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How to get the married Sagittarius man

December 12, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner 54 Comments

[ad]OK, I’m gonna get on my moral high horse right now and tell you that it is wrong to break up a marriage.

That said, it’s not so hard to get a married Sagittarius man. He’s got a bit of wanderlust in him. The Sagittarius man does not like to be shackled in wedlock, so a mare on the other side of the fence will appeal to him, especially if she can promise adventure … a rollick in greener pastures, for example.

On the other hand, some Sagittarius men love mounting the moral high horse. Sag is ruled by Jupiter, planet of ethics and religion. If the married man you covet has strong beliefs about the institution of marriage, then you’re wasting your time. Find some other stallion … preferably one’s who’s single!

Comment below: Have you had any luck seducing a married Sagittarius man?

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Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

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  1. Anonymous says

    December 21, 2006 at 9:19 pm

    If only I had known this 12 years ago when I married my Sagitarius man! Found out 11 years after the wedding that he was on his 4th girlfriend!! D’oh!

  2. Jeffrey Kishner says

    December 21, 2006 at 9:28 pm

    Ouch!

  3. Anonymous says

    December 26, 2006 at 10:58 pm

    I’m a Sagitarius woman. I didn’t have to seduce him. He seduced me!
    And he’s quite the charmer I must say. I think I met my match.

  4. Anonymous says

    May 6, 2007 at 10:42 am

    its not hard seducing a married saggi man..but i guess they a flirts..play with u and throw u away..promise u evrything and then when its time for committment,they will turn away..
    .beware gals..

  5. Anonymous says

    July 16, 2007 at 5:15 am

    imma a sag woman and was involved with a sag man …met my match!

  6. hotlips says

    July 30, 2007 at 11:38 am

    im a married libran woman, who’s fell hook line and sinker for a married sag, he’s not gona leave his wife for me, no matter how great the sex with me!! What have i done!!

  7. Anonymous says

    September 7, 2007 at 1:18 pm

    I’m a scorpio seeing a married saggitarius man. His wife kicked him out and he came to me… an ex-girlfriend. Because they have children together, he tries hard to work things out and I honestly hope the best for them… but I want to keep him in my life, too. I can’t believe his wife would do anything but adore him! I’d take her place any day!

  8. sandra says

    October 9, 2007 at 8:51 pm

    saggi men suck you in and spit you out! I am heart broken, they give you everything and such a good time then you are all alone.

    cancerian xx

  9. iabout2switchteams313 says

    October 19, 2007 at 10:39 pm

    im libra and i dont know wat 2 do with the sag i know we had a misunderstanding an i did something really mean to him but says he forgives me and still wants to talk and all that hes kinda goofey and i love it but i wonder was he just being nice or if he meant wat he said

  10. whatever says

    December 3, 2007 at 11:02 pm

    Stand in the Archer’s line of aim. He’ll hit and run, right on target. After you pick yourself up and dust yourself off he might even take you on a trip somewhere.

    (make sure there’s a hotel ’cause he might be packing his camping gear)

  11. Anonymous says

    December 16, 2007 at 4:42 am

    I’m kinda seeing a married sag. It’s nothing serious really, coz I have a partner myself. He said he got his eyes on me at first sight at work. Oh yea, we work together. I can’t really expect something more than a fling or a ‘no-string-attached’ relationship with married sag. He mentioned it at the first time ‘clearly’: he loves his wife but he’s interested in me. Funny though, coz as an arian, I don’t really mind to play along. Fire rules 😉

    Sag is playful. If you want the affair to last, give him some attention – but not the ‘ i need you always’ kind of attention. I gave him little secret flirt notes on his desk/msn at work. As well as wine and high quality alcohol for his b’day.

    The most exciting part of this is no one knows what’s going on between us at the office.

  12. whatever says

    December 16, 2007 at 8:34 pm

    there’s a landmine in the making 😉

    neither Aries or Sagittarius can tell a good lie

    enjoy it while it lasts, and start sending out resumes for a new job when the explosives ignite

    there’s always a Pisces or Scorpio in the midst who knows exactly what is going on

    and a tattletale Virgo who’ll blow the whistle

    and a Capricorn who’ll administer the necessary punishment

    the only way around this is to pretend you don’t exist to each other at work, not in the least

    but Aries and Sagittarius can’t tell a good lie, or keep up a good act!

    the only ones who pull these deals off with finesse are Scorpios, sorry

  13. addendum says

    December 16, 2007 at 8:38 pm

    and even then, only when the planets are aligned in their favour

    Russian Roulette

  14. whatever says

    December 16, 2007 at 8:57 pm

    oh yeah I forgot to mention there’s usually a Gemini blabbermouth to take care of the PR for you and telecast the news across the planet

    and an Aquarius who could really care less

  15. Anonymous says

    March 4, 2008 at 1:13 am

    I was married to a Sag, am now seeing a Sag, my sister is a Sag and she is married to a Sag. Probably the four most faithful people I have ever met! What’s up with that?

  16. Anonymous says

    March 27, 2008 at 3:04 pm

    Yikes!I’m a married scorpio woman attracted to a single, almost 50 year old, never been married, sagitarius man. He’s fun to talk to and I’m tempted to take it further but think I’ll keep him as a friend, skip the sex part. Although it could be fantastic, he’s probably not worth the trouble. I also didn’t need to seduce him, he came on to me..in a very big way making it all the more tempting.

  17. Jeffrey Kishner says

    March 27, 2008 at 10:07 pm

    what kind of man is worth the trouble to cheat on your spouse?

  18. Anonymous says

    April 26, 2008 at 8:21 pm

    i’m a gem girl with a saggitarius guy.WATCH OUT.these guys sweep you off your feet,then get bored,FAST.they love freedom,so marriage is not their thing.divorces:numerous!if you like not really having a partner,go for it.tips:be on the move,ALL THE TIME.do your own thing,travel,workout,friends.never want time together.sounds like fun,right?

  19. Anonymous says

    April 27, 2008 at 1:14 am

    I am a gemini female married to a sag. We go together like fire & ice, oil & water but it works. yes, yes, opposites attract. My advice is to find out what he is into, sports, music food & read about it then have a conversation w/ him about it. They are sensitive and know gem’s every move but they call our bluff and we love it. Remember, ignore us and we are yours.

  20. Anonymous says

    May 24, 2008 at 6:14 pm

    I am so attracted to a Sag man that I work with. He is much younger than I although I look young for my age, I am 43 he is 30. He is also very married with children and makes no bones about loving his wife but we flirt with each other, talk on the phone, email each other and have had some brief sexual encounters. I am a Scorpio and I don’t think our personalities match so I have to work hard to make sure we get along. I am not usually the pursuer I am used to being pursued but he doesn’t jump through hoops for anyone. He is very smart, ambitious, handsome, athletic and everyone in the office is attracted to him. I can’t move on with my life because i desire him so although I know deep down it would never pan out to be what I want in a relationship.

  21. Anonymous says

    May 24, 2008 at 6:41 pm

    This is Anonymous again, the one attracted to the 30 year old, did I mention I beleive he’s only interested in the sex part whereas I am trying to build a friendship and a relationship. He is also very cautious about outside of work dates etc. very fearful of being found out by his wife and I also believe he has had quite a few other work relationships but of course he’d never admit them. Any advice?

  22. Anonymous says

    June 26, 2008 at 11:58 pm

    34 Yr Taurus woman goin after a 51 Yr unavailable Sag! Make Way! …To be continued…

  23. Anonymous says

    July 13, 2008 at 3:43 pm

    My first and whom I believe to be my true love is a sagittarian guy. We met at 14yrs old and spent about three days a week hanging out with each other for 4 years…I was shy at that age, and couldn’t bring myself to pursue him, which is what he wanted me to do! Sag’s hardly ever do the pursuing, they charm you till you believe it was your idea!
    Once we hit 18, I became alot more confident in myself, but was interested in someone else, then we lost contact..
    7 years later, after I’d had kids and broken up with the father, I found a group online which reunited all my old friends that both the sag and I hung out with. I contacted everyone, including him(and might I add, he is married now, and ten times hotter than he was at 14!)…
    Seeing his pics, sparked that old flame that I had buried so long ago, but being a responsible Virgo, didn’t believe it right to pursue him. I resolved to reignite our friendship instead. It’s only been a week that we’ve been in contact and I feel close to him again, even flirtatious, and I feel that if at our reunion, he wants more, he can do the chasing, for a casual thing…if not, we still have a strong bond and we challenge each other enough to have a long and pleasant friendship…

    ie learn to play their game, sag’s like to win you over…

  24. Anonymous says

    July 29, 2008 at 10:00 pm

    im having an online relationship with a Sag. hes exxxtremely charming and emotional & romantic. i wanted just sex & he swears he wants more. part of me believes him & part of me is staying very grounded (as best as i can under such charms) but we may meet in a month. maybe i will check back & post how it turned out! i am a bit psychic too and my guides and signs are telling me it is real love…!

  25. Anonymous says

    August 11, 2008 at 6:12 am

    Well I’m a sagitarius women and i was dating a sagitarius man then i found out 4 months ago he was dating somebody behind my back welll she’s famous and is loaded with money but theres a huge age difference she’s 15 and he’s 19. i know weird but she’s also a sagitarius and i really want him back cuz i just know hes the one and there really “involved” but the only problem is that they don’t have sex and i know it kills him in side even tho he hides it very well i might add. Any help?

  26. Anonymous says

    September 28, 2008 at 4:24 am

    Am a married virgoan, fell head over heeels over a married sag man. It was kinda whirlwind. Right, the sag man is unreliable. Broke my heart, but I still desire him. So hard to forget.

  27. confused says

    October 2, 2008 at 10:00 pm

    I’m a virgoan women in a relationship, flirting with a sag co-worker i kind of have the same problem as other’s had said, i didn’t like him at first, i thought he was decent looking but then out of no where i’m with my boyfriend and i’m thinking about him…wtf. Now after three weeks of him persuing me heavily…nothing, then i find myself doing things to get his attention back and i start to get jealous that he hasn’t asked me to hang out or anything and he hangs out with other girls. i find myself retracing my steps to see what i did wrong for him not show me so much attention. i love my boyfriend, but i can’t get this kid out of my head i know he has commitment fobia so i know this will probably go nowhere and i’m at rish for screwing up at work and losing my bf, do i just need to walk away and not look back…help

  28. anonymous says

    January 3, 2009 at 3:09 am

    im a married libra girl, my husband in gemini and i adore and love him, but i met this sag guy, and just like the post from confused says, i found myself thinking about him all he time when im with my husband. he knew i was married so never pursued me but every time i saw him i felt tis overwhelming sexual atrraction to him, a very positive aura, its was unbelievable, first time ever this happened, and ive had so so many boyfriends in the past so i know!!! i pursued him, which wasnt difficult, he said he liked me from first time he saw me etc, one thing led to another and we had the most passionate sex ever. i felt guilty but becoz hubby did cheat on me in the past, in the end didnt bother me that much. anyways, now i want the sag man all the time, we see each other sometimes, but i want more and so does he. dont know what to do, dont wanna ruin my marriage as i do love my husband, but the sex is just so much better. its all about that. terrible how primitive it is!

  29. lolz says

    January 3, 2009 at 3:37 am

    so in the end Sag men can boast about their mounting *moral* high horse and sleep with numerous chicks at the same time.

    Just like Brad Pitt said, we didn’t cheat! on second thought, err…we fell in love, or in bed.

    well done =]

  30. Matthew Currie says

    January 3, 2009 at 9:17 pm

    Hey… at least we’re (generally) honest about it. 😉

  31. TomQ says

    January 12, 2009 at 4:11 pm

    Where to start… I would love for more info on the Sag male and Gemini female. Generally what I am reading is that it points to trouble but…..
    I am a married male Sag. Married to what I thought was the love of my life Aries. We have been together for 15 years. She had an affair. My initial response was to try to work things out. But we have taken a long time trying to get back on track and still are not there. I also I took this opportunity to “allow myself” to be open to the possibility of something/someone else. I met a Gemini girl that has totally “over powered” me. That is not quite right, she was nothing but caring and kind, but it reflects how I feel now – helpless to her. She was separated at the time, and I was reeling from the affair. And we were honest about all of this from the get go. Oh my lord those 4 months we spent together were the most pleasureably exaughsting moments of my life. She lives in one state, I live across the country, but was travelng for work. We both have kids. We “stopped” seeing eachother knowing we each had to get our own houses in order. She refuses to communicate with me now, for all the right reasons I suspect. I do not know if she is working on her marriage or has moved on. I have not progressed much myself, and it has been over a year. Yet, she is the last thing on my mind when I go to bed and the first thing on my mind when I wake up. It is funny, I was talking with a friend about how I am stuck and I likened it to the following … I am sure I could patch up my marriage and be happy enough. In fact, I suspect it would be relatively smooth sailing. And I am sure trying to persue anything with the Gemini would be much more work, exaughsting, and volatile – BUT GIVE ME THE CRACK! That high was worth it……

  32. koko says

    January 15, 2009 at 2:36 pm

    ya , im a saG AN D LOVED A LIBRA u knw wat she took me for granted.
    libra are very bad, they need love from two sides and they do things that provoke you a llot. im a sag and we see, analyse but its too late .

  33. Anonymous says

    January 26, 2009 at 2:22 pm

    I can attest to the fickle emotions of a Sag! I was 3 weeks away from my husband moving out last year when I formed an online relationship with a married Sag who lived across the country… one of those “internet affairs.” He claimed he was at breaking point in the marriage, too. Long story short, he was just interested in spicing up his boring sex life while I actually was experiencing a split. I figured this out after a while and it bugged me. Also, his interest in me seemed to begin to fade very quickly. He also did NOT like me feeling territorial. Of course said Sag man had Uranus conjunct Moon natally and this only added to his fickle emotions, so I’m sure that didn’t help. He was indeed very charming and quite a smooth talker… BEWARE~! I concur– a married Sag will talk you up and leave you high and dry when you get attached and/or his emotions flip.

  34. Anonymous says

    March 14, 2009 at 9:55 pm

    I am friends with two Sag married men….one is just purely looking for sex with me, the other one is different…he wants to build a friendship but also very interested in sex. Interesting. They both adore sex and are fun to tell all my fantasies too and share porn with.

  35. ermine says

    March 14, 2009 at 11:27 pm

    Uhh.. why why would you want to get involved with a married man?? join porn site to post your comments, not astrology.

  36. madamx says

    June 19, 2009 at 10:31 pm

    I’m an aquarius-pisces cusp woman married to a sagg and it was hot and heavy in the beginning (really great) but, we both fell into the marriage comfort zone. We both crave adventure with other people but, not telling eachother,I can see it in his eyes. My constant need for freedom bugs him a bit although he likes his space as well and my desire to have male friends (which I get on better with) and be in male company more than female annoys him. My sagg loves female company (most of his friends are women) and enjoys flirting a lot. But, if we are spending a day apart he would try whatever in his power to tag me along againts my will in fear that I will cheat (very weird). Most of the time a want a day,two,a week or month without him around. I guesss he has met his match.

  37. aquarius-pisces cusp queen says

    June 19, 2009 at 10:37 pm

    if I had my way I would be great friends with my sagg husband and have that wild passionate love making with my ex-pisces lover. I really miss him and would continue having a bit on the side with him any day.

  38. Opus says

    June 25, 2009 at 5:38 pm

    I’m a married Sag. Though I sometimes wish I were different, I cannot be. I am very much in love with my wife and do not wish to lose all the material and emotional comfort that we bring each other. I cannot concieve of her recieving my attention only. I am very passionate and fall in love very easily. It is overwhelming and the object of my love recieves all of my thoughts and attention. I have noticed this many times over the years. I have also notice that, once there is a shimmer my attention moves and the passion runs cold, very cold to completely indifferent. I am aware that this is not how it “sopposed” to be but it is the way that I am and I will not and do not want to change. I have learned to feel out the object to understand how they will react once this occurs then to gage my actions accordingly. The stronger get it turned on more strongly. the fragile get my compasion.

  39. cancer wife says

    June 25, 2009 at 6:22 pm

    Sag’s flirt , but their heart belongs at home , they like the attention , but will drop you in a heartbeat. My husband Flirts with everyone from 18-80 its his personality -happy go lucky , but he never takes it to another level. all of you that think just because he listens to you jokes around and is playful need to get a clue- once it passes an uncomfortable level he will disappear like the wind. Sags appreciate everyone, but there is usually one person that holds their heart that they will always go back to. Find yourself a single man trust me the Sag isn’t into you like you think unless you spend everyday with him. In love Sags are obsessed and need the home base to recharge after a day of social butterflying.Mine comes home and tells me everything , even when girls like you take them too seriously. He casually told some girl let’s go to lunch and she was stunned when he brought me along. Worse yet my Sag tells people male and female all the time let’s go out and has no intention of ever doing so – he’s just being social and nice- Women today are so insecure that any man that talks to them kindly or is friendly for more then a few minutes they instantly think he wants her – grow up, get a life- find a partner and stay away from married men- they have wives and families

  40. Cancerian says

    July 9, 2009 at 4:47 pm

    my husband is a sag. he was my first serious relationship. he was such an incredible boyfriend! after 3 years, he asked me to marry him. we got married last december 2008. as soon as we got married, his affection as well as time with me faded…i caught him a couple of times exchanging sweet text messages with someone on the cell phone. one day i confronted him, at first he denied everything…it’s just nothing…he said he will never cheat on me…he loves me…and i believed him…but as days, weeks and months rolled by…he was becoming more and more cold and indifferent. no more affection, doesn’t want to spend more time with me, goes home late…later on i found out that he was really cheating on me. He is currently having an affair with his coworker. they started having an affair a month before we got married. i actually found out about it from my husband’s boss! i even confronted the girl…and she admitted to having an affair with my husband…she even knows we are married. my husband and i talked about…but still denied everything…he didn’t even apologize or ask for my forgiveness…i asked him if he still loves me and he said he does…i asked him why he did it, trying to find out the root cause, but he didn’t want to open up and talk about it. i gave him another chance to redeem himself…but again, he didn’t change. he even got worse! last june, he had been acting very strange…he even asked me to pack up my stuff and leave our house because he said that he is confused about his feelings and he needs to isolate himself, etc. but i didn’t leave. i was already having negative feelings towards his request. so when he got back home, and saw me still there, he went furious, real mad! I tried to calm him down, we had dinner, then all of a sudden he announced that he will be sleeping over at a friend’s house. so he left…the next day, he went home…as if nothing happened. after 2 days, he informed me that he will be sleeping over again at a friend’s house. by this time, i was already suspicious…i asked him where, he said at a friend’s house, so when he left..i called up his friend and he said he hasn’t talked nor seen my husband for a long time. to make the long story short, last month, he finally talked to me and admitted everything. he said that he already has a gf, he doesn’t love me anymore, and he wants a divorce. I was completely shocked…i knew there was something wrong…we just got married and now he wants to drop me just like that?! i still tried to hold on, wanting to save our marriage, but as by doing so, my husband got more irritated. on my birthday, last june 24, he kicked me out of the house. that was the end of it. just like that.

  41. me! says

    July 19, 2009 at 12:07 pm

    i live right next door to a sag man who has been in a “committed” but not married relationship for several years.

    one day, he hit on me and he hit on me hard! i was not only shocked but HAPPY! we had building up a flirty type of friendship for a few months, but i never thought he would cross the line.

    here is the deal on him… he LOVES attention, he LOVES long conversations, he thrives on GOOD and HARD sex 🙂 we have literally done it all over the place, including my garage on our cars and everywhere else (rememebr, we live right next door to each other and he lives with her!) and he is very attentive and loving and sexy!

    the woman he lives with treats him like shit and treats him like a child, constantly bosses him around and shows no real interest in him. i always have shown an interest.

    this has been going on a few weeks, and it is very bold and out there. getting caught seems inevitable and ill probably get my @$$ kicked by her, but damn he is worth it!

    highly recommended!

  42. Lilly says

    September 7, 2009 at 8:50 am

    I dated a sagittarius a few years ago, I’m also a sagittarius. We still get along great and I couldn’t ask for anyone better to cheer me up when I’ve had a rough day. I’ve certainly met my match. If anyone who is not a sagittarius is thinking of marrying a sagittarius…WATCH OUT!!! We do not like routine and we don’t like being fussed over. My advice is…if you want to have fun, Sag is it, but if you’re not a Sag…don’t marry one.

  43. LibraLady says

    September 23, 2009 at 1:00 pm

    That is sooo bad….What is this cheaters corner? TSK TSK TSK

  44. LYALYA MAY says

    September 26, 2009 at 1:06 pm

    IM A GEMINI AND BEEN IN LOVE WITH A PISCES FOR YEARS THIS JANUARY I FOUND OUT THAT HE IS GETTIN MARRIED TO MY FRIEND I TOOK IT VERY HARD N STARTED DATING TO GET OVER HIM…SO I JOINED A DATIN SITE WHERE ONE OF THE FIRST MEN I STARTED TALKIN TO WAS A SAGG…I STILL HAVE NO IDEA WHY AND HOW BUT HE STOOD OUT AND WE WENT ON A DATE WHICH WAS FANTASTIC…AT DINER OUR WITT AND INTELLIGENCE FOUND BLISS AS THE NIGHT PROGRESSED SUMHOW WE ENDED UP IN HIS HOUSE DOING THE NAUGHTY IN HIS JACOZZEY AND ALL NITE LONG LOCO ADULT TIME, WITH BREAKFAST THE NEXT MORNING…IT WAS THE BEST DATES I EVEN BEEN TO…EVEN THOUGHT HE WAS VERY PLEASENT N CHARMIN HE WAS THE OPPOSITE OF ANYGUY I WOULD EVER MEET OR GO ON A DATE ON I WASENT ATTRACTED TO HIM BUT I LOVE ATTENTION N FELT COMFORTABLE IN HIS COMPANY…AND AN IMPORTANT CHARACTERISTIC TO ME IS HUMOR/SARCASIM HE HAD A GOOD BALANCE OF EM BOTH WHICH GOT MY ATTENTION
    AS A BITTER GEMINI AND HEARTBROKEN I WAS PLAYIN A GAME THAT I HAD NO IDEA THAT I WAS BEING PLAYED AT THE SAME TIME…THE SAGG HAD A STORY OF HIS OWN…GOIN THRU DIVORCE OF 10 YEARS MARRIAGE N A TEENAGER SON…BASED ON HIS WORDS HE WAS BLAMED FOR CHEATING ( TO WHICH HE OFCOURSE DENIED) BY HIS WIFE (WHO WAS ALSO A RED HEADED GEMINI N IF I MAY ADD BIPOLAR)
    ONE DAY HE GOT HOME AND HIS HOUSE WAS EMPTY..SHE LEFT HIM DRY…HIS RECOVERY WAS VERY HARD…SITTIN IN HIS HOUSE/ROOM WITH BITTERNESS AND ANGER N ALL D REST OF SHITTY FEELINGS FOR A YEAR STRAIGHT…HE WAS WORK/HOME DPRESSED…AFTER ALMOST 2 YEARS OF SHUTING DOWN FROM D WORLD HE FINALLY STARTED DATING HERE AND THERE
    AS SOON AS WE MET HIS DATIN OTHER GIRLS ENDED..I AMAZED HIS LIFE WITH FUN AND ADVENTURE..LOVED BY HIS FAMILY AND HIGHLY RESPECTED BY HIS FRIENDS (N HIS SON) ALL WAS GOIN GREAT UNTIL AFTER 7 MONTHS OF HAPPINESS ONE WEEKEND HE GETS ONE INVITE AND DIDNT TAKE ME ALONG THAN THE NEXT WEEKEND ANOTHER PARTY N ALL THE SUDDEN A MYSTERIES CAMPING TRIP TO WHICH I DIDNT GET INVITED EITHER..I DIDNT HEAR FROM HIM FOR 5 DAYS WHEN HE WAS THERE…TO MAKE IT SHORT..WEEK AFTER WEEK D COMMUNICATION GOT DISTANT, HE MADE NO TIME FOR ME N SEEMED TO ALWAYS HAVE OTHER THINGS, AND BIGGEST HINT FOR ME WAS HIS (FLACKINESS INCREASED) WHICH IS MY NUMBER ONE RULE I DONT TOLERATE…
    HE GOT DISTANT AND TREATED ME WITH LITTLE IMPORTANCE WHEN I DID SEE HIM…I NOTICED THAT EVEN WHEN HE KISSED ME IT WAS DIFFERENT..HE DID A LOT OF STARIN AT ME WHICH WAS VERY STRANGE TO ME SINCE HE NEVER LOOKED AT ME LIKE THAT….FOR SUM STRANGE REASON I ASKED HIM ONE OF THE DAYS IF HE EVER GOT CHEATED ON/CHEATED ON ANYONE/WOULD HAVE CHEATED IF HAD A CHANCE ON HIS EX-WIFE TO WHICH ALL ANSWERS WERE YES…HIS LIPS WERE MOVIN BUT HIS BODY AND EYES WERE SAYIN SUMTHIN ELSE..
    MY LAST POINT OF HIS MISTREATS IN MY DIRECTION WEN I WAS AT MY WORTH PHYSICAL HEALTH POINT N DESPERATLY NEEDED SUMONE TO TAKE ME TO A EMERGENCY SINCE I WASENT ABLE TO MOVE OR WALK AND AFTER LEAVIN 3 BEGGIN MSS WITH PAIN N CRYIN HE FINALLY SHOWED UP DROVE ME TWO BLOCKS TO THE ER ENTRANCE AND LEFT ME THERE ALONE SAYIN HE HAS TO GO BACK TO WORK. AND DIDN’T CALL TO CHECK ON ME UNTIL D NEXT DAY WITH VERY LITTLE WORRY OR CONCERN.
    WITH THINGS PILLIN UP..N HIS STRANGE BEHAVIOR AFTER HIS CAMPIN TRIP I FOUND OUT THRU HIS FRIENDS THAT HE CHEATED ON ME . TOOOK HIS EX GIRLFREIND CAMPIN WITH HIM TO HAVE A HOT SWEATY TRIP OF LOTS OF SE X TO SEE IF MAYBE HE GET A SPARK OR CHEMISTRY WITH HER SINCE HIS FEELINGS FOR ME STARTED TO GROW AND HIS HEART WAS MELTIN IT FREAKED HIM OUT N HE ON PURPOSE DID A TEST DRIVE WITH HIS EX …N ALSO I WAS INFORMED WITH MORE NEGATIVE INFO BOUT HIM LYIN TO ME.. I GOT DISTANT AND STARTED TREATIN HIM JUST HE WAS TO ME AND HE RAN AFTER ME THAN AGAIN BEING WEIRD ..I DECIDED TO END IT …AFTER PITY SEX I TOLD HIIM THAT I WANNA GO N SEE OTHER PPL AND ON DATES..HIS EYES GOT BIG AND (SADNESS N PAIN) HE SAID IT’S A GOOD IDEA AND ITS BEST FOR ME..NEXT DAY I GET A EMAIL SAIYIN THIS:
    HIS EMAIL: You’re a big part of my life now. I would never want you to disapear from sight. There are a ton of things that i love about you. But some things weigh to heavy on my mind. I also felt like I was using you. I mean I wasn’t intentionally using you, but I can’t make all your dreams come true. thats why I’ve been a little distant. I don’t think I was being fair to you. You are always pleasant company. I understand that you are having a hard time. And I will continue to be there for you. When you will not be alone, I will continue be there for you. I just wish I was at a different stage in my life, or maybe a little younger. I guess I’m just not all the way there emotionally yet or maybe I’m letting go of the best thing I will ever know. I don’t ever want to stop talking to you or seeing you. But I will understand if you feel you can’t. You are by far one of the most important people to me, I wish I could make you understand that. Just so we are clear, there is NO ONE ELSE. You are an incredible woman. And have no regrets for ever trying to take a chance with you. Like I said I wish things were different. All my love to you.
    THAT SAME NITE WE BROKE UP…FEW DAYS AFTER I DIDN’T PICK UP HIS CALLS…FLACKED OUT ON HIM…WAS FACESIOUSLY HONEST N LECTURED HIM…N MENTIONED THAT I GOT A DATE THAT DAY..HE GOT SO HURT..TXT HIS FRIENDS SAYIN THAT HIS HEART IS HURTING..ALL OF THIS IS WITHIN THE 5 DAYS PERIOD AFTER THE BREAK…HE GOT SO HURT THAT HE LOST ME..SO IM BACK TO BEING BITTER FROM BOTH PISCES N SAGG….SO MUCH FOR A LOVE STORY N GIVIN MEN A CHANCE ..
    ANY COMENTS ? OPINIONS? ALL WILL BE RESPECTED AND APPRCIATED AS VALUABLE INFO..BEST OF LUCK FOR ALL WHO THESE FACINATIN CREATURES HALF MAN HALF HOURSE….MAKE SURE U GOT UR RUNNING SHOES N A CAR WITH FULL GAS TANK..CUZ EITHER UR WALKIN/JOGGIN OR DRIVIN AWAY FAST…THE CHOICE WILL BE ALL URS….EITHER TAKE EM BACK OR WAIT FOR EM!!!!
    P.S. I HAVE FACTS AND PROVE OF HIS ADULTERY/CHEATIN ON ME FROM HIS SEX CAMPIN TRIP WITH HIS EX…AND EVEN PICTURES WITH EM TWO TO BUST HIM..BUT I BEEN QUITE AND HE HAS NO IDEA THAT I KNOW IT ALL….I HAVE NO DESIRE TO USE IT AGAINST HIM OR CONFRONTIN HIM…IT WILL BE A WASTE OF MY TIME…JUST PLAINLY IGNORE AND DATE OTHER PPL…HE WILL REGRET IT IN HIS OWN TIME…I WISH HIM ALL D BEST…BUT KARMA IS A BITCH! LOL

  45. LYALYA MAY says

    September 26, 2009 at 1:10 pm

    SORRY FOR A LONG COMMENT….ITS BEST TO HAVE A BETTER UNDERSTANDIN OF A SITUATION WEN IT IS BIT DETAILED EXPLAINED..IF ANYONE GOT A COMMENT ON IT ..DO SHARE..DO TELL..MAYBE THERE ARE SUM SIMILARITIES OR WAT NOT….ANYTHIIN WILL BE APPRECAITED…ESPECIALLY ADVICE.

    IF THOSE WHO WONDER..( NO) I DIDNT LOVE HIM….AND (YES) I CARE FOR HIM DEEPLY…MY PRIDE WONT ALLOW ONE TO DEVELP N OTHER TO BE SHOWN OR HEARD…IM A STRANGE GAMINI INDEED! LOL MAY 22 EXACT…WAT IS MY RISIN PLANET? I HAVE NO IDEA….

  46. LYALYA MAY says

    September 26, 2009 at 1:12 pm

    AND TO ADD…THE SAGG IS NOVEMBER 22 AND IM MAY 22….10 YEARS DIFFERENCE..LOL

  47. Anonymous says

    January 28, 2010 at 11:25 am

    Ehm, you do know it’s very difficult to read a text completely in ALL CAPS, it’s easier for humans to read lower caps… Anyway, I’m a sage woman and know that this post is about men. I have for the past 2 years been in love with a sage man who indeed can’t stand commitment and never wants to become commited. However, I’m sure there is a way to get a sage man to stay commited, probably the same way you’d get a sage woman to stay commited…even tho we’re the same sign it’s difficult for me to know exactly what to do. Hmmm…anyhow, I don’t get involved in a relationship unless I intend to stay faithful to the person I’m with. I’m a very honest person and could not keep myself from telling the person I’m with if I were to ever have any feelings for someone else. xD Harsh…but I think honesty is better than keeping it secret.

  48. hotkiss12 says

    March 5, 2010 at 9:46 am

    I am a married sagittarius woman seeing a married sagittaruis man! WOW!!
    What can I say but……the chemistry, the fire everything is there. We hit it
    off immediatley. We are very passionate and truly enjoy each other in all ways.
    We are both intelligient,have good careers and share the same values of work and family. We are very happy when we are together and hate to leave one another.
    It is interesting to see what comes of this! Please wish me luck….I found my soulmate!

  49. Caz says

    June 2, 2010 at 8:03 am

    Oh good grief this IS cheating central! Stay away from Sag males if they are married with kids. Let them break up their own marriages first before pursuing you – be firm, be straight, be honest, they GET the hint very quickly. They are Sag males! They look for friendship and honesty.

    With that said, here’s my experience….

    I dated/hung out with a Scorpio/Sagittarius Cusp male ten years ago (we’re both cusp babies with a Sagittarius Sun under Scorpio influence – we have NINE conjunctions, many trines/sextiles and four squares (these squares make the relationship intense but are actually good influences because of our conjunctions – we’re so alike that having some differences in there helps glue the bond more – it’s crazy – our synastry is off the wall with the nine conjunctions in place and our birthdays are two days apart). 🙂

    I lost touch of the Scorp/Sag male because I got married to a Capricorn male within six months of no longer hanging out with the Scorp/Sag male! The Scorp/Sag male and I never knew what we wanted from each other. We were at completely different paths in our lives – he went to college finally and I refused for him to change his life for me after getting burned in an three year engagement to an Aquarius male months prior to meeting the Scorp/Sag Cusp male. I was firm, honest and I was upfront – I used my head more than my heart when I hung out with my Scorp/Sag Cusp male – I wouldn’t change any of it – just the keeping in contact part – I wanted him always with me regardless of our lives going in opposite directions. I befriend him that’s why – it’s the Sag female in me – we’re notorious for being in touch with our ex-lovers). 🙂

    I would never in my life cheat on my Cappie male but I did reestablish a friendship with the Scorp/Sag Cusp male a month ago because I missed him and I wanted to know how he was! He’s got this great life now and I’m happy I let him go down his life path without me – I’m happy for him. Also the Scorp/Sag Cusp male’s in a committed relationship with another girl now and he knows I am married because ten years ago he wrote me a letter to tell me he got into college but I never got it because my mom sent it back to him telling him I got married and to make his own decision if to contact me or not! The Scorp/Sag Cusp male didn’t mail the letter and we went ten years without having each other in our lives!

    So I searched him out, not him searching me out – but he did wonder about me over the past ten years. 😉

    The bottom line is – work out what you want from the Sag male straight away if he’s married and he’s worth being friends then just friend him but never let him change his life for you especially if you don’t know what you want or what he wants for himself. If they change their lives quickly they will regret it and probably break up with you too and then end up in an even bigger mess than where they started! Sags are notorious for doing the ‘grass is greener on the other side’ and then getting the grass on the other side only to want the grass in the pen they sprung from more!

    As I said earlier be straight, honest and FIRM! If you’re friends, stay friends, he will be there when you need someone – they can be reliable because they require the deep friendship above everything else. Don’t chase him, tie him down, hound him – let him come to you. He’ll chase you if he knows he’s got an ‘in’ with you. They are very direct with their feelings when they know what they want from you and what you want from them.

    For the most part, I have an established set boundary between the Scorp/Sag Cusp male and I – he won’t cross it and I won’t cross it either. I’m married with a family of my own now. He’s got his life and a really fabulous girlfriend who comes from a nice family – he can’t mess that up because of me and I won’t allow it to happen. I’m determined to be there for him because I missed out on ten years of his life when he needed a friend (he lost a lot of family to cancer during the ten years we were not in touch) and he missed out on ten years of my life when I needed a friend too – having my kids and piecing my life together after an abusive childhood.

    My suggestion don’t cheat with a married Sag male or any male for that matter. If you want them – let them break their marriage up on their own terms. Make them choose and make them decide – it will mean more to them if they do that and don’t encourage a quick solution because it will backfire – no hounding them. If it’s you they want, you better be well aware that they can toss you out and find someone else in a heartbeat because there is a such thing as a rebound relationship!

  50. Caz says

    June 2, 2010 at 8:35 am

    Oh and here’s our planets Scorp/Sag male and I – I won’t divulge the conjunctions – there are nine of them.

    Sun, Mercury, Mars and Neptune in Sagittarius
    Uranus in Scorpio
    Pluto in Libra

    His moon is in Libra; my moon is in Aquarius
    His ascendant is in Aquarius; my ascendant is in Libra

    His Venus in Scorpio; my Venus in Capricorn

    His Jupiter in Leo; mine is in Taurus
    His Saturn is in Virgo; mine is in Leo

    His north node in Virgo; mine in Scorpio

    Our Juno is in Scorpio 🙂 Juno is the husband/wife/relationship asteroid.

    *Scorpio-Leo square (my Uranus square his Jupiter) – we don’t have much in common unless we observe!
    Scorpio-Virgo opposition/square (close to it since the signs are next to each other – his Saturn and my Uranus)- actually great influence if you look at how alike we are – we’re not hypocrites but we do have different views on things and we should listen to each other and talk them out.
    *Sagittarius-Virgo square (my Neptune square his Saturn)- not a lucky union
    *Libra-Capricorn square (his Pluto in Libra square my Venus in Capricorn)- emotional involvement, on and off passion entanglement. We’re with other people but we can be burned if we don’t avoid the passion.

    The starred squares are about security and career goals.

    His birthday is 25 Nov and mine is 27 Nov – just two years apart almost to the same day in age.

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