Most of the time, folks look to the Moon in composite charts to see if a couple is comfortable with one another, if they will be able to rub together in a calm emotional flow without too much drama getting in the way. It shows where their emotional lives might be challenged by their physical reality. But the Moon is so much more than that. It goes way beyond our comfort zones. On another level, it represents the reasons we have come together.
The Moon Body
The Moon, ultimately, is the repository for all things that have made up our consciousness in this world, up to and including the second that has just passed us by. We can think of it as a massive bank account of our awareness, which is the reason it represents what comforts and sustains us. We are comforted by what we find familiar; it is the familiar that feeds us—even though what may be familiar to us may be difficult, challenging, or downright disturbing (which is why outer planet aspects to the Moon are so challenging).
The Moon in Composite
In a composite, it is common to assume that the Moon, by sign and house, shows the “comfort zone” of a relationship. It represents the couple’s emotional habits and needs when they are together. We must have all noticed, at one time or another, the way different relationships bring out different emotional reactions in us. When the composite Moon is very strong, it can cause us to seem to change personalities, especially if it is very different from the natal Moon. The baseball and beer fan with the natal Moon in Taurus or Sag may suddenly, in a new relationship, take to the more Libran or Leonine opera and wine. With a new partner, we may suddenly develop new habits, new likes, new dislikes. Old friends may think this is a new false self, but, if it’s genuine, this new horizon is otherwise known as growth within a relationship.
Composite Moon versus Composite Sun
The Moon in a composite chart is as strong as the Sun. Perhaps more so, because where the Sun shows us the focus and creative energy of the relationship in the here and now, the Moon shows us where we have been together and what habits and patterns we have had as a couple. And usually, until we get older and begin to grow together (and separately), the Moon’s habits trump the Sun’s urging forward. The Moon shows us where we are volatile and vulnerable.
Aspects to the Moon in a composite chart will tell us whether, as a couple, we are doves or hawks: will we coo together peacefully (perhaps with Moon conjunct Venus or Jupiter) or express our relationship’s emotional level through conflict, as squares from Mars or Pluto might imply? The houses these aspects reside in will tell us the kind of things—the areas of life—that may trigger our conflicts.
The Moon and the Nodes
One of the things I’m most often asked is, “If there is karma in a relationship, where do you see it?” There are a lot of ways to answer this, and a lot of indicators of past life relationships, but one of the quickest ways of telling where, and if, a relationship “has been,” is in noting the Moon and the condition of the South Node. The Moon itself will tell you a lot, but adding the South Node will help you discern what a couple needs to learn from this current life together. The Moon represents the pattern, and the Nodes the resolution and growth of that pattern. (Remember, always, that the Nodes are the Moon’s Nodes.) The Moon and the Nodes will give you both the echoes of the past and the guiding whispers towards the future.
Composite Moon Example: Carrie Fisher and Paul Simon
Sometimes this is a very private thing, and often the path can’t be seen in the public eye, so celebrity examples can fall flat, as we don’t know the inner motivators in the relationship, only the exterior behaviors. However, one example can be seen in the fairly long term (1977-1985, married 1983-4), but tempestuous relationship between actress and writer Carrie Fisher and musician Paul Simon. Without looking at the natals, the composite chart gives a very clear picture of the relationship dynamic (which is confirmed by Carrie’s honesty in her many books and one woman show, Wishful Drinking, and in Paul’s raw and potent lyrics in his Wisdom of the Saints album, which documented the downfall of their relationship).
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In the composite, the Moon is in Gemini in the composite Eighth House. Carrie has said in her show that the relationship, in the beginning, consisted of, “words, words, words, beautiful words, lovely words…” implying the intimacy and seductive abilities of that Gemini Moon in the Eighth House. This is a couple, one would think, that was bound to communicate and maintain verbal intimacy, especially with the Moon trining the Sun/Venus/North Node and the Moon’s own dispositor, Mercury. The intellectual connection was everything, and was what drew them to one another. On the darker side, the Eighth House Moon likes to dig down deep, psychologically; the spoon it chooses to dig with, in this case, are words. This creates an intellectual probing and cold analysis that is downright uncomfortable.
If we were looking at this chart without taking the nodal story into consideration, we would think it was very strong—from Sun/Venus/Mercury, there are trines to the Moon, and trines to the “glue” of the chart, Saturn (which is hunkered down nicely there on the I.C.). However, there are a number of red flags here, the first of which is a semi-square to a Leo Jupiter, which indicates a tendency to exaggeration and excess.
First of all, couples with Aries/Libra nodes have a specific lesson to learn regarding the simple question of how to be a couple. How do we relate the “I” within the “we,” the individual ego with the “us?” With the South Node in Aries, we know that the individual “I” was dominant in the partnership in the past, and that much work needs to be done in order to get to the “we.” This is also indicated by all of those planets connected to the North Node, as if the universe designed specific homework for them to do in this area. It is further emphasized by the Twelfth House influence (my June Synastry Studies article refers to Sun in the Twelfth House in composite, and its need to fix something specific within the relationship). The South Node in the Sixth House suggests that they worked together in a prior life, and a greater balance was needed in the partnership.
We get further insight into the relationship when we see the influence of Mars. Mars is the ruler of the South Node. Its position in the Fifth House indicates creative work done together in the past. (We can reflect back to that Gemini Moon in the Eighth House and its depth of expression and communication—the Eighth House is where we share what we have with others.) Mars is at its strongest at 29 degrees of any sign; here it is at 29 Pisces, the sign of artistic imagination.
Mars is made stronger by the fact that it is the co-ruler of the Ascendant, a secondary chart ruler. And with Scorpio rising in composite, you know that a relationship is going to be both intense and testing. Scorpio rising wants to test boundaries all the time. There are going to be power and ego issues here, stemming from the past, that get in the way of this relationship’s peaceful development. The explosive, contentious, on again, off again nature of this relationship can be seen in the square from that dominant Mars to Uranus, also in the Eighth House. This erratic Mars is made even more problematic by its tight quincunx to the Moon’s dispositor, Mercury, and its lesser, but still highly problematic quincunx to the North Node, Venus, and the Sun. When planets are conjunct the North Node, they usually indicate a previous problem that we need to continue to work on (we didn’t finish our homework) and indicate gifts that we can use.
In this case, the trines from the Moon and Saturn are not strong enough to overcome the power and influence of the chart ruler, Mars, but also the dangerous quality in the other chart ruler, Pluto, and it’s square to the Asc/Desc axis. There is a make-or-break quality here that would require a lot of Libran lessons to overcome. Not accidentally, both Paul and Carrie are Librans who would have to dig into their shadow sides to contact their own Mars energy.
Moon in Composite: Secrets Revealed
Could they have made it? The composite chart, with its strong North Node, and the strong Moon/Saturn, indicates the possibility, but it’s necessary to go back to the natal charts and their individual strengths and weaknesses to see if the compromises could be made and the challenges overcome. And it’s important to remember that the Moon and the South Node in the composite chart indicate habitual behaviors and sensitivities that are deeply entrenched, and which take an enormous amount of conscious awareness to overcome. But that’s what the North Node and the Sun are for.
The Fisher-Simon composite chart is just one example of the composite Moon in action. The takeaway here is that to apply this level of analysis to your own relationships, you need to look to the Moon as more than just a gauge of your comfort level within a relationship. Like the Moon itself, with its wondrous interplay of shadow and light, the Moon in your composite chart holds many secrets, just waiting to be revealed.
What does the Moon in your composite chart have to say about your relationship? Let us know in comments below.