat not for the sake of the sex, but more for the sake of having something different. I don’t understand this because I’m a Capricorn and I’m more focused on the actual sex than the opportunity of having different people.I feel that the woman just can’t make up their minds about what they want and the men are sooo sensitive and emotional.I am drawn to both men and woman scorpio, I dont understand them, but I do like them.
bella i like that youve got the power back now your in control u now know what you want i like this side and good scorpios are great together but were so different alike but so different and me and my scorpio woman are at that point she wants to come with me but im not sure of the wisdom of that course. I can see why love should be for later. We need time to acheive our own goals possibilities and dreams. It gets harder being attached. and charts my woman said the same thing. odd and explains the whoel trust issue? well good luck in your endevors.
ultrahousechic i do understand about scorpios i am one id cheat becuase its different its excintineg its different. besides that we need constant affection well at least its great to have andwhen we like something we know we can get it so why not we can hold back but some dont some do. plus we get bord the males more so then the female to be ohnest i love my scorpio woman but i do get board sexusllay shes a great f though lol still shes afraid me unleashing scorpios are sensual yes that is true but id like to get right to the action lol but we cheat when we find someone intersting jsut to find out after that most likely we wont want them anymore its an expereince i think idk im tired now but ill think on it
Not ALL scorps cheat though.It is so true, I take it from me, if ‘d cheat it WOULD BE because I get bored!Its cruel but true.I have been with a scorp male before, all was great but yes, there were times it looked like he got bored quicker than I did!.I take it from me, I need exitement, passion, flare, challenge , ALL in one! ( if it is even possible! ).We just to simmilar and I think that is why we get bored.But pair us up with the rire sign and we sure will rock your world!lol.As for Phoenix scorp, you now, I am sure, no, I KNOW what you and your scorp lady shares is undescribable, Ive expierence it.BUt patience and understanding might help you trhough the tough times.Like a astrologer once said “the best way to describe two scorps in a relantionship : Try and put two competitive scientist on one project , in one lab and living space see if they can resist snooping around in each others findings! “You very similar,which can be frustrating because you know exactely how far you can go with the other and will power also plays a major role!.NONE would want to be rite OR wrong.Thats when you need to compromise and trust that the other will keep up their end of the deal!, cause if not!, all hell will brake loose!lol, been there!.But like I said, it can work, ALOTAand I mean, ALOTA patience!!
bella my scorpio womans just about killed us were trying to work threw it but idk
its phenix btw way but im to low to deserve that title
Hey lizzard,
So sorry to hear that.I am not to clued up on the whole back ground.You know, when it comes to scorpio woman, boy!lol.I am one, and believe me, when we do something we kinda mean it,So, like I dais, not to clued up on your situationand I dont know if she tried to “kill” you ( because given our tempers, we capable! ) or “KILL” you s in emotionaly.If it is emotionaly, there must be a good reason for it, Otha way, then you probably stepped way over the border!!.You know, if you what you guys have is worth fighting for, by all means, go for it with all you got.If not, rather say it as it is and please don’t beat around the bush!we hate that, be straight up or straight OUTA here.Gudluck, hoe this helps??
4 phenix…
Lol!! you never seize to amaze me!!…..
bah i want to destroy her b ut i keep going back and forut let me tell u what it was like . I picked her up when she was down took everything she gave me and this is how she repays me. She tells me later all these things a few weeks in shes so depressed i hlep her and then when she doesnt need me anymore she tosses me off to the side failing to see my side it makes me angry u dont have time for me make the damn time. I mleaving soon. Sorry calming. She told me she didnt want to wait for me and now that she has things there she didnt want to leave it for me and she wants to search hereslef she was so cold and it pisses me off that her emotion was like this i think shes found osmeone else were having a hard time and i find this shes destroyed and i mihgt fly down there to beat that man worse then hes ever been beaten hell be the object of my rage and shell see it all u want to see what a scorpios anger does combined with my aries side bring it on. Im explosive dominating. Damn i want to hurt someoen now just like before ive changed for her to. She doesnt want to wait for my letters when im away im fighting for our damn country for God fuckin sakes show me respect and tell me the truth stop backing away. she doesnt want to give up anything for me this whol year shes written in notebooks all these things and 2 weeks she just lashes out she can talk to me as i please or make another enemy and she has enough now if i can t hurt her ill find a way. wanting to be friends ha like u can have the best of me when u run away from mine like a coward at least take your just reward. I told her i blew up so much cuase she wasnt talking to me letting me into her world and shutting me out. Itds like she was wating till it was convienant and damn i whish she was a guy so i can break my other fist on someones face. Whole well shell learn im not to be crossed shees weaker then i in insecuriteis i attack them she withdraws. Shell learn so angry all these things wasted all it took was a month away from me and shes already changed. Ill ruin her even if i haft to destroy myself with her no matter what it takes. damn it i thought i got it all i guess not shes not helping it now either
Phenix/Scorpio
Thats awful, I thought things were going better for you, I had no idea, I’m sorry. Before you do something drastic, maybe you could go and cool down. If she is really treating you badly, you can’t hurt it in her to change her, trust me, I know I’ve tried to change people , doesn’t work. You are so young right now and you could have a lot of new possibilities, there are so many young women that wouldn’t treat you so cold, it would be better to wait and find out first, then if she is cheating, just walk away and go get yourself a new lover. Please don’t get yourself in trouble, he wouldn’t be worth it,if she is cold to you she will be cold to him too oneday. Cold people are not worth hurting over either, I hope that you are wrong, and she is just going through some weird phase, please before you ruin your future, think it out. You can always find a new release, in the arms of a lover, not violence and the hell that you hate in other people. You are better than that Phenix.
By the way
hurting her wouldn’t make you feel any better. it would just ruin the possibilities of ever fixing your relationship in the future. If you’ve had enough, walk, don’t break windows, use the door.
libra lady i need help so bad i cnat i cant let go of her but shes killing me now and it all very recent ive never hurt so much i feel like a doormat but i cant help it
im not looking at the now im looking at the later
and u dont even want to come with me later
u wont even consider this one for me
fine youll see alot of pictuires online then
grrr
no no
i cant
this once coul
d
2:51amMolly
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2:51amMe
u not be so openly
flirtyy with a guy
s
u tlak to them mroe then me
2:51amMolly
I’m not flirting
2:51amMe
we need to talk on the phone
it seemd that way to me whe ni saw it and i no to u its not ok
2:52amMolly
You’re making me crazy
2:52amMe
i know
Iknow
and im sory jsut try and see it threw my shoes
sorry
i love u molly
i do
this is hard for me and its not jsut me its stress form there
im not even being exploding im beign whiny and sad
2:53amMolly
Juan their my friends. I’m going to hug them and talk to them. You are right now driving me insane.
2:53amMe
hey
i need to tal kto my mom
and woman
i know but thinking about u doing that drives me insane your firendlier with them wthen u are with me
u dont wanna leave that place becuase of thsese people
how ma i not supposed to feel a little insecure
2:55amMolly
im not looking at the now im looking at the later
and u dont even want to come with me later
u wont even consider this one for me
fine youll see alot of pictuires online then
grrr
no no
i cant
this once coul
d
2:51amMolly
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2:51amMe
u not be so openly
flirtyy with a guy
s
u tlak to them mroe then me
2:51amMolly
I’m not flirting
2:51amMe
we need to talk on the phone
it seemd that way to me whe ni saw it and i no to u its not ok
2:52amMolly
You’re making me crazy
2:52amMe
i know
Iknow
and im sory jsut try and see it threw my shoes
sorry
i love u molly
i do
this is hard for me and its not jsut me its stress form there
im not even being exploding im beign whiny and sad
2:53amMolly
Juan their my friends. I’m going to hug them and talk to them. You are right now driving me insane.
2:53amMe
hey
i need to tal kto my mom
and woman
i know but thinking about u doing that drives me insane your firendlier with them wthen u are with me
u dont wanna leave that place becuase of thsese people
how ma i not supposed to feel a little insecure
2:55amMolly
Juan I’m not focusing on the future I’m on the now. We’re on a break
2:55amMe
i know but that future has u talking to other men more then u talk to me thats why im so insecure
dont stop being open with me
im trying
and i know i know
night
i love u dont forget to pray
2:56amMolly
Just stop. I’ll be open just don’t do this anymore
2:56amMe
then how do i tell u how i feel
i just told u what i feel
and u flat out turned me down
and refused to comprimse anything
2:57amMolly
Goodnight and sweet dreams. Just say it don’t try to restrict me
2:57amMe
even though its upsetin me
if we were on oppiste sides
how would u feel
and u dont say i love u anymore
i notice
molly is my side not getting threw i see your side
i need a phone
itd make me ffeel beter
jeff pelase allow them to see this i need help
2:58amMolly
Because right now I’m going crazy. I love you bur I’m not gonna say it every night. I wouldn’t act the way you are acting
2:59amMe
can u understand how i feel
and i u did at one time
and u ust to before u met these people
:'(
and thats why im so hurt
does it not register
talk to my mom
shell talk to me
2:59amMolly
Ahhhh! Stop it!
Were on a break. We’re doing our own thing
3:00amMe
u are doing your own thing an leaving me like usaid u never woul
f
if youd just put my mind at ease
and love all that
3:01amMolly
I’m not leaving
!!!!
3:01amMe
but u ont
u dont love me
see that right there
wheres my i lvoe u we will be togheter
Molly
I do love you
3:02amMe
then tell me
thatd make me feel btter instead
u tell me im acitng crazu y u are to
and that u are doing your own thing
3:03amMolly
No you’re insane
3:03amMe
i know but u love me
and i love u
fine u want me to be better but u will lsiten to what i say
3:03amMolly
And inturn you’re making me crazy
3:03amMe
ok
but u were before i got to you
no hush woman
i love u
k
thats one
two
its donest matter if your crazy ll be there
thrree i may not like things but see my side we will drop it will be over
i want u to tell me u love me like usut to
and ill be calmser
i mlike u i need reassurence ok
now woman get to bed
i love u dont forget to pra
3:05amMolly
Nught
3:05amMe
yand yes im an ass
i love u
3:05amMolly
Love you
Night
3:05amMe
ok
i feel weak really weak and i ant understand im so weak and vulnerable to her its not hleping hwo i am on the surface its no ehlping hwo i am in side
Phenix!, my word, I feel you, I really do.U know, me of all people know how you feel rite now.You have given your ALL to one person, and BAM!!, they ruin you like that.Believe me, its not easy and I know you have heard this a milion times : “it gonna get better”, trust me.But in order for it to become better its GONNA be hell!!.I agree, hurting anyone is not the option, even though I know how you feel.You want them to hurt as bad ad you!, been there.I felt like that, but you get over it, not completely, but you do!.Looking for another lover is NOT the answer rite now, and trying to be friends with you X isn’nt either!!.Cutt yourself off from any of those ideas.Man, I know, we love deep and hard and we hurt even MORE when it crumbles!!.You are a soldier?.Try focussing on what you do, I mean, start counting the hours you NOT thinking of her.If it gets less, you know you on the right track.I fully think you should vent, BUT not on another person, on you own.Use that anger energy on sumthing constructive, I know its not easy!!.But please Phenix, YOU can do this man, trust me.The dark whole you in now is you evolving room, you gonna rise outa there so much stronger, but with time.Allow yourself and give yourself time to think wheither she is worth the hurt and the pain now and if you will ever get over it.In time, should you get back together, you might forgive her, but you would’nt forget, it will always be in the back of your mind.I suggest you try get over it, like I said, ITS GONNA take a hell of a lot of time, trust me, I’ve been there, BUT YOU WILL GET THERE!.You stronger than you think.Cum on, you a scorp, we built for this, cause we can take it!!Gudluck, all the best!!
@ phenix scorpio – i don’t intentionally put comments in the moderation queue – the spam filter does that. I approve all appropriate comments that have been flagged usually in the morning.
bella i think wow im a mess on there and how can i take her back when shes like this and how could she take me back, Ugh looking at that i whish i was mre vengful. andd what do u think of that anyways i need to gather myself up. that mucth is true
Jeff ok thankx though
whats wrong with just walking away?
it means faluire i cnat except failure. Ok im calmer but a bit weaker she wants me to chase her and all that shit but right now i dont have thestrenght to i need to revitlaize myself
Phenix , what do I think?To be honest, you hould give a flying ** what anyone thinks!Its about you, how you feel!.If it makes you better expressing the hurt and anger in this way,THEN DO IT!!!.Who can judge you?I surely woud’nt cause I know what you going through!Facing the pain , anger and hurt is the best thing.Showing weakness is completelly normal!Just a correction, YOU DO have the strenght to get out of it, believe me!I know, you jus tfeel that way.So , my advise, write as many poems, whatso ever you like, get it all out, no shame in it,You will feel better after that, trust me!!.Like i said, its gonna take time, but you gonna get there!!.Gudluck PHENIX ( thats what you gonna be in the end!!! )
Oh ja, about the chasing thing, DO NOT DO THAT!!.You never gonna get over it then, trust me,Let it be, she will realise her mistake and SHE will do the chasing then!Typical scorp woman!She wants you but she needs a challenge to get you ( you get what I’m saying?)
bah the challange was on when she left. She didnt even get to ssee more she almost saw my true self/ Idk been writing poetry and wrote a few new songs ive been singing lol not the happiest f song but still lol
@phenix scorpio says:
i feel weak really weak and i ant understand im so weak and vulnerable to her its not hleping hwo i am on the surface its no ehlping hwo i am in side
get ur manhood up and go after her, but you gotta come correct, be cool about it.
ur not gonna live forever, betta enjoy the moment
bah i know trust me im working on that im doing a few things right now to get myself up 😛 although it sux when your drunk lol but yeah im trying to pull my shizz together and maybe ill get with ehr but for now i have some thigns to do to wlak along the edges of my darkerside for awhole before returning to who i once was soemtimes the dark is a nice place to stay for awhile i guss its a hard place to leave to though im not so selfish though ive got alot of epople to help right now and i cant be letting people down becuase im weak right now. Like last night i stopped someoen from commiting sucide she s going through the same thing as me. oddley enough i like hearing and helping others out with htere pain taking it all in and breathing it all out. its better this way stays busy only whish i wasnt so uh out of mind when i was talking to her i prolly didnt type very well
hmmm thats odd ignore the scorpio woman and not tal kto her suddenly shes by my side as fast as the flash ill never understand
@Phenix/scorpio
just when you think you got life figured out, it humbles you, by hitting you with adversity usually brought on by a woman.
it’s ironic how a woman can bring so much pain and pleasure.
i’ve been there. and i went into my “hole”
being a typical capricorn i ate that shit and it made me open my eyes.
when you come out of youre hole, just make sure your lil’ stronger.
I havea cappie moon lol im working on that been easier to sleep lately to its interesting is all. All our mutual freinds shes already gotten to it seems like shes been preparing alot and hey i wouldnt bring out to much much pleasure she wasnt all that Great in the sack still she was fun to f it wasnt about that though
To Phenix
Wow, I sure missed out alot!!lol, run that past me again??You and yor gal back together??…..
we are not back togetehr i found out what a root she was thinking about maybe ill get the rest out of her soon but no i understand more of it at least. And ohnestly it wont work now i ddont think i dont feel like swallowing a bitterpill just so we can be together. Idk i need more tiem to think myself is gatehred again for the most part but still its interesting to see the chances and thigns ive obeserved through this whole time through it all at least i have a better understanding of a few things.
Oh ok, my bad, think I read wrong.Glad to see you calm and rational again ( lol ).Don’t sweat it to much though, this happens to the best of us!
u dont know the half of whats goingn on i dont know what to think of her or bekeive her for her words whne she dowesnt sound truthful idk though. I guess she wants me to prove myself ot her again becuase of my anger i stuck to deep that time. Still not sure on how i feel with this and there are plenty to choose from but i want this woman thats what she wont believe me on. I strait want her there isnt that. I mean my cancer woman came back recently and wow it felt like old times like neither of us had left that she never sdtopped loving me after all this time is odd to me. and still i must say ill chase my scorpio woman. Ive decided that. though she must be truthful and if i find lying then i will be an enemy and a great one at that this is what i decide no lying if i find lying then i will become my scorpio self full given to reason. i love her its that simple even if she believes that id dont ill kill her with kindness and not vengance. And since our friends seem to think that i am bad ive apoligized and im making things right id like to back away but i refuse i ahve my dignity and i will let anything take my honor my pride. This scorpi woman is jsut afraid i am not i wont back down from things. I can be open and show who i am i cant let fear dictate and emotions of insecurites dictate me i am me and that should be all that i haft to give
Hey phenix,
Wow, I dont know half of it but from the sounds of it it sound pretty messed up.Funny enough though, it kinda sounds like my relationship that I had with my scorpio man.You mentioned that she wants you to prove yourself to her?.I do not know whot her reason might be but I also asked that from my scorpio man, even though I knew how he felt.I asked it from him because as our relationship went on, he stopped “showing”me much he loved me and just “assumed” I know how special I was to him.And I take it from me, I have to hear now and again how much I meant to him.Maybe she feels like that, dont know.As for the way you feel, well, thats your decission.Killing her with kindness is the best way to go yes, but you mentioned your cancer woman thats still inlove with you.From experience I have learnt that two scorps are just to similar.I mean, you guys might get over this, but you both are NOT gonna forget the wrongs you have done to each other and that is always gonna weigh over your heads, ALWAYS.It will always sumhow be brought up in any kinda argument you guys are gonna have in the future.And also, just hink about it, would you wanna do that all the time or would you rather move on and forget about the whole ordeal?looks like you now have a choice of two very special woman.The one you BELIVE you want to be with because you have gotten so used to being with her and she is and can relate alot to you, and the one that can actualy complete you in ways you cannot complete yourself.Like I said, it is your choice, I am just purely saying, NOT judging, after all, YOU know what is BEST FOR YOU.Good luck, and, please, keep the cool!! ( win wink )
har har your telling me to leave for the cancer idk though i love my scorpio woman even if shes a pyscho sometimes she brings out the best in me and challange me to be better then the average man
Hey Phenix,
I am not telling you to leave or take anyone,like I said before, JUST MY OPINOIN!, lol………
she left i was upset but its interesting something else has preoccupied my mind i think i was cuaght and scorpio realized i was already captured or soemthing like that… idk mym inds thinking again but this is interesting
I really feel for you phenix scorpio I was in the exact same boat where my last online date was talking more with her friends than me only thing is I didn’t bring it up to her until before she started wanting to back away from the relationship and she just kept pinning everything on me and eventually took herself off my friend’s list twice.
What can I say, us scorps tend to love fiercely and always tend to fall for the wrong type!I completely feel where you are coming from and some times we sacrifice ourselfs in order to make a realationship work, just to have it thrown back in your face!.Not a nice feeling at all!!.BUt ya, we have to do what you have to do to protect yourself…….