Listen to this articleIf you keep paying attention to your Leo man, he ought to stay interested. He just wants an adoring audience. His ruling planet is the Sun, and imagine how our star would feel if no planets revolved around it? What’s the point of all that gravitational pull if you can’t draw anything into your field? Why emit all that warmth if there are no bodies to benefit from its fire?
You see, the Sun wants to shine its light upon you, but only if you promise to keep orbiting. You should have enough momentum to not get sucked into its flames and burned alive, but not be so big and powerful that you’re a competing star.
If you can master that, he’ll love you even if you’re demoted.
Comment below: How do you keep your Leo man interested?
@Superstar
Well, i’m not happy about it but I cut mine off. Basically, he’s been avoidng me for weeks and has told everyone BUT me. I’m pretty annoyed. Ugh….speechless.
I cut him off. I told him that he hurt my feelings and he told me I was guilt tripping.. I told him that he was totally rude to me and that isn’t guilt tripping. He said that he was sorry that my feelings were hurt :(NOT for being a douche…) and I told him I’m totally done. I cut all ties, and after trying to demand the truth got told to stop texting him. /I’m hurt, not going to lie, but this isn’t what I deserve.
@crazygemini02
Hey girl,
Well good For you! Either he Will come back , ( mine Leo loves drama) or you will have your answer. But you are entitled to tell him how you feel, that is not guilt tripping anybody. Those are your feelings and your entitled to them. IF he does contact you , my advice is to ignore for a few hours….. and then text him. But he did say stop Texting him. I just see that as Dont text me right now.! LOL not forever! Mine actually told me to F _ _ _ off when we were texting and fighting Then he said BYE ( insert my name). Which he has never used in texting me. But that only lasted a week . Anyways if you let him go and he comes back you can only ignore him for a WEE bit , but make him sweat. Then tell him YOur glad he contacted you. I am no Leo expert , but i have been in this crazy high drama , NO COMMITMENT relationship with a Leo who hates texting and does text me though in order to maintain contact with me. So yours will be back if he really is interested , but only time will tell. (Once we went two weeks with no contact and both figured it was done).
And to recap on the Bar thing , being a Taurus the whole touching thing and whispering in the ear thing would have sent me over the BEND. You dont touch people you dont want….LOL. So Hows your other Taurus situation going? I know we are not as dynamic as the Leo, But we really are the long run winners because slow and steady wins the race. : ) and we can wait you out. Eventually you will be like Damn you rock! And you will forget this Leo!
hey superstar!!
from what the bartender says, he likes me as a friend but he was avoiding me for a while. not sure his reasoning but ibasked him several times if I was annoying him and he always said no. there is no reason for the infidelity. if I pissed you off SAY IT. I messages him on Facebook today and said I’m sorry for flipping out but this was truly handled poorly on his part. I figure if he is anything like my dad hell brood about it for a while and realize what a jerk he was. I’m not worried about it…I an hurt tho. why couldn’t he be honest, and why yell at me when he was the one being really rude to me??
the Taurus is going ok. still slow…I asked him out again and didn’t even get a reply. he makes me smile though 🙂
how is your situation?
I think I probably angered him most by calling the shots. I’ve heard that once you stand your ground you’ll be respected amongst leos …. take for example.a fight I had with my dad at 15 years old. my parents were spankers and my dad was all up in my face and he pushed me, and I lost it and fought back. while I feel terrible about this to this day thirteen years later, my dad still comes back and tells me he’s glad I fought back LOL
@crazygemini02
Yes they do respect you a bit more if you are not just a doormat that’s for sure! I have been a bit aggressive with mine lately as I have Nothing to really lose by being myself . My Leo knows how I feel about him and I am no longer hidden it. The fact I said he was hurting me ( as in emotinally)and he apologized to me saying “sorry” means he knows what hes doing, and he’s playing with fire! But I am standing my ground and demanding that some things change. Cause like I said , what do I have to lose by telling him I want a bit more? If he’s unwilling , well then good luck. your loss. But so far he has kinda come around and not been totally resistant to my needs. So if your Leo contacts you be firm and tell him how you feel, but don’t say YOU MAKE ME MAD, or sad ect. Just say I feel really upset that we are not as friendly and it hurts me to see you and not be able to be close as friends anymore. It’s a fine line between telling them you “want ” something opposed to looking ” needy” about it which they can’t take. Mine likes to help people out , but hates needy whiners ( his words). Being assertive and confident has helped me, for the times when he used to shut me down , I’d just be like “No problem”, next time…. And that has totally worked . I want him , but don’t need him. Having Confidence in my self , and being in total control of my emotions when we are around others ( as nobody knows about us)are a big thing with my Leo. And having the courage to stand up for yourself , but to not put them down at the sme time will win you some points. My Leo likes a bit of the drama, but behind closed Doors ! And I never bring up dreary subjects that we have already hashed out! He hates going on about the past and things he’s deemed ” solved”! Mine is always about the now, and future, not dwelling on what happened yesterday! LOL
Hope you get some answers from him, but give him some space and see where it goes. WBS
hey!!!
_I’ve asked mine a few times to hang or more and what not and one of those times I sarcastically said fine, don’t hang out with me. it was a joke, but he took it as guilt tripping. I’ve been told I contacted him too much and should’ve taken the hints….but I don’t do hints. I believe you shouldn’t be afraid to speak your mind. I said some nasty stuff and promptly apologizd for being harsh . the ball is in his court…I have yet to see him. hell probably hide for a few days.
I’m assuming I bruised the Leo’s ego by telling him that he was a jerk. he has not been seen around lately, which is his M.O. for shame hiding.
As for the Taurus…..seriously how many times must I ask him out? I ask him to go out every other week and he will either ignore me or say he can’t. is this Taurean behavior or am I getting slighted? I know you taureans jeep yourselves suuuuper busy….my one good friend is a Taurus and works several jobs constantly. she rarely turns an opportunity down. he isn’t any different…he’s always doing something. I have been chalking it up to that but its kind of annoying, honestly. ok, well take care 🙂
@crazygemini02
Hey girl! Well if you hurt your Leo”s pride he may hide for a while. They don’t like people thinking negative of them AT ALL! Or talking smack lol! So for right now just let him be and hopefully you guys can work it out when he comes back home. And at least be friends. As for this Taurus guy , pin him down, we don’t really like confrontation , ( we have tons of feelings and passion but i keep mine hidden) ,and will either pretend we didn’t hear you, or totally just sweep it under the carpet. As an example , guys are always texting me that I work with. Making sexual comments or ineuendos, and I usually just respond back LOL! And that’s it! Cause I don’t want to hurt their feelings, and well who knows how I may view them in the future, so we never want to burn any bridges we may have to cross later! Ask him straight up if you can what is going on in his life? Maybe he started to see somebody ? And he doesn’t know if it will work so he’s not totally sure. But doesn’t want to lose your friendship either. At one time I actually dated three guys at once ( not my habit) but I couldn’t decide and didn’t want to lose out on a possible good match. After about three weeks I narrowed it down to one. LOL. So really all you can do is ask if you have the courage to know. Just say I am not really sure where you stand , if your seeing anybody or not but I’ve asked you out to do stuff a few times and you have never responded. Should I back off a bit? I don’t want to offend you or creep you out to the point we can’t be friends. See what he says. Cause usually I just try to avoid , or like I said down play people’s intentions if I don’t know how to deal with it. But once cornered I will say no thanks if your willing to Really know! I just don’t want to hurt people’s feelings if I don’t have to. I just hope they get the hint on their own! Good luck! My Leo and I have spent some time together and I’m just going to take it one day at a time. He obviously has feelings since it has been 8 months, Or maybe he just has not found anybody to replace me with! LOL . All I ever hear is that he is super picky and has high standards! So either I don’t meet them because we are a secret, or he just doesn’t want the hassle of people knowing his business. And I see other work relationships and everybody seems to think its their business to know about these people are doing! So I can totally see that point of view. Plus he has been single , well dating but nothing serious for yrs so maybe he is just not ready to settle down. But not willing to lose me yet either. Never a dull moment ! WBS!
You’re certainly right about the lack of dull moments….ugh what is wrong with men? I certainly don’t get it. I’m definitely going to call the Taurus on his crap…but I kidn of wanted to wait til the holidays are over. This can be a crappy time of year for people so I think it would be fair to just hang on. Another month certainly won’t kill me……this has been going on since late August….and believe me the flirting has gotten more intense. We have these little walkie talkie things :(I don’t want to say what I do on here, and of course we can’t private message any more on this site) that I wear on my pocket….and he kept pressing the button on it. I still haven’t heard from my Leo, and no one has. He’s definitely been MIA. I removed him from Facebook so i don’t know if he’s been on there…..but this whole thing has just been ridiculous.
Taking the thing with your Leo one day at a time is definitely a fair way to be. I don’t understand why these men can’t either be emotionally ready or be adult enough to admit it.
So I gave in and messaged him. I kind of felt like I really didn’t have anything to lose. I’m a Gemini, I get over things rather quick, and I gotta admit I miss the guy. He’s definitely hiding, unknown if from me or out of shame…..but I just gotta say when I know I didnt do anything wrong you will NOT see me alter my lifestyle. I dont know if he got the message or not, but I said I did not have any hard feelings and if he was still mad than that’s his prerogative. Hopefully he’ll figure it out- if not than I can only move on to the next one.
As for the Taurus, he does a lot of the things you describe. When he texts he’s a man of few words- he does the LOL or “nice” thing a lot. He’s been opening up more, but his days off he’s ghost again. I honestly wonder if he has a girlfriend or something. The other day at work when I was leaving, I went to talk to another co worker and spend about ten minutes doing so. I walked over to him and he told me he was just about to text me for not saying hi. I’m not a thousand percent sure if he likes me, but he certainly acts as if he does.
Praying for the best!!
@crazygemini02
Good for you! Your right you have nothing to lose by contacting either of them!!! Only gains, as you can gain insight into how they respond. With the Taurus I’m totally confused, it’s as if he does have a girlfriend or sombody he’s seeing cause to flirt and say he was gonna text you cause you didn’t say HI? If I did that its because I AM flirting and don’t want you to think Its done. So he is keeping you at arms length , but still wants you to be in his life? Well you are gonna have to dig and find out… Maybe he lives with his parents or something! I HAVE lots of guys who text me from work, the ones that I like as friends I NEVER respond to any sexual jokes or really respond back , and if it over the top and I don’t want it to go any further I will be like “yuck”! But I generally try to let it pass as to not make them feel like crap or stupid. If its a guy who’s nice and okay , I usually just respond with the HA HA! Or LOL! Nothing more. If I like them well then you can’t stop me from texting!!!! So your Taurus has something in the background or maybe trying to get out of a relationship? And doesn’t want you to dissapeared?
As for the Leo, well mine LOVED the little bit o drama I provided! And what’s funny is I have been called a drama queen by lots of ppl! Which i am not! But at the same time, If I want answers I FIND THEM, and if it creates a little drama …. Well so be it! Just remember it is always about them and how these things make them feel. If you make him uncomfortable , then you need to address it as your issue in a weird way, as in I know your probably uncomfortable with the way I acted or the things I said but you are special to me and I care about you , and really love hanging out with you and our friends . So I hope u can call me when you get back into town, or text me and I’ll give you a quick call so we can hit the pub! So you have to build him up, as in total flattery, and you have the courage to still chase him and make plans like YOUR confident ! AND that its a given he will call or come out with you , ( love confident women) and never ever act needy ! Act like you want him but you got other things to do if he doesn’t call. On Friday my Leo was all around me and just generally flirty, so I PUT IT out to meet after work ! He said sorry no time that he had to meet somebody . I said well you don’t have two min! You better come cause I’m waitting! And he did come . I kept it very brief and said I know the roads are really bad so you better get going now! So I didn’t keep him to long , but he did come because they like being chased and wanted as well. And I had the confidence to say you better have two min for us to spend some time together sunce it’s Friday and I won’t see you! And he asked what I was gonna do this weekend, second time he’s ever inquired about maybe what I do outside of work. Said to him well if you text me that your ” out” I’ll come look for you! He laughed and then that’s when I said well you better hit the road. So made him feel good, but knew he was short on time and respected that fact. I tell you there is a LOT if things I’ve learned being with this guy but I’m still a NOT KNOWER! He still views it all as fun , but nope it can’t be . At the middle of our “affair” he would put me off, but not so much now , because u have to be pretty hard core to not have any feelings after 8 months! And from all the little things that lead up to him actually making a move on me it’s been one year exactally that he actually called me, THE ONE AND ONLY TIME HE’S CALLED ME. ( and I had no idea he liked me at the time, maybe he didn’t know it either!), I just seen it as we had spent LOTS OF TIME AT WORK together at that time . We worked side by side for about two months then I went to another department after Xmas . So I figured he just wanted to wish me a good holiday, since he wouldnt see me for two weeks. Our company gives all their employees two weeks holidays at Xmas . So now we will have another two weeks where we will not see on another…. Hummm . Anyways you always have to be showing like your intreated in them no matter what, when they respond make sure your glad but not like ” overjoyed and can’t live without him” but act like its great, but controlled at the same time… So hard. But as a person I am very unemotionally attached to begin with, very reserved on outside and private. I think that is what attracted him to me… Totally in control, and even through our break ups I just smiled at him and blatenly ignored him if he spoke to me! Which he hated! So control of yourself and the situations that arise,, courage to pursue him even if he doesnt respond Asap , the courage to take a chance and go for it! And the confidence that you know who you are and like yourself first! As a Taurus I too have a big ego, and have always had men like me, so I totally am confident in how I walk , act and talk. I don’t open my mouth if I don’t know it as a FACT, I never argue silly issues and I know lots about EVERTHING. When you said you were not intreated in the topics your Leo and Ur friend were talking about, my advice brush up on it. I do not like politics AT ALL, but I read some stuff to actually be able to comment! Even if its one statement they will think you know ” something”! My Leo always jokes to everybody that if I don’t know it I will Googke it,just to know! And I do! All Leo’s want somebody that others perceive as a good catch, somebody as smart as they are. But if asked a question that you both know … Only let him answer and back him up with ” that’s a fact”! I hope all this helps! I never ever have up on him
Hey!!!
See what worries me is that he told me to leave him alone and ive contacted him twice since. I almost feel like anything further would be inappropriate. I kinda wanted to say I didn’t want this to end up this way, I really dug his company and truth be told wanted more sex. I was thinking of waiting til the weekend is over to see if we run into each other.
As for the Taurus….something fishy is up there. Apparently this isn’t his first rodeo…someone told me he has talked to a few girls here and it never extends beyond that. the big issue I think is that hes reluctant. In the spring I dated a guy and I went on my lunch break and had to call the police on him. Being ad that wr work in that field…..EVERYONE knew about it, and I almost got fired. He didnt know about it til a few months ago and jokingly brought it up last night out of no where. Not trying to be over analytical but it was most definitely on his brain to just pull it out of thin air like that.
That’s awesome that you get a two week break!!!!!! When did your Leo actually call you? Thats a really awesome sign…my dad rarely calls me LOL!
how does this sound
” I feel bad about this whole thing, I never intended for it to end up like this. I’ve already told you I enjoy your company and I hope you realize a friendship (with an occasional benefit) was all I was looking for. I was mad that you were rude to me at the pub, however, I really didn’t appreciate hearing you telling third parties that you were avoiding me. I was discreet about things that happened with you, I feel that any problem you had with me could have been handled with me not the entire pub. Hopefully you and I can hang out again one of these days. “
@crazygemini02
Okay for sure the Taurus did have it on his mind since he heard it. (Cops / Ex boyfriend) . And we are very analytical , and logical. So he finally felt close enough to you to ask you about it . It was not out of the blue on our part, since we( Taurus) have had it circling around our brain for a few months! As for the Leo let it be till you see him face to face. HARD I KNOW…. Or he contacts you. As for removing him from Fb , that’s a good kinda drama in a way because its only known between you and him. So it’s a private insult. I never removed mine from Fb , cause then he can see where I AM! To cause more drama ask to be friends again! Ha ha say its the bad twin that deleted him!!! Mine called me last year . In 2011 on his way home on our last day of work. LOL! He was not going to see me for two weeks! That was when I had no intrest in him . But now I look back I see that it was huge thing that he called me! We have been FWB now and he has never called. Told me to call him once, and I did and we talked for a while . Then when I was very upset once at something I called him. So three calls , that’s it! But I find it very significant that he called me months before he actually had the courage to make a move on me and HOPED he didn’t get punched! LoL!
Your Leo’s pride may be hurt. Or he is really not ready to have anything right now since he is still probably dealing with divorce issues. Or just vulnerable and doesn’t want to get hurt again. Still equals emotionally unavailable! Let me know what happens!
@crazygemini02
That sounds good! Is that what you sent him or you want to send as a third message? Cause I would hold off sending it then . Two texts and deleting him from FB IS plenty. You don’t want him to get turned off, just have time to miss you , and think about you. If you over kill he will see it as too needy. Save it for when you see him face to face at the pub, then text that to him while looking at him! LOL.
superstar
Yeah, apparently he didn’t hear about my drama with the police til months later….at which point he asked me and I explained it. there were a lot of rumors and BS going around…people thought I attacked him and it wasn’t true at all. so, I can dig that maybe after hearing that he is hesitant, but this has droned on since august….and he has yet to even come out for a drink. I seriously wonder if he has a woman. he doesn’t live with his parents but I wonder who, pray tell, he does live with. I know he was engaged but broke it off over a year ago. he told me he cut ties with her and said to me once (when discussing infidelity) that I wouldn’t want anything to do with him if I didn’t know he was not married…..red flag was he didn’t use the word single….or maybe he did….its been a while LOL.
as for the Leo, I wasnt sure if he got the second Facebook message. I blocked him after sending it (don’t ask) so I figured another attempt may not hurt….then again if he did get it I would look incredibly desperate. he seriously hasn’t been out in over a week, at least to the pub. no one has heard from him. I know I only hide when I’m wrong.
I still don’t get these dudes. ugh…yours frustrates me reading about it LOL.
@crazygini02
Your situation with the Taurus is a mystery to me for sure ,cause we are flirty yes , but not overly with everybody. With people I am not intreated in I DO NOT flirt. I never send anybody mixed signals . I usually walk the talk. I make lots of eye contact, laugh lots and smile. So if he is touching you , he does like you, but why not move forward? If you’ve asked him out lots and he doesn’t go … Well that makes no sense . So ask him if he’s seeing anybody in a round about way, just say something like a few ppl are going out after work, and if your girlfriend allows you to go out you should come! See what he says . If he says I don’t have one … Say …. want one! And with the Leo a week is not a long time to not go out, and are you sure he’s not working? It hey do like being around people so he won’t stay away long. Then ignore a bit…. But not for too long if you want him back! So if you see him out snub him a bit, but not for the whole night. Then pump him up! No amount of flattery is too much, mine loves being complimented! I always say mine has good ideas , I respect him when he is in his role as my boss, and generally play the game of worshiping him. Which is so not my style!!! But it works! I have read lots about Leo’s and how they think, and feel about things. I have to also point out that maybe things would be totally different if I didn’t work with him.? But I have used all the methods and they have so far worked for me. The thing is that it’s a lot of game playing to me to keep this guy! But the chemistry I feel is so wicked that I have resorted to pulling out all the tricks I can! So the fact that he spends a few hours a week with me is still not huge, but eventually he will either become addicted or move on . I read that they need to be the one to guide ( or in his mind anyways!) the relationship. So if he wants things slow , well then that’s how you roll. They need to feel like its all their idea, and men tend to be slow in relationships anyways. So I am just hanging out, not putting pressure on him , and i try and make him feel special.
Taurus: Talk about vague and annoying. He was in a bad mood when i left work and I asked if his girlfriend pissed him off…he said no lol. So then I said “so that’s why you never come out” and he said “lol.” I then said sorry i wasnt trying to step on toes, and he said I wasn’t…..which means shit to me…and I said ok, so there’s no reason you can’t meet me on your pass days in the near future. Still nothing..but that was only a few minutes ago.
Leo: Had an awesome convo with a woman, and I messaged him and told him how I didn’t dig that he told the pub my business, and how I respected his privacy when his psycho brother punched me in the face last month (that’s another story…) and that no night of sex was worth my respect, no matter how good it was. Eff it. I don’t need this crap.
My laptop battery is about to die, but yes your leo being your boss is a part of drama I’m sure..but leo’s looooooove being in charge. I bet he’s avoiding drama for professional purposes, but then again your superior shouldn’t be fraternizing. However..if you knew about my colleauges…Jesus…lol
@crazygemini02
So does the Taurus have a girlfriend? He seems very vague. And it’s a very simple yes or no . And I would say this is the last time I ask you to go out. And when he comes by you AVOID him , don’t be close enough for him to touch you. Maybe heeds
@crazygemini02
Ha ha the rest didn’t post I see!???
Anyways I was saying the Taurus needs to be kinda put in his place in a nice way, and just not being close for him to touch you. If your around him make sure your Arms are crossed , and when you talk to him don’t look at him, and don’t laugh around him , he will know something is up. And if he has the courage to say what’s wrong ( will probably text you lol! ) . Tell him exactly what you feel, but not to mean. Just bring out the fact that he touches you and is maybe giving you some very MIXED signals. ( he knows he’s not) . Say I feel your actions say you like me, but when I ask to hang out you totally ignore and avoid the question and I would like an answer. Are you in a relationship at this time!???? We are not dumb, but like I said when guys text me “sex” things I just ignore that message until they either text me again or put LOL! No comment, cause I don’t want to embarrass them, or lose a friend. So I don’t really confront them, just leave it. Sounds Luke this Taurus. If guys come up and tease me or grab me Cause they like me ,I try to not be upset, but I do Not GIVE THEM the non- verbal CUES AND CLUES THAT I LIKE THEM . Like when my Leo grabs me I stare into his eyes and give him my best bad girl smile! And draw myself in closer. So no mistake in my intentions! With others I just pull away and give a little laugh that is like. HA HA FUNNY! But that’s it. So pin that guy down! Chances are he’s got something going on for him to have not even gone out with you . 3 months is a long enough time for him to know if he likes you. But we are slow to act, think things through lots. So he also could be thinking if he moves forward and it doesn’t work now you can’t be fun and flirty anymore. We like Stable! So he could feel content with how things are going too, and is not ready ? But figure that guy out!
Hey Superstar!
He most definitely has a woman, but has not actually came right out and said it. That vague crap was ALL I got. What REALLY confuses me is I would think someone would know about him dating her, but seriously no one at work knows about that part of his life. What I really don’t get is that he said he cut all ties with his former fiance, but according to awesome facebook he took her kid hunting. That doesn’t sound like cutting ties to me. I still didn’t get an answer about the hanging out, and I wrote back and said I quit, have a good night. Tomorrow when I blatantly ignore him its going to be incredibly interesting. I understand the slow to act thing but its pretty hard to put all this thought and efford into someone you’ve only seen in one element. He has little idea as to what I’m like outside of those four walls, and neither do I about him. But still, you’d think in the fact that we pretty much know all the same people, that someone would know something.
As for the Leo, still nothing. But whatever, its his loss. I’m going to keep doing my thing. I told him I had respect for him when his brother socked me in the face, I didn’t tell a soul at the pub (except the girl that it happened with, cuz she was there) so that he wouldn’t be embarrassed, and I’m annoyed that instead of appoaching me with problems he told the other patrons and NOT me. I said I kept our business ours, he should have done the same.
Do you live in the states?
@crazygemini02
Hey girl!
Well there is something up with the Taurus for sure cause i don’t go around putting myself out there to guys … JUSt because. There has to be some sort of interest there for me to go all out and be flirty like your saying this guy is. So if he approaches you , ask. He asked about you and the cops so fair game. And get the answer, and just put him out . If you have somebody outside work then dont be giving me false hope. Stick with your ex buddy! So he seems like he likes what he has with you and then he goes home , or even if they dont live together he has somebody who he has some sort of ” commitment’ to and cant go out and have fun with others…. as in you. Leo’s well they are strange and self centered so even if his brother punched you he may be feeling bad , BUT HE DIDNT DO IT. So i dont think hes going to see it like the rest of us would. And if he talked about it to others then he was probably just trying to make sure his image was not tarnished, that it was all his brother. Dont worry he will be back, maybe just laying low as all the drama. LOL. But then they thrive on that kinda stuff…. their own kinda soap opera. My Leo seems to not like it on the outside , but what ive seen is that is the total opposite. He likes the chase and the drama , and the adventures. They hate the mundane kinda life and just avoid things that make them look bad. So i dont know when the incident happened with his brother, but he probably wants to lay low so as not to be associated with that action. How old are you and your leo? If he was married you guys cant be too young. But from what i know of mine he has been a total little kid in the maturity level for years. I think really he has just started to act mature enough to actually get my attention, but there are still things that are like WOW REALLY! But mine was really started as an emotional relationship, we became really close while working and started to share a lot. Then i think somewhere along the way , he must have seen something more in me and took his time to actually do something. Like i said i had no interest in him at all, but once he put the move on me i was totally blown away and couldn’t stop thinking of him… So i know how intriguing these guys are. But you have to keep some control of your emotions because that is what they like. Keep me posted… Tomorrow is another day… LOL
hey….
I did some research on the Taurus and from what I see he lives with her…and I don’t know who she is to him but nothing he said makes sense. all of the timelines he described match up especially when adding her into the picture and her life.
I am 28, Leo is 32….Taurus also 28. I had a long talk with a friend last night and basically what the Leo did was outright wrong, and I’m not going to sit there while he tries to talk smack on me to the pub patrons. whether or not he likes what I had to say I said it because I’m not a door mat. I just hate how its got to this point of hatred, that’s not what I wanted at all.
oh yeah the Taurus calls me “sunshine.” forgot to mention that.
@crazygemini02
Hey 🙂
Your right you never need to put up with bad behavior, from anybody! Sounds like the Leo is sulking and is probably laying low. Well they say Leo’s forgive easily, but don’t forget . So it all depends on really where he’s at in life. But it sounds like he’s fairly young and having gone through a divorce maybe he is not really sure what he wants from love relationships. I have read that they cling to old relationships even when they know they are toxic. because they are loyal to a fault. So even if its over with his ex- wife, it is still hard to deal with the side effects of divorce for any person. But ya nobody ever wants it to end badly with someone they do like. So if you apologized , well that’s all you can do and just wait it out. When I was pissed with my Leo and did break up with him, I would always feel like crap! And I would notice he would act ” fine” and try to act like friends but I don’t do the friend thing well. So I would end up texting him and saying sorry. And he either has nothing else in his life lol, or we have some sort of connection that keeps us coming back together. Leo’s are hard to pin down and are self absorbed, so he’s probably wrapped himself up in some sort of project to keep himself busy and distracted. Or just licking his wounds and chillin at home for a week or two. But he will show up again soon. Remember for as much confidence as they throw off they are really very insecure kittens inside. So any disapproval they will hide in their shell! And just like all Leos they need flattery and others around , so this hideout will not last long. Cause he can’t possibly pump his own tires, he needs others to make him feel worthy. I bet he will be out by this next weekend! Just act cool, keep emotions in check, and have courage to stand up to him even if that means its over. Cause he will totally respect you.
As for the Taurus, good for you for doing a little detective work. Ya it was very weird to hear that he was all over you but never wanted to take it a bit further, well now we know. He’s keeping his options open because he is not happy with who he”s with. Very clear to me as a Taurus. Now you need to tell him you are hurt that he has been playing with you, and that he really is not in a position to play. Just be truthful cause we can take it, and he needs to know YOU know. That you were looking to expand your friendship, but it appears he’s unable to be nothing but friends. There is no Doubt he likes you, as he has kept his outside life a complete secret . Easy enough for an introvert to not share to much as I said I do lots of non verbal talking. So sitting back and not sharing to much would be easy for him.
Well that sucks! But if he’s flirting with you beyond a normal level, he is not happy. And he is not happy because he has never been honest with you ,when you have invited him out he has never said…. ” sorry I have a g/f right now.” Nope he just said nothing. Meaning he doesn’t want to burn your bridge.
@crazygini02
LoL he has a nickname for you so he really does have an attachment to you. But alas a stronger one to the woman he lives with. You obviously make his day being at work , and I’m sure that’s nice for both of you. LOL I KNOW ,CAUSE I LOVE WORK! Ha ha ! Anyways Taurus’s are loyal , and so he can’t go any further with you then his flirty antics at work. Keep yourself at arms length here , because he is able to stay in his current relationship even if its bad because he gets his emotional highs from being around you. Being at work is a full 8 hrs of happiness. So he’s kinda using you to keep his emotional life balanced. We crave STABILITY . So living with someone even if its bad is better then the unknown. Here is what I learned from my Leo, when we were on the outs I would not come around the coffee room at all! That was because even if I was in there and ignoring him … Well I was still around him and it made him feel good. He would flirt with the other women and laugh and joke with them and try to get a rise or laugh out of me as well. So he didn’t really miss ME. He could fill that void with the other girls around , as long as I was around. if you get what I mean. So if he’s in the coffee room full of women , but not me it’s not going to fulfill him. And guys can transfer that happy feeling they get from you to other women. So if he’s happy being around you, he can go home and deal with that situation cause he has gotten an emotional boost from you. I hope that makes sense. So don’t provide the ” happy” For him to take home. Cause that’s why he maybe staying in a relationship that’s unhappy. BTW I’m in Canada eh!
Leo was at the pub….LOL…. he looked mad uncomfortable, and as i left i said “have a good evening, …..” he said something but I just walked away. I then texted and said sorry, i was mad. I don’t want this to be awkward.
And Im on the east coast….kinda…..in pennsylvania lol
@crazygemini02
So you just ran into him today? I am totally on the other side on North America in Vancouver lol! Either he likes the drama thing like my Leo , and dimonelle said hers liked it as well… So you will know soon enough ! Ha ha… So you left the pub when he was still there? Good for you if you did, a little cat and mouse chase , how fun … He he he! Keep him guessing what your next move might be, ALL men like a tad “o” mystery. If he does reply make him wait it out for a little bit… But NOT too long. Leo’s like drama, but not the girls who play hard to get , no time for that nonsense! You either like them or you don’t ,and they will move right along. They have better things to do, like their hair!
I texted him and said I was sorry for what happened and that I was expecting.more blunt honesty from him….he told me to leave him alone. whatever.
He didn’t seem super rude when I said good bye to him, but then again I snubbed him and walked away. He told me to stop texting and I said” I don’t know what your deal it but I pray to God you work it out, cuz you look miserable!!”Clearly someone is still throwing themselves a one man pity party. He’ll get over it…and if he doesnt then whatever.
@crazygemini02
Well if he told you to leave him alone , you best listen cause besides the Taurus the Leo is almost neck smd neck with is in extremely stubborn behavior! Leos also mean what they say. they don’t beat around the bush and, you never have to read between the lines with them. So leave him alone for now. when mine said no commitment, I took it as just that, NO COMMITMENT…. Even though we se each other twice a week now. but we still have never dated or gone out . So he was honest and I have listened to him and that probably has saved our no relationship ” relationship”! As I said they don’t like hard to get, dishonesty, and when they talk its a one time deal… They don’t like to repeat stuff. So when he talks listen girl! Stay away for a few weeks! Just how he hid out and you wondered where he was, you need to do the same . Lay low , and if that means not going out hold off , cause you need to have mystery with this guy, or any guy for that matter! Never give them everything, a little mystery is great! And so is not being around…… Trust me when I say I would avoid being around him so that he can’t use my presence to make him happy. Like today! I was part of a 4 some lunch group and he sat right beside me and had a good break because he interacted with me! So don’t let your Leo have u around , let him miss parts of you!
Hey
yeah I’m going to. his number is totally deleted and he’s been blocked on Facebook. I just can’t believe I bearing the brunt of this hatred when he messed up. that’s BS!!!
as for the TAurus, the ignore plan goes down tonight LOL. ill keep you in touch.
how is everything with you??
@crazygemini02
Well that’s good he wasn’t super rude, but then they are a huge mystery! All I know is that their pride and self preservation are top priority in their world. Also remain private and not having ppl know their business, but this Leo went and shared shit that was between you two? So if his brother did some crazy shit to you he would try and avoid any thing connected to that Incident! And “it’s not his problem” , but the fact you didn’t see him for a bit says he was laying low! And trying to avoid looking bad. Leo’s are self centered and self absorbed 100% ! So if you happen to actually catch there attention and get them to actually notice YOU , we’ll you’ve not even half way! Trust me when I say that besides being married for over 15 yrs before my husband cheated( and guess who was one of my big supporters , who said I didn’t need him…. Hummmm ! The Leo!) this is by far the most unpredictable, unstable, un-communicative, unco- operative, un-feeling, un- settling , un- nerving no relationship I have ever ,EVER NOT BEEN IN. If your Leo has just recently ….. Like a year ended his relationship , well let me tell you it’s not “old” news to him. It’s hard and totally devastating to have to deal with divorce and separation….. And if it was a blindside like mine well it may take years to actually feel better about yourself and what went wrong. To actually trust again and to open up to others. Divorce is not over when the papers are signed, as you know your Leo still has his ex’s stuff. Why? Because to get rid of it is really the “End”. And when he does get rid of it, well then and only then he will be ready to move ahead. I know this as a fact. Nobody wants to think that their life was a mistake…… Huge huge disappointment to say the least. I should mention which i haven’t that I also have two very young children from my marriage. One turned nine last month and the other turned five two weeks later. So I am a mom , which is the reason mine probably wants no commitment from me. Once he joked to all our co- workers that he needed to find a woman who had the same baby blues as his to carry on his genes… as in eye color . I have brown. So I’m out! My husband was black and our children were my color, so I have strong genes… So chance of blue eyes probably not going to happen with me! One in four chances … Most likely they would get brown and I am also 42. Not baby making material. N Of course I do not look like my age, that’s why a 35 yr old player likes him likes me. I got Asked for ID at the liquor store yesterday! And I went to pub on Saturday and was told I barely look 34! I avoid the sun 90% of the time. So he likes me of course , but really am I what he is looking for, nope. I can’t be… I know I have to be real and the reality is he is probably going to find and eventually marry a way younger girl then me. They say Leos marry beneath themselves , because nobody is ever perfect enough for them… So I am going to try and remain as neutral as I can. But if it lasts till may I will be getting him a gift and card saying Happy anniversary ! One year commitment free! Seriously if you want to be constantly somebody your not, then stick with a Leo! Have you confronted the Taurus? Do it, cause he needs to know you know about his
Situation… And it’s not cool. Tell him you know he must not be %100 happy as he has made you feel something for him….. Not something a committed guy especially a Taurus would do if happy. I hope something works out for you. 😀 . If all else fails I have had some great times with my Leo and have learned to let go…. And seen things through his carefree attitude. Today he actually got to spend his break with me when it’s not his day for the “good break.”.. Lucky him!
Hey!!!
I certainly understand divorce can suck, but its also not an excuse to be a total jerk. I am going to leave him be, I promise, and I’m even going to avoid the pub for a while. I really don’t understand either the Leo or the Taurus. they are both man babies. the Taurus works the next shift so we always see each other in passing. I usually stop and say hello but I’m going today….cuz a)I’m mad and b) it was a good suggestion. oh…I’m leos first conquest since his wife apparently. big mistake.
that’s awesome that you look good for your age!!! I don’t get in the sun much either. I didn’t even go swimming this summer which was lame. so you won’t be hearing from yours in a while?
@crazygemini02
Bottom line girl….. Advice from a Leo . You COME first! No amount of attraction or lust is worth you lowering yourself , and really he won’t find you attractive at all! No matter how pretty you are! He will view you as weak, and a huge red flag will go up! And are you really a red flag girl? Probably NOT! I know I’m beautiful, I don’t need verbal confirmation to see how guys view me. Like I said I am pretty much non verbal… So I don’t need to be pumped up like my Leo by any flattery, of course it’s nice… But I take what people DON’T SAY , as facts more then what they do say. I am also a no non- sense girl. So if I heard you ratted me out I WILL confront you in front of everybody and see how you actually deal with it. So when I say your Taurus can take it, it’s because we always want answers being the logical thinkers we are. And if you don’t call us out we just think … Sucker … Or more to the fact your not as smart as we are.. Somebody else who is easy to manipulate. Don’t let that be you. And here’s a lol the reason I probably connected with you is my husband was a Gemini! But I really think they lied about his B day cause he is nothing like a Gemini! NOTHING! I almost see him as a cancer. Anyways stand your ground because both Leo and Taurus’s love strong people! I hate weak people , I hate cry babies ,and I hate people who beat around the bush cause we REALLY KNOW what people are trying to get at! And its annoying to deal with people who are not t the point…. just like Leos but they need the truth wrapped in silk! and if you think you can manipulate me by being coy …. well i have a suprise for you. Think of Spock from star treck , we are logical and can see through all your B.S.! That’s why he definitely can take the truth, and it shows you are smart, you searched for the truth! Found it and are confronting it! I see my Leo all this week, and who knows !? We probably won’t miss each other the first week but I know by the second week we will. And I know he will never contact me in that time , even if I contact him! Self centered, spending time with his mommy, doing fun stuff , he will not think of me till two days before work starts! And if that’s the case … Well poor him, cause I will not cave! Nope, I’ve had two weeks where you didn’t give a shit, and I got hard and tough so your not coming into my world again! And that’s my final offer!
Hey @Superstar!!!
That’s why I defended myself with the Leo….I am completely over letting myself get walked on by guys. I am an incredibly independent woman and guys are usually where I tend to lose control. I met a woman at the bar that told me that every day when I wake up I need to lift my chin up, stick my t-ts out, and say “No piece of @$$ is worth my piece of mind.” I miss the Leo, I really do, but he is going through waaaay too much…..Like I said I knew that sleeping with him was going to end up bad since I’m his first post divorce woman….Rebounds are always just rebounds. As much as I’ve tried to repair, I’m cutting ties.
As for the Taurus, I sort of ignored him yesterday. We work in emergency services, and I had a really bad fire to deal with and when my shift was over I left. He didn’t ask why or anything, but hopefully tonight he’ll get the drift lol.
In the mean time, I reconnected with a Scorpio I dated for two weeks in the summer…….LOL!!
I know one thing about Taureans….you all are stubborn so I know you won’t cave. I personally wanted to wait til the end of the holiday season to stick it to any of them…..and i’m going to try so hard!!!
@crazygemini02
Funny how things happen hey! Ya your Leo probably is very emotional, maybe feeling lonely, insecure. Is this his first holiday alone? Could be taking a toll on him, this break up. Then with his brother acting stupid , well it was probably a been a tough few weeks! But the best thing is to NOT piss him off any more, or make him feel uncomfortable . Leave him for a bit. He may be totally different in January.
And I’m glad you ignored the taurus, he will figure it out soon that you are on to him! We are not hot and cold people, for no reason… so for you to just ignore him he will get the hint something is off! I only play HOT then COLD, if I want your immediate attention! So it’s like a huge warning to him that you are ignoring and avoiding! So he may do the same … Avoid since he may know he’s been caught! One good thing is that he does like you, and showed you he did. Trouble is he can’t do anything about it. Too bad for him!
Well today my Leo and I worked side by side! We both tried to “act” professional around each other, normally we would hang out with each other , but when one of us was on the ” watch” the other was away trying to be busy. But that didn’t last to long. We ended up being silly and foolish! But what pissed me off is he waited to leave, normally he could have, and does take off 10 min early, so I figured he wanted to get together… Nope nothing! We have three days of work left before we are on holidays. I don’t know how I’m going to make two weeks of not seeing him! And things are no further ahead , I feel this sense of urgency to get feelings, emotions out there for us. But I guess he must not feel the same as I do. I am so confused by his actions and more so his inaction ! Maybe he is trying to just be casual since he knows we won’t see each other 🙁 sniff sniff. Anyways totally bummed that he just drove away after work! And the time is ticking away! I wish I knew how this Leo male really perceived things. Including me. Sure it’s a FWB situation , but from all I know about Leo’s it says the WANT and NEED LOVE. And since our situation is so different , in the fact this Leo can’t just forget me for the week, as we see each other everyday! Which I find stranger and stranger as time goes on! Because as a general rule most people would start to become closer and closer in our situation, but nope, appears only i feel that way! Cause either it will fizzle out, or become more intense. I guess it is starting to hit home ( two weeks off) and I am getting a huge dose of reality here, that I am not as important as I hoped for. If we do not hook up before the two weeks starts on Friday , well he can hit the road in 2013! I know that I should never ever expect anything as my Leo has always said no commitment. But 8 months of no commitment is starting to really wear on my soul, and my pride. I am a fairly hot woman, ( like i said i am 42 and actually got asked for ID at the liquor store!) he’s grown into his looks that’s for sure. But if I had seen him for the first time ,and had no attraction to him I would not be like WOW he’s hot! My attraction to him took time to build. So I definitely feel some resentment building up here… So conceited , but I am way better looking and people would be shocked if they found out! More so with me liking him! So I find it unnerving that he is not head over heels in love with me by now? Not even showing any signs of actually caring. So either he is really ,really unemotional or is at a cross road with our situation. I have also read that you should never cheat on a Leo, but when he ” made his big move on me” I was in a relationship. And so I wonder if he thinks that I am untrusting . And then he told me to try and find someone else to ” fill” the gap. Which I did , but it just felt ” wrong” and I never pursued it. So I don’t know if any of those things effect him? Which they shouldn’t since I know he’s probably seen other girls during this time. My co- worker said he doubts he has ” other” women , and that he is somewhat shocked that he would go for a older, ” mom” . Which right there I should know it won’t last I have two kids . He has none, and never been married, plus he has some crazy standards! I should look at the new year as a fresh start and a chance to get my priorities straight. Like what I want from a relationship! I guess I should look at it through his eyes. No commitment , and just fun . I just hate that he knows how I FEEL, i have NEVER hid it, and yet he has never pulled away . If i knew a guy was in love with me and i had no feelings for him i would try and end it before things got bad. Guys must not see things in the same light as women i guess! He has Only made it worse for me as the months have gone on. Even though he said he never meant to hurt me ( I said he was emotionally killing me) and was sorry. Well when your sorry , you try and stop doing the same thing over and over if you know your hurting somebody , don’t you? I hate being so strong and tough. The things he was probably attracted to in the first place. But he may see it as I can handle our situation . So in three days we will see where this story goes. A bit of a rant here for me today. Sorry! Will keep you posted cause ….I still have three days!
@superstar
hey!!!!! my Leo is goofy like that too…..absolute zero predictability….I am imagining it is the holiday season wit mine…but there’s zero reason to be rude.
I hope you see yours before Friday…ill be keeping my fingers crossed!!!
hey @Marie how are you??
scorp and I are at it again…and I want to succeed with our friends with benefits relationship and not scare him. how should I do that?
oops LOL
@crazygemini02
Hey you! How’s it going with your Scorpio? Both my children are scorpio’s ! And I don’t know how they are as adults but mine are constantly battling ! Anyways worked side by side twice with my Leo, on the day I asked if he wanted to meet he texted me and said he has breakfast plans… So with who not sure? But then I try and talk myself out of negative thoughts. He could have said ” cant” and left it at that , so I try and tell myself that he didn’t need to explain anything to me, but did. Then today before he left he said he was going to pick up a bike in Vancouver… We live just outside of there. Where I know one of the girls he sees lives. Anyways it was a strange atmosphere with us and at the end of the day before he left he came to”shake” my hand to say merry Xmas! As if a handshake! And so I took his hand but hugged him said have good holiday and drive safe! He said be good … And that was it. So of course I am done. I know now that I was only fun and just a weird feeling knowing we are having this big break , and wont see each other till next year. Just was Aqward ! But it will be three weeks, of not being together when we finally do see each other, so after that long apart I might as well just go for another month and a half which friends say is about the time it takes to move on… And I figure that he couldn’t spend one day with me , ya I know it’s Xmas and all, but it just shows I’m low priority. So I started to work out this week knowing that he would ignore me. I plan on losing about 12 pds so be ready to be rejected when tou try and contact me! I’m pretty intuative , and either one of his “friends” is here or he’s been in touch with the one in Vancouver, and I’m old news this week! Can’t wait till I turn him down and he has nobody around except me… Then he will be sorry… and i know he will. i have left him 3 times like i said. and he always came back. this time i felt like he Left me! and there is no comming back for me. Leos have pride , yes ,but taurus’s are stubborn and you rejecting me this week and probably having no contact with me for the next 12 days either says i am nothing so …. bye bye! And he has to see me everyday so I know it will eventually hurt him because I’m coming back on permanent IGNORE! What I’m miffed about is he seen me talking to the guy he thinks I slept with and he texted me to leave him alone or this other girl who my friend is with would kick my ass! I just responded back doubt it! So he still is jealous! Will have to do lots of flirting next year! But not with him! Poor guy I almost feel sorry for him already ! He has no idea how he’s hurt me and I’m not putting up with it any more! I hope things are working out for you!!!
@Superstar
Hey! It’s been a rough week,…not only with these dudes but life in general. Tis the season!! Anyways, I’m sorry your Leo is such a player….you don’t deserve that at all. I mean I know a lot of people are just looking for sex, but the way I see it is I want to be able to call half the shots. I don’t understand why these types of relationships are always so one sided……like the guy calls the shots and when the girl does its wrong. BS!! So he’s got another woman in Vancouver?? pssssh….
Interesting week for me with all three..Ill begin with the Leo. I did what you said and avoided the pub for a good solid week. I finally went in last night cuz I’m friends with the bartender and he was there. I did a good job ignoring;…..there was an empty seat between he and another guy, and the man offered me a seat….and I said no thanks.. Then I got drunk. I called a friend up and was apparently calling him an a hole and eff him and stuff lol. I legitimately do not recall this, but I consider this revenge for being a complete jerk to me when he was drunk.
The Taurus sexually propositioned me last night……….and never acted on it. I told him I hadn’t been flirting with him for months because I wasn’t inerested and he needs to fire when ready. I work a double Monday, and I’ll be on shift with him.. If I’m not ready to die tired then I’m going to call him on it. Maybe. LOL
AS for the scorp, he was all about the sex and then the next day had a case of regrets. We are getting along at the moment, but its usually short lived.
I hope you have a better week!1
@crazygemini02
AWW, sorry to hear about your crappy week! I hope that things pick up for you and things turn around before the new year starts! Well i have pretty much had that same week as well, really shitty is putting it mildly. So i hope that we can both go to the new year with a bit better luck in love and relationships.
Soo you got revenge on the Leo hey…. LOL. Well i hope you know that Leo’s forgive, but they never forget. So if you embarrassed him at all, or yelled at him in public, it is pretty much a done deal with the two of you. (Unless your passion is so deep for each other, that he cant live without you… lol. ) They cant stand to be confronted, put down, or made to look bad. And they will walk away without a backwards glance because their pride is to darn big to actually accept their role in how things went bad. So best you let that cat lick his wounds for a bit, before you try to approach him as friends again. But i know that my Leo has said that he would rather be friends , even with people he doesn’t really like, because they are very social and love to be loved . Not hated.
As for the Taurus well if he is like me , slow and steady wins the race, we are slow to react to things since we are analyzing it all before we make that move, or jump into any kind of sexual encounter. We just need to know that we will not be hurt, and if we are gonna get hurt, it better be worth it! So keep on keeping on with him, he will eventually give in or turn and run. But if it has been going on since August well he has had a LOT of time to process his feelings and if he propositioned you , well he is making a huge leap of faith that this will work out. But what about the “woman” at home? Will you then be in the same boat as me ? Keeping secret that you are interested in each other? If he is unhappy maybe this encounter with you will open his eyes to happiness and him breaking up with this other woman.
As for the Scorpio, well all i can say is that what i read about them is that they are SEX freaks….and that freaks me the hell out cause both my children are Scorpio’s! And the one’s i met were totally sexual beings…. This one girl who was born on the same day as my daughter was very very sexual, and was totally fine being almost naked around all of us when we were parting
So I am totally confused about my Leo. He was not his usual self the last week of work, well to me anyways. We worked together twice, like i mentioned before, and he all but ignored me. Then he said my video’s sucked, we used to make these somewhat funny and serious videos for each other and i was pretty hurt by his remark. It took me almost five months to actually have the courage to do this with him. I am confident , but i always think i look better live, then in pictures, or video’s. So thats the END of those videos ! Anyways, i don’t know if he has a woman or not, but he was either really preoccupied, or he could be losing interest in me. We did have a “brief” kinda somewhat “encounter” at work, but nothing like we normally do. Which kinda sent up a Red Flag to me since he didn’t want to meet later, which we always did. I just do not get how he thinks or what he is feeling? What i have read about Leo’s makes me totally confused. It says that their heart is what rules them, and that if you do not pique the interest of the Leo he wont stick around. I read that All the fixed signs hold an attraction for Leo’s – that’s Scorpio, Taurus, Aquarius and other Leo’s. So I have a slight advantage… Earth and Fire i read = HOT Lava. LOL . And All The signs that they give for Leo’s in love do not pertain to us since it says that they will shower you with gifts all the time, take you for romantic dinners , and hardly can say no to any request of their lover. None of these things have been done for me. The only way i know he liked me is that they say they don’t waste their time with people they don’t want to get to know. And he did show some jealousy when one of his buddies showed interest in me. And he texted me just that, that “this guy” flirted with me lots and would probably do “something” if given the chance. And when he asked our other co-worker if we had slept together. Anyways maybe it is time to move on since he can not seem to move past the secret relationship we have. And its not like he would be embarrassed by me, since lots of our co-workers (his friends) have shown interest in me , so that is a good thing when they think that they have chosen somebody that others also want. And i have exhausted all the “tricks’ of getting a Leo to love/like you. And i guess they have worked , since we have been together now for 8 months, but have not gotten me any closer to having a committed relationship. And probably never will. Once i asked when we FIRST hooked up why he didn’t have a girlfriend, he said so many women so little time. I guess i should have taken that statement to heart. I have given him the praise, the attention, and the affection that they say All Leo’s crave, I have swallowed my own pride and put him first many times. THERE IS NOTHING ELSE i CAN DO ANYMORE FOR THIS MAN. I have given him small gifts, nothing like they like, BIG EXPENSIVE, EXTRAVAGANT gifts, but small funny meaning full gifts Because i just don’t want to look like a fool in love, with somebody who clearly only sees me as “fun”. Another thing i have read is that they are open, honest and do not beat around the bush. So i really need to force myself to see that i am only a distraction to him until he finds his queen. And it appears that i am not her. Wish me luck in keeping myself together when i see him in the new year. I just need to keep saying to myself that , i am only fun to him, i am only fun to him, i am only fun to him , i am only fun………….. NO commitment , just fun.
Now its time i start to actually believe his words, and forget about his actions which do not match. I admit i am hurt, but its not like he got his way with me and then dumped me , so i guess i can look at it as it filling both of our needs. I just hope he doesn’t act all crazy jealous when i ignore him and flirt with his friends! Revenge is not really my game at all, but I am willing to try new things… LOL
WBS . HOPE you have a GREAT holiday season and that you and your Taurus finally get to cross that bridge together….. Let me know how that goes. And if the Leo comes around again…. like i said my Leo loved the little drama that i provided, lol… Mine even told me to F OFF and that he was OVER it… didnt know there was anything to even be ” OVER” , and that “nothing happened between us” …….. LIKE who you trying to BS to buddy? Nobody even knew we were together so who was he trying convince in his texts that ” nothing happened between us” …. lol…. , but it was pretty funny. and it was all hush hush between us, so a little different then yours since it was you , him and the neighborhood pub. So your dis might be a little harder to walk off… But who knows, it might make him want you more… ha ha ha . take care and hope for the best year
@crazygeimini02
I also wanted to say thank you to you, for being there for me a a weird sense of the word…. I always look forward to hearing from you, and this dialog between us has really helped me let off steam and know that I am not alone in my attempts to woo a Leo male. I no longer feel like a total loser ( well i sort of do for letting myself get into this situation) and really have come to know that these men are almost next to impossible to please. It is comforting to know that others share this same struggle that you and i are both going through, and i am so glad that you and i have come to be friends. I hope that any advice i am able to give you on Taurus’s helps in your conquest… LOL. You just being here on this forum has helped tons for me… And i am so glad that you took the time to respond to my post… Lots of LOVE superstar
hey @superstar
He said your videos sucked?! that’s horribly rude!!!!! I really don’t know whats wrong with these guys…I think astrology plays a minimal role and that they are just incredibly conflicted. I hope you can get over this guy quickly because he has been playing too many games with you… I truly don’t get why its so hard to be honest. it is not a big deal.
my Leo probably hates me now….but whatever. I work with the Taurus tomorrow but I feel sick so the plan may not work…..and the scorpio is sick so he’s been well, sick.
I also thank you for being around and writing. I find this forum and the people on it to be a good guide on how to act.
BTW…what should I say to the Taurus LOL
wbs 🙂
@crazygemini02
Well if the males are anything like us females, we are not the best communicators, at least i am not. Like i said i do a LOT of non verbal communication, and we are slow and steady. We never liked to be rushed for anything , and we crave, or at least i do stability. I also hate, hate change,( even if its good)if it is sprung onto me. If i am told a month or so in advance that things are going to change i can mentally prepare myself for it. But i crave always knowing where i stand and never like things to be unpredictable. So if he is in this “other” relationship and it is not going to good he will not end it until he really is VERY VERY UNHAPPY, and even then he will probably not end it,. People have to leave us… so it will have to be she leaves him . Which is our biggest nightmare, that the person we love will leave us. Cause we cant leave them…. We can go on and on in a unhappy situation forever, because we HATE the unknown. And We love being at home, so i guess he wont be taking you there though…lol. We love beauty, and luxurious things… especially people. As long as you dress modest , but a bit of sex appeal ( unless you have to wear a uniform) wear lightly applied makeup. I hardly wear any, just cover up and mascara … thats it. But we LOVE great smelling perfumes or cologne. NOt to much though. And wear your hair up in a HIGH pony tail if you have long hair. We are totally attracted to neck, ears and throats. the male probably more so. Love being kissed on the neck , and just plain kissing……. . So if he can look at your neck all day long he will be totally smitten. Like i said we LOVE stable people so that is why he was probably worried about that incident with the cops…. YOu can Talk about your future plans, and how you love to save money and that you are working towards a Goal. But don’t over talk the money part…. dont get me wrong, we LOVE MONEY, and the STABILITY it brings but we dont want people to think we are shallow. Money to us means a better life , finer things , and protection for our families. It is never viewed by me as a status symbol, that i am better then anybody. It is really for our own peace of mind to feel SAFE. I also love plants… LOL.. earth sign that i am. I love to garden and be outside and try to grow things. Nature walks…. LOL. In some ways i like men to be in control of certain things , to actually be the one to make the moves on me , to be more dominate in the bedroom, and to make me feel like i am wanted. He will probably want to be in control of things. cause for most other things in life i like to be in total control. And LOTS of touching, even if it is non sexual . I love to be touched and touch others. It is more powerful then words to me. I am extremely jealous so i cant imagine my male counterpart to me any different, and possessive as well. Two very bad traits. But then you know that we are hooked , and in love if we act all crazy and possessive. If you do get him alone and things “happen” stick to JUST kissing and making out.for that first time. Remember slow and steady…. we never liked to be rushed or pushed into anything. If we feel that we are being cornered we will resit, and dig in and hence the stubborn bull comes out. And if the truth be known we are totally insecure, shhh dont tell. Sure we can tell that people like us, but if its not the ones we want , well we will really be crushed, since we didnt just fall for you yesterday….. but over months. We need to be made to laugh ( thats why i loved my Leo, since he loved the spotlight and making ppl laugh). Never lie to him, if you dont want to share something then dont. If you lie to us we just feel that there are probably more where that came from, and that you dont really respect us. ( the insecure thing). I am pretty sure the STrong slient type refers to the taurus. As i have lots of emotions and lots of things to say, just not in person. If i could write a letter to people that would just suit me fine. That is why i love to Text , little communication as possible. I am about doing , not talking. As they say i walk the talk. If i say i am going to do it, i do it, without much yacking about it. You also will need to tell him what you expect or want from this “encounter” so that he is not taken by surprise a month or two later. If you just want to be casual, or you are looking for a long term relationship let him know upfront. Cause that is what you will get. Even if it is not right away, he will know that you have long term goals… something we like. I don’t know what to tell you to really talk about? Cause i don’t think we really like to talk. We are all about love and affection, and down to earth kinda people. I can sit for hours and not say anything if i feel comfortable with somebody. And that is the kinda thing you don’t find everyday, to actually be comfortable with silence. If you are a bit of a risk taker or like adventure be sure to intrigue him with your adventures! We love others stories, and that will make you more interesting…. YOU actually get out of your house and do things ( huge to us to want to leave the comfort of our homes, that we have spent a lifetime building up and making look great) ….LOL . Well i hope that this helps you . Let me know how things go for you tomorrow. And remember if you do hook up , we like Slow at first, but later dont worry we are the kind to want to jump your bones on a daily basis!
@crazygemini02
I cant believe that it missed my last sentence…. after i said we want to jump your bones on a daily basis ! Because after all we are ruled by the planet of love and beauty……….Venus!!!!!
Hey @Superstar
See, I’m half convinced he has a girlfriend because there’s a lot of signs. For example, on his facebook there’s pics of him all cuddly with a woman on vacation…..one that I noticed texts him at all hours of the night. They also went to a wedding together and he has pics with the woman’s kid (it isn’t his kid.) However, being that we all work in the same field, and there’s like not more than two degrees of seperation for really any emergency worker in our county- why hasn’t ANYONE mentioned her, him and her, or even know if he’s dating? I find that the provocative texts he sent me and AWESOME sign…….and I was thrilled to receive them. I just want to put my a game on tomorrow when I see him…..too bad i’ll be exhausted lol. This has been a slow and steady encounter, but its so much better than the last two (including the Scorp) that went from 0 to 100 then crashed into the median, bursting into flames lol.
As for Leo, his humor was so on par with mine that is why I really adored him. We made each other laugh, he wasn’t on either extreme politically, etc. Unfortunately he was not man enough to confess his problem with me and I was straight ghetto about how I handled it.
Do you think you and your Leo can work it out?