Wait–what? Why tip the scales again if things are moving nicely along? Venus in Libra values balance, right? Yes, yes she does. For about a minute-and-a-half. There is a misperception that those with an emphasis of Libran energy require continuous balance in order to feel right. In actuality, no Libra-oriented lover wants to remain in a perfectly poised position for too long, as that will stall further growth. So Venus in Libra will shift the weight of power back and forth from time to time.
Consider also that, on one hand, Venus in Libra’s cardinal modus operandus impels him to make a move when he’s hot on your trail. On the other hand, the move he makes may be so unassuming that you miss it entirely. He’s made an art of asserting himself, all the while coming off as a gentleman. Now there’s a balancing act. As he seeks the still-point between two opposing states, no wonder it gets tricky trying to figure out just what your Libra crush thinks of you. Here then, are a few pointers:
A Little Sondheim Before Sex
Your Venus in Libra crush is into beauty. Not so much the surface appreciation for pretty faces and things, as the beauty of expressing the unbearable lightness of being. Living in a culture where high finances are pursued as the be-all-and-end-all, few folks place a premium on artistic projects. Try telling Venus in Libra. Watch what happens as she intelligently implores you to consider a world with no music, no film, no novels, no theater, no color. If you’ve got any smarts at all, and if you really want this lady, you will consider her point of view. She knows what she’s talking about.
Have you ever witnessed a director run a rehearsal? Here Venus in Libra is in her element. She is incredibly alluring because she’s clear about her overall vision, and she has a gracious way of commanding attention and respect. It’s enough to make you want to stuff your nine-to-five and join the theater, even if you never make it past the audition. If Venus in Libra allows you to peek into her artistic process, what she’s really doing is inviting you into her interior space. Inasmuch as art is her world, consider what a risk this might feel like to her. If you’re lucky enough to peer behind the curtain, trust that you are very much on her mind.