Listen to this article[ad]How do you manipulate the master manipulator? How do you pull one over on “He who sleeps with his eyes open”?
If a Scorpio were to give you what you want, it would not be to please you — he would give it to you because he wants to. The moment he feels you’re trying to use him or get something out of him, he knows it. He may not call you on it — instead, he might deduct points from your tab, and send the Debt Collector when you’ve overdrawn on your goodwill account.
The best way to get what you want is to ask for it … directly. Scorpio knows every game in the book, whether you go over his head, behind his back or beneath his gaze. Why would he trust you if you’re trying to play him? You’ll get much more respect if you’re open about your motives.
Comment below: How have you gotten what you want from a Scorpio?
That is so true about scorpio men although sometimes having the ability to detach from “what you want” may help you in the long run, since what you want may not always be what you need and when it comes to scorpio most people want them to be everyone other than who they truly are…
bottom line. u aint gon manipulate no scorpio. we aint stupid we can see manipulation a mile away cause its our best friend and when its used against us it just not gon happen. askin directly would be alot better but depending on what your asking for you might need to give them a little time to answer. dont start pressuring them or things aint gon go the way you want it to go.
hey anonymous have we met before?
chicken*hit
I got what I wanted (Marriage and a wonderful life) from my scorpio male by letting him know that I’ve always got his back. My scorpio man is always protective of me and he’s got a heart of gold, but even this strong personality enjoys knowing that his firey little sag is looking out for him.
I’m a Leo with an Aries Moon, and have dated a few of Scorpio men in my time. That is was truest statement I ever heard about a Scorpio… they are MASTER manipulators. The last one I dated was a mess… emotionally… physically… and spiritually. I swear, he had to be the most jealous and vindictive person on earth. And moody is an understatement; if you said the sun was shining, he would say it was raining. I didn’t know from one day to the next what emotional card he would throw on the table or in my face, but the jealousy card was his favorite to play. I don’t care if he had been around me all day, he would sit and think up scenarios of what I was doing behind his back. If we were out together there had to be some guy trying to steal his girlfriend. He had all kinds of spy equipment on his computer to alert him if I was online. If I answered my cell phone and didn’t tell him who called all hell would break loose. And here’s the kicker…there was the monthly doses of “back down memory lane” which subjected me to hearing all the sexual escapades, financial disasters, personal hygiene and the lack there of, dysfunctional upbringing of every girlfriend he’s ever been with (and Scorpios want women who can keep secrets?). I wish I had a dollar for every time he’d say “just be straight-up with me.” Which meant, “tell me who you’re screwing because I know you’re doing somebody other than me.” It didn’t take me too long to figure out if someone is obsessing like he did than it was time to do some digging of my own, and of course I didn’t have to dig too deep. He was involved in all the things he accused me of. And the real crazy thing about it was once he was caught and no longer had the ammunition to attack me with his overactive imagination we were through and the relationship ended. So, I won’t say I would never date another Scorpio because I believe that they tend to exist on one spectrum or another…. either very extreme, or very mild…there’s no in between.
Sorry about the typo…should have read: That was the truest statement I ever heard about a Scorpio
I’m a Sag woman (12/16) dating a Scorp man (11/07). I met her 3 years prior to connecting in a relationship. We saw each other twice and then just kept in touch by email and messenger. I have no patience and hearing his stories of promises I was not concern. I use to chase him away and that actually made him chase harder. I told him don’t contact me again until he is ready because I have a great life and don’t need him. Well we didn’t talke for about 1 1/2 years then he found me and asked me out on a date. I accepted his offer to go out.
I think Scorp men are crazy. They love the challenge and chase. He is great to me. I didn’t tell him I loved him first he told me and it wasnt during sex. After 2 months into dating he set me up without my knowledge to meet his family but that was cool because they love me to death. He started telling me he love me, told me he been chasing me for 3 years and he is tired he feels like he was running a marathon. Well I finally gave in after about 6 months and it has been a ROLLERCOASTER RIDE, BUT I LOVE IT.
Astrology says Sag and Scorp are not a match I totally disagree. You must go into a relationship expecting nothing but accepting everything (as long as it is not hurt and pain). My scorp boyfriend is secretive, manipulative, controlling, cunning but his is also loyal, a great provider, great in bed, and although he doesn’t say much he does listen. I find that I will tell him something, he doesnt respond but days or weeks later I will see the actions that shows he listen. Yes they are homebodies and like to sit privately in their own space. I say let them be. As a Sag we are very outgoing and sociable so I have learned to not entertain those times he wants to be alone. I let him sit in the den play his games, online, etc for hours and then I use this time to go out and be the social butterfly I am and go hang with friends, go get my nails done, etc. I believe Sag and Scorp are perfect if the Sag learns not to take things personal. When my boyfriend makes a statement about control, Ill play into his lil game I be like Yes Master, believe me its more fun than serious. He laughs or smiles when I do that and in return he comes back giving me what I need. Relationship is about give or take. As a woman I have no problem letting my man be a man. I am frivilous, spend my money on silly things, dont like responsibility and this is where my Scorp boyfriend comes in and teaches me to have a little discipline and patience. In return I don’t give him the option to always sit home alone Ill go buy the movie tickets, concerts tickets..etc then tell him what I done then he gets excited and we have a great time. I don’t know about cheating but I will say Scorp men attract women with their eyes and their personalities. I know I am a successful, beautiful woman because most Sags have high self esteem with our no care attitudes so I don’t get jealous when other women try him or even his flirting. Will or has he cheated as most will say Scorpios will do, he may but I don’t sit around looking for things. I enjoy the happy times in our relationship and don’t dwell on our differences. I take advantage of his neggative traits to win in the end because when he comes out of his private time believe me thats when he will shower you with everything your heart desires. He always tells me how pretty I am and boast my self-esteem which is what I like. So I say the heck with astrology we been together 2 years now and Im loving this relationship and have never met a man quite like this Scorp. For the record all men can cheat regardless of his sign so just learn to have fun with your mate as long as there isnt abuse physical, mental, emotional and he supports you then ride on the coaster until it stops
All men cheat, regardless of their Sign? This is news to me. Perhaps it is precisely your freedom-loving Sagittarian attitude that helps you to overlook it if your Scorp is indeed cheating, and if that’s cool with you then it’s cool with me. But I’m sure many women would not tolerate it.
I don’t think her Scorp is cheating, or will ever cheat. It’s not in the Scorpion nature to cheat. Both men and women with heavily weighted charts in Scorpio tend to be loyal and devoted to their mates to the umpteenth degree. Particularly if they are happy in their relationship, as her Scorp seems to be.
Have never known or heard of a Scorpio who cheated, unless it was for revenge and they could care less about the person they were cheating with (with, and not on). Revenge is usually the female motive if she cheats at all, and pure sexual release is usually the man’s motive (but he won’t invest any emotion into it).
So once you’ve bagged a Scorp, you can pretty well rest assured they won’t be cheating on you too soon, unless you really deserve it.
I have to disagree with Victoria on the fact that a scorpio will never cheat, “What your eyes don’t see will never hurt the heart”. A Scorpio will die before revealing a double life, you could be with one for many years and never really know them. I should know, I have never met a scorpio that was truly faithful; although, their partners thought they were angels and still do 🙂 To every man their will always be the perfect temptation and we are only human not saints. I am a scorpio with my sun, moon, mercury, and uranus is scorpio…
Never say never 😉
Just because I never cheated doesn’t mean other Scorps haven’t, and yes, there’s an exception to every rule. But generally speaking Scorpio is a very faithful and loyal and devoted sign, if they are in love. If not, well, anything goes . . .
But there are worse things than cheating. And having that much Scorp in your chart you know what I’m talking about
@ Victoria, yes u r truly correct, I do know what u r talking about. I swear being a Scorpio can b good 2 a degree, however, it does feel like a curse having that much of it in my chart. I feel things to an extreme level of sensitivity and everything people say about scorpio’s i feel at a high degree..really creepy. Scorpios are weird in general, they pick up on other people’s feelings almost exact, we know when people r lying, cheating, hating us, or even luv us, we know. Best way to get what u want from a scorpio is definitely to ask we hate it when people aren’t honest, since scorpios are truly one of the most honest signs out there as far as when u ask, we do definitely tell, so pay attention..
yup u got that right
So, I walked around him last week. He sends me an email (to my work, I don’t get it for two days) telling me he’s “Uncomfortable” and that he sees what I’m looking for and it isn’t him…I bounce a reply, telling him, yeah, you might be all these things but you’re not this one thing I really need, and btw, please don’t come to the neighborhood park the time that I do…
You guessed it. The whole past week, he’s been there while I am. He’s walking in the EXACT SAME TIME as me. His pooch loves and kisses me, etc, but we walk on by…then today, I’m sitting on the bank of the pond, he walks down and sits accross from me. I get up and walk over to him, and he just gives me that hot look and says my name…so I turn and walk to my car. You guessed it. He’s standing right there with those damn eyes, starts telling me how he’s “just uncomfortable”, I tell him, yeah, I am too…and then he storms off, shouting over his shoulder, ‘you can’t even honor my request not to communicate for a while’.
Okay, sure. Then why is he at the park when I specifically asked him not to be? And then following me around? And letting his dog (whom I adore) get all over me ( I don’t mind this)?
I’m betting…anything…that he’ll be there tomorrow, same time.
Sigh. Am I making any headway?
I am a 35 year old Cougar! LOL! I am going through a divorce from a vey wealthy Libra. I strted dating a lovely man Scorpio about 3 months ago. He worked at a store I shopped in and we had built a friendship for the first 6 or so months. This man and I feel that we are madly in love.We Felt it from the beginning. I am an astrologists and our charts are amazing we are perfectly compatable most likely linked through karma. The concern for me is that I am strugling. I am very broke due to the divorce and lack of exp in a career has me also struggling to find a job. My husband controls all of the assets and the Divorce will take awhile. My Scorpio says he loves me and wants to help me through all of this. Emotionally and with money. I feel horrible about that especially considering his age. He is 24 and as I said I am 35. I am unsure whether he truly is this type of man or if he is just trying to please me. I do not want to harm him as I love him dearly. When I do not turn to him for support he gets very lonely and sad. When i let him help me it seems to infuse him. What is best for us and for him?
wow can I ever identify with some of this, my Scorpio man accuses me all of the time of almost anything, mainly cheating and I have never, not even looked at another man. It has made me wonder if he is the one cheating, how do I find out if he is or not? I did find a singles ad, he says he ‘forgot’ it was there. Apparently he deleted it once I brought it to his attention.
(I’m a Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Venus in Cancer, Sagittarius Rising)
All right, I know you’re going to judge me right off the bat ’cause I’m a Gemini. Well, that’s not fair–then it’s me stereotyping, too! x.x
Anyway… I’ve recently managed to get over this on-off Aries Sun relationship with someone(took five months to get over it), and suddenly found myself rather enamored with what we think is a Scorpio. From what I’ve seen he probably is one–and, damn.
It’s like a switch was flipped as soon as I wasn’t looking after (i.e. being protective of) my ex, since she’s moved on(the ex and I are very close and good friends, still). The past few days I’ve thought about him constantly–sort of unnerving–and just about waited with baited breath for him to be online(FYI: All my relationships have been online, and I was first caught by his writing ability before I even knew he was a Scorpio and I’ve never seen a picture of him so I think you can rule out shallow physical attraction, here. :3).
I mean, it’s sort of crazy. I feel really attached and all I can think about is that I want to be wanted, and all the horoscope stuff says Scorpios are in it for the long haul–and yet I’m really careful about being too forward (blame the Virgo Moon?) because I don’t want to come across as shallow (I don’t think I am, unlike how most people brand Geminis). Whenever I enter into a relationship I always think it’s going to last forever–a little naive, yeah, but I can’t help that that’s the way I feel. I just want a solid presence that I can always go back to, and damn! x.x The ‘zing’ of my latching onto him as a possible candidate was so fast it made my head spin (it’s still spinning, too!).
Ahha… I don’t know what to do, really. This morning we had a bit of (online, through IMs, yes–please don’t just write it off and take what I’m saying for what it is!) interaction that led me to believe he might be interested–he just kept watching me and sometimes smiling and even stated that he was sort of amused by my reactions…
Even though I feel like I’m already caught I feel like I can’t just give it up, yet. I don’t even know if he’s truly interested, or just playing with me because he finds me amusing. –;; I’ve read up on Scorpio a lot the past few days, and so tried not to be as belligerent as I usually am with people I don’t know well–which resulted in a weird sort of state of mind, for me. I kept blushing and glaring at the same time. We mostly communicated through body language (again, don’t write it off just ’cause this took place online without a webcam for either of us! Just take it as it is!). It was intensely humiliating that he called me ‘cute’ and ‘adorable’, too. But dammit if I didn’t have fun with the back-and-forth, as well!
It’s very strange. Usually I don’t like to give up my independence so quickly–really, it takes a long time for anyone to get under my skin. But I feel like he’s already there, so he’s already won in a sense… but I don’t think he knows that and I still need to feel him out to decide if I’ll ever tell him. Obviously, I don’t want to risk getting hurt no matter how much my intuition nudges me to believe it’s okay to let myself fall. But we’ll see what happens.
I’d like any feedback that could possibly be mustered from anyone… ? Just an idea to see how serious he is, at this point–? It makes me wonder when that Scorpio possessive streak is going to pop up… I see possessiveness as an insecurity, ’cause they don’t want to lose you, so… I’m sort of hoping for it to kick in, so I don’t have to worry about being left high and dry. x.x
Scorpios are possessive lovers 🙂
This message is for “NotAGeminiStereotype.” How are you? I too am a Gemini and I found your story intriguing and would love to chime in execpt I wasn’t always clear as to what you were trying to convey. The first thing that confused me was when you said you were “communicating through body language,” also that he was “watching” you “and sometimes smiling.” Then you said that there was no web cam. Did you mean those statements about body language and so forth in a figurative sense? I wasn’t sure how to interpret the contradiction?
I will say this though: from what I have read, Scorpios are supposed to be very calculated. That being said, his statements seem to be a bit condescending–saying that your reactions are “amusing” then calling you “cute” and “adorable.” There is a way to say all of these thing that makes a person feel warm and tingly. And then there is a way of saying these things that makes a person feel humiliated, which is what you felt. A person with a calculated nature usually chooses his/her word very carefully. If this applies to him, then we can conclude that he was TRYING to arrouse feelings of humiliation (NOT GOOD)! If he wasn’t being calculated, then my first assumption is that he is just naturally arrogant and insensitive (NOT GOOD EITHER)! And I agree with you that a controlling nature denotes insecurity. Emotionally abusive words and deeds are just one of the weapons commonly used by insecure people.
I hope it doesn’t seem as though I am blowing a small situation out of proportion by implying that he may possess abusive attribute. But I strongly believe that it is imperitive to be extremely cued into the subtleties of communitcation and behavior at the begining of a relationship. I say this because a persons emotional and intuitive response to verbal and behavioral sublties is more pure and therefore more strong when a relationship is new and we haven’t totally succumbed to the tendency to rationalize the acceptance of poor treatment to get along in a relationship.
In short, I think that he is either too sensitive to resist the temptation to engage in passive-aggressive behavior when “put off” by something you did (probably inadvertantly). Or you just don’t have the natural chemistry needed to put one another at ease when one or both of you are feeling sensitive. If this is true, be mindful: IT’S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD!!! It just means that there is someone better for you who won’t try to hurt and damage your self esteem when you mistakenly do something that offends them. You deserve better! 🙂
what is said is totally true. and i can see lots and lots girl that are heart broke with scorpio guy… also i did see a happy girl besides a scorpio guy…
this is a funny story because my guy is a scorpio. we both a full moon scorpio. and it’s weird how astrology said that we cannot live happily cause eventually we are living happily together.
the fact that i was the one chasing my guy did’nt make him totally off or run away from me. (well at least at first when he saw me coming through) but then as a scorpio my self i know when to put pressure and when to put affection to my man.
this is exactly what i want to say to all girls that have or like or in relation with scorpio guy, DO UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY LIKE AND KNOW THEM not from internet only, BUT THE TRUE THEM.
i admit it’s hard to understand him as we have same attitude… but then i was lucky i’m a scorpio and a very ‘i don care’ attitude toward him. he doesn’t call me, i will call him over and over untill he pick up. same do as message or ym.
just never give up with this guy… he’s a real keeper… ^_^
so I will wait then. The moment must come
My hell with a maladjusted, vindictive Scorpio. I am an Aquarius woman who has been with a Scorpio man for 20 years. He has put me through nearly everything imaginable. Now that my sizeable inheritance has been squandered away he says he doesn’t love me anymore but refused to leave. I have been supporting him for the last four years. I couldn’t take the stress so I left. The kids are with him to stay in school. Everyday is a struggle for me to keep moving forward. I am in a no win scenario. Maybe he doesn’t love me but is very connected to me. He wants to still talk to me and control our lives. When I stick up for myself he finds mean ways to punish me. When I don’t stick up for myself I lose my freedom 🙁 I fear this will never be over…
Annette – ouch! I guess sometimes drama isn’t worth it. I am tired myself of one even distant connection with a Scorp man. Yes, they love to control, manipulate (only if you let them… don’t let them!). I have been observing them for quite a while – unevolved ones like using their power, control and tease. Best would be not to give them power. Be strong. Ignore their twisted dark games, if needed. They have psychiatric problems (not all), and they know it. If you ppned the lid – you will be shocked! We have one life to live – and they won;t change – so why not to be with a safer partner?
hahaha me too gemini n man i love is scorp guy. so much phew wif him. not-a-gem-type..ur wif me almost the same ur story wf mine. haha..i jz let him think n jz control my inquisitve mind..(trying to probe the scorp is 99.9% wont work)..he will open up sooner..jz giv him time while we r happy2 doing our things outside (but sometime while we still in process ‘cut it’..gem shud peek n check his heart but dun too often. he dislike pple see their inside unless he makes u in d list of his-nearly-trustable-psons)…still wondering his actions show how much he loves me but he wont admit cz he dun trust me now cz we got off last 4 years bcz i leave him. tot we playin wif him. ..but here we r tangle up again.
mm..need more i say…to deal wif scorp u jz keep cool n he/she wil opened up sooner. cantt coerce. btw..haha..dun overdrawn wf horoscope thingy. jz act as human. do normally. to me horoscope is fact which indicates some points for us to act precisely ..but no one thing is precise. its a guidance but plz pull on ur mind n heart to u..n feel the real situation. if u feel nothing n no idea wut?wut? i have to say..JZ NO CONNECTION N U SHUD MOVE ON! sori. (me too kinda perplex to think thru about tis man i desire most. n sometimes took stupid steps to make thgs right but nothin’. TO GEMINI wf tis scorp creature u have to believe ur instinct/insight..jz logical thinking isnt workin. i understand him by feelin him..take notice his first action..he covers his feeling instantly so pls pay attention..to first thg he do..dat the only sign other than looking into his eyes.
I’v been with my boyfriend for about 1 year n a half now, and i’v cheated on him with about 5 different guys. :O I cnt really say tht its a “SCORPIO” thing, cuz sometimes I CHEAT when i feel as if im beginning to get REALLY attached to someone. Then I get scared tht I’ll let my guard down and I’ll get hurt. So thereof, I find another guy on the side ( a guy tht i quite frankly don giv a shit bout) n i hav a fling with him . i dnw y i do it! Maybe its cause my venus is in Libra or something. =/ hmm ..
to Scorpio girl :
haha i am the same way babe lol i have to admit i have done that a couple of times lol and i am a scoprio woman my self lol 🙂
MY QUESTION IS CAN A PISCES WOMAN USE SEX TO GET WHAT SHE WANTS FROM A SCORPIO MALE, i.e. a relationship?
So heres the deal. Recently met a Scorpio male and we get on like a house on fire. The basis of our relationship is sex. We are ”friends with benefits”. The sex is fantastic, as I’ve read Scorpio is the sign of sex, so this is not surprising! WE COME FROM DIFFERENT RELIGIOUS BACKGROUNDS. And this appears to be a big stumbling block for him. But somehow, without sounding flaky and weird, there seems to be this huge cosmic connection between us…THERE’S JUST SOMETHING BETWEEN US.
Am I being disillusional? The sex is intense, he only wants me, he doesn’t want to share me. I’m happy to give him control in that area and he seems very happy to be in control. He has these beautiful green eyes and its so intense and mesmirising.
I would be happy to change my religion to be with him, but don’t want to say that outright as I don’t want to give him the impression that I’ll be his doormat.
This Scorpio male is all new to me and I WANT, I WANT, I WANT!
I was friends with a scorpio guy for a while until I told him openly that I liked him as more than a friend. From then on, he was very aloof, insulting and rude and once it reached a peak and he yelled at me, that he hated me and he wished I would just go die. We cut all connection. I refused to acknowledge that he existed, which was hard seeing as we took a lot of the same classes.
Behind the scenes I kept tabs on him, friends told me that he had stopped playing games and was socialising a hell of a lot more (before I had broken the friendship the thing keeping him aloof was a computer game, all he wanted to do was play it). He apparently asked about me a lot, what I was up to, if I still hated him. Friends tried to make me talk to him because it was getting to him pretty badly, apoligised for him and tried to explain his actions to me. I just kept on saying ‘bugger him’ and walking away.
Then out of the blue he sends an email apoligising. I told him we couldn’t be friends because he was a rude, uncaring [expletive deleted]. He would stare, would skip classes that we were both in and when he went, looked absolutely miserable and hating of my guts. Friends kept on asking why I kept on hurting him so much, that I was an idiot for saying that I liked him in the first place and they were right in a sense. He started to develop morals and conviction, was at every party and had completely changed his character somehow.
Then a month later he said sorry again and again I refused to be friends with him or acknowledge that he existed. He just stood there yelling ‘why? you crazy bitch… etc’ got incredibly angry and didn’t turn up in class for the next week. When he finally did turn up he completely ignored me, friends didn’t even know what was going on with him. I started to think about what had happened and realised just how much of an [expletive deleted] I’d been as well.
A week later, I told him that I was sorry and that it had been my fault the entire time. We went out, partied and while we were dancing he pulled me aside and said ‘I’ve never wanted to settle an issue more in my life, I thought you’d never take me back’. A month later we were going out and have been ever since.
This is how I won but I never expected I would be in a relationship with the guy let alone forgive him. That is until he said that line… just a strange twist of fate but it’s true, if you are direct and open about what you’re feeling and what you want, somehow it works, even if it doesn’t straight away.
“How do you manipulate the master manipulator? How do you pull one over on “He who sleeps with his eyes open”?
Scorpios think they are so cool-LOL! My dad thinks he is the coolest, most sopisticated cat gracing the face of the earth- HILARIOUS!
OK I think I really need some advice here with my scorpio man of interest 🙁
I’m a cancerian and have known this scorpio guy for weeks through my best friend. We have met up twice but only with my friends with us, so I can’t exactly try something on with him…trouble is he has a boyfriend.
they’ve been together for a few months but the scorpio guy has freely admitted that he isn’t THAT interested in his boyfriend, he’s a rebound from his ex and ‘nothing more’.
We text all the time and send pics etc etc.
but i want 2 meet him JUST him and when we arrange it he’ll flake out on me. now i KNOW this is 2 do with his boyfriend and he doesn’t want to meet cos he knows stuff will end up happening but how do I convince him 2 meet me just me?!
i REALLY like him 🙁 and apparently, his boyfriend is cheating on him 2, so yes while I would feel bad if stuff happened the boyfriend isn’t one to bite back. glass houses and stones and all that
reply please???
wow that diddnt help my thoughts with wanting to stay with my scorpio woman. That right there is why i wonder whats the point of being so good. Ive had a gf cheat on me. Never been the same twords girls since. And let alone a scorpio girl cheating. Im a scorpio male and iven ever chearted but seeing this annoys me when i think my own sign is the greter ones the loyal ones the ones who seek love to cure that isolatteing emptness that feeling of being alone. So if this is the way of women and people in general then maybe i should join everyone and get whatever i want. I know im not an average looking male and i know i can get anyone i want so lets see how this turns. Though i dont believe it has any purpose to break hearts i dont think i could. maybe we’ll see. my annyance is great now. To cheat becuase you feel vulnerable. Is there any true people left.
Phenix?scorpio
Not everyone cheats when they feel vulnerable, there are more “cheaters” because they arnt in love. I think thats it, not which sign cheats the most or anything, I think its a persons state of mind, some people have stricter morals that they place on themselves… I dont think your GF will cheat on you, your giving her so much attention and are always there for her, Why the hell would she want to cheat? think about that 🙂
I have a question…can anyone help me out? I am in LOVE with a scorpio we met on vacation so we’ve only spent one night together but its been over a year now and we still email almost everyday. He tells me he loves me all the time but every time I ask to meet up he kinda dodges the question and just replies “yeah we need to see each other” but he wont set a date and time so I don’t know what to do. Is he playing me or is he just scared to get close? Also how do you know your sun, moon, mercury, and all that jazz?
I am one, I’m 24 years young xD and have only started to understand myself for the past 2 Years I know what I’m saying is off fopic but I just wanted to say this before I go to bed 🙂
more or less everything that i’ve been reading is true but only to a point, I say to all u scrp’s out there all you need to so oa understand and controll ur emotions and you will be fine. I would type more but wanna sleep real sleeeepyyyy.. Zzzzzzz
Kenzee go to astro.com and get a chart. Itll ask for your birth time and name and where you were born but thats about it. And the guy is prolly trying to stay away because events n his life or maybe he’s wondering if its a good idea,idk but my mind just clicked off.
I would love to know how to manipulate a scorpion male. Wow!! Im a cancer and for me this seems against the rules of engagement. You cant even make them see what they do wrong let alone make the realize even relationships. Whew!! My scorpio is mean mean mean, empotionally. Had two terrible nightmares last night from his harshness. Always for themselves, arent they?
Cancerchild
Manipulation is a Libra game, don’t try it, it doesn’t feel good, its wrong….I would just tell him flat out what I needed, make it clear. If you are good to him then he has to know that you expect the same. I don’t think I would want to lie to a Scorpio if I wanted to continue a friendship with them. A Libra isn’t intimidated, LOL we don’t get barked at very often, even from a Scorpio man, the thing is, if you know you are right, then they should feel bad, not you… Fair is fair..If he growls, growl back…Surprising how many people think a Libra can’t growl (ha ha) A Cancer woman like you has to stand her ground, he may have a tail but honey, who has the pinchers?
Its simple to get what you want from a Scorpio Man. I was born 11/1. I am currently single/Divorced. I have met many women in my time and yes i have come across a few that I should have married because they were the ones that gave me the RESPECT that a Scorpio man desire. I instead married the other women who played hard to get. Scorpio men love a challenge but nowadays its easier just to find a women who is straight to the point. If she calls me MASTER, I will give her the world. If she plays hard to get, she will get what she gives. A hard way to go.
I agree.
found out my husband has been cheating for the past few years.
admitted this i said i forgive him as long as he didnt want to keep doing it …
turns out he didnt reply because he’s seeing someone else NOW.
abondoned the kids. trying to put the blame on me.
BUT .. I know scorpios are sneaky. but ive proven time and time again, no scorpio can ever out sneak a virgo 😉
scorpio will never admit to cheating until you show him PROOF that you know.
(happened a few years back) and now
I’m hunting him down one last time, to show the world the jerk he really is, before I say – get outta my life – imma find me a man with bigger balls than I got! (I apparently wore the pants in the relationship … my man just wasnt man enough for me!)
Virgo
sneaky hmm more sneaky than a scorpio hmmm VIRGO
think your cool virgo cool as the waters of the oceans rivers lakes ponds and seas.
dont be surprised if you get stung by the magnetic ones
cancerchild
you should listen to the libra she makes very good sense
i think maybe … cancer child you have an all around crappy person … im with a scorpio man and as a cancer i think we counter balance eachother beautifully.. i too scorp. have had many lovers .. none that i’ve wanted to keep .. this one though .. he’s different .. but at the end of the day.. if he leaves ill get over it and on to another.. you see scorp as a cancer .. im suppose to be a super needy person and im COMPLETELY opposite.. ill give you the world on a silver platter but when i need to be alone i just need it respected … as for virgos reply… i was married to a virgo man .. had a daughter and for the sake of all humanity CANT FIGURE OUT WHY! needy clingon wanted everything from me but nothing in return and thought that snooping was ok … they’re never to blame and if you bring up the situation you have a problem with you’re automatically picking on them.. and its the exact opposite for me .. he doesnt see his daughter… funny he says its because of me . . im sorry god almighty wouldnt stop me from seeing my kids…you see by snooping .. he made me have an urge to cheat.. i didnt but man i wanted to … im not entirely sure how you think you out snuck him though if he didnt get back to you ..
this discussion is interesting about scorpio men…i am married to one 11/20, have been for eight years…he is a good guy but when i hear words like secretive (more so than sneaky) and selfish it definetely hits home…i would not say cheater although i did recently find out that he has been having very inappropriate relationships with women online and via text…mostly texting and chatting but still very inappropriate…he actually became very close with one woman and something happened…what…of course i do not know, she says sex, he says oral sex…as if one is better than the other…i chose to stay mostly because we have a family, a business, a friendship and i love him but i do feel very violated…he swears he this will never happen again…weird because during this period i kinda felt disconnected from him which is really weird because we have such a strong connection…interestingly, sex did not stop during all of this…i feel betrayed…he says that he feels extremley bad and hurt about what he did and feels guilty…i do not know him to be a cheater outside of this crazy 6-8 month period of our disconnection but now i feel like i am questioning what i do know…he says he loves me and only me and he shows it…its just hard sometimes to believe a person after they have betrayed you…plus i feel like his actions are someone i didnt even know…thats the secretive part…i have to admit he is making a hell of an effort to communicate and be more open but i did have to threaten him with ending the relationship…scorpios are hard as hell to figure out…oh and i can agree with many common traits that have been discussed like strong sexual drive-actually sex life is great they are very emotionally connected when having sex and i really think they use sex to communicate love…they are protective, supportive, loyal( not sure if this one can still stand based on on what jus happened)…bad side, vengeful, insecure and need ALOT attention…thats my experience with mine…
@ i DNT KNOW IF
cheating is based on sun sign women!. I believe we are
all capable of cheating!. When we are in love is diferent is
as if we are cheating ourself….therefore is not love!.
i have cheat on a scorp why ? many reasons why
but mostly cause he suffocated it the hell of me.
cause he is like the fucking CIA I know his
questionaire, is the same thing over and over!
he puts things on my mind ! and he does
suffocated me so Im always looking for a
quiter partner! then I regret doing it and keep
my mouth shut cause he threats to kill me
If He finds Im cheating!
I dnt want to do it Im not doing it to find
better sex or passion is just that I want
it to get away from him for good!
I need help! I am a Taurus women who unexpectidly ended up getting involved with a scorpio man about 2 mths ago whom I met through a mutual friend. I have never dated one before but I find myself falling for him despite out complete differences in personality. It was really nice in the beginning. We were seeing each other everyday and going out to dinner a lot and just hanging out. Things got intimate and then sometime after that I felt as though he started pulling away just as we started getting close. My emotions have been running high and it’s been making me crazy. I’m not the type to hide how I feel, I always have to let the person know how I’m feeling or how they are making me feel, so I did. He seems to hate these kinds of conversations about feelings as he is very kept to himself and it makes it near impossible to know or try to figure out what is going on inside him. He knows I want relationship but his problem is he does NOT trust women at all based on past bad relations with women. Everything I try to say to reassure him and make him realize I am different and am a very genuine trusting person all just seem to get brushed off with some sort of comment like “ya that’s what they all say”. I was lucky to hear him say one time that every time he gets close he finds himself having to pull away. We now don’t see each other that much but we still talk, he just seems to like to have his alone time and to go off and do his own thing. I have tried to tell him how much I care about him and all he said was “ur a nice girl I’m just having a hard time trusting women right now….understand me for now it’s ur choice”. I have no idea what to do…he has said numerous times that I pressure him but I don’t think I do I think maybe it’s because he knows what I want and that’s a relationship and he has said “ur there and I’m not”. So I have stopped messaging him as much as I used to as he seems to like texting over talking on the phone. I have started waiting for him to message me first before I message him thus to give him his space and hopefully make him miss me and want me more. I just feel clueless as to what I should do to get him to open up and feel like he can trust me and see that I am truly an honest, genuine person that truly cares about him. He says my problem is I have to know where I stand and yes this is true but who doesn’t??? I have been hurt one too many times to get involved with someone who doesn’t want what I want and I’m afraid that I may not get him to the point of wanting a relationship. I’m afraid of putting all my time and energy into trying to get to that point with him and never get there and have another broken heart. What should I do to win his heart and get him to open up and trust me and stop pulling away???….PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
I need help! I am a Taurus women who unexpectidly ended up getting involved with a scorpio man about 2 mths ago whom I met through a mutual friend. I have never dated one before but I find myself falling for him despite out complete differences in personality. It was really nice in the beginning. We were seeing each other everyday and going out to dinner a lot and just hanging out. Things got intimate and then sometime after that I felt as though he started pulling away just as we started getting close. My emotions have been running high and it’s been making me crazy. I’m not the type to hide how I feel, I always have to let the person know how I’m feeling or how they are making me feel, so I did. He seems to hate these kinds of conversations about feelings as he is very kept to himself and it makes it near impossible to know or try to figure out what is going on inside him. He knows I want relationship but his problem is he does NOT trust women at all based on past bad relations with women. Everything I try to say to reassure him and make him realize I am different and am a very genuine trusting person all just seem to get brushed off with some sort of comment like “ya that’s what they all say”. I was lucky to hear him say one time that every time he gets close he finds himself having to pull away. We now don’t see each other that much but we still talk, he just seems to like to have his alone time and to go off and do his own thing. I have tried to tell him how much I care about him and all he said was “ur a nice girl I’m just having a hard time trusting women right now….understand me for now it’s ur choice”. I have no idea what to do…he has said numerous times that I pressure him but I don’t think I do I think maybe it’s because he knows what I want and that’s a relationship and he has said “ur there and I’m not”. So I have stopped messaging him as much as I used to as he seems to like texting over talking on the phone. I have started waiting for him to message me first before I message him thus to give him his space and hopefully make him miss me and want me more. I just feel clueless as to what I should do to get him to open up and feel like he can trust me and see that I am truly an honest, genuine person that truly cares about him. He says my problem is I have to know where I stand and yes this is true but who doesn’t??? I have been hurt one too many times to get involved with someone who doesn’t want what I want and I’m afraid that I may not get him to the point of wanting a relationship. I’m afraid of putting all my time and energy into trying to get to that point with him and never get there and have another broken heart. What should I do to win his heart and get him to open up and trust me and stop pulling away???….PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
@jen
@tuarus girl
you have to be patient as well as a good friend above all else. its not sensible to expect people to just openly trust. give your men time to think and make their own desicions without feeling forced.
be their bff 🙂 then let the rest fall where it may 🙂
everyone moves at their own pace