Now, that’s odd. If your Aries man does not want to move fast, it’s likely he has Venus in an earth sign — he doesn’t want to take risks. Normally, an Aries would go full throttle into a relationship; he knows what he wants, and he goes for it. He’s not one to “hem and haw” when it comes to jumping into the waters.
Venus ventures no further than two signs away from one’s Sun sign. Taurus, therefore, could be the culprit. The sign of the Bull takes things slow, indeed. Venus in Taurus doesn’t like change, and is focused on security, so “she” will stick her toe in the water to test the temperature, as opposed to Aries, who will confidently dive right in. If the budding relationship feels “just right,” Venus will cautiously submerge herself into the pool, and will keep an eye out for sharks. It is only when she feels comfortable that she will enjoy herself, and then it will take two lifeguards to pull her out of the water, because she won’t want to leave.
An Aries with Venus in Taurus can come across then — in matters of love — like a split personality. He really does want to go for it, and does not usually consider the consequences of his actions, but he just can’t help getting stuck in this area of his life. Unfortunately, he may not be able to see this aspect of himself clearly — it’s a bit of a blind spot. Just trust that if he says, “Let’s take things slow,” he means it … otherwise, he would have left the pool to play football.
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