Sex & Relationships

Sasstrology features over 500 blog posts on the astrology of sex and relationships by some of the best authors on the web.

The Moon/Saturn and Venus/Saturn Woman

Saturn Woman

Hard aspects between natal Moon/Saturn and Venus/Saturn in a woman’s chart strike at the core of being female.

The Difference Between Signs and Planets

Signs versus Planets

How does a planet in a sign versus a planet aspecting that sign’s ruler work? Understanding the difference can have a huge impact on figuring out someone’s relationship potential.

How to Tell If a Mars in Aries Man or Woman Is Into You

Mars in Aries

Mars in Aries is pure sexual instinct. How will you know if that instinct is focused on you?

Can You Handle Being Alone? Astrological Signatures of Independence


Your comfort level with being alone says much about your comfort level in partnerships. This article explores the natal indicators of self-sufficiency.

The Moody Cancer Partner

Moody Cancer

Cancer is ruled by the ever-changing Moon, so it’s no surprise that her moods are varied and unpredictable. Fortunately, navigating the waters of a partnership with this sign can be as simple as tuning in to what she’s feeling.

Afraid to Love? The Venus/Saturn and Moon/Saturn Man

Saturn Man

Hard aspects between natal Venus/Saturn and Moon/Saturn in a man’s chart say much about the type of relationship — and woman — that he fears the most.

Intercepted Signs: Dormant Relationship Issues

Intercepted Signs

Intercepted signs can be undeveloped pools of natal energy that put a whole new spin on your love life.

Partners Who Don’t Act Like Their Sun Signs

Atypical Sun Sign Behavior

When your lover acts nothing like their Sun sign, it’s not always due to an incorrect birth date. Extra attention needs to be paid to what’s happening in their chart.

Sexual Compatibility in Astrology

Sexual Compatibility

Whether you and your partner will shut each other down — or feed each other’s fire in the bedroom — is immediately apparent in synastry.

Love and Money: How Your Finances Reflect Your Relationships

Love and Money

Problems with your love life, but not sure how to deal? Looking at how you handle money can give you some clues.

Transiting Saturn’s New Challenge to Your Love Life

Saturn's Challenge

Saturn’s transit of Sagittarius will give a whole new set of natal relationship planets/points a dose of reality and responsibility.

Composite Aspects That Echo Natal Aspects

Composite Echoes Natal

A relationship that “resembles” one or both partners can fit like a glove, or create tension because of the magnified energy.

Transit and Synastry Essentials Versus the Extras


Understanding the hierarchy of planets, points, asteroids and angles is key to understanding which transits and synastry connections really matter.

Beyond Sexual Chemistry: Lifestyle Compatibility in Synastry

Incompatible Lifestyles

Synastry highlights areas of incompatibility that have nothing to do with love or sex. These areas can be dealbreakers if handled improperly.

Eros: Essential Sexual Contact or Icing on the Cake?


Eros has some intriguing things to say about erotic desire, but how much weight does he really carry in relationships?

The 12th House Venus Woman

12th House Venus

12th House Venus in a woman’s chart can be a magnet for cheaters, addicts and tricksters. How can you get a grip on this slippery energy?

Dealing With Your Passive-Aggressive Libra Partner

Passive Aggressive Libra

Libra’s pretty exterior hides a stealth warrior, skilled in the art of passive-aggressive battle.

Sacred and Profane: Black Moon Lilith’s Transit of Virgo

Transiting BML in Virgo

What might happen to Black Moon Lilith, the original Bad Girl, when she transits through the sign of purity?

Astrology and Predestination: Can You Miss Out on a Relationship That’s Meant to Happen?

A Young Couple Fighting

Will a predestined relationship just happen, or is there something you need to do?

Universal Becomes Personal: Outer Planet Combinations in Your Natal Chart

Outer Planet Combos in Relationships

When outer planets (in your natal chart) aspect each other along with a personal planet, their extreme energy can play out in your love life.