Listen to this articleThe two final signs of the zodiac, both Aquarius and Pisces are not really bound to earthly matters. Aquarius theorizes about the laws of the cosmos; Pisces fantasizes about worlds unborn. Aquarius can perceive future trends and conceive technologies that may not be embraced for years. Pisces creates fictions that cannot physically exist.
Pisces doesn’t even care about the boundaries of science, the quest to understand outer space. For Pisces, inner space is what counts. For Aquarius, laws are made to be broken; for Pisces, laws themselves are illusory lines drawn in the sand to separate what is from what most people can’t imagine.
Interpersonally, these signs can’t be more different. Aquarius detaches, while Pisces merges. The latter romances and deifies the lover, while the former finds intimacy too sticky. Think Neo from The Matrix, who can bend the laws of physics and overcome the boundaries between humans and AI, versus Agent Smith, who finds the smell of humans revolting.
Mysticism versus Astrology
Pisces will meditate to transcend the limitations of ego consciousness, and feel love for all sentient beings. Aquarius will study the heavenly bodies to understand the meaning behind events and personalities, and although she may achieve an “ah hah!” moment, she doesn’t quite feel the interconnectedness of all things (As Above, So Below), as much as comprehend it. Both ways are important, but these two signs don’t see eye to eye.
Comment below: Are you one half of a successful Aquarius-Pisces coupling?
LOL!! Comparing Aquarius to Agent Smith who finds humans revolting is too funny. No love for Aquarius around here huh?
(No, I don’t have any Aquarius anywhere in my chart.)
I wonder how an interpersonal Aquarius laden person (say Sun/Moon AND mercury combo) would cope if they end up in a relationship that according to their composite charts sets off passion and fireworks and romantic dreaminess? Do they panic and flee or just keep their feelings to themselves? Or does that relationship bring them out of their interpersonal nature?
I personally am a very emotional person (sun in Cancer) so I find air signs very intriguing. I can’t fathom not acknowledging one’s emotions.
If a composite chart has some nice Venus-Mars or Venus-Neptune combination, that’s the nature of the relationship. Don’t relationships have lives of their own? The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
How would an Aquarian respond to such a relationship? Anybody want to comment?
Has your sister ever been what she would term “head over heels” in love? Did she feel she had to run away from those feelings or did she have a long lasting relationship when she felt that way?
It appears that Aquarians seems more comfortable keeping a distance. So I would assume a full Aquarian with no water in their charts would “flee the scene”.
I tend to acknowledge my feelings when making a decision. (Which can create it’s own set of problems and I have learned to become more objective. Still, I can’t take my emotions totally out of an equation.)
Too funny!
“Think Neo from The Matrix, who can bend the laws of physics and overcome the boundaries between humans and AI, versus Agent Smith, who finds the smell of humans revolting.”
Us aquarians love humans we are the humanitarians of the zodiac!:)
My first love was a pisces it was a very loving PASSIONATE relationship. Sex was COSMIC. He’s the only lover I’ve spent 10 hours in bed with. We started off as friends than became close friends and then excusive boyfriend/girlfriend hardly spending time apart. We were famous everyone knew us as a couple like a unit. The differences between us two eventualy tore us apart and things got ugly. We broke up got back together. He cheated and I cut him off cold turkey hardest thing to do. Our relationship lasted along time considering we were really young.
Hes wateryness didnt turn me off it was probaly my uranus energy that pushed him away.:(
I do have water in my chart scorpio moon, scorpio jupitor
*jupiter*
Thanks for correcting your spelling 😉
One of the best famous couples is a Pisces-Aquarius match: Joanna Woodward (2/27/1930) and Paul Newman (1/26/1025).
Of course, their charts are a good example of seriously wonderful aspects. Many astrologers use them as an example for synastry analysis. Sun conj moon going both ways. Almost every personal planet between them is an alternating Pisces and Aquarius blend. Also, Paul’s venus is in Cappy, which is Joanne’s rising sign. He’s quoted as saying that he was instantly taken with Joanne (she warmed up to him later). I don’t know Paul’s rising sign, but I imagine it makes a major compatible aspect with something in Joanne’s chart. They’ve been happily married for almost 50 years next year.
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“Think Neo from The Matrix, who can bend the laws of physics and overcome the boundaries between humans and AI, versus Agent Smith, who finds the smell of humans revolting.”great metafore!!!!coming across this blog has been a break true in my study of this enigmatic sign and my part this upcoming age of acuarius.
I am a piscis with moon in aries ,romantic,sensitive, and with all the traits of a piscis woman i decided to fal in love with an acuarius man with moon in capricorn, ouchh!!! tough combination.Aquarius beeng a very mental,analitic,constant, honest, and migth y say cold sign,and piscis been more intuitive and emotional,evasive and unstable has made this the moast dificult and involving in all levels, relationship i have ever encounterd myself in. also mentaly stimulating and moast of all cosmic!!!think of it as beeng Alice in wonderland(by Lewis Caroll another water bearer pouring
the waters of knowlage on mankind)he moved me mentaly in away no one else had.
Beeng a piscis it has always been easy to adapt ,I have tried with all my aries might and tough head, to adapt to him , we have to much in comun(we belive we have known each other in past lifes, a soon to prove theory)and i have come to understand him to well,and that much intimacy skares him away.he has broken up with me,he says he will be back ,i know he loves his freedom and i belive he also loves me(aquarius apreciate honesty and i have seen they practice it to)but then again aquarius loves al humanity).
am i one half of a successful Aquarius-Pisces coupling? i am uncertain as to how this will end up but hoping for the best with all my heart .
any word of advise to this piscis in distres?
I am an aquarian and my boyfriend pisces. we are different but yet so alike its mind blowing – its like we re one – whenever i think of him hes there – either he calls or messages me – the same with me – its something incredible- there is something innately in us that transcends oneness. our souls are one and we feel that way.
Xari
This is very interesting, indeed. =]
lol, i really must object your unfair analogies with my sign! agent smith? heaven above! (or everywhere) lol, this is pretty cool, i’m sure: but what of those aquarians who lie with pices and aquarians alike? what if i think reality is bendable, and has only to do with what one will and wont believe, which is to see? or maybe i simply confuse and that’s okay, too. in any case, is what you say the way it is, or opposite (or is anything the way it is? or is it or it is what?) for the age of pices is supposedly before that of aquarius, and so what would make since to come first? or are they, in actuality, merged after all? if pisces merges so, why not? an f aquarius detaches, why not from limitations, or doubt, or something less thouchable, and merge after all? or perhaps i will read this over and judge that this is hardly followable. but then again, i might not.
Pisces is hardly followable. Maybe you’ve got some in you 😉
lol, the chiches! but they are always based on truth, i think. lol, i am a lady of an aquarian sun, libra moon, rising virgo? them apples? they are… they are. lol, but what was i going to even say? this was it; i was not born emotionally detached, i had to learn to be that way, and i clung to it. raised by a leo, i was called a vrybaby, a punk, and plenty of thigs that you simply do not call a child. i mean, other kids would call me crybaby, but a mother? well, i refused to cry, it tok me years. i was the most emotional, sensitive person imaginable. if i ever said an unking word, it would stick with me like hot super glue; i still remember things i did as a very, very small child, that, objectively, are things that are no big deal, and tey are also few, such as three. simple things like, when someone would ask for ‘a chip’ and i would give one; early selfishness, i suppose. it makes me feel horrible. stupid things.
but you see, i was a very sensitive person, who would cry over others’ misfortunes, just as well as my own. i am still more concerned with others’ well-being than my own. but perhaps i lacked the streinght to *feel* anymore when i was abused for it for so long? surely, i can be blamed, but i will put it to my youth.
Perhaps you have a strong aspect to Neptune.
I am an Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, with Venus in Pisces. As an aquarius I can say that our intellectual framework is very important to us in that we spend our whole lives consciously working on it, and even look to it for guidance in matters of the heart. We don’t so much “adapt” to people and situations like the watery pisces, but calibrate ourselves to them (sometimes awkwardly at first) using our collection of experiences and built-up stores of knowledge, which gives us the capacity to surprise you. By the way, we don’t feel affection for people so much as engineer it’s outward signs in order to lubricate that social exchange. Affection is still a very real thing for us, but it’s more of a figurative bond than a tangible inner warmth that most people seem to experience. At least for me. Sorry, just being honest =) At times I think my lover is the only one who truly understands me! Yes, sex with Pisces can make one forget about the passage of time.
I’m a pisces with the moon in gemini and venus in pisces. I just came out of a relationship with an aquarius sun, aquarius moon, venus in capricorn.
Our relationship was wonderful, we were always remarking to eachother about how we were on the same page, and he told me on many occasions that he felt I was the only person that actually understood him and where he was coming from. I felt he understood me pretty well too, or at least really tried. He was always very patient and understanding. We also had great conversations, as he was extremely intelligent and out there, and I was open to possibility and always curious about what he had to say. He was extremely affectionate and quite open to me about his feelings and such, contrary to so many things I’ve heard about aquarians. Our relationship just ended because I found out he cheated on me, and the only thing I ever asked of him was to not do that. It wasn’t the cheating so much as it was he knew I really hated that and he couldn’t respect what I cared about enough to not do it. I fear I’ll never find somebody I adored as much as him.
Are you the same Pisces with the Leo rising who is the expert on f’ing over Scorpios?
nope, my rising is cancer and I’ve never been with a scorpio
OK, well here’s what one blogger had to say about Aquarius for what it’s worth . . . very cute actually, and I can relate, not being fond of Aquarians myself 😉 They are rather cool customers if you ask me, and too easily annoyed.
“Aquarius – The Water-Bearer”
“Intractable, contrary, perverse, unpredictable, unemotional, detached. If you tell a Aquarius the sky is blue, he will swear it’s yellow and try to back it up with a bunch of intellectual mumbo-jumbo.
Over-Bearers like to imagine they are smarter than they really are when in fact, they are just weird. They have some of the strangest habits and you never know what to expect from them. They are first-class know-it-all’s and if they happen to have the facts mixed up (like they always do) they will argue how right they are and you’ll agree just to get them to shut up.
They love the past and the thought of the future and tend to miss out on things because they are thinking and it’s usually about nothing. Famous for making empty promises, do not take the word of an Aquarius if you don’t have to. They don’t do it purposely. They just have so much going on in their minds, that they forget.
They are also perverts and quite deviant and some say it’s because of how smart they are but that’s crap. They are just perverted. Don’t expect any type of emotion or shows of affection from them because you won’t get it. You’d be better off fishing with a fork.
When you know one, expect them to tell you lots of useless information and if you allow it, they will drone on. If you end up feeling like you could take that fishing fork and putting it in your eye, you’re not alone.
If you want to really aggravate an Aquarius or make them go away, cry buckets or back up your statements with undeniable, proved facts. They aren’t built to handle that.”
I hope this humours you out of your current state of sadness. There’s plenty more fish in the sea . . .
BTW, the gifted blogger who wrote this enlightening essay happens to be a Pisces.
haha, that seemed a bit harsh, but I did actually agree with some of that. I constantly experienced the empty promises thing first hand. Thanks for tryin to cheer me up, it worked for the time being
Don’t thank me, thank Sailor Neptune! She’s got a good one for every sign in the grand zodiac and she doesn’t spare any punches at Pisces either (even though she’s a native). Boy there’s some real talent on these sites, like who needs to pay a therapist when you can just come on here for a dose of whatever-it-is-you-need-to-get-over-it 😉
am a Piscean having a relationship with an Aquarian man, and I have to laugh my tummy out for the sarcastic definition towards Aquarian there; I experienced most of it.
I agreed too with the extremes you can get from an Aquarian. When he’s ‘nice’ you feel like he’s the best guy for you and the relationship is so perfect and great. But when he’s in the ‘not-nice’ mood, you feel like you’re trapped with the worst man in the world and wondering why you stay with this man.
This is especially hard for me, a Piscean who is sensitive and value this relationship so much. I feel being taken for granted because most of the time it is me who initiated the meeting and others (I don’t ask too much I think; only a once a week meeting and if the situation permits, conversation over messenger/phone/SMS at night after office hour). I think I give him enough freedom, and I don’t think it’s too much to ask a special favor from him once in a very while — which turned out to be a disappointment, oh yeah…
I still love him and I think he still has the good characters for this relationship. But I really a need an insight on how can I, a Piscean, work out this relationship with this typical Aquarian man? Appreciate any help.
I am a Pisces Woman, and I dont know what it is about Aquarious Men that attracts me everytime. Tho it really bothers me how they are easily annoyed, and want to be to themselves. Aquarian make the best Bed buddies I have ever encounterd. Only encountering 2 in my 26 yr old life, I find myself always remembering those great times I shared with them. If I could merge Aqaurious Sex with a Taurus I would be in love! lol!
I am a pisces woman in a relationship with an aquarius guy and I’m grappling with his detachment and my need for affection. (we are 3/7/79 3:41pm and 2/7/79 if that makes a difference?). While he is good at “showing” affection, after a year it drives me up the wall that he cannot say he loves me. Furthermore, anytime I try to vocalize (and unfortunately, start to cry) my issues and ask for any words of encouragement/feedback from him he LITERALLY IS SPEECHLESS. I get NOTHING. He cares, and is patient enough and will sit with me until I come up with a solution (once I told him he should ask me to not give up on him yet, and he complied – and to my amazement, cried a bit) but I wonder how long this can go on. I love him, we have fun, the sex is great, and we are otherwise compatible…we just can’t talk serious stuff. It may help us that I’m a scientist (and as such, don’t quite understand why I want to believe in astrology!), but I need my emotional connection too. Any insight? Thanks
I’m an aquarius girl, and I’m currently dating a pisces, i agree with people who say aquarians dont fall inlove “head over heels”.but in my case i dont know how its different. i’ve loved my this person for 7 whole years and in those years he didnt seem to notice me which, broke my heart eventually and made me believe that i am worth nothing and ugly.but last year we met and he fell inlove with me. i never thought that after 7 years of delusion and heart break i’d be willingly happy to love him again, we are different becouse i love freedom and he is really childish.
and even though he is naggy and so damn sensitive at any thing i say and do, always digging for inner meanings and complaints, i still am attracted to him, and love him madly, but i am afraid that one day i will get fed up of the sensless fighting over little things such as “why did u get out of the house without telling me” or “you dont love me as much as i do”.
its been almost a year we are together and he wants me to be with him forever, as a typical pisces always looking for an ever lasting soul-mate. but i’m scared that my aquarius attitude soon will ask for the exit and escape from this web of complex, intence and passionate, relationship.
the happiest day was when he told me he loved me, even though i loved him since i was 11, and he only loved me this year I’m OVERWHELMED by this relationship, he was my first true love and i wouldnt give him up for anything.
any advice for a detached intellectual, who loves an obsessed romantic pisces?
*laughs
i dont know if i like the neo/agent smith anology, but i have so say…
well i’m a pisces with a moon in gemini. and i love an aquarius. it was effortless in the beginning because we were basically curious of each other. so everything was pretty much innocent. i blew him away with my otherwordly sensibilty and he made me felt safe and understood. a very humorous man indeed…and as careful as i was and i really thought i was the only one feeling the love till out of the blue he told me ‘i love you’ and this apparently must be a big deal because from what im finding out it isnt easy for an aquarius to admit such things? a lot has happened since then, but he dissapeared to only reappear to proclaim leaving me was a big mistake and he felt like he coulndt continie without me.
i love dearly, but i dont know what to think of him time to time. he can be detached and withdrawn and then intimately open up to me about his inner most secrets, his hot then cold attitude would drive me mad, but then i find myself wanting him badly…ugh im very emotional.
he is a cusp i believe a aquarius/pisces
…im not sure how our relationship would unfold but i feel he could change his mind out of the blue and i wont even know what hes up to.
>My first love was a pisces it was a very loving PASSIONATE relationship. Sex was COSMIC. He’s the only lover I’ve spent 10 hours in bed with.
I think my ONLY love was a pisces. And I’ll never do it again.
I met her my second week of college and by saophomore year we were, as you said, a famous “unit” as a couple. The emotions were the most intense feelings I’d ever known, the sex was mindblowing and theraputic… We would sometimes stare into each other’s eyes, the sparks of our mingling auras and bursting hearts bringing us to actual tears. We hardly needed words.
And that’s why it f*king sucked! Somewhere in the third year I started to realize that I was her entire life and that was way too much responsibility. I started being drawn more to going out, mingling and pushing her to have her own life. She always wanted to stay in, burn one down and have a night of sex and conversation.
We were drawn in different directions. I don’t need to tell you how it all ended, but I lost a best friend in the process too.
I won’t say it’s impossible, my fellow aquas. But unless you two are EXCEPTIONALLY well matched, in ways that go beyond mere love, I’d be incredibly careful.
Oh yeah, and for the record, I really do find the smell of humans revolting.
Just the smell tho, all the other stuff about them is so adorable! With the little cars and the little iPods and the status and the vegans. Awwww
I am an Aquarian girl married to a Pisces guy. I have to say that I always hear that I am not affectionate. I tell him I love him all the time but I am definately not touchy feely. I am very analytical and I thought the agent smith comment was hilarious.
I sadly must say that although I have been in my relationship for 4 years and married for 2 is has been a very volatile relationship. We either get a long great or can fight over the stupidest things.
Also Pices lie for no reason whatsoever and that does not make sense to me. they never say what they mean. Honesty and trust don’t seem to be high on their list. Of course this might be just my man.
I am aquarius born feb 4 69 an he is pisces born march 8 61, All I can say is that I feel calm, peaceful serenity from him. I see awareness and clarity, when I see him, meaning it comes from him. I also see an amazing ability to be very honest and truthful, introspective and very intuitive! He sees in me, the rule breaker, high energy, a doer, kind, giving and generous, maybe more. Astrology has something to do with whether or not a relationship is going to work, but so does e_perience and culture. For e_ample, as an aquarius, I am not suppose to like to be kept close, but I am from a culture where that is part of the relationship…to nurture with warmth and security and more. I am a latin woman, and although I am not subservient like my mom, I see the importance in taking care of my man, in the same way many woman, older woman of my culture do. I also see in my partner, this trait (wanting me by him all the time and doing things with me all the time) in the older men of my culture. I find it very cool! The other thing is I am suppose to grow and obtain all kinds of goals and objectives with stability. My pisces man offers me a world of stability. I am independent and strong willed. My pisces man is strong enough to say no, which is what I need! I have never ever been romanced like this ever! or have ever had the words taken out of my mouth, ever! So I welcome the intuitive read that my partner has on me. He knows me better than I know myself and knows what it is I need, even when i don’t. He pulls me out of focused and concentrated work binges…he is able to do this. The energy I feel, even when I don’t touch him is amazing!! The intimacy and passion is amazing!!! In my thirteen years of marriage to another aquarius there was always detachment and never ever any real truth. I am creative on multiple levels, so is my pisces man. I admire him for his patience and tenacity and way with children and animals. I enjoy what he enjoys, naturally. We don’t have to talk to fill in air space….we flow naturally together. There is no ego, on my part or his. I would like to think of myself as a spiritual Aquarian. I recognize that I can be more compassionate, where as before I wasn’t. I was brute, and blunt without giving a crap about everyone elses feelings. I am not like this anymore. I am accepting, non judgemental and non critical. Much of my spiritual journey has alot to do with the connection I have with my partner. It is beautiful and amazing! so…you see astrology is good for somethings, yes….but where you are at in life and what you want and where you have been will say alot about whether or not your relationship is going to flourish or die. I don’t think this one is going to die-as long as the respect is always there, we don’t take each other for granted,live life in an appreciative manner and take care of each others true being-it will be worth the journey.
Ivette, I have to say that I am blown away by your artfully written thoughts. I am an aquarius woman married to a pisces man also, and your description is phenomenal, so true that it is scary. I have to say I have been reading up on pisces/aquiarius relationships because I have been struggling with my own rebellious nature for some time. Some days I feel trapped, some days I feel vulnerable, other days I get annoyed. I have been wondering if I should give it all up and find something easier. Your post has taken my breath and heart away, and has rekindled hope in me that it will work out. I must realize that getting to the aquarian heart is a difficult task, and should not be given up for fickle fantasies, no matter how easy that is for us water bearers. I just want to say thanks for helping me find balance and beauty in the spiritual bond we have, even though it is not easy. It is funny how you said that he is strong enough to say no, and that is something we need as strong-willed aquarius women, stability, insight, guidance, heart and depth. Pisces, although a rollercoaster ride of self-loathing, depression and confusion, is sometimes just what the doctor ordered. p.s we both have our venus in aries. yet our moon signs and rising signs clash aries/pisces, and libra/scorpio….
Here’s one for you – I am Sun in Pi, Leo moon, venus in Pi with an Ascendent in Cap. Go figure, and ambitious Pisces woman… my man is 9 days older than me – Aqu Sun, moon in Aq, Venus in Pi and Asc in Libra… The perfection comes from the way we perfectly compliment one another’s inner tendencies… he’s a brainiac, and although I am smart and ambitious I don’t have the overwhelming emotional dramatics… He’s in love with my whackyness, my off-beat sense of humor, and believe it or not he has a lot of respect for my inner strength… I’m not a wishy-washy Pisces… The thing I love about my Aq man is how emotionally intelligent he is, which stems from his insatiable need for knowledge… yes… he’s a brainiac… I struggle to keep up with him mentally, but sometimes I can totally baffle him with one of my other-world philosohies or points of view… He just shakes his head and says “WHAT? Where did you come up with THAT?” and then he smiles amusingly and kisses my forehead – and tells me he adores me… It’s my weirdness that brings out his protective, nurturing side… he’s a father and now that they’re growing up he’s turning that need to nurture a fragile creature on me… AND I LOVE IT!!!! If I REALLY want to find out how he feels, I get him drunk… he’s open up happily to analyze the world of our relationship… we do it covertly though… by talking about our “friend’s relationships”… when secretly we BOTH know it always relates back to us… Mysterious, and covert… that’s what this relationship seems to be all about… and we are phenominal in bed… VERY intense… I love the fact that he travels ALOT for work… while he’s away I go off and do my own thing with my friends, or with my projects… when he returns it’s like a honeymoon all over again… A key moment in our relationship was when he was sick and throwing up. I simply put my hand on his back to let him know I was there. It blew him away. When he finished he wanted to know why I came in there, and I simply said that I didn’t want him to be alone, and I wanted to make sure he was okay… suddenly, he’s letting me in – closer than ever before… With the Aqua man… the key is to give him the most pleasant and memorable times when he’s with you… when he moves away you will still be there. They fall in love in absence… and when they come back you need to be the same sweet, accepting Pisces that he’s been fantasizing about while gone. To do this you must be a strong, mature Pisces… with a life of your own… remain aloof and mysterious and distant yourself… but very happy to see him when he’s with you… and he will NOT be able to resist you…
I love my boyfriend!!! I fell in love with him when i was 10,and im 23 now!!!He was my first love!:) Now he’s my EVERYTHING!!! i am Pisces(rising sign Leo,venus Aries,moon Libra),and he is an Aquarius(rising sign Virgo,venus Pisces,Moon Cancer)! Together since 2005,and still cant get enough of each other!:D When he’s not around i feel like theres not enough air,but then again,he’s always around and sometimes i think he wouldnt even let me go to the bathroom alone!:D thats weird cuz aquarians usually need freedom,more than anyone,but in this case…I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!:D and we are so much like each other,its scarry!:D even physically!i mean,he’s tall,big,masculine and strong,and im the total opposite,but…people still say we look like we’re related!:D i guess this is the explanation:”A Water Sign blending with an Air sign,Pisces and Aquarius become more like each other over time.Just as Water evaporates into Air,which then turns to rain,the two of you have an opportunity to experience profound transformation.” 🙂 thats too sweet!:) I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!! 😀 ha ha,i lost my mind…its officially his,just like the rest of me!:D 😀 😀
I (a pisces woman) have been dating an aquarian man for a few months now. So far our relationship is amazing. He’s the most honest, thoughtful, and yes, even romantic partner I’ve ever been with in my life. I keep reading how astrologically mismatched these two signs are but, really, I think I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t care. I’ve never fealt this way about anybody before and I’m 38 years old. Oh and my ex husband was a pisces (whose sign is *supposed* to be a good match for me) and we had a horrible relationship.
I am a Pisces woman with Leo moon and Leo rising (8th house Pisces, moon in first house) who was in love with an 8th house Aquarian male with Cancer rising and Sag moon for FIVE LONG HARD YEARS!
I was attracted to him in every conceivable way but felt that I was NEVER reaching him on that juicy plane that Pisces craves, the intersection of sexual-intellectual-emotional needs and fantasy.
We broke up and it broke my heart. After five years he just didn’t know and he said we had “core differences” that were incompatible. Like a true Pisces, I did not believe that he could let something as huge and cosmic as our love and devotion for each other prevent us from reaching relational bliss and everlastingness. But intellectually he saw too much amiss, too many mismatches, too many ways in which I was not satisfied and he had to “change” himself (in his opinion).
Oh well. I’ll never forget him. He’s been my biggest love to date, and I’ve been around for nearly four decades.
hey jeffrey, i have a question:
i am an aquarius with a moon in taurus and venus in capricorn. my boyfriend is a pisces with a moon in leo and venus in aquarius. would his moon in leo possibly make him a more loyal pisces? because from what i’ve read about pisces, they have a tendancy to cheat sometimes and expand on the truth. he seems loyal, though, but i would like to hear your feedback. we’ve been dating for about 2 months now and it’s been wonderful so far.
thank you!
@laura — pisces? cheat?
I suppose his Moon in Leo would be happy being faithful as long as you constantly make him feel special.
i just added that because i had read on some of the other posts that pisces “are prone to cheating”, but i don’t know how true that is. thanks for the tip!
I’m an aquarius woman that’s been in a relationship with a pisces man for over a year. We were friends for about 4 years before we started going out. I’m not going to lie and say that evrything was peachy keen our whole relationship but we worked through them. It’s all about compromise and honesty. We don’t always like to do the same things so wek have our nights when we do what we want seperately. But we also have a lot in common and we enjoy a lot of the same things and we make it a point to do those things together. We just moved in together and nothings changed. We still give eachother our space but we also make sure that we do come together to enjoy the things we like to do as a couple. Pisces and Aquarius may not be the ideal match but if your willing to work at it, I think that any relationship can work.
dear jeffrey,
hey, it’s aquarius sun, taurus moon, and capricorn venus involved with pisces sun, leo moon, and aquarius venus again. i’ve run into a predicament and need some advice. here we go…
on tuesday, my pisces sent me a text saying he “needed space”. i sent him a text back saying “ok, well if you need to talk to me about anything, let me know”. of course i was upset, so one of my friends came over and consoled me.
the next day, i told him i needed to talk to him after class (we’re both in a math class in college together – also how i met him haha). i told him that i really like him and that i understand he has a lot to juggle right now (school, work, his son, money, etc.), but i have been played before and don’t want to be played again. he said if i think he’s playing me, i have him pegged as the wrong type of guy, to which i responded i don’t think he’s playing me, i’m just scared it will happen again. he said he really likes me and enjoys spending time with me, he just has a lot to do. he told me that tuesday night he was thinking of calling me to hang out but he ended up “spending the night alone watching the election results”. he then kissed me and left to go home, telling me to call him later (which he usually tells me after class).
after i got back home from the rest of my classes, i went to his myspace page to leave him a comment about something funny that someone said in my history class. i saw a comment left by another girl say “hey! last night was fun! gobama!”. of course, i was upset that he randomly lied to me about this earlier.
he called me later, and i asked him when he said he needed space if he needed space to think about things or space to date other people. he said he needed space to think about his shit. then i told him what i saw and that i was hurt that he lied. he said that the girl was his neighbor and “think of it what you will”. i gave myself some cool down time, and then called to apologize, but he didn’t answer so i left a message. he got back to me later with a text that said “it feels so late” (referring to the time) and we had a brief text conversation, so i assumed he got the voicemail and that was his way of saying i forgive you (?). i wanted to ask if he got the voicemail, but didn’t want to ruin the moment.
then this morning, i woke up early and had enough time to make myself a lunch before class, so i made him one, too. he seemed to appreciate it, and we hung out for a bit after class. when we both decided to part ways, he hugged me (no kiss) and said to call him later (like usual). when i got home, i saw that his myspace status update was “*name* is waiting for a wednesday” and his mood said curious. moments later, it just said “*name* is .” and his mood was still curious. i then went onto his page and saw that he removed every girl from his top friends except for his cousin (the girls on there besides his cousin were me, the girl who is his neighbor, and another random girl). i thought that was strange.
since he told me to call him later, i called him at around 11 (he had work at 6), to which he answered and said “hey laura, sorry my phone’s pretty much dead, i will call you later”. but i had a sinking feeling in my gut he wasn’t going to call later. he still hasn’t. unless later meant not today.
what does all of this mean? do you think he really needs space? and i’m wondering what the wednesday thing means, as well.
feedback from whoever else reads this is appreciated as well =]
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LAURA…. you hurd right, I’m an Aquarius girl with a Pices man, we been to gether for 4 months, and he has done all the above, we been perfect as can be but my instincts told me something was wrong an boi was i right, we’re fallin apart coz he can’t reallise how he broke something that was fantasitc, an for that reason i don’t trust him an always go back to what he did, i chec his phone then question him. He hates that an jus either dissmises me or bends the truth or jus blatently lies wen i see the truth in my mind and infront ov me. He says everytime i go through this wit him it pushes him away, which makes me more insecure like he needs other girls to make him feel like the calm person he is, wen i know I’m all he will need, jus wish he would be honest an loyal, he shows me alot of affection an says he loves me but I think he is lieing to himself. and dragging me through emotionall stress at the same time…… But I love him an want him to jus not spoil what can be such a bright future for us an the children we want in the future. Am I stupid for loving someone who probably wont see me for me
you’re not stupid, not at all. he just did the same thing that my man is doing to me. he does care about you, he really does. it feels as if they care about other girls, but us the most. he just can’t let go of/doesn’t want to let go of the other girls, even though they don’t mean as much to him. he probably doesn’t want to hurt them. i don’t know, that’s probably just me trying to think optimistically.
My pisces tried to meet me for 9 months until i decided to meet him. When we met he was even more agressive to kick it with me. I was so flattered of the attention, not because i dont get from many guys but there was something intriguing about this one. I disappeared from him for two months. i decided to meet him again and we started dating soon after. There is such chemistry that we had. (I’ve read that they have that power to get any girl fall for them, and i actually saw that with him that a lot of girls would still call and display their feelings though text, etc.) I am so detached, and we were dating but i personally didn’t think anything of it until he decided i was his “girlfriend”. as much as i tried fighting it, he just had this control over me. Me!? who does that to me? no one!!
I started to get used to the idea that i was his “girlfiend” and so i became his girlfriend. lol
Things were going great and all until he decides to flirt around, etc. it pissed me off because i really thought we were on the same level as to not betray each other, to keep the honesty alive, etc.
I have my ways of finding things out and maybe that’s my curse. I am too smart for my own good when it comes to the “love life”. I decided break things off and this time he didn’t budge I guess because i’ve done this before. I will get over it. I know he’s hurt because he messed things up between us or maybe not. Why is it that they try to reverse things on us when is really them? it must be because they cannot bear with the guilt and its easier to blame it on someone else. He wants me i know but still reversing so i can feel bad about him, so that i can the bigger person as he knows i am. i will let him hurt because i feel betrayed and if he doesn’t man up then he isn’t the man for me.
I’m a Pisces male my ex is Aquarius. I dont think it can work unless the aquarius respect the pisces male 100% and backs him in whatever he does, never try to put him down or and say things that are uncalled for. Me and my ex just broke before thanksgiving. My friends is telling me she is getting the best of me cause i kept trying to get my chick back. We been together 3.5 yrs, if i cant fight for her back then what relationship is worth getting back. She to the point like it had to end sometime and we cant keep getting back together. She want this single life we both in our 20s. I understand but at the same time I give her much space to have fun with her friends go on trip with them do whatever she want basically as long as it not with another dude.I be wanting my owe space half the time to so we was cool like this. Since I’m a Pisces I have a good insight on what really happened between us. i notice a trend, every time she went out she start taking me for granted. Start saying smart things to me around those times, I mean stuff you dont say to people. And I heard that is what Aquarius do, they have a dont care attitude. She started to look at me like I was a bum cause I never worked a 9-5. I always know how to make money without working a job. I been there since the beginning before she had a job when she was broke and I had all the money and the tables turned a little, things been a little slow on my side but I still handles mines but she cant understand when i say I gotta save my money instead of spending crazy. Another thing about Aquarius is they like the new. So anybody that showed her something she never seen before she would front on me. I think no one should tell the opposite sex about thier relationship if that person is already trying to get with you. So she start telling this guy at her job about im lazy I sit on the pc all day(but that how i make my money), and we dont go out as often as we used to. So now he know what to do. Offer you everything new, places to eat she never been. She so gullible. I feel bad for her in way because in the future she going to jump from guy to guy, whoever can show her something new.I dont like females like that. instead of letting me know we should go out more instead she pick fights and we could never talk no more so I never bothered to try to take her out near the end. So near the end when she went out with this guy, the day after she text me saying lets work it out i dont feel right going out with no one else, for the first time I was thinking yes I can finally discuss whats on my mind for the longest time and the next day when I finally talk to her she told me to leave her alone for good, never talk to her again. Either she had sex that night after texting me or that guy convinced her to leave me alone for good. That was really strange to me. I didnt answer my phone after she texted me that night because I was still mad she went out the day before so I figured I wait one day before I respond back and look what happen. Now she telling people I know she doing all these major things since leaving me alone. To me she head over heels for somebody at her job that talked about me, how long can that last. She is so stupid. She even told me she slept with the guy on thanksgiving. She should have never admitted that. It hurt when she told me that and the fact that she saying she is finally having the fun she been looking for and do major things, she is follower trying to be like other people she hear about and trying to live the celebrity life, she want implants in everything. I was never holding her back. She could do whatever she wanted and I supported her. Its like she trying to make me feel like a loser, I had that girl back more than her fam and look how she played me, I remember buying her car she just puchased 3 weeks earlier because she spent her down payment money for her new house on the car, and I had to buy the car spending all my money I had that I was going to invest in my business, now I’m stuck with a really nice looking car with problems and I owed her $500 more and she threw that in my face every day, that car got alot to do with our downfall, she wanted to keep the car at the same time, I’m like no its my car now you cant have both, so everyday where is my money you owe me, she treated me like I was never going to pay her. If yall only knew all the things I done to make this work, and how she threw it all away for a couple cheap dates to the movies and to outback and olive garden. LOL. I’m not trying to make it like im perfect. Yes i do spend alot of time on the pc, but I’m trying to better myself, I’m not just wasting time. She is 3 years younger than me and have new house so she think she is doing better than me. Its crazy how people think. I think outside the box she thinks in the box, everything I say she wrong or your crazy because I’m into different things.I’m into the celebrity stuff too but I got a limit I put on that stuff. I still did want her back until a few days ago, it made me realize she dont repsect my value. She want to be able to still call me to help her. I asked a friend and told me dont help her at all cut her off completely then she will start respecting your value and plus she played you for someone new. I want to know what people think, I did want her back but maybe down the line, she is a good girl but you know what they say once a good girl is gone there gone forever. By the way i was her second.
phillycat,
If you’re her second then this girl is not ready to settle down. She’s so naive and you’re naive with her because of the fact that pisces and aquarius compliment each other in so many ways. I think she has her priorities set in her own ways. She’s in the rise right now but she will eventually fall. It will take her years to realize what she had in you. it must be hard for you because you invested so much into this girl. I think you need to teach her a real good lesson and disappear from her life. if you don’t chase her, she will chase you. Be there for her but from a distant-maybe just be her friend only by phone. Friendship is the key word! that’s exactly what the new guy is doing. Make her feel like you want nothing with her but friendship….
-aquarius-
whatever,
we was alike in so many way in the beginning, we was around each other 24/7. My friend and her friend knew we was so much alike that they hooked us up. We was both quite types but I used to like to party and was feeling i was missing that a little, but i was okay with that, she thought i didnt know how to have fun, little did she know. that was crazy to me. she never party before until a few months after we went out. I’m not the jealous type so I let her do her. I been feeling for the long time we was missing something and I would try to explain but after awhile i just let it go. I was missing the intimacy part of relationship. I cant even remember the last time I french kissed her and we used to do that all the time. Her going out so much made her start lookin at me different, thats one reason I decided I was going to party as much so I wouldnt fall for other chicks like in the past with other girls. One day I got rob a gun point n she was there and as I think about everything has not been the same since. She say things like u dont handle ur biz right thats why u got rob, I mean really mean things you dont say to a person. She is up to 4 people now, she cheated on me before, I cant make lt like I never done my thing but she had no clue cause I dont let other girls throw me off from my main chick. So i didnt get to mad about her cheating the first time, i just left her alone then look who showing up at my door. But this time is different she told me to get a life and dont call her again all over a new guy. when i think about why would i want to be friends with somebody like that. She changes up too much. my sister called her a outback hoe. cause the guy took her to outback steakhouse and was able to sleep with her. I remember a long time ago she was mad cause all her friends from work been there and she havent. Wow big deal. we been better places. shes trying to fit in and win approvals too much for me. I dont care about fitting in with people. she even want implants. lol yes her chest is little but i never complaint. yea im going to follow your advice cut her off completely, cause even if things didnt work between us it was no reason for her to come out the blue and say leave her alone for good never talk to me again. most girls say we can be friends. but she coming off to cold. its a learn experience, and its teaching me to be on my grind more cause dealing with her lately and the car i brought from her been taking a toll on me. Yea she on top of her game but at the same time her head is getting too big. She told someone messing with me again is taking a step backwards. Thats cold cause I help her get where she at, not to take credit away from her, she is smart and get whats she wants, but i was the driving u to job interviews, helping u study 4 test, and gave her plenty of motivation she was going to make it. On the other hand I didn’t get that back and I really needed that after I got rob my spirits was down, I thought i was never gonna make it, but I have a friend who is a Taurus and my ex ex that is a Aries that inspire me to push on continue to do me. My mom a Capricorn told me a long time in our first year someone from work would steal her from me because she tell too much of my biz to them, and look what happen. And my friend that is a girl Capricorn told me she is going to turn out real sneaky and your going to be heartbroken in the end. But I will get her out my life starting today. thanks for the advice
I`m an Aquarius with strong pisces Influence (well I`m on the cusp ) But I say I`m an Aqua cos people say you cannot be two signs at once!
Yes Aquarius and Pisces are compltley different Like Pisces will lie because they think thats what you want to hear and they dont want to hurt you & Aquarius will tell you the blunt truth beacuse they think you deserve to know
(whether it hurts or not/ which they logically weighed out of course)
Really you cannot say one sign is better than the other.
I find it difficult having aspects of both, but find myself very spiritually connected and almost psychic as I can read people sometimes.
I dont think i would have this gist if I didnt have my pisces influence but it comes at a price! Being a “cold” or “aloof” Aqua. Like you say, I have all these piscean emotions surging through me that I cannot deal with or admit too!
I am mentally tiered all the time beacuse of my constant aqau/pisces battle, My mind never turns off!
So all in all Both sings are good in thier own way, One couldnt be thier without the other!
and as for constantly changing my mind and not knowing what direction to go in life (career and other ways) what sign does that fall under??
thanks for reading (I`m sure non of you did haha!)
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I am just coming out of a near four year relationship with an aquarian man
and I am heart broken. I still don’t know him…I want commitment and love and he just can’t do that. He runs away and is a loner. If I knew it would be so painful and difficult, I would have never started with him. I am not a demanding woman but the pisces in me seeks love and approval which he just can’t handle…Maybe someday he will wake up.
Me and my boyfriend has been together for 2 yrs. He is an aquarius and i am the pisces. I disagree that we aren’t compatiable. He is the most caring Aquarius i ever met. We’re both not perfect our relationship has had many obstacles to” weather”..lol,but we have overcome them. We believe it’s on the couple as to whether or not they will make it through. We are not very different from one another we’re nearly the same. We learn from each other and help one another. So the mismatch is the person who doubted that love wasn’t compatiable for AQUARIUS & PISCES!