Pisces man is not the one Libra woman is looking for

A Pisces man writes:

I have been trying very hard to get this Libra female, but she is always telling me I am not the one that she is looking for and is constantly reminding me to give up on her. I really don’t know what kind of a guy is she looking for.

I am not a typical pisces, I have a high ego, I take initiatives, being decisive, refined and I am neat at times. I feel that my personality is more to a fire horoscope.

I don’t mind changing myself to suit her and that is the pisces part of me. Therefore, I think I have a mix of both pisces and fire horoscope qualities.

I will really appreciate it if you could help me out on this and figure out what is on her mind and what kind of a guy she is searching for. Thanks in advance 🙂

You may well have some fire in your chart, if you’re decisive and you take initiative. Aries immediately follows Pisces, and many Pisces have Mercury and/or Venus in this sign. And if you’re refined and even “neat at times,” you may very well have your Moon in Libra, which would account for your emotional connection with this woman.

Aries sits on the opposite side of the zodiac from Libra. In general, fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sag) and air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) get along. It could be your fiery nature that makes your friendship possible.

However, as shape-shifty as you are, Pisces, you can’t meld yourself into the man of this Libra woman’s dreams. If she constantly reminds you to give up on her, she means it. After all, she’s a Libra — she’s doing her best to not hurt your feelings. If she were an Aries, she’d communicate her unavailability in a less-than-polite manner.

I suggest you cherish your friendship and search for love elsewhere. If you like air, find a nice Gemini girl.

About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.


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  2. Forget Pisces…. how about Libra women and scorpio men… oooohhhh tantalizing!

  3. Pisces Queen says:

    Sorry but Scorpios men are too jealous to deal with Libra women’s tendency to flirtation on occassion. Pisces are more level-headed with less of a quick temper…try again

  4. neutralobserver says:

    Pisces get along better with Scorpios. Scorpios can control and keep an eye on them using their intuition and psychic ability. Libras are too sneaky for Scorpios because they’re all smiles all the time and of all the signs, they’re truly Scorpio’s Achilles heel.

  5. Hey i’m a 24 yr old, typical Libra woman and I just met a 37 yr old. Pisces man seems as if he has everything goin for himself but he is already getting on my nerves…lol..and we haven’t even gone out on a date with each other..I dunno something about him seems so sneaky..my soul is just telling me not to play him too close. lol..I can detect bulls%!+ frm a mile away me being the Libra woman I am and I’m just not ready to put up with the b.s..at the age of 24 I’m a seperated wife that married a Taurus…so not a good match either..talk about womanizer he hurt me and me in return I hurt him back in the worst way and there is no repairing our marraige at all..He runs the streets too much for me. But for some reason I am falling for this Cancer man but again he kinda annoys me with his moody sensitive ways. It’s like man up already.

  6. CeCi… you’re 1st couple of lines are eery… sounds like you are talking about me and the Libran that I had interest in…

    in my case, we got together a handful of times outside her work place, but I don’t think she would’ve called it a tryst or date… on one occassion, she pouted, “we wouldn’t want anyone to think we were bf and gf”…

    As far as “getting on your nerves”, why is that? My experience with natives of your sign is that you have difficulty reconciling what you envision with what is… Pisces gets accused of being in LaLa Land… but, if I were to chart such things, statistically I would be able to disprove it, and most sun signs would find the corrollary to be true…

    I listened to all her excuses… a. age, b. different lifestyle, c. focused on work, d. I’m busy, e. NSA… are you sure that you’re not convincing yourself that it wouldn’t work with a Pisces?

    It’s like a stock car race… whether the hood is waxed, buffed, and polished has no bearing on the outcome… I drive all out… and if I crash, I’ll dust myself off later… but, you can’t win the race unless you get behind the wheel…

    …crazy, my Libran’s personal planets in traditional astrology had a final dispositor in Pisces …yet, her constructs based on collective opinion outweighed the relinquishment of her own will…

    a Libra should also be careful when they ask someone to “man up”… considering that you use rhetoric to achieve your objectives, and squirm with brusque, face-to-face tactics, inferring that some of us lack courage when it comes to our obligations, is ludicrous…

    with confidence, I can say that I was both an emotional crutch and provider for my Libran… too bad that she’ll only realize once the scales tip back to that uncomfortable side, and the weight becomes a burden to her…

  7. well- ive been with my Pisces for a lil over 2 years and girl let me tell you its is a very wonderful thing! my man is great in a lott of way and in someways were just not compatible- like for instance the fact that libras are sociable individuals, and we like to harmless flirt, we very organized and so on… these are the conflict that in my relationship that i face. i love on weekend to step out and look good but w/ my pisces he like to stay home and enjoy that comfort… it fustrates me to the point were we dont see eye to eye… it show or points out the bigger dffrences we have in lifestyle chocies.. im saying i love my man to the fullest potiental but sometimes he not enough for me.. i refuse to leave and vice versa… but i do believe that there is a better suited partner for a libra man/woman.. enjoy him while you can but dont settle for just his submission to your energies.. enjoy who you are first and if the both of you are truly ment to be… it will be! god speed on the realtionship cause god only know whats in store for us in all things in life -lol- including mates!

  8. @Chip..lol..i’m pretty sure I’m not the Libran woman your seeking. But the crazy thing is that my Pisces has been chasing me all this time and now that I’m finally ready to take this friendship to the next level he is giving me the run arounds. But nonetheless I’m going to keep trying because I do like him and I think he is the man that can and willing to give me what I want in love. lol..so like your typical Libra yes my mind has changed yet again and I’m willing to give him a chance. If only he could see that now.

  9. @chip everything that got on my nerves. Is exactly everything I love about him now. I believe he is what I’ve been looking for. And we still haven’t gone on that date!!!!! lol.

  10. do libra women have to ask out a pisces man first or do they ask libras out first?

  11. I’ve been in love with about 4 pisces men in my life. They have this mysterious thing about them I can’t resist. It never worked out though. Both too shy and indecisive. And I HATE how irrational pisceses can be. I just don’t get it! They always seemed to fall in love with the biggest bitches in town. No values, no taste. And I hate how their tendency to drink/do drugs brings out my hedonistic features too, in a bad way. It’s like getting caught in a weird inexplicable dream, being with a pisces men.

  12. LibraLady says:

    My guy was supposed to be born pisces, he was a preemie LOL instead he was born Aqua with a Pisces Venus….Very cool combonation. Im a Libra that was also premature and not born as the Scorpio I was concieved to be, and I have a Scorpio Venus, and Im Scorpio Rising. Anyways, I see so much Pisces in my guy, and you are right xLibra, he too used to date the biggest bitches in town. and now hes marrying me, he keeps reminding me how everyone else treated him, they do learn. It takes years but they do learn. (We are almost 40)

  13. luvalileebra says:

    I have been attracting this sign out of proportion since I was in the 8th grade and, well, let’s just say I’m Grown now LOL. Maybe it’s my Virgo rising. (Read somewhere that greatest initial attractions are when your rising sign opposes the other person’s sun sign so that would make a heck of a lot of sense — I swear, it’s like I walk around with a fishing net or something — every job, school, gym, whatever, here come the Pisces men.) It’s an incredible attraction but somehow, something just misses — e.g., in terms of wavelengths — in my relationships with men under this sun sign. My Aquaman has Pisces rising and, at times, he’s left and I’m right, he’s cold and I’m hot, up/down, etc. in the proverbial sense but it’s that good ole cool Air that we have in common that keeps us in a pretty consistant grove — might go off track every now and then, but we always find our way back in synch with relative ease and little drama. Not like that with Pisces suns — starts out like gangbusters then gets “weird” for lack of a better word like I’m with a stranger who is also very familiar in a spiritual sort of way. Kind of a melancholy ache and longing for something that could have been but you know it never will. (Make sense?)

    I will say this, I have always thought that I treated the Pisces men in my life (including family members, co-workers and platonic friends) a little too nice — meaning, they do seem to admire, appreciate, even worship, women who treat them like crap. Stories abound — see comments above. Suffice it to say, if they don’t have some horrible war story to tell about a romance, they seem to be sort of ambivalent. It takes a stronger, more self-centered (and maybe that’s not a bad thing) kind of woman than me to deal with a Pisces man on a romantic level. In the office, strange as it may sound, I found that the less deferential I was to my male Pisces bosses (two of whom are my mentors till this day, by the way), the more they respected me. In romance, that’s too much work — I’d rather be kind without reservation.

  14. So sad that this two zodiacs are not meant for each other. Although they could be friends but would have a hard time as partners.

  15. I gave up on a Libra woman, then I moved in 3 months later.

    Sincerly, #One Alpha Pisces known as Nailuj.

  16. I am Pisces male most of the things i read here so true pisces are lazy in actions while libras are quicker and need quick responses by pisces. To all those pisces male and libra female I tell you what just patch up again if you have 1 remaining chance and libra female should work hard to stick pisces male into reality. Reality is everything dreams are nothing until they changed into reality. Pisces feels insecure that’s why they can’t tell everything to everyone. Don’t think wrong. Be positive and stay happy. As much i know, hey libras If you stick your pisces male with reality, Jokes & happy atmosphere. You are the winner OF ALL TIME. Libras females like to go outside all the time and want to friendship with everyone but please be sure not to talk with males as a close friend it will hurt pisces alot inside and they may go in dreams again which cause problem and change in behavior which you may be not like it. Most romantic relationship are of these twos. If you are libra female and like pisces alot just try this
    (( WHAT DO YOU SAY ?))

  17. I’m a pisces man in love with a Libra woman…we only saw eachother for about six weeks…my feeling developed fast..not so much for her (or so she said)…she broke it off be saying she didn’t feel the same and didn’t think she would…(broke my heart) we met and it was like instant attraction…she was married to a man who passed away the day after Christmas in 2000..I’m wondering since its the holiday season if this maybe the problem….will she try to pick it up again?…it all seemed so perfect and then “BAM”..it’s over…could I get some insite on this PLEASE!…should I just give up on her?….Don’t know what to do at this point!…

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