So you’ve got a thing for someone born with Venus in Leo. You’re aiming pretty high: she or he is quite a catch, but in order to avoid any egg-on-face moments, you’ll need some clues as to whether or not this class act is into you. Two key points for starters: 1) Venus in Leo does not do understated. If you’re imagining that he’s hot for you but is just too chicken to say it, that’s just wishful thinking. Venus in Leo will make some noise if he is into you — and he needs you to let loose with your affection, too. Pretty straightforward, very little guess work. 2) Venus in Leo does not do sharesies. If you need poly love, go find someone with lots of Aquarius energy. Venus in Leo is one possessive lover — and if he’s set his sights on you, he’s looking for your complete devotion to him alone. Notice that his eyes are solely on you, and not darting around the place to see if there’s another prospect. Again, easy-peasy: eyes are on you, he’s looking for a connection.
Looking for Something Solid
Sure, she may flirt with you, but understand that Venus in Leo needs consistency. This is a lover who, for all of her surface pizzazz, desires something solid and real. This is fixed energy, and deep attachment is necessary — no sudden changes. If you’ve landed this lioness and have some bold upcoming life changes, better start preparing her slowly and gently, weeks or months in advance. And if you can convince her that these changes are her idea, more power to you.
Now let’s be clear: Venus in Leo is occasionally prone to focusing on themselves — sometimes to the exclusion of others. So how are you supposed to know if he’s into you or not, when he’s all about himself? Here’s the real deal: he’s not really all about himself, but it’s a pretty good front to mask a teensy weensy bit of insecurity. Hey, being in the spotlight as often as Venus in Leo finds himself can become a bit of a trap — all of that high maintenance to keep up. So don’t be to put off by a bit of (false) bravado. That will fade over time, if you’re lucky enough to make it that far with Venus in Leo. If he runs his fingers through your hair, take the hint. It’s a big neon sign inviting you to make your move — now, while he’s feeling the heat.
Careful, though: Venus in Leo wants to be in control — or at least be given the illusion of control. So match move for move — think a tennis match and the endurance required. And leave her some room to go over the top or to outdo you in the wooing department. Venus in Leo — the sign of royalty — wants to make a splash. If you’re prepared to let her shine — and to support and cheerlead all the while — you’ve got a solid chance of making a go of a relationship.