[ad#link]Well, I wouldn’t necessarily set them up on a blind date.
Aries acts on his impulses, without really thinking about, say, the correct spelling in a note or whether the coffee mugs are organized in the cabinet by color. Such sins are anathema to perfectionistic Virgo, who will feel compelled to reorganize the kitchen and type Aries’ correspondence.
The Aries man, in turn, will feel irritated at having his independence squashed, being criticized for his spontaneity.
So, does he truly love Virgos? I don’t think so.
Astrology Lesson:
Aries is a cardinal fire sign. Masculine, or yang.
Virgo is a mutable earth sign. Feminine, or yang.
These two signs have nothing in common.
For the Advanced Reader:
Maybe the Aries man has Mercury or Venus in Pisces, which at least would put him on a similar wavelength with Virgo. Both of these signs are mutable and feminine, or yin. Although there is a polarity between them, they both like to be of service.
Comment below: Have you been in an Aries-Virgo relationship? How’d it go?
Interestingly enough I am a Virgo female and my husband is an Aries male. I am living testament that the relationship can work. However, it was a trial at first. We butted heads over who would play the dominant role in the relationship and we had to come to terms with each others differences. Once that was accomplished we settled into a nice and easy relationship full of love, commitment and companionship.
There are times that I fuss over his impulsiveness and there are times he says I worry too much and over analyze. I fuss that he is a one man show and he fusses that I work too much. All together we are polar opposites that can not live without each other and still tend to get on each others nerves… so will it work. You betcha it will.
I’m an aries female that just ended a relationship with Virgo male (three years). At first I was so happy to have someone put me on a pedestal, be so calm and steady… but the first time I started feeling nervous was when he made it clear he wanted nothing to ever change… and I freaked inside. I ended up changing so much over time (pretty much everything about myself) that we had nothing in common. Not only that, but he wanted to stop me from changing, and put limits on me. No way. I had to end it.
I’m an Aries female who recently ended a relationship with a Virgo male. There was an overwhelming amount of sexual attraction (even until the very end) between us and for a while we were completely obsessed with each other, but as that fell away into the every day we found we rarely agreed on anything. I went from being his dream girl to suddenly doing nothing right, and I fought defensively and lost my patience with him constantly. With effort I can see how this could be a really passionate, give & take relationship, but from my experience it seems like it takes too much compromise for a typical Aries OR Virgo to reach that pinnacle.
I am a Virgo female and my first love was an Aries male. I have a lot of Leo in my chart and he has Saggie moon and Capricorn. We got along perfectly and even though we married other people, we reconnected and still get along great today. Suprisingly, he had married a Cancer.
I am a Virgo woman and have been married to an Aries man for the past 22 years. We have been extremely happy, harmonious and I feel the love for him as if it were the first time we met and he, obviously, the same. I think the commitment is more important than the idiosyncrasies that people throw into the relationships based on horoscope. This is my opinion.
i had to comment. you said you doubt an aries man truly loves his virgo woman ? i am an aries man who loves , and will forever love his virgo woman . don’t know if you all should read too much into this astrology compatibility crap, from what i read it’s dead wrong most of the time !!
Sometimes an author writes for a general audience and makes grand generalizations. He attracts readers and then leads them to believe that astrology is not accurate because readers come up with numerous counter-examples. Is the author doing a service or a disservice? That is today’s koan.
my first real relationship was also with an Aries. Lots of sexual chemistry till the end. At first it seemed like love but things started to go wrong about 6 months in. He cheated on me twice and I never saw that coming. But eventually he got the courage to tell me. So I guess he cared but couldn’t be faithful when the chance arose. He is self-centered. I tried to forgive him but we fought all the time.
I am a virgo female currently dating an aries with a moon in cancer and venus in taurus. Our relationship works really well. There is a lot of sexual chemistry as well. My venus is also in Virgo so I have a desire to learn all the in and outs of relationships. When I first met my bf one of the first things he told me was that he was an aries. So like a typical virgo and I went and studied this sign so well & applying everything that I knew would keep him hooked that I ended up having him wrapped around my little finger lol. He never knew the extent I went to in studying his sign, analyzing him, learning his in’s and outs until recently but like a typical aries.. he doesn’t care as long as he’s being satisfied lol. I think with his moon in cancer and taurus in venus, he’s actually very appreciative of my efforts and thanks me on a regular basis. =)
Im and Aries woman and very picky. I’ve never been in a real relationship well… when I was 17. now im 22. I get bored easy. im not easily impressed by men. But Virgo men are so sexy to me. We debate, and laugh, and have such an amazing chemistry that I have yet to find with another sign so consistantly. but usually their orderly fashion or innabilty to express themselves the way i do make it fall apart. Im a free spirit with no sense or order. what does organization mean again? lol my car is a mess… and they hate that too….
Hahahaha This description is the exact opposite of how our relationship actually plays out. I’m a Virgo woman who has been with her Aries man for nine years. I am the spontaneous one–he is cautious and over thinks *everything* and is constantly second guessing himself and every decision he makes. And he’s very neurotic, anal, and organized. I’m impulsive and throw caution to the wind and am not the least bit organized.
I am an Aries woman and I have been with a Virgo man for 8 years. I think that as the quincunx of these two signs suggests, a lot of adjustments need to be made to make this relationship work…it just depends if you are willing to make. Fortunately I also have Virgo rising, and we both have the Sun, Venus and Mercury in the 8th house.
I am an Aries female and I was in a relationship with a Virgo male for almost 5 years. It didn’t work out. Even though these signs incompatible, for some reason there is an attraction. Based on my own experiences and everything I have read on the 2 signs, I don’t think these signs should be together.
However many females in my family are Virgos and I have noticed that they are more readily compromise/sacrifice aspects of there own personality for others. So, a female Virgo/ male Aries relationship should have a better shot.
I am a Virgo female and yes we are more readily to compromise/sacrifice all aspects of our own personality for others but how long can we do this when we get continually shot down with everything we say and do,it is always wrong in the eye’s of an male Aries, they are alway’s in the right no matter how much proof you have, they are so two faced it sickens me to hear the words of an Aries cause you know it is a lie, but because they believe in their own highly strung words they can lie without even battering an eye lid, I can’t stand it, they back stab their own mates and then their mates are the best thing in world in front of their face, YES I AM WITH AN ARIES OF 14 YEARS and he is driving me NUTS he only becomes nice again when I try to tell him I am not happy watching the critisizing world of an Aries, I strongly feel I should not be with him and need to get out, the only time he stops yelling at it his kids and actually spends time with them is when we are fighting, and all they can do is keep playing mind games.
I’m a virgo female (moon in aries, mars in virgo, venus in leo). My fiance is an aries (moon in gemini, mars in cancer, venus in pisces). I’m kind of bored, to be perfectly honest, sexually. He just isn’t as attractive as me and not as clean. I have to think of other men who want me to get off. But he is very sweet and loving and I don’t want to hurt him. I’m stuck.
My moon, mars and venus are all in Libra, as a Virgo this week is telling us to go with the flow and thing’s will sort themselves out, this is your thinking time, what do you want to achieve, you could help smarten him up, say something!
We like to help others but remain true to ourselves as at the end of the day where is your heart? If you know where your heart is then you have direction to make a start! I have only been studying astrology for a couple of weeks to find myself direction, maybe you could ask Jeff
I am a virgo female and i am dating a male aries. This is the worst relatioship of my life!!! We fight constantly and can never agree on anything!! I do admit i have a jelosy problem hes to outgoing for me and thinks hes always right about everything! He wants everything to be his way anad im sick of it. My two most seriros relationships have been wit aries and those r the two most relaionships i really hate!! I really doubt me and his culd even be friends!!
Well currently I’m dating an Aries man, actually he’s on the cusp and I’m Virgo. Well the chemistry is soooo strong, we get on so well and he’s so romantic and a real gentleman.
Sometimes I have to pinch myself as I’ve never had a man that treats me like a queen…I hope it’s forever, I’m falling for him.
According to horoscope we’re not a good match but we’re the opposite….so happy. So people don’t believe everything that is said about star signs…IT’S HOW YOU MAKE AND SHAPE YOUR DESTINY.
I am a virgo woman, datin an Aries man. Well as for the sexual chemistry, that is excellent, but we do tend to bump heads alot! Aries men have to have it their way, or the highway. He always has to be right in every situation. He is very combattive. Although we have benn together a while and i doubt that either one of us is going anywhere, we still have many differences. But don’t let anybody tell you that it CAN’T work!
Hello everybody, I’m new to this but i am an aries man (22) dating a virgo girl (21). And the more i read the more fascinated i become, i have noticed that sometimes we do tend to butt heads and don’t agree on things. She always criticizes me for what i do, and i always think I’m doing what is right, and what is right for me. But aside everything my main concern is that we’re not compatible because to be honest i never really believed in signs and all this but the more i look into it, the more i wonder. And to be honest to a certain extent i still don’t believe that love no matter what sign is not compatible i still believe that if you really want something to work yo will give it your all and make it work, but i just want to know how can i make this easier on her and myself on the way. Like I’ve been reading a lot of these comments on here and people are talking about moons in different signs what does that all mean? How can i find mine? And should i be worried? If you can help me i would really appreciate it if not then the comments have still been interesting, Thank you.
Hi there. I’m a Virgo female and the love of my life is an Aries male. It was this instant connection, and we still have that connection. Those silly little butterflies that people have when they first start dating. He could walk into a room and I get the chills, in a good way. The thing I like most about the dynamic of our relationship is that we challenge each other. If I don’t agree with something he says or does, I have no problem letting him know and vice versa. But we work it out.
Yeah, sure, it takes a lot of work. It’s really what you chose to make of it.
Him and I have been together for six years and have gone through hell and back, but we haven’t broken up once. Aries men, as stubborn as they may be, like to be mentally stimulated and Virgos can really make them think! lol They are constantly like “What are you TALKING about?” when it comes to Virgo.
Where Aries is an impulse shopper, Virgo is already prepared with a list.
The best way to keep this relationship together is to be open-minded and communication. Anyway, I love my bf and he loves me – despite our astrological differences.
side note: I don’t think astrology gives Virgos enough credit. Not all of us are anal rententive and anti-social. I’m not! In fact, my bf is the one that over analyzed everything. Don’t get me wrong, so do I. He just comes to a quicker conclusion, where I like to take my time.
It can work out, people! Don’t always believe the “hype”!
Like it or not, theres soooooooooo much chemistry between the two of these signs ;]
Hello everyone,
I have spent the past 3-4 hours doing my research as far as the description of an aries man, his likes and dislikes, and the compatibility between our signs. I am a virgo woman and of course I’m doing my homework so that when tomorrow comes and I engage in my first official date with an aries man, that I know exactly what to do and what not to. I’m not going to lie when according to most websites, the compatibility between an aries and a virgo is null. However I have been reading your posts and I found the light! (well sort of speak) I am very excited that real people with real relationships between a virgo and an aries actually do work out… so wish me luck in meeting my aries guy for the first time in person. We met online and have been talking on the phone and texting and well tomorrow is the “big day”… I just hope all goes well, I really like this guy and want for us to have real chemistry!! I guess we’ll see what happens…
have fun!
he will be quite the mystery, but don’t bother trying to figure him out. lol, he likes to keep you guessing :]
let us know how it goes!
Haha, my girlfriend forwared this site to me in an email, saying “Finally, there are people like us!”
I’m an Aries man and my girlfriend is a Virgo woman. And, honestly, she is the only one for me. Before she came along, I had heard that our signs weren’t compatible so I stayed away from her kind, haha. I dated just about every other sign and found them all BORING (no offense, anyone) – too quick to agree with everything I said or did. Boring! Until, a family friend introduced us and I was smitten; I liked her wit. A Virgo woman has this way of seducing a man with their mind first – and that threw me off! I couldn’t get enough of her. All I wanted to do was talk to her, it was crazy. And she was quick to tell me what she liked and didn’t like about me – unlike the other signs I’d dated. I had no idea she was a virgo until we started talking about it. But this was already 3 months into non-stop talking on the phone, seeing each other every friday, etc.
I didn’t care, I had come to the conclusion that she was it.
To this day, the only opinion that matters to me is hers and I look forward to her challenging my words. We balance each other out. 10 years laters and she’s only one I want; the only one I love.
It’s been an amazing ride so far! Our first meeting was a success… however Leila just as you mentioned, I will do my best not to try and figure him out… he is definetely one of a kind. I have never dated an aries and it’s really weird because one moment he is constantly texting me and asking me what it is I’m doing… and the next he seems as if his mind is totally in another world. I guess that’s just who he is. He has shown what seems to be genuine interest in me but again.. I’m trying to go with the flow because I’m not used to being kept in the dark and he really keeps me in the dark sometimes. He does show a great deal of passion which is most captivating!! I’m taking it a day at a time and I would appreciate all the advise I can get since I really do like this guy. Sometimes I’m not sure if I should just let myself go… Being a virgo I do think and rethink situations to the max… so please help because I really do want to keep this one!! =)
yeah, he wants to keep you guessing. and the moment he feels as though you’ve figured him out…well, he’ll get bored and find someone else to impress, you know what I mean? lol
Keep me posted ;]
Aries Man-
I applaud you, man. It’s not everyday where you find a man that will leave such a great message about his lady the way you just did. Very sweet!
Don’t you mean:
“feminine, or yin”
I had to live up to reputation, you know. Since I’m a Virgo. =D
However, I think because the Virgo loves so much to please, the Virgo will sense the agitation that Aries has for all Virgo’s OCD habits and will probably adapt. I’m involved with an Aries man right now and we complement each other very well, we’ve not got on each others nerves yet and I don’t think we’ll be anytime soon. =P When he needs support I’m there, and when I need to be told something straight out… he’s my one. Personally I favor the Aries because I like my men no-nonsense like.
HI, I am an Aries man, my fiance is Virgo. Things are looking too difficult for me. She does not express herself clearly, and want me to understand what she meant or what is going on in her mind. I dont find her receptive to my problems, my happiness instead she is all blah blah about her every minute details.She acts very nervous, whenever we are together, this is a big Turn-off to me. I find her not gutsy or adventures. Sometimes, i feel like ending this relation, but I cannot, because this would impact our families adversly & results can be catastropic.I feel like ending my life, this is no what I had expected from the life. I had a previous relationship with a scorpio/saggitarius cusp. It was like a dream come true, but we could not continue because of parental problems.
Me & my fiance, often talk on the phone, but when we meet, I simply cant stand her. She is week, thin & lean, allways nervous, she puts me off everytime. Last time we met, I literally shouted at her for 2 hours, for what she is. This has happned before too. I really feel sorry for what I did & had appologised many times to her. SHE BRINGS WORST OUT OF ME!!!I feel ashamed of myself for shouting & yelling at her, during all this, she keeps quite & acts numb.
I really want to make this work.Please Help, tell me how can I make it work.
Dear Jimmy,
You suck. Big ones.
:),
Tiffany
I am a virgo woman in love with my long lost love an Aries man. We are perfect as a couple and will be getting married soon. I think Virgo’s are a challange to the aries man. I know what he likes and gives it to him. I let him know constantly how much I love him and make him my king, he loves that. He has a lot of attraction from women and is very considerate in letting me know that I am his queen and never leaves any room for unfaithfulness. Aries men love exciting women. I am a Virgo and I love excitement, unlike what the sign says about us Virgo’s. I do plan in advance but I am also full of excitement and can be spontaneous. Virgo’s and Aries are a perfect match. I dated several other signs and also another Aries. The best match for this Virgo is Aries. Give it a try these two signs can excite each other and will keep each other in a long exciting life.
Tiffany, how can you say that, be in my shoes, you will also regret. If you cant help, then you also dont have any right to abuse.
My fiance is a dumbh. All she can do is irritate me by doing all the things again & again, which I ask her not to do.She is im-mature, ugly, dumb….
I just regret my decision, I was forced into this relationship by my parents.
I am depressed & dont know what to do….Thats why I wrote here, so that I can find some solution, & not to get abused.
Jimmy,
I said that because you should not be HERE trying to find a resolution or a solution. If you feel the way you do, the CLEAR solution is to break it off with her.
Stop wasting your time. And stop wasting hers.
You should be talking to your parents, the driving force behind this relationship that you HATE, and you should have a bit of a chat with her. Your FIANCE.
If you are about to walk down an aisle, knowing full well that you will not be able to uphold the vowels you speak, then you might as well just quit while your ahead.
Well, actually. It sounds like you’re behind to me.
No MAN would come on some board and call his fiance ugly and dumb. Why the heck is she your fiance if you feel so strongly about her in such a negative light?
Heres you’re solution: dump her. you’ll be happy. and she can go find someone who will appreciate her – faults and all. and maybe – just maybe – you’re karma wont be so bad that you can move on to a fruitful relationship with someone you wont eventually grow tired of, leading you to call her “ugly and dumb” for the world to see.
LAME.
I have been in you’re shoes. And the moment I realized that the situation I was in wasn’t going to work (also called the “AH-HA!” moment), I did what any decent person should.
Sure, you might hurt her in the process. But, trust me, you’re causing more harm keeping quiet than being vocal.
Ok. I take back what I said about you sucking big ones.
But, I will be QUICK to say you do again if you don’t step up to the plate, be a man and do the right thing.
Either love her with everything you’ve got or set her free. Set yourself free.
Since she’s your fiance, it’s all or nothing at this point.
Think about it.
Good luck.
– Tiffany
jimmy you are really pathetic
why are you getting yourself into something you dread and hate??
just break it off and go find someone you really love
are you afraid? scaredy cat. 😛
you think you’re the only one dreading that marriage?
i bet she hates you too. so stop complaining and do something about it.
end it for both of you.
you think you’re going to make your family happy by staying in that
marriage but your life is yours not your family’s
you make decisions for yourself and nobody else.
Im a virgo woman im in a relationship with an aries man we dont get along well he has alot of the qualities im looking for in my husband but, hes not affection enough for me or dominate in the relationship as much as i am but im in love with him. i dont know what to do at this time im really into astrology im starting to believe that we just arent ment cause im an earth sign an he’s a fire son he will burn me lol i need help cause im in love with him
hey
im a virgo sun ,moon & mars in virgo, venus in libra, with a leo on my rising
one thing is trully interesting to me is that i dont organize ! i dont have a problem with cheaos ! i dont care if the cups are organized in any order , well i do find fire sign ppl to be too “fast” to me , & i dont like them in general , an aries guy is definitly attractive .. from a distance how ever airy signz excite me 🙂
Just met an Aries man last night, though I’m still hung up on a Capricorn man who broke up over the weekend.
Hmmmm….my experiences with Aries men:
Aries 1 – I was 20 years old. He was very sexy, took me to the finest restaurants around town, sent lots of roses to my office. He also constantly accused me of sleeping around every day. He called my office every hour to find out “what I was doing”. Crazy jealous. Found out later it was him doing the infidelity. He started fights which often bordered on becoming physical. That relationship would have become abusive if I had stayed.
Aries 2 – I was 30 years old. Fun guy! Very sexy. He took me camping and water skiing almost every weekend with friends. Private pilot’s lisence – we went flying a lot. Very insecure. I have a master’s degree and he has a 2-year technical degree. Never mattered to me, but was a big deal to him. We argued a lot. He broke my heart and married a single-mom secretary within 4 months of our breakup.
Aries 3 – I was 41. He and I never dated, not that he didn’t try. He brought flowers and huge gift baskets into our neighborhood bar, bought all my drinks and sertiously tried to woo me for a year. He was always calling me a goddess. I was always calling him a friend. He has an anger problem. He would blow up at some man over “nothing” after he had a few beers almost every day. I knew that anger would turn on any woman in his life so I kept him as a friend. The bartender saw all the flowers and gift baskets and fell in love with him, though I warned her “He has an anger problem.” They are married now. He has punched her in the face and gone to jail for knocking her teeth out. They fight all the time. He’s better, but still occassionally abuses her. Yells at her a lot and makes her cry. She’s a Cancer. They are both my friends to this day…but would I call them happy? What do you think?
Aries 4 – Only one date…sometime last year. He claimed to be a “honky tonk” man who goes on week-long drinking binges without eating. He claimed he’ll keep doing that until he gets tired one day and blows his brains out…just like his father and grandfather did. Lovely…just lovely. Yep, that was a one date wonder.
New Aries guy now??? We’ll see if he calls for a date. He seems calmer, more secure, and more rational than any of the others I’ve met. Good job, neatly dressed and a nice guy on first impression. He is impressed/attracted to intelligent women, so he says. He overheard me say something about my master’s degree, and was glued to my side for the evening. Maybe his moon and other planets are well aspected.
hello i am a Virgo woman and I absolutely adore my Aries man… Is so stimulating mind body, and soul. I don’t know what I would do without him, and I could not imagine life with out him. I am so thankful to have found my perfect match. I believe heavily in astrology, but on this one I would have to say that we get along so much, he makes me laugh, he is soooo affectionate, and he tells me all the time how much he is in love with me. He is a little jealous, but honestly he already know’s that he has nothing to worry about, plus I don’t give him a reason to be. but other than that, opposites really do attract….
i think thats oppiste attract also. Im a virgo woman I posted something about my relationship with my aries boyfriend. I can say were stronger now. I love him we still bumb heads from time to time but where working on that @ Virgolady, my boyfriend does the same thing tell me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am everyday, What women wouldnt love that? We are just different but thats the husband I want in my future. so i will do everything in my power to make are relationship stronger. its just things we have to work on together
I just recently start dating a Aries man. I am a Virgo woman. He spoil me and so sweet to me.2months into the relationship he is starting to tell me what i can and cannot do. He consistently tell me how much he care about me , but i am stating to see his possessive side. He still respects me and treats me like a queen. What is your take on it???
I am a Virgo Woman with a Capricorn rising with Moon in Virgo married to a Aries Man with a Gemini Rising for 2 years. I love astrology but I believe in love. My husband and I have had really hard times, hell doesn’t describe it. But I love him with all my being & he loves me. We can’t live without eachother. There are challenges but I believe this combination can work. We have a beautiful daughter together & I couldn’t imagine my life with anyone else. I realize all he wants is to know he’s loved & he’s my King & I’ve failed to show him that & he sometimes lacks sensitivity. But astrology isn’t the be all & this relationship helped me see that. He’s everything I never knew I wanted & more. He’s the air I breathe & the very beat of my heart. I can’t even sleep when he’s not here & we hate being a part. I can’t speak for everyone but I can say you just know & when it’s worth fighting for you do! I love my Aries man & neither one of us is ever going anywhere!
Didn’t work. He never knew what he wanted and that irritated me to no end because I need security and stability. He broke up with me after 2 1/2 weeks. A few weeks later he asked me out again. 1 1/2 weeks later, he broke up with me. We were in and out of contact for about 7 months. Then he asked me out after being back in contact for a few weeks. I said no but agreed to consider giving him a chance. I did give him
one without telling him by texting him and inviting him to see a movie. I was ignored, which I know cuz he told me he had gotten the text but didn’t respond. So sometime that week I said I was willing to give him a chance. He said no. It took him only a week to change his mind about wanting to date again, when before, he said it bothered him that I didn’t trust him.
He never kept our plans. If we made them, he always had some bs excuse–had to go shopping with his mother, forgot it was his best friends birthday and that they had plans to go out, his mom didn’t want him to come over at midnight. (I only call bs on this last one cuz it’s happened enough times–his plan to come over so late–that I figure he does it on purpose so he has an out, not to mention how impractical it is!) he said that if I hang out with him he would show mehe is serious. Well, I’ve been trying, but how can we hang out if you always bail at the last minute. (Once he bailed FIVE MINUTES before he was to come over!!!)
Virgo and Aries don’t mix. I love their outgoing nature and their passion, but after having dated three Aries guys, I don’t think they are compatible with Virgo cuz they don’t seem like the type who will stick around for very long before losing interest and moving on to something else. (My third Aries was only interested for a few weeks, first Aries for about a month.)
Anyway this is my opinion. I wouldn’t mind being friends with an Aries but dating one? Never again.
I’m a virgo woman with aries man and we totally adore each other. He really gets me. It’s been sparks and great conversations since we met, a year ago. We celebrated our one year anniversary in April, and we love each other more than ever, and it’s deeper, stronger than it was before.
Chinese Astrology + Western Astrology = Suzanne White’s New Astrology which has some helpful points on why Virgo and Aries can get along.
http://suzannewhite.com
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I am a Virgo woman and currenlty seeing an Aries man. There has always been an attraction since college but here we are 10 years later. When I tell you our passion is UNBELIEVABLE. When we are not together he’s constantly telling me he misses me.. He so caring and thoughtful…he surprises me all the time. It’s so wonderful considering the bs Ive been through..lol..There is a little struggle though: He is VERY sensitive and the smallest things I say upsets him–those things mean nothing to me but thats how he is. He’s extremely passionate..the most passionate man I’ve ever been with in my whole life. In private..in public..whatever..We have a genuine love for each other..its fun for now but I know that we will never be together as a couple.
And I agree ladies above: This Aries man showers me EVERYDAY with compliments. When we are together he’s always telling me how beautiful I am….I really think its genuine
Hello Ladies and a few Gents,
I am an Aries man on the cusp of pisces with a moon in scorpio, mercury in pisces and a libra rising. I am in love with a Virgo woman for the past 10 years since we met. But have not yet told her exactly how I feel for fear of rejection.
We met as teens and Im glad nothing happened then because mentally I wasn’t ready to handle criticism, love and all its eccentricities, and other unforeseen cruelties or life lessons that happen when growing up. I am 29 now and feel like more of a complete person than before. Knowing that I love her since we met makes me feel secure inside as well. I know and have other Arian friends, that I cannot stand. There’s a form of self-centeredness in Aries that I don’t agree with. A self-centeredness that sometimes stays with Aries people for life until they deal with it, just like Virgo’s who get lost in so much detail that they never come to a rounded conclusion.
The reason why Im writing this is not for advice, its to let you know that Astrology for the most part is right on the money. That we are impulsive. We are headstrong and combatitive, temperamental at times. But we also are very passionate and that passion extends to love as well. Our flaws and tendencies are things we have to cope with. The one thing we love is a challenge and when faced with our own self’s flaws we either change or lash out. I apologize for those who do lash out. For me on the other hand, I look at the things I do wrong as a challenge to grow and be better.
I love this Virgo with everything of me. She does not love me in the same way. I know because I’ve tried before to make something happen but she backed away. We tell each other we love each other, but its merely platonic. If I had it my way I’d be with her but I don’t want to force anything. Her happiness is just as important as mine. I don’t know what these next 10 yrs will be like but I hope we eventually come together. Nothing would make me more happy. I know I would treat her right, make her life exciting, and make sure she has all the love and comfort in the world.
But if it never happens Im fine with that as well. Life doesn’t guarantee you get what you want. You can only guarantee what you know you have. And I know I love her.
Hope this helps.
Ehh with three. The first Aries I couldve probably worked with–he’s the quiet type of Aries (hah!) and I think it was more my maturity or lack thereof.
Second Aries we dated twice. He asked me out a third time and I said no because I knew he’d just change his mind shortly thereafter (we never lasted more than a couple weeks). He asked to show me it’d be different and I said no. I couldn’t even depend on him to make it to a movie we would plan to see!! So a week later I tell him I will give him a chance and he has changed his mind. *eyeroll*
Third Aries there’s potential. He was in an open relationship and I broke up with him cuz I don’t share. I care about him but I know he falls fast and hard for girls, as I’ve seen when I gave him dating advice back in may/June of this year; also, where he’s at right now in his life is unstable. (I haven’t seen him since we broke up back in march, and we hung out for the first time since then back on the 28th.) I can’t put myself in such a position, but I won’t deny that if things were different I wouldn’t mind giving it another shot
I am a virgo woman interested in an Aries Man. And I am totally confused by him. I do not talk to him but go to his work place all the time and he is so attractive. He has come into my job several times but I can’t read him. I am really awkwardly shy so it is hard to get myself to talk to him. I want to give him my number but It really hard for me to put myself out there like that. Plus we are not compatible so…. any advise?
I am a virgo woman who is falling for a aries man, he currently does not want a girlfriend, but the sex is amazing and we never get bored with each other, whether it’s in person or through texting. We always have great convo whether we’re agreeing on something or not. I’m not gonna lie, I’m bossy, but he laughs it off and he doesn’t seem to be too bossy him self. He’s a very upfront man, he doesn’t sugar coat things. He’s blunt, I’m blunt, this is why we ‘argue’ sometimes. The first time I met him he for some reason got the idea that I wanted to be his girlfriend, which at the time I didn’t. So he kind of cut me loose and I got really angry with him. We still debate on that til this very day, he says we could’ve kept talking and that it was my fault that we didn’t, but we both know he was the one who initiated that we didn’t. We both claim that we never had intentions on having sex with each other but it happened the 3rd time we seen each other and it’s been ongoing ever since. He’s a faithful man so he says, but he was betrayed by his son’s mother so ever since her he hasn’t been with anyone. He also says he still loves her but he can’t be with her because she did the big NO-NO (cheated). So i’m not too sure how this will go…he’s kind of hard to read when he’s not being blunt about something. So sometimes it’s as if he wants me (serious relationship wise) then at times it’s like he realizes he wants me and hurriedly backs off because of what he’s scared may happen. Wish me luck!
Impulsiveness is the trait that I really hate about Aries. It bothers me every time my Aries brother would act on his impulses and would later on regret on his decision. Luckily, he has a Virgo for a wife, so I guess they compliment each other.
Tiffiany, you are the one who sucks. In response to Jimmy, who came on this board to be honest, but I guess you cant be honest when you’re man, you say he sucks and is pathetic because “no man comes on this board and calls his fiance ugly and dumb.” Tiffany, i guess his feelings towards his fiance hit you in the ovaries and made you react so un-objectively, because there are various posts here where women go off about the men in their present or past relationships being sexually in adequate, unattractive, and a whole host of other negative things. But you dont see that do you? you only see things from your strictly female perspective… there’s one woman on this board who explains that her aries man was hard to dominiate, as if she should be dominating him, or vice versa. Listen ladies we sit here and read you complain about men, and get pretty detailed while you’re at it. so if one of us wants to be honest and talk about the fact he’s not happy or attracted to his relationship (and yes we’re direct so we put it in terms of “our girl is dumb and ugly”, keep in mind you do that and worse…in the end, I just want to point out once again that Tiffany sucks, as she puts it, big ones…