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The question alone sounds like a pitch for a romantic comedy. Tam, a self-sufficent young woman able to hold down her beer and beat her brother at arm wrestling, is torn between two guys. Jack is a type-A Corporate America personality who wears three-piece suits and does power lunches. Sal cooks pastries at the local bakery, and spends his lunch break feeding ducks at Central Park. Tam loves Jack’s confidence and authority, but she’s totally sweet on Sal, a man who’s not afraid to show his vulnerable side.
Jack takes Tam to a swanky uptown restaurant where he slips the maitre d’ a few bills to get them the best table. He wants to fly her on his private jet to Madrid over the weekend. But wait! She has a date with Sal this Saturday to view ‘The Dinner Party’ exhibition at the Brooklyn Museum. What should she do? How can she turn down this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity?
You see, a man with money fills her need for financial security. Not that she can’t make it on her own — she’s doing fine selling her clients’ stuff on eBay — but she’s certainly not opposed to getting a nice diamond. On the other hand, Tam could totally feel taken care of by Sal, in a different way. She loves his romantic nature and that he would go out of his way to make her feel safe. Jack just doesn’t feel cushy, you know.
This turning-point — where the above paragraph plays out in a flashback montage over a catchy but sentimental emo song — occurs near the end of the film.
It’s your turn to write the ending.
OK…I was married to a Cancer man for 11 years, and he walked out on my sons and I (after a year of emotional abuse) two weeks before their 6th birthday because he was cheating with an employee. He was such a horrid Mama’s Boy that it wreaked havoc on our marriage from day one. He was emotionally infantile, clingy and controlling. And incredibly CHEAP, yet he leeched onto me when he had nothing…became successful, then wouldn’t spend a dime on us. A complete CREEP…cold, mood swings, undersexed, flirt and cheater, liar, etc. Cancer Men are AWFUL and very effeminate. They are mama’s boys who never grow up,and feel entitled to be coddled, yet give very little in return. STAY AWAY…
I am a Capricorn male in this Romantic comedy and it is not funny… at all. Me and my girlfriend attended school at Jobcorps where she got to know a cancer male she then felt as if I was not paying her enough attention so she left me for him after 4 years of relations. It really sucks being a Capricorn in this aspect.
I think that Taurus women does well with other earth signs (Caps & Virgos), but i think its too much “earthiness” together. I think that’s why we have such a gravitational pull towards water signs (Cancer, Scorps & Pisces). They are a little like us, but different. Sometimes being with someone very similar to yourself gets a little boring.
Im A Taurus woman, in a 10 year relationship with a Cancer man. I love him very dearly. We have had ALOT of hard times, still, we stick together. I think that most Taurus women cant help but be attracted to Cancer men. We need and love the affection and attention. I know I do. I was married to a COLD Libra man for 18 years. All he did was cheat on me. He was NEVER happy with anything I ever did for him. My Cancer man is soooo grateful and appreciative of every little thing I do for him. He’s wonderful!!!
I’m a cancer man and we do have mood swings quite often, but some of us have had them so much in the past we know how to deal with them and move on in about 3 minutes. Yes, we do try to make things look as best as we can because most of us are very artistic (I know I am.). Not going to tell a lie neither, we are sensitive as well…it is just how we are programmed and it sucks sometimes. Hell, sometimes I hate being very sensitive when I wish I was not.
Also, if you meet the right one, we feel attraction forever for some damn reason. Not all of us are Mama’s boys…I’m not. I can take care of myself by myself.
I was in a relationship with a cancer man over the last year. He was affectionate and loving. Emotionally and physically, we connected on a higher level. The problem is, I’m an over achiever (as most Taurus are). I work very hard and am looking forward to a bright financial future. On the other hand, my cancer did not believe in hard work, was not doing well financially, living with a friend and wasting money left and right. He felt sorry for everyone and had an excuse for everyone’s screw ups (including his own). This weighed on me heavily as I couldn’t bare to watch!! And I knew we couldn’t have any future together the way things were. So I took him to lunch and let him know how I felt. He was very offended and I haven’t talked to him since. That was about a month ago. To me, that is very childish as he is 39 and I am 41. We are not babies!!
I have recently met a capricorn. He seems very mature and responsible. Just the type of guy that I like. I think we are on the same level and think similarly about things. We’ll see how this goes. I am hopeful.
I am caner unmarried man (age 32) I am in love with a Taurus girl (age 28) We were working in the same department before 3 yrs I proposed her but couldn’t get +ve answer, now we are not in contact, still I am not able to quit from thoughts rather I would say I don’t want to quit. I couldn’t win her heart. She is also not getting married with anybody. is she waiting for me? .. I don’t know. I had told everything about me to her. As I know that Taurus women and cancer man is the best couple I don’t want to loose her. Should I wait her ?? what to do ? please guide me.
Yugpurush: I am a Taurus woman, and I am madly in love with a Cancer man. I can tell you one thing about Taurus women: we hate to wait for men. We want to be pursued. She will not make the first move; even if she is in love with you. Us Taurus’ are EVERY BIT as stubborn as you Cancers. Ask anyone who knows us! LOL! But seriously, us Taurus girls want to be pursued.
I’m a Taurus woman married to a very challenging Virgo man. It was love at first sight for me, but I was in love much earlier than him… I had to wait a long time till eventually winning his impossible perfectionist/ideals of a perfect woman. He was the only one able to break my heart into pieces, rejecting me cause, guess what, I wasn’t perfect!! But he then realized what impossible expectations he can have and he literally followed me all over the world for a year and half, till winning me back. I was mad at him like only a crazy wounded Taurus woman can be, but his persistence and honesty made me trust him again and we eventually married. Guess what? my marriage with him is a bid disappointment:( of course we can talk for days, we can also understand each other without talking but all we do eventually is talking, talking, talking!!! My virgo man needs to talk and communicate so much that there’s no room left for instincts, nothing spontaneous or sensual… Our sex life is a complete disaster! he is the fussiest and most critical impossible person of my life. I’ve never been so physically and spiritually unhappy. I started to hate making love to him since each time it’s such a disappointment!
I thought sex wasn’t so important and I married him cause he made me feel beloved and nurtured, but without sex no one can survive. listen to me, go with a virgo only if you both manage in bed, otherwise, it’s a recipe for a disaster!! better choices are cancer or scorpio for the taurus woman. I’ve never loved a capricorn, but at this point I’m dreaming of meeting one… Good luck to you all!
Yea, I don’t like cancers and I have only dated two girls and they were both tauruses. The physical attraction and the sex was great, the only problem with both of em was that they expected a huge commitment out of me just like that, and on top of that they were so built-up with emotion. I couldn’t take it, me being the good talker trying to calm them down and care for there emotions. It was bullshit, I gave them my advice, but they didn’t listen to a damn word of it. You listen and you learn, that is a very simple thing in life and they never understood. They had same mind-set from beginning to the end. Don’t get me wrong, I’m actually after another taurus girl, but she seems more like my type more then anything. She has a controlling Bf, but I can change that.
Anonymous, I agree with what you said about Cancers being childish. If you say the wrong thing, they will not answer the phone, the door, your e-mails, nothing. I think that is extremely childish and juvenile. They want to talk to you when THEY are ready, but what right do they have to make you wait like that?
I’m a Taurus woman and I am about to break up with my cappie boyfriend fora cancer guy. I was ok at first with him being there financially and providing for my every need, but emotionally, OMG. I’m starved, I have always had esteem issues so I struggle a bit and always ned tha re-assurance from my spouse but he was never there in that way. Just found out he cheated on me with his ex , who incidentally broke up with him for cheating. So I’m looking forward to my emotional cancer. I think he is what I need. But just incase it doesnt work. I would date another cap guy. You know us Taurus’s we love the security.
Well just as an update (I am the taurus whose cancer stopped talking to me because I told him about my concerns about his financial situation). My Cappie and I are still together and doing great. He is very, very attentive and caring and loving – which sort of surprises me because everything I’ve read makes Caps seem cold and aloof. He’s 41 years old though and maybe as they get older, they’re more settled. But, he is wonderful and I can definitely see a future for the two us. We’ll see what happens. I’ll keep you all posted 🙂
Ok so I’m a taurus female and have been “involved” with a Capricorn male for about 5 and 1/2 years. When we had our first date there was an immediate connection, it was like the stars and planets were aligned or something lol. I felt more comfortable with him then I had ever felt with anyone that soon. We were officially together for 2 years, and in the first year and a half our relationship was like a dream.He had a LOT of baggage (including 2 kids that I know about, a soon to be ex-wife, two baby mamas, and a needy mother), but I didn’t find out most of this until I was in love with him. He was sweet,loving, and we had this bond…and then we broke up ,but we didn’t break up if you know what I mean. He wants his way or no way, but he’s very clever in hiding this. My cap man knows how much I love him and uses my love and my Taurian loyalty to his advantage. He doesn’t want to commit but doesn’t want to let me go either.He knows that I try to move on but that he still has my heart, he keeps me confused which is also frustrating. He can been emotionally cold but I’ve realized that’s just a cover, and that he needs more loving and caring than he puts on.He’s also very secretive, and I’m not sure about other Taurus’s but I hate secrets with anyone I’m involved with. But there’s one thing there is no denying, and that’s the sexual chemistry between a Taurus and a Cap. We can’t be alone without ripping each other’s clothes off.They are one of the few signs that can satisfy the usual insatiable sexual appetite of a Taurus. I’ve tried to leave him but I’m convinced that unless I moved to another state and change my name he will never go away, and as you’ve heard Cap’s usually get what they want.
On the other hand I’ve also dated Cancers and was immediately turned off. In my experience, they were clingy, obsessive, and controling.
ima cap need a taurus
Tauro, I totally agree.
I dated a Cap for awhile back in the day. It was constant heartbreak. I need to be assured that I am number one, and sure the financial security was satisfying (as was the sex life 😉 ) I expected more emotionally. He seemed so closed off from me. I wanted more than the whole “friends-with-benefits” scenario. He was 12 years older than me and I thought he should be more mature than that. I ran away fast. I was tired of his coldness, it doesn’t mean that I would never give a cap another chance. It was just that one specifically. Luckily he found himself a wife who must be satisfied with his cold cruel behaivor.
Recently I’ve been involved with a Cancer. There is a gravitational pull towards him. I love how he is so generous with his feelings, and conversation. He is so open (when it suits him). Don’t get me wrong, this boy drives me crazy!!! It’s a crazy where I can’t stop thinking about him or can’t get him out of my mind. Maybe the sex isn’t as great. Cancer is a little too freaky and sometimes intimedating for such a narrow minded Taurus. From my two experiences it seems like no matter what my crab does will make me sway my attention from him. I’m sure I’ve given him more chances than my previous goat. I think that a Cancer is great for me personally. I need emotion more than money in a wallet.
I’m a capricorn lady and I concur with the emotions bit…it’s very dry when two earth signs get acquainted…parched actually
unless either has a strong influence of water
Hi all so i was reading all the stuff about those poor people went thru amd iam sorry,.. but yes iam a cancer and i have the most wanderfull Taurus woman we have bin together for 9 years now iam 32 and shes 30.. to all its hard to mantain at least a good loveing time together, we found a secret about each other that opend a word of great love and i am serius.And i am going to share this with you (cancer and taurus) only. rule #1: be very honest with each other no metter what and i mean it, dont yell at each other but be loveing and understanding.. Rule #2: look at each other eyes when talking it resparks the heart all the time 😉 we think its because we are being honest with each other.Rule #3: if one falls be there not only with sympothy but with great love reach out and show her/him how much you care and want to help (dont forget huggs). Rule #4 and last one: NEVER NEVER NEVER JUGE EACH OTHER IN FRONT OTHERS OR WHEN BY YOUR SELF WE WILL GET HURT FAST AND ALL OUT WAR WILL START THAT MIGHT END YOUR LOVE.. (oh dont put out your girl on a spot and make her look bad she will make you pay to the max!! trust me :))
so my dear loveing people WE ARE telling you this from our own experiance and we will never tell someone something that was not true or worked for us its like blind leading blind.. hope you all make your selfs happy.. one more thing a thought.. YOU LOVE TO BE HAPPY TO BE HAPPY IS TO LIVE TO LIVE IS TO BE ONE WITH LIFE AND LIFE IS GOD 😉 FROM US TO YOU.. BE HAPPY
i think this website is soo cool and soo true, i’m an april taurus i’ve just recently broken up with a capricorn man. we broke up ( i ended it) because he never knew what he wanted and didnt want to be commited. sometimes he was cold and a bit tight with money. he worked so hard getting me in the relationship.. because i was playing hard to get and wasnt ready.. but! i took the chance. what i find so strange is that they dont want to be commited but they still want you at the same time.. but by the time they do want to be commited its too late and realise what they had is now gone. i think taurus female and capi males get on well but if you want a relationship with them make sure they are mature and ready for a relationship this will save you the dissapointments and heart ache. i still care about him soooo much and sometimes just want to call him up and say i miss you ect but sometimes we need to let things go and move on so that we can meet a better person for oursleves and to learn from the previous relationship. good luck people!!!! xxx
I am a Taurus woman (First Decan; April). Although a Capricorn male would be a better choice than the Cancer male, nevertheless a Pisces male would be the best choice for a Taurus woman. Why? Cancer men are attentive and great in bed, but manipulative, non-verbal, emotionally needy, financially co-dependent and self-proclaimed Mama’s boys. Capricorns are solid, responsible, financially supportive, but cold, detached, indecisive, and at times, quite boring! Taurus women want the best of both worlds. A man who is attentive, generous, financially independent, highly verbal who wants to be committed to us. A Pisces man has those traits.
I am a 22yr old Cancer man. I can’t stand why everyone thinks we are sooo attached to mom? Not true. I worked with a Taurus woman.. god she was so sweet and warm. Everything she did made me crazy about her! BUT being a Cancer man I was trying to act like everything was normal and cool. Even though she drove me crazy! Ever since then Taurus women are exactly what I look for in relationships.. They are the wife material we look for. They are soo sweet and warm.. even the way they dress, so modest and reserved yet sexy.. I loooove reserved sexy modest women. It’s so attractive I can’t help myself but think about them. Taurus women are all like that for the most part. Great mother to children also 🙂
I am a 38 year old cancer male. I want to say that I have no idea where all of this mama’s boy talk comes from. I have a couple of cancer homeboys and none of us are like that. I also dont know to many broke cancers. When I have met another cancer male that was not doing well financially, I personally thought it was strange because we love money to much.
Anyway, I’ve been in a few long term relationships. I cheated in them but as I got older it became less and less. I’m not making any excuses but I think it was just plain immaturity. I am at the point now were I just want one woman that I am compatible with mentally and sexually. Or maybe I should say SEXUALLY then mentally. All in all I’ve found that in two different taurus women that I had dated while cheating on my Gemini girlfriend. Our sex sucked!!! So I strayed away. I’ve found myself thinking about one of the taurus women a lot and I have not seen her or talked to her in 7 years. She was perfect in all ways but I couldn’t be with her because of my loyalty to my girlfriend. Now I know thats sounds strange but loyalty and faithfulness are two different things. I lacked faithfulness. I stayed with my Gemini for 8 years because I was loyal. We broke up when I found out that she was also creeping.
As for the second Taurus woman, we are still good friends. We see each other about two or three times a year for a sexual rendevous (I don’t know how to spell it) LOL…. but thats it. She is 8 years older than me so she is a little to boring. But at the same time I feel she needs to grow up. Funny thing is that I should too.
So to make a long story short (I’m way to late for that now) we cancer men are loyal, financially fine, are not mama’s boys and can want nothing more than a mature committed relationship with the right woman. Me personally, I want it with a Taurus woman. I’m ready now! I met one last night and I really enjoyed our conversation. She said all the right things and was so genuine about it. The funny thing is is that I didn’t ask her sign until way later in the conversation. I’m now convinced that I need and want a Taurus woman. Wish me luck……
To CancerCee:
Cancer men naturally gravitate towards Taurus women. I never understood why. I do wish you the best of luck with your Taurus woman. But here is the deal, avoid manipulation at all costs! Taurus women can spot a lie or can tell they’re being underminded with their eyes closed. Be honest with her at all times. A Taurus woman possess many great traits, but she has her flaws as well, which is stubborness, inflexibility, temper, and procrastination. I wanted to include jealousy . But with Cancers, I doubt that will be a problem. Although Cancer men tend to be very introverted, nevertheless it will be extremely beneficial for you to communicate with us. We are naturally private people, and have trouble opening up ourselves as well. Thoughts, ideas, and emotions live and die in our heads and experience difficulties on being expressed.
Taurus women are natural-born nurturers. Our deeds are always purely altruisitic. No gimmick, no lies, just straightforwardness. So don’t ever doubt this woman’s sincerity. This means avoid playing mind games, being paranoid, smothering her, or finding vindictive ways to get back at her. You will have nothing to worry about. This woman is very reserved, loyal, and will have eyes ONLY for you.
Be genuine and sincere with your affections. Make her laugh. Cook her dinner. She will support you through all your endeavors. But if she detects any inconsistencies, lies, or insincerities, she will flee or simply jump ship. Although she is very loving, and giving, this woman is also a no-nonsense, opinionated, take no crap, type of individual. So Mr. Cancer, try not yo piss her off….
She avoids flings and one night stands. She is mainly high maintenance, but very shy. So Mr. Cancer, you will have to be very patient with her!In the long run. It will be worth it. Even the SEX! Taurus women are very reserved, over-sexed creatures.
I do not have a high opinion of Cancers to be honest, My sister is married to one. But I do wish you the best of luck with this one. You seem very sincere.
I hope this helps!
CancerCee-
Also…If a Taurus woman offends you (we have a tenacity to be blunt and say whatever is on our minds.), let her know. Don’t hide in your shell for days by avoiding her phone calls. We’re not mind readers. She will not ridicule you for being sensitive. She will be more content to know that you’re keeping communication lines open, and that the two of you are ‘in it for the long haul.’ Thus, you will eventually see that she will apologize for her actions…..
AphroditeBull:
Thank you for your response and I will definitely take everything you said into consideration. The only thing is, is that she is very inflexible (the woman I met the other night). I have not had another conversation since. She called me Sunday and said that she was a busy woman with family, and that she would love to hang out with me when she has time. She said that she will call later that night, but she didn’t. I left her a message and she has not returned my call.
So the strange thing is that after such a great conversation; what happened? So in order to save face maybe because I’m somewhat egotistical, I have not and will not try again. I don’t want to feel like I’m sweating her or do I want to seem desperate. Because I’m not but I do want to get to know her more. I feel like it could be both of our lost if we didn’t.
So I read that Taurus liked to be pursuited so I thought that maybe I should try again in a few days or maybe I should realize when I got blown off. Thats hard for me because it doesnt happen to often (I’m kind of cute) LOL….. But maybe this time I need to go with the flow and just leave it alone. What do you think Ms. AphroditeBull? As a Taurus woman?
I think you should pursue her. Inflexiblity and procrastination has been one of my biggest flaws in relationships, especially during the initial stages. I have always expected men to wait for me, while I assessed them (made up my mind if I wanted to be with them or not). In my sick twisted little world (LOL), I had this notion that men should be cordial, patient, sincere gentlemen…just like ones in the Turner Classic movies. I know this sounds totally absurd, but Taurus women are ‘old souls.’ I have actually gotten much better over the years. I realized that my ‘idealistic’ mate does not apply in the REAL WORLD.
I know that I told you that I do not have a high opinion of Cancers, but I will be a little straightforward with you. The both of you are highly compatible. Comedy shows, art shows, wine tastings, and great home cooked food. Two things Taurus women love to do, eat and laugh! Be clear and concise about what your intentions are, and then suggest a comedy show, offer to cook her dinner, or take her to a wine tasting. Do not think that you’re sweating her. Get that notion out of your head. Trust me, she will be elated that you’re persistent.
Don’t be fooled, beneath that cool Taurus exterior lies a woman who is extremely shy, somewhat self-conscious, and is probably in complete awe just to be in your presence. She will try to keep her cool by dabbling on topics that she’s familiar with (sort of like an ego-booster) to appear as if she’s in control and not being judged. She does not like to appear weak and vulnerable. But deep inside she will be blushing like a teenager, getting butterflies in her stomach, wanting to kiss you passionately on the lips, and wanting to erase all the problems you’re facing in the world. (We’re natural-born nurturers, remember that).
If she said she’s busy. She is. Trust me, she’s not blowing you off. We’re maternal people. We feel it’s our duty and obligation to take care of our loved ones first. This is actually why we make great wives and excellent mothers. If she is stressed out, or feels overwhelmed, she will not share it with you. Why? We do not like to burden people with our problems. We feel it makes us look weak. ‘If we display emotional breakdowns in public, then our loved ones, or people who see us as their rocks will break down as well.
I will be honest with you. The initial courting process will not be easy. My advice to you patience, Patience, patience. It will be well worth it in the end. These women are nurturing, loyal, funny, generous, supportive, altruisitic, creative, and artistic. They’re also great in bed, especially or$l. But this will be our secret….
-Good Luck…
CancerCee:
Aphrodite has spoken truth about a Taurus woman.
Once you’ve won Ms. Taurus’s heart and trust, she is yours.
And yes, the bed thing is very true. Only the man she loves will know. You better have a good stamina, Mr. Cee. Hehe
Good luck.
Kara the Bull
Taurus woman Cancer Man – magic! Too few flaws to worry about. Too much to enjoy and appreciate.
I’m a Cancer man i most recently met a taurus women, I’ve dated a Leo woman for the last six years which in my mind was a total mistake. Leo woman can have no heart, no sympathy and really self centered. But meeting this Taurus Woman who is ten yrs less my age. But my physical attraction to her really made me step back and say I have to have this girl. I haven’t felt like this in years and i knew it was deeper than just looks with her. Almost like we were meant to be and that is crazy, also like soul mates that i once didn’t believe in. She is very shy and even tho we made out at a bar once when we reconnected i felt the chemistry. She is shy and she made me take things a little slow which i can understand but i know once i get her i’m going to keep her and prob. try my best to keep her. She is my tender roni and taurus women might be the way to go for this cancer man.
im cancer male and ive been crazy about this tourus girl for a whole year now and where like best friends but i want more. i dont know how to change her mind about me.
I don’t even know why everyone is trying to twist fate. Just because astrology books tell you that certain signs are the ones to be with doesn’t mean that every man and woman born under those signs will be right one for you. I’m a taurus woman who might share some traits with other taurus women but i’m unique in my personality so is my capricorn hubby. He is not like any other capricorn men i have known in the past and he is certaintly not the cold, aloof man they portrait cappy men to be. He may share some traits like ambition but i have known other cappy men that were lazy and unmotivated as well. My cappy suits me to perfection because he was made just for me. He’s not secretive at all, or maybe i’m the right taurus girl to break down his walls. He certaintly has no problem telling me how much he adores me and loves me. After dating disaster with pratically every sign in the zodiac including a previous cappy, i met my hubby at 38 years old and he was 40 years old being divorced over 10 years with a grown daughter of 19 and me with no previous marriage and no children. It was instinct attraction at a friend’s small gathering. At first i didn’t want to go out with him because i was so sure he was going to break my heart as handsome and sexy he was, i thought he must be a ladies man. But my girlfriend who set this up swore he was the man with the qualities that i was looking for (Jesus Christ if you ask me since my list was impossible). I prayed for this man my entire life and shared my wish with my mother who prayed every day for that same man for me until she passed away. A year after my mother’s death anniversary, there he was in front of me and i couldn’t believe it. He pursued me and i finally said ok. Sex was out of this world. I like men who know how to make love with erotic words and i though that french was the only sexy language for making love until i met him and rocked my word in english and i rocked his word in french(i’m mixed french and african and he’s mixed dutch, black and caribbean indian from guyana but born in the us). He propose 6 months later and we elope to hawaii for our wedding with my BF and his brother. It’s been 5 years and we have a 3 years old daughter and a 1 year old son and we make love pratically every night. When he’s on a business trip, he calls me and yes we have phone sex that’s hotter than what men would pay for…On saturdays, we have our date night. We go out clubbing where i will dress sexy but classy for him and pretend and i don’t know him and let other men hit on me and will dance with them sometime but he never touches any other woman or would even look at them. It would drive him crazy to see me dance with other men then i would come to him and sometime we would barely make it back to our hotel room that we reserve in the city and do it wherever. Or i will give him a surprise date knowing his calendar of course in our favorite hotel in the city for a quickie during lunch. Sexually i like to be totally submissive but can dominate to perfection in role playing to spice up things a little. I must say that i am a very sensual and adventurous woman who enjoys fun not boring lifestyle. I took pole and striptease dancing lessons before i met him and if i must say so myself i can go toe to toe with any stripper but i prefer a little classier where your nipples are covered and your private part is also not reveal but concealed in something rather sexy. I like to tantalize him to get him to experience all his emotions. We are so in tune with each other. I rehearsed my dacing skills very well and made a reservation at the crazy horse in paris on our 5th wedding anniversary this past august. Check out the crazy horse in paris online and if you’re ever there, it’s the most classy erotic place for couple, no naked, cheap triptease and no men touching or putting money in your g-string either but rather illusion like in the movie rush hour 3. I mean i had to really excercise to get back in shape after my second baby. I took my hubby there and went backstage, changed into my custume as betty boop and danced for him in front of other. Of course it was annonced that i was his wife and his jaw dropped we he saw me. You don’t even want to know how hot it was when i got off the stage. I’ve always danced for him at home even when i was pregnant but never in public like that. He showers me with lot and lots of love and gifts and attention. We both have demandind careers but when i had our babies i decided to stay home to raise them myself until they reach school age and i’m able to work from home couple times a week. He’s a hard worker and provides very well for us so when he comes home, i made a conscient effort to great him with a smile and a kiss with eye contact to let him know that i appreciate him and glad he’s home. I like taking care of him and even though i have a little help at home, i prefer to cook his diner myself since i can cook just about any food from french, asian, italian to pastry. I think he’s my mother’s gift to me for having taking care of her, the last 8 years of her being so ill and her being so afraid to leave me alone without hubby or children, she gave me at last the greatest gift of all, happiness, love. We have disagreement but there’s never yelling going on and he always apologizes before we go to bed :), hey! i’m a woman and we’re always right if you want peace. I miss my hubby, he’s in london and coming back home at 3 am and i haven’t slept yet. I’m going to surprise him at JFK, he was going to take a cab but i have arrange for his sister to take the kids for tonight to allow me to pick him up and they’ll be back in the morning to see their papa. You may think i’m a bit crazy and yes i am about my hubby. It seems like we’re twins thinking the same things, wanting the same things without formulating it out loud. Like i know he would love to see me at the airport and to himself for his first night home before the babies.
I’ve got to go now it’s almost 2 am and good luck to all of you ladies and make sure whom ever you’re with is the right cancer, capricorn, virgo, pisces or whatever.
I am a Taurus girl who is head over heels for a Cancer boy I have never even met. We have been communicating through letters for 6 months (he is an inmate) and even through his letters I can see the Cancer in him, it is so obvious. What made me fall for him was the emotion I saw in his eyes, like he was so deep in thought and feeling (I first saw him when I was picked for jury deliberation for his trial but ultimately I was not chosen). The thing that complicates matters is that he has a baby mama (who is also a Taurus) and I have a Libra man. I love my man, but after all these years (6) I am finally starting to see his “airy” ways are so annoying to me, and we really aren’t all that compatible. I think we would be better friends than lovers. I don’t want to leave him because I am a stubborn Taurus and I want to be loyal, but I can’t help my feelings. Anyway, so my Cancer boy will be locked up for 10 years and I wonder if I should wait for him? I feel such a strong connection with him and I really think it’s because he is a Cancer. Any suggestions?
To Vakire:
This inmate sounds like he’s running game. He’s a Cancer. Most likely he’s in tuned with your emotions and will use it to his benefit. Your relationship with your Libra man may be cold, but your relationship with your Cancer male will be non-existent. What intimate relationship can you possibly have with a man behind bars?
I am a Taurus woman as well. We’re very nurturing individuals with big hearts. I’m sure your Cancer male senses that. This is probably how he was able to attract his Taurus ‘baby momma.’ I’m not saying that Cancers and Tauruses are incompatible, but try to find a Cancer that embodies the positive traits of the zodiac ( nurturing, compassion, generosity, affection) and not the negatives (manipulation, selfishness, neediness, insecurity). He may just be looking for a distraction to fill his emotional void because his ‘baby momma’ cut him loose. Don’t be a pawn. Taurus women are very giving, but we’re also very practical…and eventually common sense will kick in. Which is why I’m positive his ‘baby momma’ may have already kicked him to the curb.
I’m not here to judge. But I do wish you the best of luck. Don’t allow one bad decision for being entangled with a cold Libra to ‘blind’ you from leaping into another bad relationshop with a manipulative unlawful man.
There are some good Cancer men out there (some are awful). Try finding one who is emotionally and physically available. One who can fulfill your needs. One who is not incarcerated. But waiting 10 years for a man who has not proven himself yet (but through a series of letters that he could have gotten any other inmate to write), is not worth it!
Good Luck
Signed,
TaurusWarrior
What a hot topic, I’m a taurus woman (24), ten years ago I had a puppy love Cancer boy, but we “broke up” after 3 months or so. Now, he’s one of the lead singers of a very very popular band in my country, and after 10 years we got together again (we were both single), it’s a friends with benefits sort a thing. It is really difficult NOT to fall for cancer men, especially the ones who can sing and entertain. Sex is amazing, and they are so sweet. But I tried my best to maintain my feelings in check, succeeded until now. It does not look like he wants anything serious soon.
I also happen to know a few Capricorn men, and they are all HOT, never started anything with any of them, because they were all already involved, and you can feel how easy it is to fall in love with them too, so again I was guarding my feelings and avoiding to get hurt.
Funny thing is, one of them is my young doctor, so you can imagine the sexual tension when I’m in his office.
I would say go for the Capricorn, it’s a safer bet, and you still get to have fun and good sex (sex is very important). And if you absolutely must, cheat with the Cancer.
Thank you TaurusWarrior, your post definitely helped me gain some much needed perspective. I agree that the dude is either runnin game or he’s just a piece of garbage. Funny thing is, when I read through his letters, he’s given me small albeit insightful hints as to his disposition. One time I asked him in a letter what are his characteristics and he even admitted that he can be “a big dick”. Sometimes (once actually) he takes these little “hiatuses” in writing to me, then he sends me a letter weeks later written all sugary sweet that he didn’t “feel like” writing because he doesn’t want to get feelings for me but the more he thinks of me the more he wants me and bla bla bla. He has asked for a “booty shot” in just about every letter (once we started flirting that is….I think it was letter 6) which I am proud to say I haven’t given him! As of now he hasn’t written me in about two weeks (and it’s KILLLING me!) but I don’t write him because I am too proud and stubborn. Scared of losing face I guess. I have cyber stalked (pathetic I l know) his baby mama and on her profile it says they are married, although he claims they are not in a relationship. So that has me wondering about how honest he’s been with me about that. A friend of mine said he’s probably married which is why he would not let me visit him and why he decides when he wants to bless my atmosphere with his presence. Who knows. Half the time I am sick and tired of the guessing games, other times I welcome the drama and the excitement it brings to my presently dull life. To Lizzie, I DEFINITELY long to meet a cappie dude, but I’ve never known one besides my high school dean whom I crushed on badly! Besides my unavailable Cancer, I also have growing affections for a Pisces prisoner who writes me regularly and really seems nice and enthusiastic about our friendship. I like his letters because it feels like I’m pulling a party out of his envelope so to speak. He is so sweet and like-able, much different than my Cancer prisoner. What can I say, I have a soft spot for inmates! Anyway, that is a glimpse into my pathetic Taurus girl existence, lol! Any takers? I look forward to your questions and comments.
@ Vakire, Pisces are crazy ppl, well there are two sorts of Pisces, the crazy ones and the really sweet ones. The crazy ones are possesive, demanding, and they like to critisize, ughh bla bla bla, when they are talking to me I always feel like I’m defending myself all the time.
My brother is a Pisces, he’s a sweet guy, and I know this singer too, he seems to be really sweet. I’ve never had sex with a Pisces, but I guess it would be kinky.
If you really want to spice things up, get a Scorpio inmate, now that would be interesting.
@ Lizzie, funny you should mention Scorpio. I have a Scorpio guy that I befriended when I was stranded in West Texas and he picked me up hitchhiking. We spent a couple of days together on the way back here to So Cal. That was in summer so we have been friends ever since. Every time we are together there is defintely some sexual tension as we are very attracted to one another but we have not slept together but I am so so curious. I coupld tell by knowing him that we would be very bad together because of our personalities, but I still want to bone him, ‘hit it and quit it’ if you will. But I think that would just complicate the friendship so we keep it platonic. Update: got a letter today from my Cancer inmate! I can’t even begin to explain the mind games. Why does he have me so wrapped up in his warped ways? Fml.
I’m getting a dosis of Cap and Crab today, I had a doctor’s appointment with the Cap, oh he’s hot, after seeing my vajayjay, I think he forgot he was a doctor and called me and said he would get on his knees for me to give him a chance (at sex that is). I’ve had a crush on my doc for 7 yrs, I think I’m going to give into tempation and blur the ethical lines.
As for the Crab, I have a date with him today, thinking about it makes me feel all warm inside, we have so much fun and I feel so at ease with him, now I get the benefit of sexing a friend.
Yesterday I would go for the Capricorn, but today I like the idea of keeping the Cancer
@ Lizzie: WOW that’s HOT! Your GYN called you and actually admitted he wants you! Damn your vajayjay must be extra sweet calling out to him like that! After all he is just a man I guess, and that’s his call about ethics and what not, that’s not your business you are not the doctor! Damn, I’m really wishing I could meet a Cappie now, although I heard they are kinda cold at first and hard to get to know, is it true? I think I got my Cancer dude interested because of all the poetry I wrote for him. I can’t write poetry unless I feel intense emotion which is what my Cancer makes me feel. Let me know how the date with the Cancer went and the sex with the Cap!
@Erika, Cancer date was amazing, he’s a singer and he was in this broadway type of show, I went to the show and met with him afterwards, of course I had to wait on the gazillion ppl that wanted to greet him, but as a taurus that’s no problem I’m real patient and give him is space. His mom came by and told me not to leave his son’s side (I acted casually and laughed it off, but on the inside I was like yes yes yes) I think the mom knows that we’re just friends with benefits, but she would like to see us being more serious. So, when we left it was all eyes on us, I must admit I love the attention I get when I’m by his side, I love the look on their faces, girls are envious and guys are like “that motherf*”. We went back to his hotel, did it, and he had to meet the cast afterwards at denny’s, I asked him if I could go with him, and he said of course. At denny’s we sat next to each other but we didn’t speak much, he was busy with the director and I made some new friends. It was an amazing evening.
No sex with the cap yet, I’m saving it for when I’m really desperate, I don’t think Caps are cold, if they are then they don’t like you a 100%, earth signs are only cold when they don’t feel you.
I’m a Taurus woman – May 1 – married to a Cancer for a long time. People have commented that we are like the North & South poles – totally different. When first meeting him the chemistry was immediate and it seems that may have been the only connection. I tend to be spontaneous, fun-loving, love rock, dancing, and having a conversation about meaningful subjects. He has proven to be detached, self-involved, sexual problems that many young & old men experience, judgmental, self-righteous. Alot of these traits seem to have been driven by his being raised in a home with Jehovah’s Witness parents. Although he is no longer involved in this cult, he still exhibits the judgmental, self-righteous behaviour many times. My son is very much like myself and has had trouble communicating with his dad for years. If they talk about sports and cars, they get along; anything connected to emotions/feelings, my husband tunes out. Since I was laid off 9 months ago I’m totally bored and find very little joy in life except when I’m able to talk to my best friend and my son about how I feel, as well as how they are doing under difficult circumstances. I believe my biggest mistake was to marry this guy; however, my father was very similar regarding backbone, never standing up for me in times of trouble, just criticizing me and having no faith in me. So I grew up having very little self-esteem and still have to work at it every single day. I don’t have the money to spend on counseling at this time, but have spoken with a psychiatrist, psychologist & family counselor in the past. In summation, they have all commented on the disconnect with my husband that is apparent to them . If I were younger, I’d be out the door, but since I am an older woman with no job and little money, I feel trapped. I feel that this man is very envious of me since I look 20 years younger than my age and he looks old for his age. Strangers always think he is my father and have expressed their amazement that I am actually married to him. Looking back, I believe I would have been happier in my life if I had never married, had pursued my education to obtain a college degree and found employment that was satisfying. This Cancer man exhibits the qualities that many have mentioned – detached, aloof, gives nothing emotionally, a cold person oveall.
Just for the record, in case anyone was wondering/cared. I told the girl how i felt, she laughed, we talk and since then i’ve only seen her once to pick up my stuff. we spoken on th phone but i think shes mad at me. because i askd people for advice and i think she feels like people will look at her in a negative light because of it. either way i have no regretes im happy to of ever knon her but i guess now i just have to move on a find a girl that kind, caring, nurturing with a lot of passion and enthusiasm.
All so i fount out that im on a cusp of cancer leo. that makes me feel good knowing i have a little fire in me.
peace
god bless
I am a Taurus female jus broken up with a Cancer guy. We been together for 5yrs. He’s very jealous and possesive, can be a liar at times. He’s been in his shell since i met him and after 5yrs he’s still in there. I tried getting him to express his feeling and be open but no luck. To make matters worst he started cheating on me. After everything i still love him but i had no choice to move on because it doesn’t seems as he want a commitment from me. It’s hard to move on but am left with your choice. I know that he loves me but he just can’t bring himself to show it unless he feels threatened by another guy. Am i wrong for moving on??
Nelly:
You did the right thing by moving on. Never be with someone who betrays you.
I’m a taurus female.
God bless all.
Ara
pros
the cancers i’ve known are very attentive, emotionaly supportive, encouraging, caring, FUNNY, and there tends to be a sweet emotional bond btwn us
with the capricorns, there’s more of a mental rapport, they’re closer to what i feel a real man should be, they’re stronger, the bond btwn us feels more karmic and solid, more understanding,
cons
cancers need to be taken care of in a child sort of way, i don’t want to feel like the man in a relationship
capricorns not affectionate physically and emotionally.
i personally tend to be more attracted to capricorn, but every cancer i’ve met has a special place in my heart.
they’re so different (they’re opposite signs) but i think they’re both great guys for taurus women
they give the same thing, just in different ways
just thought i’d add
megan fox and brian austin green are a taurus/cancer coulple
jessical alba and cash warren are a taurus/capricorn couple
ok loves, i am a taurus born 5.11.91 im currently dating a cancer man. now i liked him automatically, the connection was there and i can honestly say we fell in love with each other very early on in the relationship. and for a good 8 months we didnt fight and everything was perfect.. we spent all the time in the world together.. HOWEVER. as time progressed nd we hit ONE YEAR, we still didnt fight much, just little things… once we got to a year and a half we needed to take a break. he can be overly sensitive at times, and me being a taurus women im aggressive in hostile situations.. when he wants to sit and sulk.. i want to scream and throw things. he always sees criticism as a personal attack on him.. hes overly sensitive and it makes it hard to handle him.. he was stressed out from work and his home life and all that and we decided to go on a break, i was content and happy to give him his space, and his feelings were mutual.. when the two weeks passed we finally saw eachother and i told him we needed to discuss US.. as we were talking his heart rate and blood pressure werre obviously high because he was huffing and puffing and taking a low key convo and twisting it to somehow feel like i was yelling at him.. so out of pure loss for words and confusion. he said “i dont know if i can do this” NOW as a taurus woman my head is clear in a fight because i have to MAKE SENSE… him he blurts out whaever in response to feeling overwhelmed. so i had to tell him that his stress level was temporary, HOWEVER, the break up would have been indefinite and he would have severely regretted our break up… i shouldnt have to tell my man that a breakuop isnt the answer to everything.. and i shouldnt have to deal with an irrational man…. i swear its the cancer in him.. its going to create alot of friction.. but i love him and he loves me SO it will work. were no longer on a break but were still not seeing eachother often, i want to alleviate stress on is part and its going very well. i think the future wedding is still on “) lmao
If I was Tam, I’d rather go Cancer. In my own understanding, these people are responsible and strong enough to support their partner’s need. Take my husband for example, strong and responsible.
Cancers man’s best match is a Scorpio. Taurus are too boring for Cancer. 😉
Cancers man’s best match is a Scorpio. Taurus are too boring for Cancer. 😉
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